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dromepixieveteran
1,463 posts
Location: Florida


Posted:
I haven't been around the site too much recently due to personal issues in my life.

Lately I have signed on and I seriously wonder why so many unnessesary and superficial posts are online here.
I wonder...
Have we lost the point and got into some sort of routine where we use the site to vent bullshit?

I dont think that is the point! Every time I sign on I just dont feel the need to post as most of the threads are a waste of the precious time I can spend here; people arguing their personal vendetas to others in a thread that has absolutely nothing to do with what was posted in the first place, 'preference threads', etc...
I am sure some threads of nonsense are really cool for those at work to have a good time but why so many?

Now before anyone starts going off at me I would like to point out that this is not directed at any individual but at the site in general.

Have we all become superficial in our posts?
Is there a way to make HOP a more stimulating environment like the one I knew when I signed up or is it our policy to rant on about ramdom shit?

Much love, drome

JUGGLEwithyourmind!


CantusSILVER Member
Tantamount to fatuity
15,967 posts
Location: Down the road, United Kingdom


Posted:
you told me to page you when . . .

Meh


Raymund Phule (Fireproof)Enter a "Title" here:
2,905 posts
Location: San Diego California


Posted:
you took me rather too seriusly

Some Jarhead last night: "this dumb a$$ thinks hes fireproof"


FireMikeZLaguna dude
1,438 posts
Location: Laguna, California, US


Posted:
but he's at 4316, and i was gonna page you with that number, Ray, to share the special moment. . .

molten cheers,

~ FireMike

FireMikeZ@yahoo.com (personal messages welcome, no promo spam, please!)
Laguna, California, US


FireMikeZLaguna dude
1,438 posts
Location: Laguna, California, US


Posted:
(* sigh *) ^ bolded a key note on my on-topic post above, so y'all know who i mean by "you."

ok, y'all page me when you like:

616.655.5213

molten cheers,

~ FireMike

FireMikeZ@yahoo.com (personal messages welcome, no promo spam, please!)
Laguna, California, US


Raymund Phule (Fireproof)Enter a "Title" here:
2,905 posts
Location: San Diego California


Posted:
Mike I dont know if youve lost it or found it and frankly I am a bit scared of both!!

Some Jarhead last night: "this dumb a$$ thinks hes fireproof"


MikeGinnyGOLD Member
HOP Mad Doctor
13,925 posts
Location: San Francisco, CA, USA


Posted:
Wait a sec...

Me: Member #297. Posts: 993.

Ray: Member #over a thousand. Posts: over a thousand.

Something's not right here. I have to get cracking on my posts!

-Mike

Certified Mad Doctor and HoP High Priest of Nutella



A buckuht n a hooze! -Valura


FireMikeZLaguna dude
1,438 posts
Location: Laguna, California, US


Posted:
damn, Mad Doctor, is that the competition peeps complain about in this thread, or the luverly zaniness we all luv 2?

(* ha! * grin *) have a post 666

of course

molten cheers,

~ FireMike

FireMikeZ@yahoo.com (personal messages welcome, no promo spam, please!)
Laguna, California, US


flash fireBRONZE Member
Sporadically Prodigal
2,758 posts
Location: Sydney, NSW, Australia


Posted:
I find it amusing in a fatal-car-crash kinda way that even the very thread that brings up the issues of one-on-one chats and injokes is infected with the very same.

apparently nothing is sacred anymore.

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Raymund Phule (Fireproof)Enter a "Title" here:
2,905 posts
Location: San Diego California


Posted:
Look some live on this site, like me. I enjoy posting and talking and putting my two cents in. Thats me you cant change that so why try.

I am not out to make anyone feel bad, and I know this will sound harsh, but if your offended by someone elses post count or how many times they relpy to your topic then thats your problem. Take it up with them, if your upset about this post PM me. Dont complain and ruin peoples fun. You need to stop throwing the pitty party and suck it up grow some thicker skin. Nobody is out to make you feel bad but dont try to bring us down for your own self gratification.

Some Jarhead last night: "this dumb a$$ thinks hes fireproof"


flash fireBRONZE Member
Sporadically Prodigal
2,758 posts
Location: Sydney, NSW, Australia


Posted:
*removes moderator cap*

Excuse me? Are you talking to me Ray? *laughs*

Don't even presume for a second that measly pissing contests regarding how many posts you've managed to create, or anything even remotely similar to that offends me, or makes me feel like less of a woman! bwahaha! I'm astounded.

I'm merely commenting on the fact that some of you guys seem not to understand the concept of self control when posting or display any general respect to some threads, and those who have taken the time and energy to contribute to it in a relevant way.

Do we need to start an "Official I'm Better At Wasting My Time Because I Have Posted More Than You" thread?

I appreciate your ability to make coffee come out of my nose so early in my work day. Thanks Ray

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Raymund Phule (Fireproof)Enter a "Title" here:
2,905 posts
Location: San Diego California


Posted:
Actually if I was talking to you, knowing me, I would have said Flash Fire somewhere in there. So since I didnt, I am sure that it was generalised. Meaning if it doesnt apply to you ignore it. Though since you think it was directed to you, maybe you do have a problem with any of the above mentioned items.

Few do post out of spite, and my previus post was definatly not out of spite, it was just an observation.

So dont flatter yourself by thinking everything is about you.

Some Jarhead last night: "this dumb a$$ thinks hes fireproof"


NYCNYC
9,232 posts
Location: NYC, NY, USA


Posted:
LLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLET'S GET READY TO RUMMMMMMMMMMMMMMBLLLLLLE!

[BOM BOM BOM DEEDEE DEEDEE, BOM BOM BOM DEEDEE DEEDEE...]

Ray, I must say due to the proximity of the posts and immidiate, seemingly related topic I certainly thought you were talking to Flash as well. These "general statements" are vague and can be hurtful. There have been about a billion "general statements" which could or could not relate to me in the last week and I find them worse than having people make it personal.

It'd be silly for me to post just "Shutup A$$HOLE" and then reply that if you read it and think it applies to you then it's your fault. (Just an example! I don't think you should shut up, nor do I think anyone is an A$$hole!)

[I honestly read my post four times to make sure that it had no personal attacks, just opinions which may differ from other's opinions. Heck, I think my post may be sarcasm free as well. Oh no wait, the Michael Buffer reference was a bit sarcastic... whew, I thought I was loosing it. ***Please note the author has no desire to rumble, nor does he feel the urge to get ready to rumble... any and all reference to rumbling is purely for artistic purposes*** ]

Well, shall we go?
Yes, let's go.
[They do not move.]


Raymund Phule (Fireproof)Enter a "Title" here:
2,905 posts
Location: San Diego California


Posted:
Well, I know and understand and even thought of your point. I can see how you or anyone would think that I was replying directly to Flash's post. In a way I was but it was not directed to Flash as a person.

However I lack you profesionalisim when it comes to my posts. Must just be the teacher in you

Hell I slept through Sr. English so there were my student convictions hehe

Some Jarhead last night: "this dumb a$$ thinks hes fireproof"


flash fireBRONZE Member
Sporadically Prodigal
2,758 posts
Location: Sydney, NSW, Australia


Posted:
Thanks NYC - I was gonna say that to Ray also re: proximity to my post (I'm not an idiot and have a lot of experience with people trying to back-out after giving me crap), but feel zero inclination to get into a slinging match with him, or anyone for that matter.

After all, I would have been breaking my own requests re: one-on-one's!!


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CantusSILVER Member
Tantamount to fatuity
15,967 posts
Location: Down the road, United Kingdom


Posted:
Is it my imagination or is everyone talking at completely cross purposes?

Ray who were you talking to?

Flash, does that mean you don't want the crap I got you for christmas?

Can someone point me in the direction of the topic please? Cos I really dont have a clue what it is anymore.

Meh


NYCNYC
9,232 posts
Location: NYC, NY, USA


Posted:
Cantus, I think they got it ironed out. No need to continue.

As for the point of this thread, I think it got diluted and henseforth my suicidal attempt at reconsiliation via my Dirty Laundry thread.

Though this thread still would be decent for points that don't quite fit within the context of my facistly outlined thread...

Well, shall we go?
Yes, let's go.
[They do not move.]


tiamat_22580I will kill all mods
210 posts
Location: mods suck


Posted:
bla

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NYCNYC
9,232 posts
Location: NYC, NY, USA


Posted:
[ignore]

jaidendawn, what does Ringo have to do with the point? Is there a version with him in it? The old skool one that I know doesn't...

Well, shall we go?
Yes, let's go.
[They do not move.]


Raymund Phule (Fireproof)Enter a "Title" here:
2,905 posts
Location: San Diego California


Posted:
C@ntus if I knew who I was talking to I would have either adressed them by name or PMed em. However those that wish to remain hidden are hard to unhide. Hence the generalisations

Some Jarhead last night: "this dumb a$$ thinks hes fireproof"


NYCNYC
9,232 posts
Location: NYC, NY, USA


Posted:
jaiden, nevermind... I answered my own question.

Didn't know that ringo did a version too... Checkin' out ebay and found a few.

Cool.

Well, shall we go?
Yes, let's go.
[They do not move.]


FireMikeZLaguna dude
1,438 posts
Location: Laguna, California, US


Posted:
damn diluted.

flash fire, after some of us said everything is sacred, . . . ah!

but the number play & head-butting of some who just like those for the heck of it, it means their flippery is sacred too. in a different key.

(between you & i, wtf do post numbers matter? heck! good posts, filler posts, or garbage?)

molten cheers,

~ FireMike

FireMikeZ@yahoo.com (personal messages welcome, no promo spam, please!)
Laguna, California, US


caniffisSILVER Member
member
60 posts
Location: the world at large (mainly UK)


Posted:
it is simple to stop the sill posts. don't answer or rise to them! it is not the post that is at fault merly the people who reply to them and so give license to there profication! if you don't reply then they will stop appearing. what has happened is that peopel have replied to posts and then they have been replied back to, so people reading see this as acceptable and so other people post, and each time the level of nonsese increases until we reach the stage we are at!
to stop it we must stop feeding it, its that simple!!

What you don't know won't hurt you? well i intend to get to know as much as possible so that i can make sure no one else has to so they carn't get hurt.


_Stix_Pooh-Bah
2,419 posts
Location: la-la land


Posted:
Saw a message way back about intimidating newbies.. well I've been registered for a while and I still feel intimidated about posting.. The reason I feel intimidated is that I feel there are a couple of 'cliques' and if you ain't in one of them.. well I say no more.

On the few post that I have made recently I have been accused of hassling people (when only one post was placed) all in all the conflict was resolved by 'misunderstandings on both sides' but I didn't feel it fair to be accused of that when I was just using the boards for what I thought they were for - not trying to be on anyones side - just wanting to be equal.. there rant over.

Peace and fluff n stuff

Stix

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I honour you as an aspect of myself..

You are never to old to storm a bouncey castle..


FireMikeZLaguna dude
1,438 posts
Location: Laguna, California, US


Posted:
Stix, your whole post is excellent, being real from who you are, honest about what you feel & see.

quote:
Originally posted by Stix:
Saw a message way back about intimidating newbies.. [. . .]I feel there are a couple of 'cliques' and if you ain't in one of them.. well I say no more.

[. . .]Peace and fluff n stuff

Stix, please DO say more, please post in this serious thread where, mods & others included, those concerned about what you raise would greatly benefit from your words:

The definitive DIRTY LAUNDRY thread...

don't be put off by the unsavory-sounding title, it's started by NYC who lives out of dignity.

at the least, please copy this post of yours (above) into that thread, or let me know if you'd like me to do it for your convenience. . . it's easy, just cut & past a whole thread. from your post's thoughtful effectiveness, i imagine you know you can do that, already.

thanks again, and hope to see your contribution shaping Home of Poi's future, as a fellow pyro famliy member.

~ Mike

molten cheers,

~ FireMike

FireMikeZ@yahoo.com (personal messages welcome, no promo spam, please!)
Laguna, California, US


Bender_the_OffenderGOLD Member
still can't believe it's not butter
6,978 posts
Location: Melbourne, Australia


Posted:
:head throbs:
that was one of the longest 3 pages i've read yet..
as they say, you can lead a llama to a silly post, but you can't make it chew sideways.

Laugh Often, Smile Much, Post lolcats Always


NYCNYC
9,232 posts
Location: NYC, NY, USA


Posted:
It sounded like Smallboy had sentiments to the extent of "Have we lost the point?" but I'd like to respond to them here...

quote:
As much as I didn't want to post more than 1000 posts I can't be bothered to log back in as evil twin. And as much as I'll probably get someone jump in and say "that's not topic" I don't care.

Cass - It was made personal right from the start, I felt attacked by most posts (as do a few others) and I accept what's been going on as partly my fault.
I don't really care any more, but I do feel upset by all the hatred that's been flying around just so certain people can feel big and important.

But I think Rozis post was split into 2 bits and I was featured before any questions were asked.

I'm sorry if this sounds depressive, or inadvertantly agressive or whatever but I'm having one of the worst dayz of my life so please bear with me.

I'm going for a bit of a cry, a cigarette and possibly a few beers. If by then this post has created any problems or backlash I'll delete it along with all my other posts, my characters and stuff.

Not sure if there's any easy way to do this in one hit - if any mods could help me out here it'd be appreciated.

Peace guys
Cam


Cam, sorry to hear about your bad day. It's raining in New York so perhaps it will be sunny soon in London.

Since I'm never sure if general statements are aimed at me or not I can only respond to them hypothetically. I don't hate anyone on this site. I don't even dislike anyone on this site. [Unless one of you was that jerk in the blue toyota on the FDR drive this afternoon.] I certainly disagree with some/most/all at times but that's just discourse. I sometimes get bothered by things that are done here and decisions that are made but never would take it so close to heart. As for being big and important, if that was aimed at me, I don't know what my motivation could be. I don't hang out regularly with anyone on here. I have no clique, no chicks to impress, no friends to win. I enjoy logging on and discussing things with people.

I see this "ALL" as a relatively intelligent disagreement.

I know you've been talking about leaving for a while and my sentiments certainly shouldn't sway it one way or the other.

I don't think this place should be restricted to just hugs and love. It's refreshing to see other's points once in a while. BUT it would be nice to do it in the most respectful way. The discussion going on in the Laundry thread is currently a brainstorm of things that prevent it from being respectful. Some amazing points have been made, none by me, that will hopefully grow into a lesson for all of us. But if I'm the only one who learns anything from it all, then all isn't lost either.

-NYC

Well, shall we go?
Yes, let's go.
[They do not move.]


Bender_the_OffenderGOLD Member
still can't believe it's not butter
6,978 posts
Location: Melbourne, Australia


Posted:
quote:
Originally posted by NYC:

I don't think this place should be restricted to just hugs and love. It's refreshing to see other's points once in a while. BUT it would be nice to do it in the most respectful way.

NYC, i would like to respectfully speak my own opinion on hugs&love.
It should not be viewed as a restriction, rather a way of life.
If i had a bias for posts, I would sway for the positive; to help, to boost! frankly i couldn't be fucked spending copious nerd-time in circular conflict. It's not me and it's not how i like to operate. see my cup? it's half full, and for what it's worth if i was living in fairyland delusion mud bathing, meadow skipping, tree hugging and forest worshipping, it's a beautiful way to live, considering the alternatives. It's a waste of my time on this planet.
Balance of viewpoints does mean all is not hugs and love, but it's something more positive than a restriction.
I'm not paying you out bro, cus it's clear you're a good chappie i just wanted to blurt out my case like so much accidentally swallowed listerine.

And one more thing... It's a measure of the powerful, utterly positive impact that HoP's humblingly wonderful community that Smallboy is making a big deal of 'leaving' it. I'm not sure if he mentioned it anywhere, but he's one of the only HoP'ers to apologise to me outside of the forums about a post he made that could be construed as hostile (it was a joke, plus i am hard to offend bloke(you have to bend me!)) The point is that he's just the kind of fella to do that.
My friendship with cam (like any of my 'offline' mates) was forged on that decency.
A person's decency speaks volumes more than any random set of forum posts ever will.
People would just walk out of most forums where there is conflict.

the thing is, HoP is most definitely not most forums.
HoP is like the T1000 from Terminator 2. Because the strenght of HoP causes all rifts to self heal.
Plus HoP can morph into a traffic cop cum X-Files co-star that hunts down little Johnnie Connor. yeah.

Laugh Often, Smile Much, Post lolcats Always


GlåssDIAMOND Member
The Ministry of Manipulation
2,523 posts
Location: Bristol, United Kingdom


Posted:
wow that was the longest 3 pages I've ever had to wade through the desert on a horse with no name.

Bender, you eternal optometrist,
Which half of your cup is full??
I suspect that it may be the top half.
or the left.
am I right.

At Least this hasn't turned into a waffling rambling session by the old HOP Clique. and gone completely off topic, ruining a perfectly sensible discussion. phew, that was close.
Phwoar.

Time for one of these old fogies to post something like:
"Of course back on the old message board, when it was all on one page. we never had any of these problems, its all these new ones....... "

In reply to the original question asked by miss Drome in the topic title?
Yes I believe that we finaly have.

Maybe I should run off and start
The OFFICIAL have we lost the point thread?

Just like to add:
Point
(For answering the original question in a helpful and concise manner, I think that diserves a point.)

lalalaaaa
Gasls

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