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Login/Join to ParticipateZebberdy and Jack Daniels
278 posts
Location: Swansea, south wales
Why am I even in this college course? I'm stuck in a room, with a guy that threatens to beat his girlfriend(according to him he has 8 girlfriends) and refers to women as less then objects. At this very moment his lasts words were "She was begging for it". It's disgusting. Most of the other people in this class won't even pass the course, yet they turn up. Every single day I gotta listen to idiots. Dewi(the guy that threatens his girlfriend) constantly asks the girls in my class if they turn up late "Having a rub?". It's bloody disgusting. I've tried talking to the tutors but they've done nothing about it. Because the girls don't take offence to it they don't see problem with it.
The only reason i'm scared of little kid's is because I know in ten year's time they'll be mugging me.....
7,193 posts
Location: in the trees
this guy sounds like a great excuse for birth control and your tutors sound just as bad. can't you take your complaint to a higher level 
10,530 posts
Location: They seek him here, they seek him there...
Break his legs. He doesn't deserve them.
The existance of flamethrowers says that someone, somewhere, at sometime said "I need to set that thing on fire, but it's too far away."
6,650 posts
Maybe talk to a 6ft3in 250lbs thespian bumper and make her show up in class?This guy is just adolescent and scared to get what he is jearning for at present...
"Ignore it and it will go away".... is another approach
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Insert Champagne Here
13,215 posts
Location: without class distinction, Australia
Written by: Fine_Rabid_Dog
Break his legs. He doesn't deserve them.
i would think breaking something else would be a more deserving punishment for him. not to mention better for the gene pool.
i would have changed ***** to phallus, and claire to petey Petey
Rougie: but that's what I'm doing here
Arnwyn: what letting me adjust myself in your room?..don't you dare quote that on HoP...
UnNatural Scientist - Currently working on a Breville-legged monkey
757 posts
Location: Bath Uni or Shrewsbury, UK
I say head up the ladder - appeal to a higher power.
Failing that, Swansea's not all that far away from me and I have a few sledgehammers and a couple of hockey masks...
Joking aside, I had to deal with this kind of crap at work - it's not fun. I'm fairly sure that if I'd been a 19 year old girl instead of guy surrounded by 40 year old guys instead of women there could have been a sexual harrasment case. As it was I just had to faze it out, zennnnnnnnn....
To be fair though, it was handed out indescriminately - not just to me.
Wandering off topic - keep heading up the ladder. It might be fun to get hold of a dictaphone and ask him if you can record his lecture (it's important to ask - if you don't then it can be difficult to use it against him, you're not allowed to record people with their knowledge/consent)
Two things may happen.
1] He might refuse. Nevermind.
2] Seeing that he's being recorded he might tone it down.
If neither of these happen you have something to go to the higher power with.
Alternatively write down spefic examples of what he says and date them. If you get away with it, recording would be better.
Good luck
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Zebberdy and Jack Daniels
278 posts
Location: Swansea, south wales
Dewi honestly doesn't think he's doing anything wrong. Earlier in the week he bragged about sleeping with a 14 year old girl (he's 18). I had to leave the classroom, otherwise I wouldn't be on the course right now from swinging at him. Every word that comes out of his mouth makes his ego go up and the pit of my stomach turn. I'll talk to the head of department here, if nothing changes i'll attempt the principle.
The only reason i'm scared of little kid's is because I know in ten year's time they'll be mugging me.....
Clique Infiltrator, Cunning Linguist and Master Debator
4,219 posts
Location: Edinburgh burgh burrrrrr, United Kingdom
my family hails from swansea. my uncle peter has connections with the welsh mob, apparently. Or my mum could pay a visit from ammanford and throw shoes at him (her party trick lol)
Always use "so's your face" and "only on Tuesdays" in as many conversations possible
7,193 posts
Location: in the trees
you could always arrange for this bloke to have an "accident" i'm sure you could find a decent crack fiend you could pay to do things to this bloke also
had her carpal tunnel surgery already thanks v much
4,145 posts
Location: Edinburgh, Scotland (UK)
make a fool out of him in front of everyone? (i.e. arrange for a girl you know to come along and shout at him in front of everyone that if he doesn't get it up tomorrow night he can get lost or something like that)
"vices are like genitals - most are ugly to behold, and yet we find that our own are dear to us."
(G.W. Dahlquist)
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Zebberdy and Jack Daniels
278 posts
Location: Swansea, south wales
He doesn't get embarresed easily. Aparently, a friend of mine who was in the same school of him, said that he was the "Spotty, bad haired unpopular kid" of the school. And now that he's gotten laid once his ego has gone sky high.
The only reason i'm scared of little kid's is because I know in ten year's time they'll be mugging me.....
Insert Champagne Here
13,215 posts
Location: without class distinction, Australia
laid once? i often hear guys like this on the train and my firt reaction is how could ANY girl bring herself to go near them, i mean, really?
i would have changed ***** to phallus, and claire to petey Petey
Rougie: but that's what I'm doing here
Arnwyn: what letting me adjust myself in your room?..don't you dare quote that on HoP...
577 posts
Location: Oregon, USA
Hmm.. I dunno bout the UK, but over here, an 18yo banging a 14yo could call for legal action. Might be worth bringing up to someone in the administration, as a person concerned for the wellbeing of children.
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10,530 posts
Location: They seek him here, they seek him there...
"whoop whoop, its the sound of the police".
That'll learn him, the damn sicko.
The existance of flamethrowers says that someone, somewhere, at sometime said "I need to set that thing on fire, but it's too far away."
sober
109 posts
Location: Bury St. Edmunds, suffolk, United Kingdom
get the feds on his ass, we've all heard what happens to folk like that in jail
*produces sandwich- is happy*
veteran
1,433 posts
Location: 8 days at Cloudbreak, 6 in Perth, Australia
ewwww....paedophile....
the guy needs to be dobbed in to the cops....even if he is just spewing shite from his mouth he needs to learn to reign it in....
and maybe a scare from the local police will be enough to scare him.
Zebberdy and Jack Daniels
278 posts
Location: Swansea, south wales
Written by: Medusa
even if he is just spewing shite from his mouth
It's like diarhea of the mouth:P
The only reason i'm scared of little kid's is because I know in ten year's time they'll be mugging me.....
7,193 posts
Location: in the trees
possibly off topic here........................ but i've just fallen out with someone i called a friend.................... i owe her £130.................... not much i hear you say but today i arranged to meet her to sort some of it out as a mate but in return i got grief BIG time.
1) they know i'm on the dole
2) they know i had to renew my application
3) they knew how skint i've been
so today when i have some money i contact the people i owe ( so called mates) and with all but one i get a good responce. i don't know what to do................ i've asked for bank details as i want nothing to do with this person any more..................6 texts later i'm still waiting and i'm upsett that thing have gotten to this stage
Carpal \'Tunnel
2,666 posts
Location: Preston, United Kingdom
Oh its probably all talk and nothing else. Just pitty him, and know your the better man.
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UnNatural Scientist - Currently working on a Breville-legged monkey
757 posts
Location: Bath Uni or Shrewsbury, UK
Ah. Looks like I got entirely the wrong end of the stick - I was thinking this guy was a lecturer. In which case...
*wanders off to fetch a few heavy objects*
Give me a lever long enough and a place to stand and I can beat the world into submission.
7,193 posts
Location: in the trees
Written by: Brit_Joe
Oh its probably all talk and nothing else. Just pitty him, and know your the better man.
it's a female unfortunatly and i don't want to seem narcacistic (sp??)
1,662 posts
Location: Bristol
Written by: Thumperabbit
I've tried talking to the tutors but they've done nothing about it. Because the girls don't take offence to it they don't see problem with it.
that's no excuse...anyone can be offended by people like this, you don't have to be female to be offended by sexism agains women, you don't have to be black to be offended by racism against black people....you really should take it higher, if nothing else one day this guy is gonna meet someone who will be offended and really upset the,. or he could start believing what he's saying (if you say something for long enough it can happen) and really hit a girl or something equally awful.
you have to stop him!
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7,193 posts
Location: in the trees
or he could meet someone (female) that will kick his ass into next week
i'd pay money to see that lol
3 posts
Location: Hither and Yon
Unfortunately, this moron is not the first of his kind, nor will he be the last. I'd say kick him in the balls and be done with it, but if he needs to talk like that to boost his own ego, he probably doesn't have much in the way of balls to begin with, and you'll just end up hurting your foot. The easiest way to deal with him is to ignore him. If that doesn't sit right with you, call him on his bullshit. I had class with a prick that couldn't mouth closed if it were duct taped shut. He'd be always be talking about who he f***ed that weekend, how everyone that didn't agree with him was an arsewipe, etc, etc. Two years I always had at least one class with him because we're in the same major. Eventually, me and a couple of friends found the easiest way to shut him up was to look him straight in the eye and say "yeah, but no one cares." Then he wouldn't say a thing for the rest of class. Lots of fun, in a sadistic kind of way.
If, in fact, there is truth to his words (beating girlfriends, sleeping with underage girls, &c), he should probably be castrated in his sleep and turned over the proper back county ditch. I leave the exact method of doing so up to you.
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Pooh-Bah
1,848 posts
Location: Adelaide, SA, Australia
1. Tell your lecturers that it doesn't matter that the girls aren't offended, you are offended, both by what he says to the girls and by the crass tales he tells you, and that still very much constitutes sexual haraasment.
2. Report him to the police, sexual intercorse with someone who's not old enough to give consent (under 16 most places i belive) is statutory rape and a ciminal offence. And beating anyone is assult.
EDIT: Failing that, as Ravehead suggested, give him to me and i'll kick his ass into next week. Probably even next month... with stealcap boots... pointy ones.
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Carpal \'Tunnel
2,666 posts
Location: Preston, United Kingdom
Written by: raveheadWritten by: Brit_Joe
Oh its probably all talk and nothing else. Just pitty him, and know your the better man.
it's a female unfortunatly and i don't want to seem narcacistic (sp??)
You mean thumperrabit? His profile says male
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UnNatural Scientist - Currently working on a Breville-legged monkey
757 posts
Location: Bath Uni or Shrewsbury, UK
Written by: Coyote
he should probably be castrated in his sleep
Why spoil the fun?
Give me a lever long enough and a place to stand and I can beat the world into submission.
3 posts
Location: Hither and Yon
Written by: DominoWritten by: Coyote
he should probably be castrated in his sleep
Why spoil the fun?
There's less struggling involved if he's asleep, but forgive me. . . tie him up while he's asleep, wake him up, then castrate him. Better?
The voices may not be real, but they do have some intriguing ideas. . .
The essential thing in life is not in conquering, but fighting well.
Heroes are those that can rise to the occasion and slip quietly away.
Zebberdy and Jack Daniels
278 posts
Location: Swansea, south wales
Personaly i'd prefer to cut off his thumb's with a pair of garden sheers. Then his dick.
The only reason i'm scared of little kid's is because I know in ten year's time they'll be mugging me.....
UnNatural Scientist - Currently working on a Breville-legged monkey
757 posts
Location: Bath Uni or Shrewsbury, UK
Written by: Coyote
There's less struggling involved if he's asleep, but forgive me. . . tie him up while he's asleep, wake him up, then castrate him. Better?
Much better. I'll get the elastic bands a la Fight Club
Give me a lever long enough and a place to stand and I can beat the world into submission.
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