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Polifecio


member
Location: Mexico

Total posts: 27
Posted:The thing is:

I have this friend that lives in LA and the las time he came to Mexico city he was dating a girl that I haven't seen in along time. But just wen he went back to LA I started to fall for this girl and she drives me crazy. What do you think I sould do, they sey they are crazy for each other but he lives far away, and I want that girl
ubblove hug.

Thank for helping me biggrin ubbloco

Paul


THE BEAM WILL BE WITH YOU... ALWAYS

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nearly_all_gone
SILVER Member since Aug 2004

nearly_all_gone

Pooh-Bah
Location: Southampton

Total posts: 1626
Posted:You should be a friend and leave this girl alone. If they're crazy for each other, then she's not interested in you in that way, only in him.

Just because you like her doesn't mean she likes you, or you should make your friend unhappy.

Sorry man!


What a wonderful miracle if only we could look through each other's eyes for an instant.
Thoreau

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The Real Fryed Fish


God's illgitament son
Location: state of confusion

Total posts: 1489
Posted:i have to agree with gone on this one........its a sticky situation if you start messing with other peoples relationships, esspecialy your friend's..........trust us on this one........just need to find someone else bro......

You can't avoid pain by fencing yourself from it.
Some times you need the help of others more than anything else
But you have to let them close enough to help......
People want to be needed, I found that out too

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Flame Boy
GOLD Member since Jul 2004

Flame Boy

veteran
Location: Out

Total posts: 1508
Posted:ditto

Tough break man [insert sympathetic gremlin]

Even if she does start to like you rather than your mate, you should respect your mate and leave it alone (unless of course he says it's fine)


AAARRRGGGHHH!!! My giant stick broke!!! In two!!! My stick broke in two!!! ubbcrying

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TheBovrilMonkey
SILVER Member since Sep 2001

TheBovrilMonkey

Liquid Cow
Location: High Wycombe, England

Total posts: 2629
Posted:Written by: Polifecio

they sey they are crazy for each other



That's about the only bit you need to think about - if he's a friend, you don't want to be getting in the way of that.


But there's no sense crying over every mistake. You just keep on trying till you run out of cake.

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spacey
SILVER Member since Feb 2005

spacey

mischeivious pixie
Location: Sydney

Total posts: 291
Posted:friends are here for ever and lovers come and go....nobody is worth ruining a friendship over

"I dont want no fatty bumbum, i want a lean mean shagging machine" anon

"I'm sweet and wholesome with a little bit of filth thrown in"

What would you do if you knew you could not fail?

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Polifecio


member
Location: Mexico

Total posts: 27
Posted:Hey thanks to all of you for that poin of view

THE BEAM WILL BE WITH YOU... ALWAYS

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Dragon7
GOLD Member since Oct 2003

Dragon7

addict
Location: Aotearoa (NZ)

Total posts: 625
Posted:G's up, Ho's down.

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Adya Miriyana
GOLD Member since Feb 2005

Adya Miriyana

*slou?
Location: Adelaide

Total posts: 6554
Posted:everything comes and goes, marked by lovers and styles of clothes - Joni Mitchell

[agrees with spacey].

friendships can last forever if you want them to. hug


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Valura
SILVER Member since Apr 2002

Valura

Mumma Hen
Location: Brisbane, Australia

Total posts: 6391
Posted:Written by:
G's up, Ho's down.



that is such a horrible way to put it... maybe "no muff before mates?" LOL


TAJ "boat mummy." VALURA "yes sweetie you went on a boat, was daddy there with you?" TAJ "no, but monkey on boat" VALURA "well then sweetie, Daddy WAS there with you"

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Bretch


Bretch

enthusiast
Location: Cork, Ireland at present

Total posts: 247
Posted:Or mates before muff!!!

Leave it well alone I'd say, and if she did fall for ya after while, you need your mates permission or you'll be jimmy no mates!!!!


I used to be indecisive, but I'm not so sure now.....

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myco
BRONZE Member since Mar 2017

myco


Location: melbourne, victoria, australia

Total posts: 2084
Posted:general agreeance with all above posts. try to avoid her if you can, otherwise you might be tempted to say/do something outside the realms of mateship.

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My hairs on fire


My hairs on fire

If its got pistons or boobs, its gonna be expensive...
Location: Cyprus

Total posts: 515
Posted:Leave her dude.
Im in a similar situation an if i returend ''home'' to see one of my buddies hooked up with my ex then ide be destroyed.
Show some respect for the both of em...


Henry Hill - 'One day the kids from the neighbourhood carried my mothers groceries all the way home, you know why? It was out of respect'...

ahmet_20valve_ahmet(at)hotmail(dot)com
Hope all is well : )

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vanize
SILVER Member since Aug 2001

vanize

Carpal \'Tunnel
Location: Austin, Texas

Total posts: 3899
Posted:Written by: Valura


"no muff before mates?"





sounds like you aren't allowed to have oral sex before intercourse to me... confused



as for the orginal topic - I've been in your shoes, and the best thing to do is to take a pass on it. perchance there will be a better opportunity with her in the future when you friend isn't dating her any longer, but no reason to bollox up everything right now in the name of a little lust. just be sure to be a gentleman about it.


-v-

Wiederstand ist Zwecklos!

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PyroWill
GOLD Member since Aug 2004

PyroWill

HoP's Barman. Trapped aged 6 months
Location: Staines

Total posts: 4437
Posted:I'm with everyone really, you should leave it mate, i know its hard, but doing the other will only cause more pain

An eye for an eye only ends up making the whole world blind

Give a man a fish and he'll eat 4 a day hit a man with a brick and you can have all his fish and his wife

"Will's to pretty for prison" - Simian

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Valura
SILVER Member since Apr 2002

Valura

Mumma Hen
Location: Brisbane, Australia

Total posts: 6391
Posted:Written by: vanize

Written by: Valura

"no muff before mates?"



sounds like you aren't allowed to have oral sex before intercourse to me... confused
.



it just means no sex coming between friends.


TAJ "boat mummy." VALURA "yes sweetie you went on a boat, was daddy there with you?" TAJ "no, but monkey on boat" VALURA "well then sweetie, Daddy WAS there with you"

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Skulduggery
GOLD Member since Aug 2004

Skulduggery

Pirate Pixie Crew Captain
Location: Wales

Total posts: 8428
Posted:Written by: Valura

"no muff before mates?"



In the UK we have a brand of Condoms called 'Mates' so I'd say this is perfect advice. Safe sex!

On the question of do you hit on a friends partner, the answer is always NO!


Feed me Chocolate!!! Feed me NOW!

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