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Location: Bristol UK
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Posted:Probably gonna get deleted but oh, well, here goes:



I underwent my first session of hypnotherapy last night because I have serious security issues concerning my better half. I can't stop feeling paranoid or jealous because every guy she meets, fancies her and has to tell her so, and offer her their love. It's even close friends of mine from uni that I trust, that I introduce to her that do it. These are the ones that piss me off the most. I always get scared that one day she'll get a better offer than I can give her, and she'll be off. I know that she thinks an awful lot of me, and that the chances of it happening are very very slim, but still I get worried. I don't want to lose the best thing that has ever happened to me. It's happened at least ten times since we've been together and it makes me so insecure that I try to push her away and hurt her before anything like that has a chance to happen to me. Thank the powers that be that I haven't managed to do it yet, and that she's so fantastic and strong that she sticks by me (god knows I don't deserve it after the way I've hurt her) But i just decided I'm getting sick of feeling so paranoid for no reason, and causing quite a bit of pain for the both of us.



Thankyou Georgina for being so amazing and having the patience for putting up with me. Words cannot express how wonderful I think you are.



I know she can't help being fantastic and beautiful, But why do other men not realise that when people are together, they are together and that's that? I wouldn't go trying to split people up because I had feelings for someone else's girlfriend. It's just not done. It's downright rude as well as makes me feel like complete sh!t.



Anyway...



My first session was last night. My mum's partner is a qualified hypnotherapist, So I get the treatment for free. It was the most amazing and yet freaky thing I have ever done!!



There I am, sitting in a chair, listening to him say things like 'your eyelids are getting heavy, and this is ok' and then he shows me a spot on his hand (proper David Blaine style) and before I know it, he's told me to close my eyes and that they're locked shut. I try to open them, but nothing. It's as if my entire body is paralysed, but I'm still in complete control of everything that is going on around me. He tells me to relax, and counts me down the 'stairs of relaxation', whereupon every step you go down, doubles your state of relaxation. By the time I get to the bottom, my body feels like a lead weight, and I feel so peaceful and calm.



He then took me on a 'trip to the cottage'. 'The Cottage' is an imaginary cottage in your head. you build up a picture of the most beautiful cottage you can imagine (mine was in Falmouth, for some reason) and the cottage is right on a cliff-edge. You walk into it and see that it's in a mess. there's crap lying everywhere, but this is no ordinary crap. What's lying around is all the emotions and experiences and indeed anything that you don't like about yourself, and you have to tidy up. I started off last night by ridding myself of quite a lot of jealousy that had built up in my mind, and a small bit of some other bad aspects of myself. I also managed to incorporate some of the urge to smoke in my rubbish. It felt so good. Once I had cleaned up a bit, I was told to 'tie a knot in the rubbish sack so that nothing could get out, take the sack to end of the picturesque garden, and throw it over the cliff'. Done. A weight off my shoulders.



Aftre that, he counted me out of the trance that I was in, saying 'when I get to the number five, you will be able to open your eyes'. 'one' he said. nothing. I tried to open my eyes early, but couldn't. 'Two'. same thing happened. 'three, four' again no response from me. 'Five' I opened my eyes and was wide awake, and still fully aware of what had been happening.



Does anyone else go through these emotions concerning their partners? Or am I just weird? How does everyone else deal with them? Can you give me any tips? Has anyone else broken up with people for reasons they later found out to be crap?


Empty your mind. Be formless, Shapeless, like Water.
Put Water into a cup, it becomes the cup, put water into a bottle, it becomes the bottle, put water into a teapot, it becomes the teapot.
Water can flow, or it can Crash.
Be Water My Friend.

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Location: Bristol UK
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Posted:I'm trying to get better...

It's hard to give yourself a seratonin boost where I am at the moment...

I seem to have gotten into a routine of get up, work, finish work, chat on MSN, go to bed, get up, work, etc, etc...

Still, I'll have a break from work after monday for a few weeks, with Falmouth in there too... Then indeed I do get to come see you! That's gonna be the best bit of my Summer!


Empty your mind. Be formless, Shapeless, like Water.
Put Water into a cup, it becomes the cup, put water into a bottle, it becomes the bottle, put water into a teapot, it becomes the teapot.
Water can flow, or it can Crash.
Be Water My Friend.

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Skulduggery
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Location: Wales
Member Since: 12th Aug 2004
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Posted:Nucleopoi now you are free from work, is the only reason you are not coming to Falmouth cost? If it is I'm sure there are ways around that........ biggrin

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Nucleopoi
Nucleopoi

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Location: Ilkeston, Derbyshire, England
Member Since: 6th Nov 2004
Total posts: 1097
Posted:i know you are, im not denying that

im also not exactly good at the moment but im doing all i can in my power to change that.


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Posted:You're very strong compared to me. I'm proud to be with someone like you.

I tend to concentrate too much on other people rather than trying to sort myself out first. Maybe that's where I'm going wrong?

Anyway...


Empty your mind. Be formless, Shapeless, like Water.
Put Water into a cup, it becomes the cup, put water into a bottle, it becomes the bottle, put water into a teapot, it becomes the teapot.
Water can flow, or it can Crash.
Be Water My Friend.

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Nucleopoi
Nucleopoi

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Location: Ilkeston, Derbyshire, England
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Posted:no its how to get there lol cos i dont drive and i am nowhere near trains

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GothFrogette
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Posted:Written by: loves the circus

But she's not gonna be at falmouth...



oh now that fudgiing sucks


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Posted:Tell me about it!

So you can leave the ear plugs at home!!

Shame, really...


Empty your mind. Be formless, Shapeless, like Water.
Put Water into a cup, it becomes the cup, put water into a bottle, it becomes the bottle, put water into a teapot, it becomes the teapot.
Water can flow, or it can Crash.
Be Water My Friend.

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GothFrogette
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Location: Nuneaton
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Posted:bugger.... not that i wanted to wear ear plugs just bugger for you guys. no wander your both so freaken stressed and down being this much apart from each other all i can do is hug hug hug

Life's too short to worry about where you put your marshmallows

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Skulduggery
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Location: Wales
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Posted:No Froggy its not all we can do...... Why is Nucleopoi not coming to Falmouth? If it just to do with getting there and eating once there? ..... I'm sure there are ways and means to fix those problems wink

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Posted:thats true i shall have to have a think... although i am not thinking straightat the mo.... hows your brain?

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Nucleopoi
Nucleopoi

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Location: Ilkeston, Derbyshire, England
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Posted:plus i live in north yorkshire lol

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Skulduggery
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Posted:Written by: Nucleopoi

plus i live in north yorkshire lol



Pfffft thats not a problem. We are getting people from Ireland and America there so I'm sure we can work something out for you if you want us to biggrin


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Posted:wow its pretty there at least. but my god thats far hug
*Goes off to find thinking cap*


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Gayle......!
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Location: Bristol !!!!!!
Member Since: 9th Jul 2004
Total posts: 2444
Posted:TRain fare from York to Bristol is about 70 quid. frown

About to check bus routes. Lift from Bristol going if we can get you there!


Gayle.....!

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Posted:If between us we can come up with something that would be awesome!!

The distance is the main problem. Plus actually getting Georgina to Falmouth. As well as cost...

So many obstacles!! Why can't our lives just be simple for a change!!


Empty your mind. Be formless, Shapeless, like Water.
Put Water into a cup, it becomes the cup, put water into a bottle, it becomes the bottle, put water into a teapot, it becomes the teapot.
Water can flow, or it can Crash.
Be Water My Friend.

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Gayle......!
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Posted:Scotch Corner to London return 14. That's more like it. Sure there is someone coming from London who can offer a lift.

Gayle.....!

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Posted:Wow. This is amazing guys, thank you all so much.

If we can get Georgina there, I'll gladly dress up as a cheerleader!!


Empty your mind. Be formless, Shapeless, like Water.
Put Water into a cup, it becomes the cup, put water into a bottle, it becomes the bottle, put water into a teapot, it becomes the teapot.
Water can flow, or it can Crash.
Be Water My Friend.

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Gayle......!
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Posted: ***taps fingers on desk.....come on megabus show me the money....***

Gayle.....!

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Skulduggery
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Location: Wales
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Posted:There was someone offering lifts from london..... sadly my brain doesn't remember who. its in the Falmouth thread within I'd say the last 2 weeks.... otherwise I wouldn't have remembered it at all ubblol

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Gayle......!
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Location: Bristol !!!!!!
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Posted:OK think i've got it!!! bounce

Mega bus from Scotch corner to London - 14 return

Mega bus from London to Bristol - 6 return max

Lift from me with Skully and Firepoise Priceless.

Unless a london bod comes in with a lift from London...


Gayle.....!

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Nucleopoi
Nucleopoi

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Location: Ilkeston, Derbyshire, England
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Total posts: 1097
Posted:id like to come scotch corner is an hour in the other direction ie north.

the train journey would be aaaaaagggggeeeeessssss!!!!!

work would be a problem also and mother


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Posted:Oh Sith.

I'm already taking 4 people in my car to Falmouth, otherwise i'd definitely offer you a lift. I'm coming from Cumbria and so could probably pick you up, but I've already got all of my spaces filled ubbcrying

Sorry!


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Gayle......!
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Posted:I know Hels, Bam and Cole were offering a lift but needed 30 to pay for the hire car.

Well there's my offer. 20 and you're there.


Gayle.....!

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Posted:Written by: Nucleopoi

id like to come scotch corner is an hour in the other direction ie north.

the train journey would be aaaaaagggggeeeeessssss!!!!!

work would be a problem also and mother



Well i can't do any more frown


Gayle.....!

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Posted:You should fly by Jellycopter, Nuggit has some good blueprint plans for them

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Posted:Nucleopoi does that mean you don't want us to arrange this? Say yes or no because if its yes I'll book the mega bus tickets and such...... speak now or forever hold your peace biggrin

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Posted:She just needs to check with her mother about getting to scotch corner etc from Ripon. Her mother isn't always the easiest of people to deal with, but does have her good sides.

If people do book tickets for her, I'll more than gladly help out woth costs etc if needed.

Thanks again guys. You just made my day!


Empty your mind. Be formless, Shapeless, like Water.
Put Water into a cup, it becomes the cup, put water into a bottle, it becomes the bottle, put water into a teapot, it becomes the teapot.
Water can flow, or it can Crash.
Be Water My Friend.

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Posted:With london as it is now, do you think going through london is wise? or possible?

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Nucleopoi
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Location: Ilkeston, Derbyshire, England
Member Since: 6th Nov 2004
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Posted:what are the dates again

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Posted:that'll be in a couple of weeks. There'llbe no problem then.

Empty your mind. Be formless, Shapeless, like Water.
Put Water into a cup, it becomes the cup, put water into a bottle, it becomes the bottle, put water into a teapot, it becomes the teapot.
Water can flow, or it can Crash.
Be Water My Friend.

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