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Posted:
How to (un)choose a partner? Why and how...
Tell us: What's in your mind and heart? When perceiving some (potential) partner - male or female - what do you go for?
- aura - smell - looks - speech - talents - money - colour of eyes...
Which channels do you prefer to get in touch?
And what turns you off?
- bad habits - demands - dramas - unfaithfulness - lies - intimacy
And what's your ultimate choice then? Talk it over and maybe salvage the relationship, or simply send an SMS: "your fired, don't come around here anymore"... ? :eeks: 
How to (un)choose a partner? Why and how...
Tell us: What's in your mind and heart? When perceiving some (potential) partner - male or female - what do you go for?
- aura - smell - looks - speech - talents - money - colour of eyes...
Which channels do you prefer to get in touch?
And what turns you off?
- bad habits - demands - dramas - unfaithfulness - lies - intimacy
And what's your ultimate choice then? Talk it over and maybe salvage the relationship, or simply send an SMS: "your fired, don't come around here anymore"... ? :eeks:
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Location: Midlands
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Location: Midlands
Posted:
Stats ... pah. I conform not to your mundane reality with facts and figures and evidence !!!!!
- I wish I didn't anyway.
Whilst I know there's not just "one" person out there for me, I do believe that I'll only ever have time in my lifespan (And geographic wanderings) to meet one of them .... or at least ever know it.
Meh, I'm dreading having to choose should that ever occur - although the girl I'm fretting over, oddly enough, was part of a similar thing - we had a brief thing before, then it went a bit pear-shaped, just as I found someone else she wanted to give it a go. Like an absolute MORON I didn't see what was in front of me and made totally the wrong choice. Long story, suffice to say that's one decision I'd gladly change in my past.
Stats ... pah. I conform not to your mundane reality with facts and figures and evidence !!!!!
- I wish I didn't anyway.Whilst I know there's not just "one" person out there for me, I do believe that I'll only ever have time in my lifespan (And geographic wanderings) to meet one of them .... or at least ever know it.
Meh, I'm dreading having to choose should that ever occur - although the girl I'm fretting over, oddly enough, was part of a similar thing - we had a brief thing before, then it went a bit pear-shaped, just as I found someone else she wanted to give it a go. Like an absolute MORON I didn't see what was in front of me and made totally the wrong choice. Long story, suffice to say that's one decision I'd gladly change in my past.
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"Enemies you threaten make armies. Enemies you destroy make graves."
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Location: Brighton, United Kingdom
Posted:
Wow, this is an old one.
So going back to the origional post and questions posed...
Speaking as someone who origionally posted that she would stay away from relationships and is now getting married, I was defenitly going about thngs in the wrong way.
I wasted a lot of time on people I didn't even like, nevermind love and I was defenitly looking a bit too hard for something I didn't understand in the first place, which put me and any potentials under a lot of unessisary pressure.
It actually did happen when I wasn't looking. It happened quickly and it happened hard but we took things slow and a proper friendship grew. I am not friends with any of my exes, probaly because I didn't particualarly like any of them. If this one were to leave my life for any reason, I know that it would never be as good as it could have with him in it. He brings something to my life, without even trying, like a natural compliment.
Everyone says love is about compramise and takes hard work, but I don't think thats true. Getting along with people is about compramise, but love itself is actually really easy.
I didn't choose him for one reason or another, it just sort of happened, and it was easy and good and fun and it just keeps getting better. We found out we had the same life goals and made each other happy, so why not spend our lives working towards those goals together and having fun along the way.
Wow, this is an old one.
So going back to the origional post and questions posed...
Speaking as someone who origionally posted that she would stay away from relationships and is now getting married, I was defenitly going about thngs in the wrong way.
I wasted a lot of time on people I didn't even like, nevermind love and I was defenitly looking a bit too hard for something I didn't understand in the first place, which put me and any potentials under a lot of unessisary pressure.
It actually did happen when I wasn't looking. It happened quickly and it happened hard but we took things slow and a proper friendship grew. I am not friends with any of my exes, probaly because I didn't particualarly like any of them. If this one were to leave my life for any reason, I know that it would never be as good as it could have with him in it. He brings something to my life, without even trying, like a natural compliment.
Everyone says love is about compramise and takes hard work, but I don't think thats true. Getting along with people is about compramise, but love itself is actually really easy.
I didn't choose him for one reason or another, it just sort of happened, and it was easy and good and fun and it just keeps getting better. We found out we had the same life goals and made each other happy, so why not spend our lives working towards those goals together and having fun along the way.
"I want to know if you can see beauty even when it's not pretty, every day,and if you can source your own life from its presence.." - Oriah Mountain Dreamer
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Location: Scottsdale, AZ, USA
Elusive and Bearded
3,597 posts
Location: Scottsdale, AZ, USA
Posted:
"Ever notice how when yer single, all you see is couples? And when yer part of a couple, all you see is prostitutes?"
"Ever notice how when yer single, all you see is couples? And when yer part of a couple, all you see is prostitutes?"
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KyleG4u
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Location: USA
KyleG4u
68 posts
Location: USA
Posted:
Action is like air, money, food, and water... it's not a big deal unless your not gettin' any HAHA but seriously, it all depends on how your lookin at it, if you are single and it's been a while since your last relationship and you get lonely and want a relationship it's because you forgot why your last relationship ended. And if your taken and you want to be single it might be because you forgot why your last relationship ended... or why you started your current one...
Action is like air, money, food, and water... it's not a big deal unless your not gettin' any HAHA but seriously, it all depends on how your lookin at it, if you are single and it's been a while since your last relationship and you get lonely and want a relationship it's because you forgot why your last relationship ended. And if your taken and you want to be single it might be because you forgot why your last relationship ended... or why you started your current one...
It's like when you can't remember something you get.... short term.... kidney failure, that's gotta be it, something wrong with your kidneys...
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