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KorinFox
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Location: Maryland
Member Since: 13th Aug 2003
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Posted:Sooo since the other topic is discussing long hair and short hair on girls... how bout long hair on guys?? eh?? Well I myself am asian, with hair about.... maybe... about 20 inches... past my chest into the torso area... (btw im 5'3" dammed shortness...) well anyways... I get many responses from... "cut it off!!!" or "I'll shave your head!!" to people running up to me a and running their fingers through my hair... so ... what does everyone else think about long hair on guys??

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polythene
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Location: London/ Surrey
Member Since: 15th May 2003
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Posted:Personal opinion: (note, generalised. it depends on the guy and what suits him)

Short hair
Long hair
Shaved head


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funkymonky
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Posted:you get people running up to you and running their fingers through your hair?????? weird.....

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telic
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Member Since: 26th Jun 2003
Total posts: 940
Posted:Long hair on guys is gorgeous.

Long hair and a bit of stubble is even better!

Johnny Depp was dead sexy in Pirates of the Caribbean. And let us not forget Aragorn, with his rugged yet unwashed manliness. (Shame on you, if you havent read the Very Secret Diaries yet.)


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Carpal \'Tunnel
Location: Warwickshire
Member Since: 27th Aug 2002
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Posted:am i sensing mid summer HoP sexual tension here?

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Pele
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Location: WNY, USA
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Posted:It dependes.

Dry, damaged hair on anyone is icky, and alot of people with long hair have it because they won't get it trimmed the way you are supposed to.

Sleek, shiny, long hair that is well cared for can look good on a man/woman who is shaped for it.
Mmmm...if we are going LOTR skip over Aragorn and go straight to Legolas for me...yummy.

However, some men sport short hair *really* well too, and it is very touchable.

Bald I like on people with good bald heads...Cuba Gooding Jr., Lex from Smallville, etc. Those are some sexy bald men.
(I have this strange desire to Henna a bald man's head. Anyone ever interested, let me know...kay? )

For me it is all about how you wear it...with confidence is always the best style!


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Mtn. Girl
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Location: Santa Cruz, California
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Posted:[QUOTE] Pele:
I have this strange desire to Henna a bald man's head.



This is so funny, I"m gonna try it at burning man.... just because.....haha


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mech
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Posted:i just have two words Brandon Boyd (incubus lead singer) Jose Pasillas (incubus Drummer)

i am a man and i would have their kids!

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ASTRO FAERIE
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Location: Rotherham, UK
Member Since: 4th Mar 2003
Total posts: 724
Posted:Long hair on guys is just grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.
I love it, always have and always will do. Although my boyfriend is the only man in the world i find sexy with a skinhead, but im biased.


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Dentrassi
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Location: Brisbane
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Posted:i recieved more people fondling my scalp after shaving my head (was for charity, not for fashion - my mother said i looked like an english soccer hooligan). particularly girls. they seemed to treat it like fur and always playing with it and scratching it....not that i was complaining!

"Here kitty kitty...." - Schroedinger.

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jemima (jem)
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Posted:i like long and short, depends on the wearer
i also like a nice clean shave although stubble is very nice too

not too sure about shaved heads again it depends on the wearer


what are peoples views on male wigs?


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Location: Warwickshire
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Posted:quote:Long hair and a bit of stubble is even better!It's good to know at least someone appreciates me

Actually whilst we're having a discussion about blokes with long hair, i was having a chat with a guy (touch?) at clapham a couple of months ago about long hair being a magnet/beacon for gay closet case guys. It's nice to know that i'm not the only one whose been groped and chatted up by more men than women since having long hair, esp when in small village pubs, where the drunk closet case guy's light up when you walk in and starts following you around. If women like it too they need to make it more obvious


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plantgirlll
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Location: Sydney Australia
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Posted:I luuuurve long hair on guys when it's well-cared for!

My husband shaves his head now as he is receding & greying which seems to be the done thing these days.

I have an 11yr old son who has long, curly, dark, thick, shiny hair that is nicer than most girls. (He has more hair than the rest of the family put together!)

Lucky me gets to run her fingers through glorious tresses or I can play with a chrome dome!


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Rozi
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Location: Sydney, NSW, Australia
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Posted:I shaved a guy-friend's head the other day. It was sooooo therapeutic. & I love the way guys with close clipped hair or shaved heads respond to scalp massages....

but I like long hair too...


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KorinFox
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Location: Maryland
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Posted:well since I started it... time to start answering questions...
quote: you get people running up to you and running their fingers through your hair?????? weird..... heh well... yeah... and this one girl even tho she already has a boyfriend... (he had... (HAD) long hair...)
quote: Sleek, shiny, long hair that is well cared for can look good on a man/woman who is shaped for it.
Mmmm...if we are going LOTR skip over Aragorn and go straight to Legolas for me...yummy.
hee hee... my hair is shinier than any of those people on those herbal essenses commercials... anyday... link => example.... MY HAIR!!!! (thats a pic of me in my japanese class on the last day of school....) the girl sitting behind me was playing with my hair and they got a picture of it... oh and btw I dont have much facial hair... (maybe because im 15...)
quote: have an 11yr old son who has long, curly, dark, thick, shiny hair that is nicer than most girls. (He has more hair than the rest of the family put together!)
BUA!!!! my hair's alot nicer!!!! (heh jk...) though probably alot straighter...
(last quote now!!!)
quote: Actually whilst we're having a discussion about blokes with long hair, i was having a chat with a guy (touch?) at clapham a couple of months ago about long hair being a magnet/beacon for gay closet case guys. It's nice to know that i'm not the only one whose been groped and chatted up by more men than women since having long hair, esp when in small village pubs, where the drunk closet case guy's light up when you walk in and starts following you around. If women like it too they need to make it more obvious
haha actually I have some bi and lesbian friends (that happen to be female and have short hair...) they say its a lesbian magnet... and then I say "that doesn't help me...." well anyways just wanted to know some stuff... (thought it would be interesting to see the answers after seeing the answers of long hair on girls...)


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Eera
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Location: In a test pit, Mackay
Member Since: 29th May 2003
Total posts: 1107
Posted:Having a thing about army officers and motorcycle policemen I much prefer short, but long is tolerable as long as it's cared for. Now dreadlocks, Ugh!

There is a slight possibility that I am not actually right all of the time.

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Narr
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Posted:well since i started the other thread i should say my piece huh!?!

the longest i can tollerate is about shoulder length and shaggy or dreads(must be washed though otherwise yuck!!!)at teh moment i prefer short hair on guy - stubbl;y short is lovely and touchy-feely but don't do blond boys.. dunno why!(dark hair, green/blue eyes mmmmmm! ) anyone else with aparticular preferance for the hair colour??


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Pink...?
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Posted:I personaly feel that hair length and colour depends on the person.

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Senlika
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Location: south west london
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Posted:Hi

i agree pink poi - long / short hair & colour depends very much on individuals & the way they carry it off.

I had a boyfriend with long hair which was very nice till he started losing most of it:( so now the jailbird look is sooo much better.

at the moment i really like the bedhead look.


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Havoc
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Member Since: 10th Sep 2002
Total posts: 168
Posted:ok... as a bloke, and a lazy one at that, i have to say that if my hair gets any longer than about 2 inches, then it gets shawn back down! (short back and sides) This is mainly cos if its any longer i actually have to think about what it does in the morning!

nice and short is the way to go gentlemen!!

Havoc


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flid
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Location: Warwickshire
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Posted:i think nice and long or nice and short are the way forward if you never want a bad hair day. If its short you don't have any hair to worry about, if its long then as long as you wash and brush it regularly you can just stick it in a ponytail when you can't be arsed with it.

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Gidg
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Posted:From my point of view, it depends on the guy. I have seen guys with long hair and all I wanted to do was go shave it off. But then their are others that I would cheerfully shoot if they cut it off.

It takes a certain type of guy to pull off long hair, just like it takes a certain type to pull off bald.


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Posted:Did anyone just notice that Havoc posted!! He hasn't posted for ages

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gάrbǿ
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Posted:Well, i'm bald and to be honest I don't really miss having hair and

would look damn stupid with it . By the way pele. Being in India I

have my hands henna'd up on a regular basis and have contemplated

doing my head , please feel free .

:garbo:


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Dentrassi
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Location: Brisbane
Member Since: 9th Apr 2003
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Posted:what does everyone think about the mullet hairstyle?

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i8beefy2
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Location: Ohio, USA
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Posted:Long hair on guys.... tried it once when I was going through my Metal Head phase in middle school. I still carry a picture of it, so that any time I think about growing my hair out again, I can just look at it, and remember why I shouldn't.

I was most deffinitly NOT the long hair type... Though I am a hippy... eh go figure.


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Raymund Phule (Fireproof)
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Location: San Diego California
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Posted:Well in two years I can grow my hair out again... while it lasts... unfortunatly my Fathers genes have overtaken my youth and MPB is trying to set in! Damn I might as well shave my head now!

Some Jarhead last night: "this dumb a$$ thinks hes fireproof"

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Tanessa
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Location: Canada
Member Since: 4th Jun 2002
Total posts: 91
Posted:I've seen some sexy looking mullets, believe me or not. I guess it's maybe that 70's mullet look that's is appealing to me (but not the 80's hockey mullet, yuck!). The mullet still lives!........I see them lots in Northern Canada and the Prairies (that's pretty embarrassing to say of your own country.....THE MULLET STILL LIVES HERE). Oh well.

As for long or short hair, shouldn't matter if you really like the guy. I've seen sexy bald guys too.


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spidey
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Location: east london
Member Since: 29th Jul 2003
Total posts: 46
Posted:Oh, it's not just your side of the pond that the mullet survives, dear me, no. They've undergone something of a revival here... even my ubercool, irritatingly good-looking best mate seems to have lost the plot on this one.

David Beckham has a lot to answer for, if you ask me!

But what is it that means a guy can carry off long hair? Cheek bones is my best call. (Again, we're back to Legolas and Aragorn, I fear!) Your thoughts, girls?


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Rozi
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Location: Sydney, NSW, Australia
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Posted:it doesn't all have to be cheek bones. There is this guy at work who has managed to carry off both the long and the short hair look. He has these lush glossy black curls. Then again, the definition to the face provided by the five o'clock shadow could be mistaken for serious cheekbones at a distance

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