"Do not meddle in the affairs of Tower Cranes, for you are soft and would look better when squashed by a full concrete bucket"
however if you'd do a search you might find a thread already describing places and regular meets in New York
good luck the best smiles are the ones you lead to 
"Do not meddle in the affairs of Tower Cranes, for you are soft and would look better when squashed by a full concrete bucket"