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Location: without class distinction, Australia
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13,215 posts
Location: without class distinction, Australia
Posted:
they are probably somewhere and im not doing a good job of thinking right now.
basically. while i was overseas, my "2nd mum" died tragically. i never dealt with it. it feels like everyone else around me is. i dont want to bring it up cos i dont want to screw them up. ive been ok (for the most part) but tonight ive just had it and i dont know what to do. what does crying achieve? do i just cry and get it over with? when do i stop crying? how can i talk to anyone if it will only take them back 5 months to when they started mourning? im worried that if my parents come downstairs theyll just tell me to go to sleep and ill 'feel better in the morning' but isnt that just like bottling it up? which im notorious for doing and really dont want to do. or is there a fine line between sleeping on it and bottling it up?
what do i do?
they are probably somewhere and im not doing a good job of thinking right now.
basically. while i was overseas, my "2nd mum" died tragically. i never dealt with it. it feels like everyone else around me is. i dont want to bring it up cos i dont want to screw them up. ive been ok (for the most part) but tonight ive just had it and i dont know what to do. what does crying achieve? do i just cry and get it over with? when do i stop crying? how can i talk to anyone if it will only take them back 5 months to when they started mourning? im worried that if my parents come downstairs theyll just tell me to go to sleep and ill 'feel better in the morning' but isnt that just like bottling it up? which im notorious for doing and really dont want to do. or is there a fine line between sleeping on it and bottling it up?
what do i do?
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4,145 posts
Location: Edinburgh, Scotland (UK)
had her carpal tunnel surgery already thanks v much
4,145 posts
Location: Edinburgh, Scotland (UK)
Posted:
Crying helps as a start, but if you feel you should confront it, maybe try bereavment counselling? Dunno about Australia, but over here you can get it at unis (less waiting time and free). Good luck for whatever you do!!
Crying helps as a start, but if you feel you should confront it, maybe try bereavment counselling? Dunno about Australia, but over here you can get it at unis (less waiting time and free). Good luck for whatever you do!!
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