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jemima (jem)
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jemima (jem)

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Posted:Has anyone ever, had the opportunity do something they have always wanted to do, like THE uni course they want to do, do well in it, all goes to plan. But at the same time, it feels like there is a whole big chunk of something missing?

Hmm does this mean we can't live a happy life until we have a secial somone to share it with?

sulk frown
or will a few simple hugs remedy this?


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JauntyJames
SILVER Member since Dec 2004

JauntyJames

Carpal \'Tunnel
Location: Hampshire College, MA, USA

Total posts: 3533
Posted:let's experimet: hug hug hug
feeling any better?

love the new avatar, btw


-James

"How do you know if you're happy or sad without a mask? Or angry? Or ready for dessert?"

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Fathom
SILVER Member since Jan 2005

Fathom

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Location: Online!

Total posts: 103
Posted:hug hug hug
and one more to grow on hug

i hope you find what your looking for!


Kangaroo Island eh? I hear that place is really hopping!

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jemima (jem)
SILVER Member since Dec 2002

jemima (jem)

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Location: london

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Posted:sniff sniff thanks ubbangel

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Sym
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Sym

Geek-enviro-hippy priest
Location: Diss, Norfolk

Total posts: 1858
Posted:I've been thinking the same thing over the last few days....I normally keep myself very busy so I don't have time to think about it, but somehow the thoughts have crept in....

hug

Summers coming though, so thats something to be happy about isn't it?


There's too many home fires burning and not enough trees

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jemima (jem)
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jemima (jem)

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Location: london

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Posted:Yes, this winter has been far too long !

Come on summer, I want you here now rolleyes


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Sym
BRONZE Member since Sep 2004

Sym

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Location: Diss, Norfolk

Total posts: 1858
Posted:Yay! biggrin

There's too many home fires burning and not enough trees

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Psycho_lemming
SILVER Member since Jul 2004

Psycho_lemming

Running hippy spinning lemming
Location: Scotland

Total posts: 15
Posted:big understanding hug

Fear leads to anger; anger leads to hate; hate leads to suffering...

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Adya Miriyana
GOLD Member since Feb 2005

Adya Miriyana

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Location: Adelaide

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Posted:hug hug hug hug hug hug

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Birgit
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Birgit

had her carpal tunnel surgery already thanks v much
Location: Edinburgh

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Posted:hahaha... have read about this recently after feeling similarly, apparently it's part of what's called "quarterlife crisis". Strangely, it made me feel a bit better when I knew it had a name wink
I think it depends on the person... lots of people can be really really happy singles, others can't (at least to some degree). Anyways, in my experience hugs help biggrin


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jemima (jem)
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jemima (jem)

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Posted:Quaterlife crisis confused

Thanx for all the hugs, hugs always appreciated wink wink


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Sym
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Sym

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Location: Diss, Norfolk

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Posted:Quaterlife?? Great, thanks Birgit! wink

There's too many home fires burning and not enough trees

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Fearpig
BRONZE Member since Sep 2003

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Location: Bethnal Green, London

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Posted:Hugs help lots!

hug hug hug

But maybe you need more than the perfect Uni course to motivate you.....

It's summer come out and play!


"Whats wrong with the cat?" - Mrs Schrdinger

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Flame
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Location: VIC, MELB

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Posted:hug hug hug hug hug hug

lots a hugs might not fix it but they will certainly help biggrin


*In the car while Pink is playing on the radio*
Tristan aged 4 : "Mum is this Pink?"
Flame:"Yes mate this is Pink?"
Tristan:"Are you going to Pink?"
Flame:"Yes i am"
Tristan:"Cool well I'm going to BLUE" smile

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jemima (jem)
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jemima (jem)

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Posted:smile

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hexagonic

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Location: Manchester

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Posted:yep. Although i found after uni was much more fulliling.

And when you do meet that someone special everything else seems to make sense. worked for me.

It will happen

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ah wah wah wah a wah wah

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jemima (jem)
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jemima (jem)

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Location: london

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Posted:I hope so frown its like waiting for a bus, if you concentrate on it appearing it wont appear, if you distract yourself, it will seem to appear in no time.

lol I hate waiting for buses ubblol


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Posted:or... you wait ages for the bus, then eventually it comes, opens its doors... but then shuts them and drives off at full speed before you can get on frown

hughughughughughughughughughughug

nasty mean buses, I'm just going to walk on my own two feet.


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Sym
BRONZE Member since Sep 2004

Sym

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Location: Diss, Norfolk

Total posts: 1858
Posted:OR 3 come at once - I think thats about to happen with me...:S

There's too many home fires burning and not enough trees

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Mistress_Maledicti


Heaven doesn't want me, and Hell is afraid I'll take over
Location: Wolverhampton

Total posts: 192
Posted:Hmmm...I sailed through my earlier years quite happily - does that mean I'm going to get my quarterlife and mid-life crises all at once? Should I start digging my hole now?

sin


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Pigeon_Wigeon
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Posted:hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug spank.. i mean... hug

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Birgit
BRONZE Member since Jan 2005

Birgit

had her carpal tunnel surgery already thanks v much
Location: Edinburgh

Total posts: 4145
Posted:don't worry Gothmuppet!

It's just a description I stumbled across a couple of times now (last time on the cover of the Big Issue!). It's a bit of a "basically all's fine but there's something missing", and it's supposedly got to do with life generally going faster and people in their 20s thinking about typical midlife-crisis stuff like "Am I really happy with where my life is going". Dunno about how real it is or if it's just another made-up syndrome to sell lots of books on, but some of the descriptions I read described my feelings a few months ago pretty well, and since none of my friends could really understand me it made me feel better to realise it was not that uncommon.


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Gelfling
BRONZE Member since Jul 2004

Gelfling

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Location: Chepstow & Bristol

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Posted:hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug



Do you have any pets? Pets are great company - ferrets are the best.



hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug



Sounds like youre approaching the end of one phase of your life and are somewhat apprehensive about the beginning of the next and would therefore like someone to support you through the change as well assomeone for you to channel you emotions on - that's where pets are good.



hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug



Huge hugs and hope you feel happier soon.

Stoo.x

hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug


>What do you think about the state of the Earth?
>I'm optimistic.
>So why do you look so sad?
>I'm not sure that my optimism is justified.

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jemima (jem)
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jemima (jem)

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Posted:Aww, thanx gelfling, we are not allowed pets in our house but next year, woo we are allowed pets. I'm hopefully moving in with my mates, one of which already has a hampster, my other mate has a housemate with a pair of rats.

Its a damn shame i'm allergic to fluffy animals frown But it would be loverly to have a leopard gecko again <3


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Gelfling
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Gelfling

Watcher of 80s cartoons
Location: Chepstow & Bristol

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Posted:Rats are great - hamsters are evil - yeah it is a shame that you're allergic - well I guess your only option is children then - they are sort of like pets, need to litter train them, feed them, clean up after, build progressively larger hutches for hey maybe thats it maybe your broody at the moment? Problem is children will take time to get hold of and wont help in the short term still maybe looking at the long term will be a good thing. There is another solution build a marine aquarium and have a pet dolphin again no good for the short term and not too great for the dolphin. You could get a non-mammalian pet but they just never seem to be as affectionate as a mammal except birds are you allergic to birds? I have it how about one of those Egyptian cats with no hair like Dr. Evils cat? That might work.

hughughughughughughughughughughughughug


>What do you think about the state of the Earth?
>I'm optimistic.
>So why do you look so sad?
>I'm not sure that my optimism is justified.

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linden rathen
GOLD Member since Mar 2005

linden rathen

Carpal \'Tunnel
Location: London, UK

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Posted:it could be S.A.D - seasonaly activated depression (im pretty sure thats the abrev.) basically during winter you dont get enough sunlight which makes you feel slow and depressed - let it be till summer's back then see what you want smile
really good short term - eat chocolate smile


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Posted:I'm feeling this way too at the moment. Like there's something I'm missing. It could be because I've come out of a relaitonship recently, though I'm pretty much over that now. I dunno I sometimes feel that life is going too well I guess. I look for disaster and I find it out of sorts when bad things don't happen...maybe that's what it is? Maybe there's so much good that you're kinda wondering where the bad went? kinda like a niggling worry. If that makes ANY sense at all! hug

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Your erotic cabaret is non stop
You're wearing too many belts
And I bet they leave welts
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monkeynamedspank

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Location: Bolton

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Posted:It seems like nearly everyone I know is going through that at the moment, it's kinda scary. At least I know I'm not alone.

There's always religion.


Damn the addictiveness of forums! (Or should it be addictivity?)

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Psycho_lemming
SILVER Member since Jul 2004

Psycho_lemming

Running hippy spinning lemming
Location: Scotland

Total posts: 15
Posted:i waited ages for a bus last night as it was late and they dont come so often.... would have walked but was being lazy and munching chocolate....when it finally came i got off at the wrong stop (about the same distance from my house as i started) so had to walk anyway and it was even later and raining!

typical!

anyway enough of my bus ramblings i brought someone to keep this thread company.... biggrin


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hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug


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Sym
BRONZE Member since Sep 2004

Sym

Geek-enviro-hippy priest
Location: Diss, Norfolk

Total posts: 1858
Posted:Written by:
There's always religion.



You're right, that IS why I'm feeling depressed wink


There's too many home fires burning and not enough trees

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polythene


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Location: London/ Surrey

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Posted:If you're still doing the student thing and have to move about a bit, I highly recommend Egyptian dwarf geckos... a very teeny terrestrial gecko (about 3-4 inches long including tail when fully grown!) that's easy to keep, hard to kill and easy to move around.

They have so much character too ubblove


The optimist claims that we are living in the best of all possible worlds.
The pessimist fears this is true.

Always make time to play in the snow.

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