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animatEd
BRONZE Member since Aug 2004

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Location: Bristol UK

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Posted:Probably gonna get deleted but oh, well, here goes:



I underwent my first session of hypnotherapy last night because I have serious security issues concerning my better half. I can't stop feeling paranoid or jealous because every guy she meets, fancies her and has to tell her so, and offer her their love. It's even close friends of mine from uni that I trust, that I introduce to her that do it. These are the ones that piss me off the most. I always get scared that one day she'll get a better offer than I can give her, and she'll be off. I know that she thinks an awful lot of me, and that the chances of it happening are very very slim, but still I get worried. I don't want to lose the best thing that has ever happened to me. It's happened at least ten times since we've been together and it makes me so insecure that I try to push her away and hurt her before anything like that has a chance to happen to me. Thank the powers that be that I haven't managed to do it yet, and that she's so fantastic and strong that she sticks by me (god knows I don't deserve it after the way I've hurt her) But i just decided I'm getting sick of feeling so paranoid for no reason, and causing quite a bit of pain for the both of us.



Thankyou Georgina for being so amazing and having the patience for putting up with me. Words cannot express how wonderful I think you are.



I know she can't help being fantastic and beautiful, But why do other men not realise that when people are together, they are together and that's that? I wouldn't go trying to split people up because I had feelings for someone else's girlfriend. It's just not done. It's downright rude as well as makes me feel like complete sh!t.



Anyway...



My first session was last night. My mum's partner is a qualified hypnotherapist, So I get the treatment for free. It was the most amazing and yet freaky thing I have ever done!!



There I am, sitting in a chair, listening to him say things like 'your eyelids are getting heavy, and this is ok' and then he shows me a spot on his hand (proper David Blaine style) and before I know it, he's told me to close my eyes and that they're locked shut. I try to open them, but nothing. It's as if my entire body is paralysed, but I'm still in complete control of everything that is going on around me. He tells me to relax, and counts me down the 'stairs of relaxation', whereupon every step you go down, doubles your state of relaxation. By the time I get to the bottom, my body feels like a lead weight, and I feel so peaceful and calm.



He then took me on a 'trip to the cottage'. 'The Cottage' is an imaginary cottage in your head. you build up a picture of the most beautiful cottage you can imagine (mine was in Falmouth, for some reason) and the cottage is right on a cliff-edge. You walk into it and see that it's in a mess. there's crap lying everywhere, but this is no ordinary crap. What's lying around is all the emotions and experiences and indeed anything that you don't like about yourself, and you have to tidy up. I started off last night by ridding myself of quite a lot of jealousy that had built up in my mind, and a small bit of some other bad aspects of myself. I also managed to incorporate some of the urge to smoke in my rubbish. It felt so good. Once I had cleaned up a bit, I was told to 'tie a knot in the rubbish sack so that nothing could get out, take the sack to end of the picturesque garden, and throw it over the cliff'. Done. A weight off my shoulders.



Aftre that, he counted me out of the trance that I was in, saying 'when I get to the number five, you will be able to open your eyes'. 'one' he said. nothing. I tried to open my eyes early, but couldn't. 'Two'. same thing happened. 'three, four' again no response from me. 'Five' I opened my eyes and was wide awake, and still fully aware of what had been happening.



Does anyone else go through these emotions concerning their partners? Or am I just weird? How does everyone else deal with them? Can you give me any tips? Has anyone else broken up with people for reasons they later found out to be crap?


Empty your mind. Be formless, Shapeless, like Water.
Put Water into a cup, it becomes the cup, put water into a bottle, it becomes the bottle, put water into a teapot, it becomes the teapot.
Water can flow, or it can Crash.
Be Water My Friend.

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Nucleopoi
BRONZE Member since Nov 2004

Nucleopoi

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Location: Ilkeston, Derbyshire, England

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Posted:more like shisha dont you mean ed!!!!!!

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Nucleopoi
BRONZE Member since Nov 2004

Nucleopoi

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Location: Ilkeston, Derbyshire, England

Total posts: 1097
Posted:saying that....I WANT MY SHISHA!!!!

ok il shut up now,ppl will get annoyed with my multiple posting.


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animatEd
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Posted:That too...

Obviously...

Good luck hunting, honey. Love you


Empty your mind. Be formless, Shapeless, like Water.
Put Water into a cup, it becomes the cup, put water into a bottle, it becomes the bottle, put water into a teapot, it becomes the teapot.
Water can flow, or it can Crash.
Be Water My Friend.

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Nucleopoi
BRONZE Member since Nov 2004

Nucleopoi

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Location: Ilkeston, Derbyshire, England

Total posts: 1097
Posted:what too? why obviously?......

OH ok the shisha!!!!!

hmmmmmmmmmmmmm

that jessamine i was asking you about before was jasmine flavour lol.

mango mango mango

you want some teeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeea?

and some shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiisha?

some mint teeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeea perhaps..........lol


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Gelfling
BRONZE Member since Jul 2004

Gelfling

Watcher of 80s cartoons
Location: Chepstow & Bristol, United Kin...

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Posted:The Environment Agency are a govermeant agency - they are everywhere. As Ripon is the most Northernly point on the National Cannel system Ripon is of environmental interest. There has got to be some water monitoring work there for you to pick up.

>What do you think about the state of the Earth?
>I'm optimistic.
>So why do you look so sad?
>I'm not sure that my optimism is justified.

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animatEd
BRONZE Member since Aug 2004

animatEd

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Posted:Silly.



ubbloco



kiss ubblove kiss


Empty your mind. Be formless, Shapeless, like Water.
Put Water into a cup, it becomes the cup, put water into a bottle, it becomes the bottle, put water into a teapot, it becomes the teapot.
Water can flow, or it can Crash.
Be Water My Friend.

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Nucleopoi
BRONZE Member since Nov 2004

Nucleopoi

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Location: Ilkeston, Derbyshire, England

Total posts: 1097
Posted:mmmmm il see.
thats biology based isnt it though.
im better at admin than biology. lol


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Gelfling
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Gelfling

Watcher of 80s cartoons
Location: Chepstow & Bristol, United Kin...

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Posted:Tea - breakfast for that matter - yogi tea - crunchy nut cornflakes and then back to my own job hunting.

>What do you think about the state of the Earth?
>I'm optimistic.
>So why do you look so sad?
>I'm not sure that my optimism is justified.

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Nucleopoi
BRONZE Member since Nov 2004

Nucleopoi

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Location: Ilkeston, Derbyshire, England

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Posted:lol

ed will explain lol


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Nucleopoi
BRONZE Member since Nov 2004

Nucleopoi

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Location: Ilkeston, Derbyshire, England

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Posted:just looked on the environmental agency website and did a search. there are no jobs in my area.

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animatEd
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animatEd

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Posted:At falmouth, where I can at least attempt to do the voice properly...

Empty your mind. Be formless, Shapeless, like Water.
Put Water into a cup, it becomes the cup, put water into a bottle, it becomes the bottle, put water into a teapot, it becomes the teapot.
Water can flow, or it can Crash.
Be Water My Friend.

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Gelfling
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Gelfling

Watcher of 80s cartoons
Location: Chepstow & Bristol, United Kin...

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Posted:not just biology based - science is interdiscilplinary - pollutants are chemicals to test the water quality many titrations are needed. Various ICP - ES protocols, AA, GC - MS and loads of other analytical chemistry...

>What do you think about the state of the Earth?
>I'm optimistic.
>So why do you look so sad?
>I'm not sure that my optimism is justified.

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animatEd
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animatEd

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Location: Bristol UK

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Posted:what about local water boards and the like?

Empty your mind. Be formless, Shapeless, like Water.
Put Water into a cup, it becomes the cup, put water into a bottle, it becomes the bottle, put water into a teapot, it becomes the teapot.
Water can flow, or it can Crash.
Be Water My Friend.

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Nucleopoi
BRONZE Member since Nov 2004

Nucleopoi

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Location: Ilkeston, Derbyshire, England

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Posted:done that..... the nearest job in both of them is about 2 hours away.

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animatEd
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animatEd

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Posted:Poo.



Maybe I should rename the thread to: Nucleopoi unemployed - please help? wink



Hope your luck gets so much better very soon!!

EDITED_BY: loves the circus (1120474660)


Empty your mind. Be formless, Shapeless, like Water.
Put Water into a cup, it becomes the cup, put water into a bottle, it becomes the bottle, put water into a teapot, it becomes the teapot.
Water can flow, or it can Crash.
Be Water My Friend.

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Gelfling
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Gelfling

Watcher of 80s cartoons
Location: Chepstow & Bristol, United Kin...

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Posted:I look forward to Ed's explanation...

2 hours is not far - I travel 2:30 each way to get to the school where I am presently teaching and I don't drive either. So go for it - train journeys are great for catching up on your reading.


>What do you think about the state of the Earth?
>I'm optimistic.
>So why do you look so sad?
>I'm not sure that my optimism is justified.

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Nucleopoi
BRONZE Member since Nov 2004

Nucleopoi

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Location: Ilkeston, Derbyshire, England

Total posts: 1097
Posted:the nearest train is an hour away from me lol.

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Gelfling
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Gelfling

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Posted:excuses, excuses tongue

>What do you think about the state of the Earth?
>I'm optimistic.
>So why do you look so sad?
>I'm not sure that my optimism is justified.

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Nucleopoi
BRONZE Member since Nov 2004

Nucleopoi

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Location: Ilkeston, Derbyshire, England

Total posts: 1097
Posted:lol

i told you my area is poo for jobs.


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Gelfling
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Gelfling

Watcher of 80s cartoons
Location: Chepstow & Bristol, United Kin...

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Posted:So why stay in your area?

Do you have a tent?


>What do you think about the state of the Earth?
>I'm optimistic.
>So why do you look so sad?
>I'm not sure that my optimism is justified.

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Nucleopoi
BRONZE Member since Nov 2004

Nucleopoi

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Location: Ilkeston, Derbyshire, England

Total posts: 1097
Posted:badminton, singing, friends,its where i am established, my family are here.

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animatEd
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animatEd

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Posted:plus moving out and finding own place cheaply is a LOT of hassle.

We'd have to move to and fro with uni as well...

Otherwise I'd start looking for a place of our own...


Empty your mind. Be formless, Shapeless, like Water.
Put Water into a cup, it becomes the cup, put water into a bottle, it becomes the bottle, put water into a teapot, it becomes the teapot.
Water can flow, or it can Crash.
Be Water My Friend.

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Sethis
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Posted:"Do you have a tent?" ubblol

I know someone who's actually moved out of their home and lived in a tent for the best part of 6 months. Apparantly they enjoyed it...


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Nucleopoi
BRONZE Member since Nov 2004

Nucleopoi

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Posted:strange people......

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The Tea Fairy
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Posted:A couple of my mates bought a camper van and trailer to live in for 6 months when they couldn't afford to pay council tax!

Idolized by Aurinoko

Take me disappearing through the smoke rings of my mind....

Bob Dylan

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Nucleopoi
BRONZE Member since Nov 2004

Nucleopoi

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Location: Ilkeston, Derbyshire, England

Total posts: 1097
Posted:problem is that ed lives in midhurst and i live in ripon, about 300 miles away with our own lives in those places lol.

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Gelfling
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Gelfling

Watcher of 80s cartoons
Location: Chepstow & Bristol, United Kin...

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Posted:what you could both do is litter pick at all the festivals this summer together - hence the question about the tent. Get paid to go to festivals, enjoy the staff showers and ample camping space...

>What do you think about the state of the Earth?
>I'm optimistic.
>So why do you look so sad?
>I'm not sure that my optimism is justified.

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Nucleopoi
BRONZE Member since Nov 2004

Nucleopoi

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Location: Ilkeston, Derbyshire, England

Total posts: 1097
Posted:dont be stupid

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animatEd
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Posted:I'd be up for it, if I wasn't already where I am now.

Free festivals, so many cool things to see, what's a bit of litter picking in the process? they'd give you gloves and stuff. Plus I'd meet sssooooo many cool jugglers and learn so much!!


Empty your mind. Be formless, Shapeless, like Water.
Put Water into a cup, it becomes the cup, put water into a bottle, it becomes the bottle, put water into a teapot, it becomes the teapot.
Water can flow, or it can Crash.
Be Water My Friend.

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_Clare_
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_Clare_

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Location: Belfast, Northern Ireland (UK)

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Posted:"dont be stupid"

Thats not stupid, nucleopoi. I think it's a rather good idea actually.


Getting to the other side smile

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