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Login/Join to Participateveteran
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Is getting wed a wonderful show of affection or just a waste of time?
plaese, your thoughts........
veteran
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Location: United Kingdom
I can do everything else no prob. just the thought of falling and squashing my son puts me off.
Macaque of all trades
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Strugz behave. No worries about curtains my dear. I'm pretty tall and LOVE heights.
A couple of balls short of a full cascade... or maybe a few cards short of a deck... we'll see how this all fans out.
veteran
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sorted. I'll have to pay you in chippings and bark. thats all ill have. ill build u a cabbin next door instead.
Macaque of all trades
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nice. I thankee (chippings perfect for my animals) A couple of balls short of a full cascade... or maybe a few cards short of a deck... we'll see how this all fans out.
veteran
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hop ru feeling a bit better now hun. See i can be entertaining and stuff
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Macaque of all trades
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*nods* yup. you can A couple of balls short of a full cascade... or maybe a few cards short of a deck... we'll see how this all fans out.
veteran
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Location: United Kingdom
awwwww see, your not a nasty person or bitter. If you were I wouldn't talk to you
just lost .... evil init
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Location: Adelaide, Australia
Hmm well I think marriage would be the best idea if I could marry myself!!!!!
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hahahahaha.....geez ive missed you Ben! xxx
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veteran
1,588 posts
Location: United Kingdom
Right then, apparently I always got to spoil things for everyone else. Question for my sister........
Is this true?
If anyone should know, it's family right?
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hey hon it'll all work out i'm sure.
hope things don't go too badly when you get round to telling him i know its gonna be difficult but by the sound of things you'd be mad to marry anyone like that.
you'd be mad to get married at all but thats just my cynical side showing through.
hope you're coping ok
form me and 
i'm sure everyone else will agree you probaly need one of these too finland finland finland
the country where i want to be
pony trekking or camping
or just watching tv
veteran
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Location: United Kingdom
awwwww thanx hun
I'm know I don't spoil things purpously. It's like when I make HIM upset. Dom't know what's goin on till it's too late. To be honest I think it's just another one of his ways of keeping me down when I try to get up. 889 posts
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its not your fault he looses his temper obviously everyone does at some points in time but most people controll they're rage.
it would be enough to get anyone down that they're partner acts that way.
and honestly if he's gonna do that everytime you do something that causes him a bit of a problem its not really the kind of environment you want your son growing up in.
kids learn from people close to them and it could work either way but you don't want him growing up thinking its ok to go off on one and throw a tantrum just cos things aren't going his way.
keep your chin up and stay smiling
finland finland finland
the country where i want to be
pony trekking or camping
or just watching tv
Macaque of all trades
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you'd be mad to get married at all but thats just my cynical side showing through.
I don't believe you.
didn't we talk about this yesterday? (not us you plumb screech, but about the actual process)Quote me (talking about hypothetical scenario)
"but honey If i save on the divorce we can spend it on the wedding"
A couple of balls short of a full cascade... or maybe a few cards short of a deck... we'll see how this all fans out.
veteran
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tee hee hee. BUSTED
Macaque of all trades
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Too right.
I wouldn't mind getting married....in about 30 years when I can afford to.Weeping grand-children in embarrassing blue page-boy suits.
then get outragously drunk and embarrass any kids I have
then take my 19 year old wife away for a bit of consumating
A couple of balls short of a full cascade... or maybe a few cards short of a deck... we'll see how this all fans out.
veteran
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Location: United Kingdom
EW, So u gonna be rich and have a very bad cough too. The only way a 19yr old's gonna marry a, hold on, (Maths ain't my strong point) 57yr old.
Macaque of all trades
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not rich...powerful
I will show her my massive.......influence.
and cough, i wish honey, I'm falling apart at the seams now I won't see 60.
A couple of balls short of a full cascade... or maybe a few cards short of a deck... we'll see how this all fans out.
veteran
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when I told my other half I would prefere to stay engaged and not bother getting married (Few months ago) he started going nuts and making accusations and stuff. I am NEVER gonna make the mistake of saying "ok then, sorry" to save an argument again.
Macaque of all trades
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doesn't sound a wise course of action. look out for yourself.
A couple of balls short of a full cascade... or maybe a few cards short of a deck... we'll see how this all fans out.
veteran
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Location: United Kingdom
I have to. I don't expect anyone else to. My fault I got in this mess and I have to get myself out sharpish
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i said i was a hopless romantic at heart and loved the idea but being realistic to get married in todays society you'd have to be barmy
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I don't believe you.
and you agreed i believe you said not to tell anyone you were a hopless romantic cos you had your rep to think about
ooops sorry dude
finland finland finland
the country where i want to be
pony trekking or camping
or just watching tv
Macaque of all trades
8,738 posts
Location: wombling free..., United Kingdom
yeah well, I never told you how bad my rep was..
marriage isn't a word.....it's a sentance.
A couple of balls short of a full cascade... or maybe a few cards short of a deck... we'll see how this all fans out.
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a life sentence
some people get less for murder
finland finland finland
the country where i want to be
pony trekking or camping
or just watching tv
veteran
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Location: United Kingdom
I'm gonna murder someone if they keep p*****g me off! (Nobody from HoP so don't worry
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If i new that i was treating u so baddly then i would have stopped honestly why would i want to hurt u on perpose i love u.
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Ive read all this i know im new but have u spoken to him i know leysh if he understands then he will sort it but anyway there are 2 sides to a story yes coz he talks to me every chance he gets
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dont kid anyone pretending to be his friend when i know it is you. its not gonna go down well with the management. these things never do.
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Are you up for it??
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LilMissSmartyPants : I hate to say it but alot of what I have read in this thread is like myself & my ex about 4 years ago, ;bout 6 months before he started hitiing me. Think back to why you fell for him, if he still makes you feel that way without you feeling bad you might have a slight chance, hang on, who am I kidding, no matter how much you fall for his sweet charms he's a pratt! Take your son out of there & get on with your life. I realise I don't know you or him from a bar of soap but 4 engagement rings?? as said previously, you can do much better that that.
& good luck with whatever you do. Are you up for it?;)
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