--
Help! My personality got stuck in this signature machine and I cant get it out!
-Mike
Certified Mad Doctor and HoP High Priest of Nutella
A buckuht n a hooze! -Valura
Written by
Of course *preens* this isn't of concern to me
--pogo (pat) [forever and always]
If we as members of the human race practice meditation, we can transcend our fear, despair, and forgetfulness. Meditation is not an escape. It is the courage to look at reality with mindfulness and concentration. Thich Nhat Hanh
i would have changed ***** to phallus, and claire to petey Petey
Rougie: but that's what I'm doing here
Arnwyn: what letting me adjust myself in your room?..don't you dare quote that on HoP...
--
Help! My personality got stuck in this signature machine and I cant get it out!
the best smiles are the ones you lead to
Written by :Pyrolific
mmm wise points all....cept Doc.
-Mike
Certified Mad Doctor and HoP High Priest of Nutella
A buckuht n a hooze! -Valura
Hoppers are angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly.
Written by :jo_rhymes
IMHO the aim of the game is to love EVERYONE including yourself.
So not seeing it as "I'm better and everyone is crap",
nor "everyone is amazing and I am crap"
nor "i'm crap and so is everyone else"
but, "I am great, and everyone else is great too!"
As long as we realise we are no better or no worse than anyone else, then I think we'll be ok
Hoppers are angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly.
"the geeks have got you" - Gayle
Hoppers are angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly.
--
Help! My personality got stuck in this signature machine and I cant get it out!
"Here kitty kitty...." - Schroedinger.
Written by Pyro
However, if I truly love myself as is being extolled, it means essentially there is no need to improve myself. This, I have a problem with, because in my opinion the world needs me to improve myself (as it does almost everyone).
Written by Pyro
If I (Josh) support the above argument, it means I cant rest on my laurels and just wait for personal improvement to come - I have to seek it out and try and do it!
If we as members of the human race practice meditation, we can transcend our fear, despair, and forgetfulness. Meditation is not an escape. It is the courage to look at reality with mindfulness and concentration. Thich Nhat Hanh
Written by :Pyrolific
However, if I truly love myself as is being extolled, it means essentially there is no need to improve myself. This, I have a problem with, because in my opinion the world needs me to improve myself (as it does almost everyone).
--
Help! My personality got stuck in this signature machine and I cant get it out!
Written by Pyro
Is learning to accept yourself the same as learning to love yourself - I don’t think so.
If we as members of the human race practice meditation, we can transcend our fear, despair, and forgetfulness. Meditation is not an escape. It is the courage to look at reality with mindfulness and concentration. Thich Nhat Hanh
on spam robots - "Burn the robot! Melt him down, and then we can make lots and lots of money from his shiiiny juices!"
Owned by Brenn
Hoppers are angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly.
"God *was* my co-pilot, but then we crashed, and I had to eat him..."
"God *was* my co-pilot, but then we crashed, and I had to eat him..."
Written by : BansheeCat
"Some people find that love facilitates growth."
Written by : BanseeCat
Some people find an environment of love, whether personal or from others, is necessary to feel safe enough to even be able to honestly look closely at their behaviours, and admit or acknowledge that they are not parts of ourselves we admire. Love seems to create as sense of security, and when we feel secure we are sometimes more willing to engage in the process of growth/change.
the best smiles are the ones you lead to
Written by :FireTom
It's a common psychological and evolutionary phenomenon that we look for balance. Meaning that often people who had not much of a family look for such an environment and vice versa. There are myriad shades of yellow and everyone longs for that what makes her/him feel whole again.
And for the third time I enjoy siding Andrea that "to change ones Self is such a big overwhelming idea people get freaked out considering it and don't know how to even begin."
One needs a slap, an other needs a stroke. If we cannot *see * (or feel) the rough, we'll never be able to cut a solitary diamond. At the same time we might have to dispose the idea that every one needs to be "Top Wesselton Grade". Thus said: only in recent years it became knowledge that brown, pink and red diamonds (who earlier got treated as flawed and therefore 'decay') are the rarest on the planet, thus now they are presently amongst the most valuable ones....
--
Help! My personality got stuck in this signature machine and I cant get it out!
the best smiles are the ones you lead to
Written by Pyro
In the end, how can you improve yourself without first dismissing the idea that you are perfect just the way you are?
Written by Pyro
I believe there is an increasing level of courage between all these steps - ie it requires courage to believe you have worth, it requires more courage to realise you really arent perfect, more courage is required to let go of what you are attached to, and attempt to move toward what you would like to be?
Written by Pyro
However, if I truly love myself as is being extolled, it means essentially there is no need to improve myself. This, I have a problem with, because in my opinion the world needs me to improve myself (as it does almost everyone).
Written by
A human being is part of the whole called by us universe, a part limited in time and space. We experience ourselves, our thoughts and feelings as something separate from the rest. A kind of optical delusion of consciousness. This delusion is a kind of prison for us, restricting us to our personal desires and to affection for a few persons nearest to us. Our task must be to free ourselves from the prison by widening our circle of compassion to embrace all living creatures and the whole of nature in its beauty. The true value of a human being is determined by the measure and the sense in which they have obtained liberation from the self. We shall require a substantially new manner of thinking if humanity is to survive. (Albert Einstein, 1954)
If we as members of the human race practice meditation, we can transcend our fear, despair, and forgetfulness. Meditation is not an escape. It is the courage to look at reality with mindfulness and concentration. Thich Nhat Hanh
Using the keywords [learning love] we found the following existing topics.