Posted:I really should know how to handle this sort of thing...but I don't.
So there's this guy at swimming. I like him (as a person) but he's much older than I am and I'm not very attracted to him. One day I jokingly flirted with him because he was taking names down for attendance at practice and I sidled up to him (in speedo) and put my hand on his jaw and said "is there room in here for me, big boy?"
And ever since he won't keep his paws off me.
Every time I run into him he's trying to touch me in some way.
Thing is he's a really nice guy and I like him and I don't want to make him angry or uncomfortable around me but still...
Is there a soft way to defuse this?
-Mike )'( Certified Mad Doctor and HoP High Priest of Nutella