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teejay_blue


teejay_blue

mikes bitch
Location: manchester/northampton/where t...

Total posts: 387
Posted:and then decides to get high in the office [apart from join him...hehe]

never got on with my boss, AT ALL!! until today, his girlfriend just left him n hes heartbroken, bless his cotton feet.

but how the hell do i deal with the fact he is [censored] up majorly in the office coz his heads elsewhere. i tried suggestin he goes home to rest but he sez he dont wanna be in the house on his own.

he keeps crying alot as well... its weirding me out!! confused

wot shud i doooooo!!!!


Those who danced were thought to be quite insane by those who could not hear the music - angela monet.

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vanize
SILVER Member since Aug 2001

vanize

Carpal \'Tunnel
Location: Austin, Texas

Total posts: 3899
Posted:take him out for a beer!

-v-

Wiederstand ist Zwecklos!

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nearly_all_gone
SILVER Member since Aug 2004

nearly_all_gone

Pooh-Bah
Location: Southampton

Total posts: 1626
Posted:Yeah, Van's right.. you should just be as much of a mate to him as you feel comfortable with. And just try to help him see there's life outside of his problems. Hope it's not put you in too tough a situation! hug

What a wonderful miracle if only we could look through each other's eyes for an instant.
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The Real Fryed Fish


God's illgitament son
Location: state of confusion

Total posts: 1489
Posted:i'd have to agree with van as well, just take him out, let him get it off his mind........and hey you may make a new friend

You can't avoid pain by fencing yourself from it.
Some times you need the help of others more than anything else
But you have to let them close enough to help......
People want to be needed, I found that out too

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Orbit
SILVER Member since Dec 2003

Orbit

enthusiast


Total posts: 270
Posted:I say give him some space but let him vent to you if he wants to. Any friendliness that you get from him may back-fire on you later. If, for instance, he confides in you and cries on your shoulder... he may later look back on the episode with some shame and decide to take it out on you. Be friendly and available, but don't try to coerce him to do more than he's comfortable doing on his own initiative.

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Eera
BRONZE Member since May 2003

old hand
Location: In a test pit, Mackay

Total posts: 1107
Posted:Personally I'd want to everything to continue around me normally without anyone making a fuss, but everyone's different.

Ask if he's OK once in a while but leave it at that unless there's some other indication that he wants to talk about it. If you normally wouldn't consider going out with him then think twice about doing it now; it sounds like he's trying to get on with a normal routine, give him the space to do so.


There is a slight possibility that I am not actually right all of the time.

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teejay_blue


teejay_blue

mikes bitch
Location: manchester/northampton/where t...

Total posts: 387
Posted:thanx guys, appreciate it the advice xx kiss

Those who danced were thought to be quite insane by those who could not hear the music - angela monet.

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PK_
BRONZE Member since Dec 2001

PK_

Lambretta Fanatic


Total posts: 4991
Posted:some times guys need to cry, i cry... some times a little too much and things like chicks doing a runner on you can make you emotional like that.

give him a hug, buy him a beer and talk!.


PK.

"To be an angel, one need not have wings.
In giving love there is an equal grace.
Nor need one seek the aura in the face,
As love unveils the beauty of all things."

*Francois Couperin.

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teejay_blue


teejay_blue

mikes bitch
Location: manchester/northampton/where t...

Total posts: 387
Posted:well, i took ur advice guys, took him out n got hammered. he dosnt feel any better coz his bird hasnt cum bk to him but i think he feels a little less alone. cheers again ppl.


awww all u lovely HoPers...

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Those who danced were thought to be quite insane by those who could not hear the music - angela monet.

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Mr Majestik
SILVER Member since Mar 2004

Mr Majestik

coming to a country near you
Location: home of the tiney toothy bear

Total posts: 4693
Posted:ask for a pay rise, if you dont mind the possiblity of being fired cause you pissed him off.

"but have you considered there is more to life than your eyelids?"

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