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Login/Join to ParticipateCarpal \'Tunnel
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Location: in the trees
Posted:
if your feeling lo or just want to rant about something then feel free
lastnight (saturday1st).........i broke down.......i mean, i cryed!!!!
i dunno why i'm posting this.......but i pysicly broke down in tears,
alot of things got on top of me lastnight, and as i called a friend to say i was not in a good situation and asked if i could come round because i had nowhere to go i just started crying uncontrolably....... i'm still pretty weepy now but my friend took me in....gave me coffee and listened to me, which if she reads this i'm very gratefull for.
awwwwwwww hell, i'm crying agian
im gonna sign off now and get in my bed n cry
EDITED_BY: ravehead (1128420003)
if your feeling lo or just want to rant about something then feel free
lastnight (saturday1st).........i broke down.......i mean, i cryed!!!!
i dunno why i'm posting this.......but i pysicly broke down in tears,
alot of things got on top of me lastnight, and as i called a friend to say i was not in a good situation and asked if i could come round because i had nowhere to go i just started crying uncontrolably....... i'm still pretty weepy now but my friend took me in....gave me coffee and listened to me, which if she reads this i'm very gratefull for.
awwwwwwww hell, i'm crying agian
im gonna sign off now and get in my bed n cry
EDITED_BY: ravehead (1128420003)
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Macaque of all trades
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Macaque of all trades
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Posted:
dude....I had a nervous breakdown last year and I know how crap you can feel.
Hope you feel better soon dude and glad to hear you have good people around you to help
dude....I had a nervous breakdown last year and I know how crap you can feel.Hope you feel better soon dude and glad to hear you have good people around you to help
A couple of balls short of a full cascade... or maybe a few cards short of a deck... we'll see how this all fans out.
Carpal \'Tunnel
7,193 posts
Location: in the trees
7,193 posts
Location: in the trees
Posted:
it was 5.30 am and this friend was the only person i could turn to..... even though i knew she had been awake a stupid amount of time.
i didn't know who else to turn to
it was 5.30 am and this friend was the only person i could turn to..... even though i knew she had been awake a stupid amount of time.
i didn't know who else to turn to
Carpal \'Tunnel
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Location: in the trees
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Location: in the trees
Posted:
this wsn't a nervous breakdown i don't think.........everything just got the better of me.
alot of my friends have been having a hard time lately and i've been talking to most, trying to cheer them up, listen to their problems and help where possible.....is it possible all the negitivity i absorbed just needed to be reliesed???
this wsn't a nervous breakdown i don't think.........everything just got the better of me.
alot of my friends have been having a hard time lately and i've been talking to most, trying to cheer them up, listen to their problems and help where possible.....is it possible all the negitivity i absorbed just needed to be reliesed???
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Pooh-Bah
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Location: York University, United Kingdom
Pooh-Bah
1,762 posts
Location: York University, United Kingdom
Posted:
Could be it, we all need to cry sometimes, even tough men like me
. It was quite embarrassing last time I broke down... it was on my Girlfriend, very shortly after we'd started dating. I was so scared that's she'd think "Weirdo" and run off.
I'm really glad that you had someone to cry on though... there's nothing worse than being alone *and* crying your eyes out.
Try not to absorb *everyone's* problems, I'm terrible for doing that, sometimes I get a lot more upset about other people than I do about me, even if worse things are hapening to me! What can I say, I absorb negative emotions...
Could be it, we all need to cry sometimes, even tough men like me
. It was quite embarrassing last time I broke down... it was on my Girlfriend, very shortly after we'd started dating. I was so scared that's she'd think "Weirdo" and run off.I'm really glad that you had someone to cry on though... there's nothing worse than being alone *and* crying your eyes out.
Try not to absorb *everyone's* problems, I'm terrible for doing that, sometimes I get a lot more upset about other people than I do about me, even if worse things are hapening to me! What can I say, I absorb negative emotions...
After much consideration, I find that the view is worth the asphyxiation.
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Posted:
Which is why you should only look after number 1.
I do, and I'm never unhappy.
Written by: ravehead
alot of my friends have been having a hard time lately and i've been talking to most, trying to cheer them up, listen to their problems and help where possible.
Which is why you should only look after number 1.
I do, and I'm never unhappy.
Willy - is bad for your health...
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Momma Bear
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Location: Telford, Shrops, United Kingdom
Momma Bear
4,525 posts
Location: Telford, Shrops, United Kingdom
Posted:
Well firstly, you're not weak for crying. As REM once said, Everybody Hurts, and big hugs. I'm on pills to hopefully stop me from crying, it sucks alot!! I will gladly be your personal crying buddy, I advise those tissues with the balm on them, otherwise you get a red crusty nose, and then not only are you crying, but you're in pain too!! ouch!! love jo x
Well firstly, you're not weak for crying. As REM once said, Everybody Hurts, and
big hugs. I'm on pills to hopefully stop me from crying, it sucks alot!! I will gladly be your personal crying buddy, I advise those tissues with the balm on them, otherwise you get a red crusty nose, and then not only are you crying, but you're in pain too!! ouch!! love jo x Hoppers are angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly.
Dreamer
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Location: York, England
4,308 posts
Location: York, England
Posted:
Sometimes crying happens. And you are very lucky to have had someone there for you. I've almost never had anyone happen to be about when I cry- and the few times its happened they've generally not been supportive either.....
Try not to absorb other people's emotions too much and hangin there....
Sometimes crying happens. And you are very lucky to have had someone there for you. I've almost never had anyone happen to be about when I cry- and the few times its happened they've generally not been supportive either.....
Try not to absorb other people's emotions too much and hangin there....
Keep your dream alive
Dreamin is still how the strong survive
Shalom VeAhavah
New Hampshire has a point....
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Pooh-Bah
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Location: York University, United Kingdom
Pooh-Bah
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Location: York University, United Kingdom
Posted:
Lemonkey:
So you never did anything for your family or friends? How the hell does that work?
Lemonkey:
So you never did anything for your family or friends? How the hell does that work?
After much consideration, I find that the view is worth the asphyxiation.
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old hand
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Location: In a test pit, Mackay, Australia
old hand
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Location: In a test pit, Mackay, Australia
Posted:
And don't go pretending you don't have emotions just in case it makes other people uncomforatble. If you need to, shout, scream, throw things (preferably cusions rather than vases), let everything out and then feel purged after.
I find it helps to write stuff down; if someone has affected me I write them a letter telling them exactly why, and how I feel. Never, ever, post it though.
And don't go pretending you don't have emotions just in case it makes other people uncomforatble. If you need to, shout, scream, throw things (preferably cusions rather than vases), let everything out and then feel purged after.
I find it helps to write stuff down; if someone has affected me I write them a letter telling them exactly why, and how I feel. Never, ever, post it though.
There is a slight possibility that I am not actually right all of the time.
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Running hippy spinning lemming
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Running hippy spinning lemming
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Location: Scotland
Posted:
pm on its way
pm on its way
Fear leads to anger; anger leads to hate; hate leads to suffering...
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Location: Huddersfield + Hull Uni... UK.
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Location: Huddersfield + Hull Uni... UK.
Posted:
I help my family, but they cope well too by themselves.
Written by: Sethis
Lemonkey:
So you never did anything for your family or friends? How the hell does that work?
I help my family, but they cope well too by themselves.
Willy - is bad for your health...
Carpal \'Tunnel
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Location: in the trees
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Location: in the trees
Posted:
awwwww thank you all....., i don't feel as bad now having talked to some close friends and people on here, all who have been suppotive and understanding. still.........there are just some people you don't discuss things like this to, mainly out of male pride, but also, that they just may not fully understand how powerfull emotions can be sometimes.
awwwww thank you all....., i don't feel as bad now having talked to some close friends and people on here, all who have been suppotive and understanding. still.........there are just some people you don't discuss things like this to, mainly out of male pride, but also, that they just may not fully understand how powerfull emotions can be sometimes.
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Out! Out! You demons of stupidity!
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Location: Somewhere, out there..., South Africa
Out! Out! You demons of stupidity!
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Location: Somewhere, out there..., South Africa
Posted:
Hope you feel better ravehead
Ive been there so I know how you feel. I'm always here to listen if you ever want to talk.
Hope you feel better ravehead
Ive been there so I know how you feel. I'm always here to listen if you ever want to talk.
It may be your sole purpose in life to serve as a warning to others
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Carpal \'Tunnel
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Location: in the trees
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Location: in the trees
Posted:
cheers fella, i just really need to calm down on the drink, don't think being drunk at the time helped 1 bit.
sorry if this seems like i'm fishing for sympathy but i just really needed to talk about this.
cheers fella, i just really need to calm down on the drink, don't think being drunk at the time helped 1 bit.
sorry if this seems like i'm fishing for sympathy but i just really needed to talk about this.
member
69 posts
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Posted:
better out than in.
i now totally believe that your mind is what you make it. Stop drinking, taking drugs, smoking weed, all that stuff can bring you down like a tonne of bricks. Honestly, start thinking more positive, don't moan about stuff.
it's like with bereavement. At the end of the day, that person's dead and your tears amount to nothing. You've just got to get over it and get on with it. And with something like depression, it's up to you to plough on through whatever brick wall is in your way, because usually it's all in your head, when you take a step back.
better out than in.
i now totally believe that your mind is what you make it. Stop drinking, taking drugs, smoking weed, all that stuff can bring you down like a tonne of bricks. Honestly, start thinking more positive, don't moan about stuff.
it's like with bereavement. At the end of the day, that person's dead and your tears amount to nothing. You've just got to get over it and get on with it. And with something like depression, it's up to you to plough on through whatever brick wall is in your way, because usually it's all in your head, when you take a step back.
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Location: South Wales
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Location: South Wales
Posted:
Matey,
I reckon that about 80% of the people on this site will post a thread where they are deeply upset/ need sympathy/ need a rant.
I have done it on more than 3 occasions.
For each probably....
Its great having somewhere where all your friends, and people who dont even know you, can all help you and make you feel fantastic. Thats one of the reasons that HOP kicks bum.
Matey,
I reckon that about 80% of the people on this site will post a thread where they are deeply upset/ need sympathy/ need a rant.
I have done it on more than 3 occasions.
For each probably....
Its great having somewhere where all your friends, and people who dont even know you, can all help you and make you feel fantastic. Thats one of the reasons that HOP kicks bum.
newbie
13 posts
Location: Crosshands swales
13 posts
Location: Crosshands swales
Posted:
hey dude know how u feel having one my self
hey dude know how u feel having one my self
Gogo gaga
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Location: South Wales
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Location: South Wales
Posted:
oh yeah.. I forgot:
oh yeah.. I forgot:
newbie
13 posts
Location: Crosshands swales
13 posts
Location: Crosshands swales
Posted:
my girl left me how mad is that
my girl left me how mad is that
Gogo gaga
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Location: South Wales
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Location: South Wales
Posted:
How long ago?
What real impact or difference has it made on your life?
How long ago?
What real impact or difference has it made on your life?
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Out! Out! You demons of stupidity!
587 posts
Location: Somewhere, out there..., South Africa
Out! Out! You demons of stupidity!
587 posts
Location: Somewhere, out there..., South Africa
Posted:
Here's a hug for you happypapa
Here's a hug for you happypapa
It may be your sole purpose in life to serve as a warning to others
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Carpal \'Tunnel
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Location: in the trees
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Posted:
i'm going to re-edit the title of this thread but in the meantime all of you
thank you all for the good advice
yay for HoP
i'm going to re-edit the title of this thread but in the meantime all of you
thank you all for the good advice
yay for HoP
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Pasta of Muppets
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Pasta of Muppets
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Location: in the interwebs..., United Kingdom
Posted:
I'm just going to post in a non whiney way that I've run out of happy pills, and i'm all sad
Damn brain chemistry...
This sucks... And for Ravehead and for happypapa and for jon, but there's more in a nother thread.
Oh, and women suck...
I'm just going to post in a non whiney way that I've run out of happy pills, and i'm all sad
Damn brain chemistry...
This sucks... And
for Ravehead and for happypapa and for jon, but there's more in a nother thread.Oh, and women suck...
ohmygodlaserbeamspewpewpew!
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Out! Out! You demons of stupidity!
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Location: Somewhere, out there..., South Africa
Out! Out! You demons of stupidity!
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Posted:
I'm feeling low too today
Its wierd because normally I'm all happy & stuff. But today, I'm so sad.
I'm feeling low too today
Its wierd because normally I'm all happy & stuff. But today, I'm so sad.
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Dreamer
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Location: York, England
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Location: York, England
Posted:
(for lost83spy)
I've just had that problem yesterday, and starting about 15 minutes ago again today... I feel down about everything... and there's lots of good things going on in my life right now too!
I'm really alone here tho, and i think thats part of it.
But I can't stop being upset/sad about just nearly everything......
(for lost83spy)I've just had that problem yesterday, and starting about 15 minutes ago again today... I feel down about everything... and there's lots of good things going on in my life right now too!
I'm really alone here tho, and i think thats part of it.
But I can't stop being upset/sad about just nearly everything......
Keep your dream alive
Dreamin is still how the strong survive
Shalom VeAhavah
New Hampshire has a point....
Carpal \'Tunnel
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Location: in the trees
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Location: in the trees
Posted:
awwwwwwww big collective squishy
i'm actually really happy today, if a little hyper through all the peanuts i've been eating.......i also had a few cups of coffee which i never normally drink (i'm sensitive to caffine) so i'm bouncing off the walls
to all u lovely people
awwwwwwww big collective squishy
i'm actually really happy today, if a little hyper through all the peanuts i've been eating.......i also had a few cups of coffee which i never normally drink (i'm sensitive to caffine) so i'm bouncing off the walls
to all u lovely people BRONZE Member
Out! Out! You demons of stupidity!
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Location: Somewhere, out there..., South Africa
Out! Out! You demons of stupidity!
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Location: Somewhere, out there..., South Africa
Posted:
A big back to you Kyrian
Thanks
Feeling better today. Its wierd though, everyone I spoke to yesterday was feeling the same way. It must be the weather or something
A big
back to you KyrianThanks
Feeling better today. Its wierd though, everyone I spoke to yesterday was feeling the same way. It must be the weather or something
It may be your sole purpose in life to serve as a warning to others
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Meep
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Location: I'm lost
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Location: I'm lost
Posted:
TOO MUCH WORK TO DO *sniff... (uni work)
TOO MUCH WORK TO DO *sniff... (uni work)
All matter is energy condensed to a slow vibration. Life is but a dream and we are the imagination of ourselves.
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Macaque of all trades
8,738 posts
Location: wombling free..., United Kingdom
Macaque of all trades
8,738 posts
Location: wombling free..., United Kingdom
Posted:
for everyone
mynci say - share the love. And I got loads for everyone.
for everyone mynci say - share the love. And I got loads for everyone.
A couple of balls short of a full cascade... or maybe a few cards short of a deck... we'll see how this all fans out.
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Out! Out! You demons of stupidity!
587 posts
Location: Somewhere, out there..., South Africa
Out! Out! You demons of stupidity!
587 posts
Location: Somewhere, out there..., South Africa
Posted:
Aahh yes. Work
Aahh yes. Work
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