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Love on the first sight?
All the neurotic makings of America's lesser known sweetheart
9,831 posts
Location: body in Las Vegas, heart all around the world, USA
absolutely
i also believe you can love people you've never met *swoons at flynt* I was always scared with my mother's obsession with the good scissors. It made me wonder if there were evil scissors lurking in the house somewhere.
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Carpal \'Tunnel
4,191 posts
Location: Sihanoukville, cambodia
apples anyone?
Pooh-Bah
2,109 posts
Location: Philadelphia, PA - USA
Nope.
I believe in lust at first sight... And that lust may eventually turn into love over time (even a short amount of time) creating the illusion of love at first sight.... But love definately goes deeper than anything you could see from the outside.
I agree with Pounce though, in that you can love people youve never met.
Let's turn those old bridges we crossed into ashes.
We'll blaze a new trail,
and torch the rough patches.
-Me
4,308 posts
Location: York, England
I dunno tho, because I remember the first time I saw one of my exes... I really really remember it. And it wasn't that I thought he was terribly attractive altho he was certainly cute, as I tend to think people I date are... but there was an indefinable something about him. We broke up, eventually, but it was a great relationship, and there's definetly something that was just *there* from the first moment i saw him, whatever it was....
Example #2: The first time I actually saw a certain best friend of mine
there was just... a connection. Knew I could always trust him, that we'd always be special to each other... we both felt it. And it was directly from first sight... nothing as complex as lust or relationships involved in this one, but love, yes, is involved..... Keep your dream alive
Dreamin is still how the strong survive
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New Hampshire has a point....
37 posts
Location: Tasmania
i belive in it... yet i have never expirienced it... oh well... *sighs and goes werewolf and bites everyone at first sight*
I cry when angels deserve to die.
Pooh-Bah
1,762 posts
Location: York University, United Kingdom
Love, no. Lust yes.
Ditto to ICoN...
After much consideration, I find that the view is worth the asphyxiation.
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7,193 posts
Location: in the trees
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmz i have a quote from a great man..........
"Love is like a friendship caught on fire. In the beginning a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. As love grows older, our hearts mature and our love becomes as coals, deep-burning and unquenchable."
bruce lee
1,803 posts
Location: Wonderland igloo, Vic, Australia
I used to believe in love at first site.
Then i became a bitter and twisted cow, although Flynt still thinks i'm "cute"
I dont anymore, love exists, i wont deny that, but it takes a while for it to be meaniningful.
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Loving you from the deepest part of my loins.
Out! Out! You demons of stupidity!
587 posts
Location: Somewhere, out there..., South Africa
I'm more of a "friends first" girl.
Love at first sight seems romantic, but I dont really think its possible for me. Ive had experiences where Ive met a guy who seemed nice, but the moment I got to know him I was immediately put off.
So... sorry, but I dont believe in love at first sight. Maybe lust at first sight...
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Macaque of all trades
8,738 posts
Location: wombling free..., United Kingdom
I think you can fall in love pretty quickly but on FIRST sight....I dunno.
A couple of balls short of a full cascade... or maybe a few cards short of a deck... we'll see how this all fans out.
comfortably numb
2,676 posts
Location: The countryside, Australia
Do you want me to walk past again Mynci?
*slaps herself for the lameness of the joke*
I'd like to believe it, but I dunno anymore...*sigh* It's a nice thought though
.All things are beautiful if we take the time to look.
fluffy mess
197 posts
Location: Brighton, United Kingdom
Totally belive in love at first sight.Sure it takes a while for the love to gain hold in getting to know someone first (be it over minutes or years), but it can start at a glance.Defenitly.
"I want to know if you can see beauty even when it's not pretty, every day,and if you can source your own life from its presence.." - Oriah Mountain Dreamer
Macaque of all trades
8,738 posts
Location: wombling free..., United Kingdom
thanks steph now SECOND sight...well thats a definate....(even if blinking counts
) now if only we could have love at NO sight then everyone on HoP could get hooked up no probs with their perfect partner. it'd be a love-fest. A couple of balls short of a full cascade... or maybe a few cards short of a deck... we'll see how this all fans out.
1,687 posts
Location: Manchester
i believe
but i think it's more to do with at first meeting - much more important! ah wah wah wah a wah wah
Carpal \'Tunnel
4,191 posts
Location: Sihanoukville, cambodia
sunrise-if you're posting this because that is what you feel you are currently experiencing, then yes i suppose i do,
not neccesarily for myself but if what i've just said is true than for you yes.
good luck,hope it works out for you!x
4,308 posts
Location: York, England
hexagonic may just have it right... sometimes a meeting is short tho....
but its not, like, picture !
and in the second case i gave i had known him before just not met him. the first case it was truly the first time we'd been in each others presence.
Keep your dream alive
Dreamin is still how the strong survive
Shalom VeAhavah
New Hampshire has a point....
Carpal \'Tunnel
3,384 posts
Location: mancunian, United Kingdom
Written by: Kyrian
Example #2: The first time I actually saw a certain best friend of mine
i agree, when i first met jen (teejay_blue) who actually was the one who introduced me to hop etc, we clicked, she is an amazing friend and i love her to bits, but we hardly ever get to see each other cause shes working away but i can say i honestly trust her with my life, she is an amazing girl who deserves the best
but when it comes to love at first sight i agree with the whole lust love connection in a way. ive not yet met a *click* with a guy
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Redneck Woman
566 posts
Location: Texas, Yeeeeehaaaaaw, USA
i just dont believe in love.
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446 posts
Location: Sunny South Africa
Lust, yes and love maybe, I mean, people have experiences when they look at someone and dont feel particularly attracted to that person, yet they still care for them more than they would normally.
Do what you want coz a pirate is free,
You are a pirate!
Yo ho fiddle dee dee, being a pirate is alright to be,
Do what you want coz a pirate is free,
You are a pirate!
10,530 posts
Location: They seek him here, they seek him there...
To be honest, I can't comment.
No idea. Weird...
The existance of flamethrowers says that someone, somewhere, at sometime said "I need to set that thing on fire, but it's too far away."
Carpal \'Tunnel
3,750 posts
Location: Europe,Scotland,Both
lol,
I totally believe, I always fall in love at first site, otherwise it aint love, lol
then, I do fall in love about 20 times a day (maybe more in hot countries)
T
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-><- Kallisti
181 posts
Location: Derbyshire
Yeh i believe in love at first site. But some of you are talking about Lust, thats one of the seven deadly sins, right? Surely thats a bad thing, to lust for someone, isnt lusting when u are only thinking of ur own personal sexual needs for that person and only that is what is in your head is to basically shag him/her. But its not like 'ahh shes hot i'd shag her' its like a obsession. Am i right there? Is that what lust is? Please correct me if im wrong i alwasy thought thats what lust meant.
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Pasta of Muppets
2,722 posts
Location: in the interwebs..., United Kingdom
^ Yes your right, but IMHO lust is only a "sin" if it causes you to harm people as a result. Lusting after someone is simply a realisation of your willingnees to have sex with them... i.e. theyre hot... Lust may turn to love if you like the personality of the other person.
Do I believe in love at first sight? Yes. You may fancy them straight away, but that feeling blossoms when you've been taking to them for 15 mins, and you could quite happily talk to them all day, without wanting to get inm their pants, so to speak.
Do I believe it's possible for me? No. I truly don't believe at the moment that I am in a place for this kind of thing to happen, physically and mentally (Any HoPper who has met me will testify that I am not the best looking chap in the bunch, in comparison, and that i'm also quite, quite odd)
However, one day I have faith that things will work out, and I'll be more of the kind of person someone falls in love with. The pills help
So, best of luck. Love comes from within, as much as it comes from without.
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