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Location: Mexico
The thing is:
I have this friend that lives in LA and the las time he came to Mexico city he was dating a girl that I haven't seen in along time. But just wen he went back to LA I started to fall for this girl and she drives me crazy. What do you think I sould do, they sey they are crazy for each other but he lives far away, and I want that girl
.Thank for helping me
Paul
THE BEAM WILL BE WITH YOU... ALWAYS
Pooh-Bah
1,626 posts
Location: Southampton, United Kingdom
You should be a friend and leave this girl alone. If they're crazy for each other, then she's not interested in you in that way, only in him.
Just because you like her doesn't mean she likes you, or you should make your friend unhappy.
Sorry man!
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Thoreau
1,489 posts
Location: state of confusion
i have to agree with gone on this one........its a sticky situation if you start messing with other peoples relationships, esspecialy your friend's..........trust us on this one........just need to find someone else bro......
You can't avoid pain by fencing yourself from it.
Some times you need the help of others more than anything else
But you have to let them close enough to help......
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veteran
1,508 posts
Location: Out, United Kingdom
Tough break man [insert sympathetic gremlin]
Even if she does start to like you rather than your mate, you should respect your mate and leave it alone (unless of course he says it's fine)
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Liquid Cow
2,629 posts
Location: High Wycombe, England
Written by: Polifecio
they sey they are crazy for each other
That's about the only bit you need to think about - if he's a friend, you don't want to be getting in the way of that.
But there's no sense crying over every mistake. You just keep on trying till you run out of cake.
mischeivious pixie
291 posts
Location: Sydney, Australia
friends are here for ever and lovers come and go....nobody is worth ruining a friendship over
"I dont want no fatty bumbum, i want a lean mean shagging machine" anon
"I'm sweet and wholesome with a little bit of filth thrown in"
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27 posts
Location: Mexico
Hey thanks to all of you for that poin of view
THE BEAM WILL BE WITH YOU... ALWAYS
addict
625 posts
Location: Aotearoa (NZ), New Zealand
G's up, Ho's down.
*slou?
6,554 posts
Location: Adelaide, Australia
everything comes and goes, marked by lovers and styles of clothes - Joni Mitchell
[agrees with spacey].
friendships can last forever if you want them to.
Mumma Hen
6,391 posts
Location: Brisbane, Australia
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G's up, Ho's down.
that is such a horrible way to put it... maybe "no muff before mates?" LOL
TAJ "boat mummy." VALURA "yes sweetie you went on a boat, was daddy there with you?" TAJ "no, but monkey on boat" VALURA "well then sweetie, Daddy WAS there with you"
247 posts
Location: Cork, Ireland at present
Or mates before muff!!!
Leave it well alone I'd say, and if she did fall for ya after while, you need your mates permission or you'll be jimmy no mates!!!!
I used to be indecisive, but I'm not so sure now.....
Pooh-Bah
2,084 posts
Location: melbourne, victoria, australia
general agreeance with all above posts. try to avoid her if you can, otherwise you might be tempted to say/do something outside the realms of mateship.
515 posts
Location: Cyprus
Leave her dude.
Im in a similar situation an if i returend ''home'' to see one of my buddies hooked up with my ex then ide be destroyed.
Show some respect for the both of em...
Henry Hill - 'One day the kids from the neighbourhood carried my mothers groceries all the way home, you know why? It was out of respect'...
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Carpal \'Tunnel
3,899 posts
Location: Austin, Texas, USA
Written by: Valura
"no muff before mates?"
sounds like you aren't allowed to have oral sex before intercourse to me...
as for the orginal topic - I've been in your shoes, and the best thing to do is to take a pass on it. perchance there will be a better opportunity with her in the future when you friend isn't dating her any longer, but no reason to bollox up everything right now in the name of a little lust. just be sure to be a gentleman about it.
-v-
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HoP's Barman. Trapped aged 6 months
4,437 posts
Location: Staines, United Kingdom
I'm with everyone really, you should leave it mate, i know its hard, but doing the other will only cause more pain
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Mumma Hen
6,391 posts
Location: Brisbane, Australia
Written by: vanizeWritten by: Valura
"no muff before mates?"
sounds like you aren't allowed to have oral sex before intercourse to me...
.
it just means no sex coming between friends.
TAJ "boat mummy." VALURA "yes sweetie you went on a boat, was daddy there with you?" TAJ "no, but monkey on boat" VALURA "well then sweetie, Daddy WAS there with you"
Pirate Pixie Crew Captain
8,428 posts
Location: Wales
Written by: Valura
"no muff before mates?"
In the UK we have a brand of Condoms called 'Mates' so I'd say this is perfect advice. Safe sex!
On the question of do you hit on a friends partner, the answer is always NO!
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