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TuTuMan
BRONZE Member since Mar 2017

TuTuMan

Mushroom Fueled Frenzy
Location: Philadelphia, PA, USA

Total posts: 139
Posted:I would go through with it... Just to get these thoughts out of my mind so that I can move on with my life. The messed up emotion that is Love.... ah what a killer it is ...

::::does a little monkey man dance::::
You'll understand when you see his dancing feet

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_Clare_
BRONZE Member since Oct 2002

_Clare_

Still wiggling
Location: Belfast

Total posts: 5967
Posted:Aww, yep, that one f*cks everyone, am afraid...

I send optimistic thoughts that you will, eventually, get through it hug


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rbmnyc
BRONZE Member since Mar 2017

rbmnyc

lurker
Location: Brooklyn, NY

Total posts: 194
Posted:Did you see "Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind"?

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TuTuMan
BRONZE Member since Mar 2017

TuTuMan

Mushroom Fueled Frenzy
Location: Philadelphia, PA, USA

Total posts: 139
Posted:yes i did.. i would go through that without thinking twice.....

::::does a little monkey man dance::::
You'll understand when you see his dancing feet

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Radzyn
SILVER Member since Mar 2004

Radzyn

HoP Star Wars Aficionado
Location: Las Vegas, NV

Total posts: 183
Posted:Damned evil emotion... destroys lives it does. *grumbles*

~Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath. At night, the ice weasels come.

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native
SILVER Member since Jun 2004

native

sleeping with angels
Location: anaheim CA usa

Total posts: 508
Posted:they are evil but without them live is empty

SLEEP WITH ANGELS muckieha

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Radzyn
SILVER Member since Mar 2004

Radzyn

HoP Star Wars Aficionado
Location: Las Vegas, NV

Total posts: 183
Posted:Rather be empty than feel so sick that I want to throw up for months at a time.

~Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath. At night, the ice weasels come.

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_Clare_
BRONZE Member since Oct 2002

_Clare_

Still wiggling
Location: Belfast

Total posts: 5967
Posted:Maybe, but when you're in the middle of getting your insides scooped out with a spoon (at least, that's how I think it feels), you tend to feel that an empty life would be almost better ubbcrying

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bender
GOLD Member since Nov 2001

still can't believe it's not butter
Location: Melbourne, Australia

Total posts: 6979
Posted:much of the beauty i have in my life was bought about experiencing the sometimes lack of it.
i need my scars.


Laugh Often, Smile Much, Post lolcats Always

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kiteman


Flying high!
Location: At the beach.

Total posts: 245
Posted:'It's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.'



Who thought that one up. What a load of bollox, It doesn't make you feel any better. smile

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If everything seems under control, your not going fast enough!

It's not the size of the wave, it's the length of the ride!

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TuTuMan
BRONZE Member since Mar 2017

TuTuMan

Mushroom Fueled Frenzy
Location: Philadelphia, PA, USA

Total posts: 139
Posted:Love is the greatest and worst thing that life has to offer you

::::does a little monkey man dance::::
You'll understand when you see his dancing feet

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bender
GOLD Member since Nov 2001

still can't believe it's not butter
Location: Melbourne, Australia

Total posts: 6979
Posted:vegemite is the greatest and worst yeast spread depending on what time of the day it is.

Laugh Often, Smile Much, Post lolcats Always

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MiG
GOLD Member since Apr 2004

MiG

Self-Flagellation Expert
Location: Bogged at CG

Total posts: 3415
Posted:cry not because its over. smile instead, because it happened...

or something.

anyway, i reckon its one of those things that needs to have both sides of the coin. the joy of being in love would pale and become worthless were it not for the pain caused by the emptiness of losing love. Its like having lots of money.sorta. if you have lots of money, and things cost money, then you get the full appreciation of what you have, while having lots of money, with everything being free, the money would become pointless.


"beg beg grovel beg grovel"
"master"
--FSA

"There was an arse there, i couldn't help myself"
--Rougie

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Eera


old hand
Location: In a test pit, Mackay

Total posts: 1107
Posted:Though you can't get rid of memories you can take their power from them; Picture it as a movie, turn it primary colours, upside down, whatever, it seems no longer real, do it enough times and it really does help.

the other way is to figure "In a hundred years who's going to care?"


There is a slight possibility that I am not actually right all of the time.

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TuTuMan
BRONZE Member since Mar 2017

TuTuMan

Mushroom Fueled Frenzy
Location: Philadelphia, PA, USA

Total posts: 139
Posted:ah but the pain still lingers...

::::does a little monkey man dance::::
You'll understand when you see his dancing feet

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_Clare_
BRONZE Member since Oct 2002

_Clare_

Still wiggling
Location: Belfast

Total posts: 5967
Posted:True, you will feel the pain of this for the rest of your life, but it will eventually become bearable. And as unlikely as this sounds to you right now, you will eventually be happy again. It'll take a long time... but someday you will realise that you're happy and not sad anymore... focus on that day, because it will feel like the world has lifted from your shoulders.

Take care chica xo

hug


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FunkFish


FunkFish

Watch out as ultimate Cute and Funkyness arives...
Location: Holland, Zaandam (next to Amst...

Total posts: 191
Posted:here is a big.. feel better HUG... smile... and yes [censored] happens and love hurts....

x


Push me, and then just hurt me, till i can get my satisfaction...

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TuTuMan
BRONZE Member since Mar 2017

TuTuMan

Mushroom Fueled Frenzy
Location: Philadelphia, PA, USA

Total posts: 139
Posted:its hard when every day you are reminded somehow of the past.. and there is no way of avoiding the constant reminders

::::does a little monkey man dance::::
You'll understand when you see his dancing feet

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_Clare_
BRONZE Member since Oct 2002

_Clare_

Still wiggling
Location: Belfast

Total posts: 5967
Posted:Is there any chance of going on holiday for a little while? Or even just going to stay at a good friend's house? If you're not working this weekend, take yourself away to somewhere beautiful... mountains or lakes or somesuch and just sit and think. Go somewhere were you won't be surrounded by memories and well meaning friends asking if you're alright every 20 seconds.

And try to do something utterly selfish ( wink ) everyday that's going to make you feel good - lots of treats, just because you deserve it goddamit.
I found chocolate helped, but then, I'm female biggrin
(copious amounts of alcohol and drugs only work for so long and it always makes things much worse the next day ubbangel )

Look after yourself xo


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Henrik
GOLD Member since Jul 2004

Henrik

member
Location: Sweden

Total posts: 111
Posted:burning memos from your brain? has anyone suggested that you could try drugs?
they really do the work good! infact they can burn your whole brain..


youre like the diet coke of evil. just one calorie, not evil enough.

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Pink...?
BRONZE Member since Apr 2002

Pink...?

Mistress of Pink...Multicoloured
Location: Over There

Total posts: 6140
Posted:hug

The good times wouldn't be nearly as good if you haven't experianced the bad.

ubblove


Never pick up a duck in a dungeon...

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DeepSoulSheep
GOLD Member since Sep 2002

DeepSoulSheep

Carpal \'Tunnel
Location: Berlin

Total posts: 2617
Posted:Interestingly they are looking at medaction to do this as well as medication to never let you forget anything.



Alternatively I dug up some wisdom for you. This is from a great book called The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran



Written by:


Joy and Sorrow

Then a woman said, "Speak to us of Joy and Sorrow."



And he answered:



Your joy is your sorrow unmasked.



And the selfsame well from which your laughter rises was oftentimes filled with your tears.



And how else can it be?



The deeper that sorrow carves into your being, the more joy you can contain.



Is not the cup that hold your wine the very cup that was burned in the potter's oven?



And is not the lute that soothes your spirit, the very wood that was hollowed with knives?



When you are joyous, look deep into your heart and you shall find it is only that which has given you sorrow that is giving you joy.



When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight.



Some of you say, "Joy is greater than sorrow," and others say, "Nay, sorrow is the greater."



But I say unto you, they are inseparable.



Together they come, and when one sits alone with you at your board, remember that the other is asleep upon your bed.



Verily you are suspended like scales between your sorrow and your joy.



Only when you are empty are you at standstill and balanced.



When the treasure-keeper lifts you to weigh his gold and his silver, needs must your joy or your sorrow rise or fall.







Sorry for your pain. Passing of time and degradation of memory is natures evolution to help us get over the sadness that sometimes envelops us.



The pain will leave and the residue it leaves will be of use to you in the future. To lose that is to lose the lesson you will learn. hug

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I live in a world of infinite possibilities.

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_Clare_
BRONZE Member since Oct 2002

_Clare_

Still wiggling
Location: Belfast

Total posts: 5967
Posted:ditto That's a particularly encouraging thought Mr Sheep

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TuTuMan
BRONZE Member since Mar 2017

TuTuMan

Mushroom Fueled Frenzy
Location: Philadelphia, PA, USA

Total posts: 139
Posted:the lesson is: never fall in love cause it will chew you for the rest of your life one way or another

::::does a little monkey man dance::::
You'll understand when you see his dancing feet

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_Clare_
BRONZE Member since Oct 2002

_Clare_

Still wiggling
Location: Belfast

Total posts: 5967
Posted:nah, you have to fall in love - cos otherwise you won't know what it is.

And experience, no matter how euphoric or unpleasant at the time, is always worth it.

(though, that sounds a bit crap coming from some person you don't know on the internet from somewhere else in the world... but hey, spinning fire is still fun smile )

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TuTuMan
BRONZE Member since Mar 2017

TuTuMan

Mushroom Fueled Frenzy
Location: Philadelphia, PA, USA

Total posts: 139
Posted:yes it is.. i just need a hug frown

::::does a little monkey man dance::::
You'll understand when you see his dancing feet

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_Clare_
BRONZE Member since Oct 2002

_Clare_

Still wiggling
Location: Belfast

Total posts: 5967
Posted:Oh god. I'm so sorry darlin... I know (roughly) how you feel right now.

Cyber hugs aren't going to make a bit of difference, I'm afraid.

But I (and I'm sure all the others on this board) am thinking of you and sending you lots of positive thoughts and best wishes.

D'u think you'll be able to go somewhere for the weekend?

xoxo


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_Aime_
SILVER Member since Jan 2004

_Aime_

Carpal \'Tunnel
Location: Hastings

Total posts: 4172
Posted:This might help. Its a song by The Streets called dry your eyes mate. T'is a loverly song and when I heard it today I thought of you hug It's in an english acent an' all but i think you'll understnad ok. maybe you could download it onto mp3 or something?

Much love to you



Aimee xxxx

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TuTuMan
BRONZE Member since Mar 2017

TuTuMan

Mushroom Fueled Frenzy
Location: Philadelphia, PA, USA

Total posts: 139
Posted:This weekend im not sure.. Since mechanical enigneering likes to give lots of homework.. i doubt i will ahve much time for anything... Usually though it was spent with my love, who is also an engineer. So its rough trying to find new things to do, because everything that i DO do reminds me of the past.... I just want to pack up and move somewhere else, fresh start. Any ideas? who will give me free housing?? I can be your pet engineer ::puppy face:::

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TuTuMan
BRONZE Member since Mar 2017

TuTuMan

Mushroom Fueled Frenzy
Location: Philadelphia, PA, USA

Total posts: 139
Posted:Written by: Firepoise

I found chocolate helped, but then, I'm female biggrin
(copious amounts of alcohol and drugs only work for so long and it always makes things much worse the next day ubbangel )




Interesting thing about chocolate... it contains the "love" chemicals that the female brain produces when "in love" Im not going to go on a huge scientific post about this.. but yeah thats why almost all women love chocolate. Interesting eh?

As for drugs.. yeah wish i could loose my mind on some nice mush mush hehe .. but that would only lead to a bad trip im sure of it. Boozing helps temporarily, but i find that doing anything to relieve the pain that i am experiencing only makes it worse. Just got to sort this out.. poi helps, dancing helps, music helps, partying helps, being around good vibes helps, being an engineer with huge stress doesnt...


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You'll understand when you see his dancing feet

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_Clare_
BRONZE Member since Oct 2002

_Clare_

Still wiggling
Location: Belfast

Total posts: 5967
Posted:Yeah, I know about the chemicals thingme... that's why chocolate is my friend rolleyes ubblol

Your experiences with the drugs/alcohol and heartbreak mix are the same as mine... they just made me wallow more. And, worse, made me lose the perspective to keep going... yep, you'll sort it out... eventually. This time now is the unpleasant healing and pain time. Stick with the good vibes... anything that will make you smile a bit.

And I would still recommend going somewhere new or doing something different over the weekend... (mechanical engineering can wait, goddamit!!)

Anyways, work's finished and I'm off home to bed, so goodnight, take care and look after yourself sir.
Much hugging hug

xo


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