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Posted:
Does anyone else find that watching someone of the opposite sex twirling poi (very well) and dancing incredibly erotic?
Being male i can confirm that even my friends who don't spin usually have a open jaw when a female spins!
But, i've found that most of my female friends find watching a man twirl a staff more erotic! (so natually i have just started to learn staff)
Any thoughts (apart from that)
Does anyone else find that watching someone of the opposite sex twirling poi (very well) and dancing incredibly erotic?
Being male i can confirm that even my friends who don't spin usually have a open jaw when a female spins!
But, i've found that most of my female friends find watching a man twirl a staff more erotic! (so natually i have just started to learn staff)
Any thoughts (apart from that)
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Posted:
lmao
ive cause you having a drew to if im not mistaken
then again so have i
quote:are we talking about the reaction a certain south african spinner gets at gleb by any chance
Originally posted by Dentrassi:
trust me, i know plenty of girls who love to perve on a hot fire spinner with his shirt off. its not just a guy thing!
lmao
ive cause you having a drew to if im not mistaken
then again so have i
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Location: Ontario, Canada
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Location: Ontario, Canada
Posted:
my discomfort with being sexualized does not denote a discomfort with my sexuality.
and i guess what i was trying to get at was, as KristyEB put it, the shallowness of some people.
i recognize brainstorma's observation that fire is highly erotic. i guess i don't have enough faith in the audience to separate sex from sensuality to the point where they can appreciate the art of my performance.
of course, this lack of faith comes from somewhere. my first fire show ever, i performed in front of 300 people, and many of the people in the front of the crowd shouted at me to take my clothes off. needless to say, i very discouraged by their reaction.
hmm.. thankx for the helpful insights. that 'root' is something that i haven't examined yet.
plus, my post above was written only days after a similar event happening this past hallowe'en. exasperation takes its toll...
anyway, later days!
[ 13. November 2003, 01:12: Message edited by: divi ]
my discomfort with being sexualized does not denote a discomfort with my sexuality.
and i guess what i was trying to get at was, as KristyEB put it, the shallowness of some people.
i recognize brainstorma's observation that fire is highly erotic. i guess i don't have enough faith in the audience to separate sex from sensuality to the point where they can appreciate the art of my performance.
of course, this lack of faith comes from somewhere. my first fire show ever, i performed in front of 300 people, and many of the people in the front of the crowd shouted at me to take my clothes off. needless to say, i very discouraged by their reaction.
hmm.. thankx for the helpful insights. that 'root' is something that i haven't examined yet.
plus, my post above was written only days after a similar event happening this past hallowe'en. exasperation takes its toll...
anyway, later days!
[ 13. November 2003, 01:12: Message edited by: divi ]
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Posted:
one girl friend would not let me near her till i had washed
and i met my love orla at gleb point thursday twirl while covered in kerro
think it depends on the person though i guess
quote:well this is both true and un true
Originally posted by Dentrassi:
apparently some think kerosene is an aphrodisiac.....
one girl friend would not let me near her till i had washed
and i met my love orla at gleb point thursday twirl while covered in kerro
think it depends on the person though i guess
"Life should NOT be a journey to the grave arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, champagne in one hand, strawberries in the other, body thoroughly used up, and screaming "WOO-HOO What a ride!"
NYC
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Location: NYC, NY, USA
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Location: NYC, NY, USA
Posted:
Mech, you're gettin desperate if you think that Unicycling is sexy.
There were the CUTEST girls at the EJC doing amazing unicycle tricks and you know what? It wasn't sexy.
We've had previous threads about "who defines what/who is sexy" but I can assure you, if unicycling is getting your blood to boil... well... perhaps its a fetish more than a generally accepted sexyness.
I can't think of many other juggling type hobbies that are LESS sexy than unicycling.
Cool, Yes. Fun, Yes. Wacky, Yes. Sexy... umm no.
Mech, you're gettin desperate if you think that Unicycling is sexy.
There were the CUTEST girls at the EJC doing amazing unicycle tricks and you know what? It wasn't sexy.
We've had previous threads about "who defines what/who is sexy" but I can assure you, if unicycling is getting your blood to boil... well... perhaps its a fetish more than a generally accepted sexyness.
I can't think of many other juggling type hobbies that are LESS sexy than unicycling.
Cool, Yes. Fun, Yes. Wacky, Yes. Sexy... umm no.
Well, shall we go?
Yes, let's go.
[They do not move.]
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Posted:
Haha, unicycle fetish
Hm, I don't think poi or staff makes a man sexy, I think its the "whole deal."
For instance, a horrible guy(something like me ) does poi and does it quite good(not really like me) still isn't sexy(fetishes, I don't count you in).
But a sexy man(or woman for all that matters) increases his "sexyness" by doing poi. It is an addition, not a standard being-sexy thing.
Haha, unicycle fetish
Hm, I don't think poi or staff makes a man sexy, I think its the "whole deal."
For instance, a horrible guy(something like me ) does poi and does it quite good(not really like me) still isn't sexy(fetishes, I don't count you in).
But a sexy man(or woman for all that matters) increases his "sexyness" by doing poi. It is an addition, not a standard being-sexy thing.
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Location: Halifax
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Posted:
personally... the whips and chains...
as I say far too much:
"sticks and stones may break my bones, but whips and chains excite me"
hehe, just kidding... But where's Lurch?
personally... the whips and chains...
as I say far too much:
"sticks and stones may break my bones, but whips and chains excite me"
hehe, just kidding... But where's Lurch?
I like orange.And don't take my cookies.
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Posted:
quote:Thats really sweet Brainstorma!! Thanks you very much...
moon pixie, bec, rainbow michelle, peita, valura, rozie, abe, flash fire, frenzie you are soem of the most peutiful twirlers i have every seen twirl and you have my up most respect
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I love seeing girls lost in love of the flame .
I love seeing girls lost in love of the flame .
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Posted:
This occurred to me last night when I noticed women drooling over fire speeding going down the street. If firemen (damn them and their chiseled features!) are sexy because they're brave, put out fires and wear uniforms, then poi isn't sexy because we're rather silly and start fires.
My proposed solution: we need a uniform!
This occurred to me last night when I noticed women drooling over fire speeding going down the street. If firemen (damn them and their chiseled features!) are sexy because they're brave, put out fires and wear uniforms, then poi isn't sexy because we're rather silly and start fires.
My proposed solution: we need a uniform!
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Oi Bells, Don just said the FFffffffffff word FIREMEN
Oi Bells, Don just said the FFffffffffff word FIREMEN
A kiss blown is a kiss wasted, the only kind of kiss is a kiss tasted.
I'm a woman. We don't say what we want, but we reserve the right to be pissed off if we don't get it. That's what makes us so fascinating and not just a LITTLE bit scary.
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Posted:
who's don...?
in fact, while we're on the subject, who the hell is that 'alternativa' bloke too?
who's don...?
in fact, while we're on the subject, who the hell is that 'alternativa' bloke too?
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i come to 'dis cafe quite a lot myself.
they do porridge."
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Posted:
Oh.My.Good.God.
What a fantastic idea!!
*sigh* a sexy man spinning fire whilst wearing a fireman's uniform *double sigh, with a swoon added in for extra*
That's me in heaven then!!!
Oh.My.Good.God.
What a fantastic idea!!
*sigh* a sexy man spinning fire whilst wearing a fireman's uniform *double sigh, with a swoon added in for extra*
That's me in heaven then!!!
Live well, love much, laugh often...
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Location: London
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Posted:
Ohh and hats, lets not forget the hats ...hold on do you remember Jez spinning fire with a firemans helmet on last year
Rahhhhhhhh
Bammy
Dom honey you are the Don in my eyes
Ohh and hats, lets not forget the hats ...hold on do you remember Jez spinning fire with a firemans helmet on last year
Rahhhhhhhh
Bammy
Dom honey you are the Don in my eyes
A kiss blown is a kiss wasted, the only kind of kiss is a kiss tasted.
I'm a woman. We don't say what we want, but we reserve the right to be pissed off if we don't get it. That's what makes us so fascinating and not just a LITTLE bit scary.
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Posted:
Hehehehehehehehehehehe
I've just had one of my ideas..heheheehhehehe
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Hehehehehehehehehehehe
I've just had one of my ideas..heheheehhehehe
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Ohh god will someone pass the fox a tissue
Bammy
Ohh god will someone pass the fox a tissue
Bammy
A kiss blown is a kiss wasted, the only kind of kiss is a kiss tasted.
I'm a woman. We don't say what we want, but we reserve the right to be pissed off if we don't get it. That's what makes us so fascinating and not just a LITTLE bit scary.
NYC
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Location: NYC, NY, USA
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Location: NYC, NY, USA
Posted:
I was actually thinking that fireman's pants/suspenders would be cool to spin fire in... until I learned that they were a few hundred dollars.
Oh, wait, you guys were kidding.
Frankly, I think Hels and Bam in matching nurse uniforms would be a better suggestion.
YUMMY!
I was actually thinking that fireman's pants/suspenders would be cool to spin fire in... until I learned that they were a few hundred dollars.
Oh, wait, you guys were kidding.
Frankly, I think Hels and Bam in matching nurse uniforms would be a better suggestion.
YUMMY!
Well, shall we go?
Yes, let's go.
[They do not move.]
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Location: Montpellier
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Posted:
Still, firemans clothing would be good against fire-related risks?!
Still, firemans clothing would be good against fire-related risks?!
Whatever it was I didnt do it!
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Posted:
Just got an image in my head about a firetruck being used in a performance, with paraffin instead of water - oh the carnage, death and destruction, will somebody please think of the children...!
Just got an image in my head about a firetruck being used in a performance, with paraffin instead of water - oh the carnage, death and destruction, will somebody please think of the children...!
there's nothing quite as fulfilling as a tasty airwrap
if you're full of sh!t, at least you're fertile
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Posted:
Or some nurses mmmmm...
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quote:Nope, I'm going to need a doctor
Originally posted by BamBam:
Ohh god will someone pass the fox a tissue
Bammy
Or some nurses mmmmm...
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Location: Brisbane, Australia
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Location: Brisbane, Australia
Posted:
brainstorma,
NYC
brainstorma,
quote:he is a good example isnt he?
are we talking about the reaction a certain south african spinner gets at gleb by any chance
NYC
quote:hey! i resent that *sniff*
Mech, you're gettin desperate if you think that Unicycling is sexy
"Here kitty kitty...." - Schroedinger.
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Location: under the fairie wheel, Australia
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Location: under the fairie wheel, Australia
Posted:
hehehehe
my mum works in it suport for the state firebrigade am working oon her to get me a pair of firemans pants for a fire performance
there almost identical to the NYC firmans pants
the only other chance of getting a pair is becoming a fireman
and i dont know about you dm but i say i gots me a pritty good chizled body thank you very much
so have pants
have body
have fire
hmm
ok now jjst need the birds hangn off me and im sex for sexy fire dancer city
lock up your flam resistant daughters cause here i come
quote:
Originally posted by NYC:
I was actually thinking that fireman's pants/suspenders would be cool to spin fire in... until I learned that they were a few hundred dollars.
hehehehe
my mum works in it suport for the state firebrigade am working oon her to get me a pair of firemans pants for a fire performance
there almost identical to the NYC firmans pants
the only other chance of getting a pair is becoming a fireman
and i dont know about you dm but i say i gots me a pritty good chizled body thank you very much
so have pants
have body
have fire
hmm
ok now jjst need the birds hangn off me and im sex for sexy fire dancer city
lock up your flam resistant daughters cause here i come
"Life should NOT be a journey to the grave arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, champagne in one hand, strawberries in the other, body thoroughly used up, and screaming "WOO-HOO What a ride!"
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Location: New York City, USA
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Location: New York City, USA
Posted:
A very interesting notion. What would a fire spinner uniform look like?
Raph
quote:Hmmm...
Originally posted by Døm:
This occurred to me last night when I noticed women drooling over fire speeding going down the street. If firemen (damn them and their chiseled features!) are sexy because they're brave, put out fires and wear uniforms, then poi isn't sexy because we're rather silly and start fires.
My proposed solution: we need a uniform!
A very interesting notion. What would a fire spinner uniform look like?
Raph
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Location: Halifax
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Location: Halifax
Posted:
Meh. Firemen *shrugs* So what?
Gimme dark and mysterious. And not dark as in covered in soot, I'm sorry, no.
Allthough, my friend's apartment overlooks the backyard of the training firestation, and waking up in the morning to see a bunch of young, fit men jumping about and all... heh... Something I could get used to waking up to!
But... right, dark, mysterious
Meh. Firemen *shrugs* So what?
Gimme dark and mysterious. And not dark as in covered in soot, I'm sorry, no.
Allthough, my friend's apartment overlooks the backyard of the training firestation, and waking up in the morning to see a bunch of young, fit men jumping about and all... heh... Something I could get used to waking up to!
But... right, dark, mysterious
I like orange.And don't take my cookies.
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Location: Ontario, Canada
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Location: Ontario, Canada
Posted:
i have an idea...
a gasmask & full spandex!
any takers?
i have an idea...
a gasmask & full spandex!
any takers?
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Location: New York City, USA
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Location: New York City, USA
Posted:
Dark I can manage..
Raph
Dark I can manage..
Raph
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Posted:
With the utmost respect to all, i can't believe anyone would deny finding twirling sexy. Firelight against the skin, movements that, through the wieght of the poi/staff, have to be smooth and fluid, the intense facial expresions.....
At the risk of having to skuttle off to Pounce's R rated thread if i talk about this for too long, twirling, in particular poi, is one of the sexiest things i have seen. Guy or girl, no matter what they are wearing (although a friend wears a long sleavless black dress with side splits you just catch glimpses of skin as a poi swings past
) .
However i agree with those who have come before me. There is a big difference between finding someone sexy and wanting to have sex with them. And i don't think that to find something sexy is to take-away or not appriciate the art. I have been in periods of my life when i probably would have thought differently, although i am now stoked when people tell me they found a twirl sexy, and i openly tell friends when i found there performance sexy.
I should mension here though that people who go overboard are not what i would consider sexy. Sexyness to me has to have a naturalness and an honesty, and a girl i am thinking of (and others i have seen) make so much of an effort to be noticed that i actually have a hard time watching them. Before each performance she changes into a backless shirt with a plunging necklines (I am not usually one to dissagree with showing the human body; bring on the nakedness
), that, combined with an amazing dance show, makes the poi lose alot of the respect they deserve.
Twirling is definetly sexy, sorry, i didn't mean to turn this into a bitch... It is definately the flowing dance movements as much as all of the bare skin. I remember seeing this guyl twirl in jeans and a jersey once and.....
.
Might check out Pounces thread now.....
With the utmost respect to all, i can't believe anyone would deny finding twirling sexy. Firelight against the skin, movements that, through the wieght of the poi/staff, have to be smooth and fluid, the intense facial expresions.....
At the risk of having to skuttle off to Pounce's R rated thread if i talk about this for too long, twirling, in particular poi, is one of the sexiest things i have seen. Guy or girl, no matter what they are wearing (although a friend wears a long sleavless black dress with side splits you just catch glimpses of skin as a poi swings past
) .However i agree with those who have come before me. There is a big difference between finding someone sexy and wanting to have sex with them. And i don't think that to find something sexy is to take-away or not appriciate the art. I have been in periods of my life when i probably would have thought differently, although i am now stoked when people tell me they found a twirl sexy, and i openly tell friends when i found there performance sexy.
I should mension here though that people who go overboard are not what i would consider sexy. Sexyness to me has to have a naturalness and an honesty, and a girl i am thinking of (and others i have seen) make so much of an effort to be noticed that i actually have a hard time watching them. Before each performance she changes into a backless shirt with a plunging necklines (I am not usually one to dissagree with showing the human body; bring on the nakedness
), that, combined with an amazing dance show, makes the poi lose alot of the respect they deserve. Twirling is definetly sexy, sorry, i didn't mean to turn this into a bitch... It is definately the flowing dance movements as much as all of the bare skin. I remember seeing this guyl twirl in jeans and a jersey once and.....
.Might check out Pounces thread now.....
... simplify ...
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Location: Kent currently, Cornwall soon, New Zealand eventua...
Posted:
Further to previous considerations on this site, a friend (who also posts on HOP but wishes, for the moment, to remain anonymous) and I believe it to be possible to have sex whilst doing poi. If we send in a video of ourselves performing this feat, will it be instantly censored, and will you all promise not to laugh?
The video would be in the best possible taste (of course): all naughty bits will be discretely hidden, there will be no cheesy music, and I don't have a ridiculous porn moustache.
Well?
(Sweet lords I can't believe I'm actually writing this)
Further to previous considerations on this site, a friend (who also posts on HOP but wishes, for the moment, to remain anonymous) and I believe it to be possible to have sex whilst doing poi. If we send in a video of ourselves performing this feat, will it be instantly censored, and will you all promise not to laugh?
The video would be in the best possible taste (of course): all naughty bits will be discretely hidden, there will be no cheesy music, and I don't have a ridiculous porn moustache.
Well?
(Sweet lords I can't believe I'm actually writing this)
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Sponge
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Location: Stevenage
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Location: Stevenage
Posted:
Quote:
Further to previous considerations on this site, a friend (who also posts on HOP but wishes, for the moment, to remain anonymous) and I believe it to be possible to have sex whilst doing poi. If we send in a video of ourselves performing this feat, will it be instantly censored, and will you all promise not to laugh?
The video would be in the best possible taste (of course): all naughty bits will be discretely hidden, there will be no cheesy music, and I don't have a ridiculous porn moustache.
Well?
(Sweet lords I can't believe I'm actually writing this)
Monkeys monkeys and bananas
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Mumma Hen
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Location: Brisbane, Australia
Mumma Hen
6,391 posts
Location: Brisbane, Australia
Posted:
YAYAYAYAY
poi porn!!!!!... Can we subscribe???
YAYAYAYAY
poi porn!!!!!... Can we subscribe???
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300 posts
Location: Leeds, UK
Posted:
No, I don't want to remain anonymous! How could I let you take all the credit for this Joe?
seeing as it was my idea and all...
No, I don't want to remain anonymous! How could I let you take all the credit for this Joe?
seeing as it was my idea and all...
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