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Rouge Dragon
BRONZE Member since Jul 2003

Rouge Dragon

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Posted:This is the official post for the singles in opposition to the love post!

(im going to laugh so much is Vanize makes a singles topic at the same time! lol!)


i would have changed ***** to phallus, and claire to petey Petey

Rougie: but that's what I'm doing here
Arnwyn: what letting me adjust myself in your room?..don't you dare quote that on HoP...

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t04201901
BRONZE Member since Dec 2006

t04201901

Member
Location: Co Louth

Total posts: 79
Posted: Written by: Birgit


Why would you REPEAT the conversation? Am I just weird?



Huh?


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Birgit
BRONZE Member since Jan 2005

Birgit

had her carpal tunnel surgery already thanks v much
Location: Edinburgh

Total posts: 4145
Posted: Written by: 87wt2gxq7



there's always suspicion on both sides that The Conversation will get repeated and more embarrasment will follow. The easy option is to break off contact, but that can often be more hurtful to both parties.







That's what I mean... I wouldn't have thought that anyone would be tempted to say "sooo... remember how you didn't fancy me back in August? What about now then?"



If someone means a lot to you as a friend, would you really rather lose them completely just because they find you attractive? No way for me.



edit: Just listening to a BellX1 song with strangely fitting lyrics... "friendly fire still burns" ubblol


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87wt2gxq7

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Posted:ta, t04201901.

Birgit, yeah it would be good but the easy option is, well, so much easier than the honest option. I guess I wish everyone were as brave as you in that regard.

You'd repeat the conversation if you were as thick as I sometimes am around certain people... :-/


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t04201901
BRONZE Member since Dec 2006

t04201901

Member
Location: Co Louth

Total posts: 79
Posted:Def not! If i knew some1 fancied me i'd love, i'd be an awesome ego trip!

no no jokin, course not, but some ppl are totally wierd about sort of [censored]. If it were me, i would say to the other, look i'm sorry bout the other nite, i was drunk bla bla blahh, and not speak about it again.....unless of course u were gettin pissed togetther again hehe


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Birgit
BRONZE Member since Jan 2005

Birgit

had her carpal tunnel surgery already thanks v much
Location: Edinburgh

Total posts: 4145
Posted:Hey, I'm not always brave redface I wish I could be more open about when I'm the one who fancies someone, but I'm working on that.

But at least I'm semi-decent to my friends biggrin

I don't think losing a friend is easy... though I suppose wanting someone to still be your friend when you've rejected them is a bit harsh, too.


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t04201901
BRONZE Member since Dec 2006

t04201901

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Location: Co Louth

Total posts: 79
Posted:I dont think i've ever had to reject a friend! How lame! Booooooo hoooooooo

*holds head in knees*

I just think chicks(not all chicks, just the ones u like) f**k with ur head, i dunno, i dont get him. Specially the chicks where i'm from!


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the_mods_stole_my_name
SILVER Member since May 2006

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Location: Maghull, Liverpool

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Posted:its likely that the conversation will repeat itself, it always happens when i'm drunk. maybe i should quitb drink and drugs?........NAH! pass that doobie!

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Brenn
PLATINUM Member since Jun 2004

Brenn

Will carpal your tunnel in a minute.
Location: Melbourne, Australia

Total posts: 3286
Posted:*finishes setting up again his chocolate tent* *climbs inside*

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87wt2gxq7

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Posted:shall we hot-box the chocolate tent? wink

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Birgit
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Birgit

had her carpal tunnel surgery already thanks v much
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Posted:seconded!

"vices are like genitals - most are ugly to behold, and yet we find that our own are dear to us."
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Brenn
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Brenn

Will carpal your tunnel in a minute.
Location: Melbourne, Australia

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Posted: Written by: 87wt2gxq7


shall we hot-box the chocolate tent? wink



Well don't just stand there, come on in hug


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Birgit
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Birgit

had her carpal tunnel surgery already thanks v much
Location: Edinburgh

Total posts: 4145
Posted:hmmmmm... chocolate single tent? me and two boys?

*enters tent with grin on face*


"vices are like genitals - most are ugly to behold, and yet we find that our own are dear to us."
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Brenn
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Brenn

Will carpal your tunnel in a minute.
Location: Melbourne, Australia

Total posts: 3286
Posted: Written by: Birgit


hmmmmm... chocolate single tent? me and two boys?

*enters tent with grin on face*



It's the place to be! ubblol


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t04201901
BRONZE Member since Dec 2006

t04201901

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Posted:*stumbles into tent squinting eyes and coughing, looking around for other people through the smoke*

Did somebody say HotBox?

Is that choclate melting above me?


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87wt2gxq7

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Posted:*passes to the left*

you'll have to drive... i think there's something wrong with me...

*passes out*


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Brenn
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Brenn

Will carpal your tunnel in a minute.
Location: Melbourne, Australia

Total posts: 3286
Posted:*is the recipient of said left passing* biggrin
 Written by: t04201901




Is that choclate melting above me?



Why yes it is.... nummy biggrin


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faith enfire
BRONZE Member since Jan 2006

faith enfire

wandering thru the woods of WI
Location: Wisconsin

Total posts: 3556
Posted:hmmm i don't know if i can be in here...might be a trigger

Faith
Nay, whatever comes one hour was sunlit and the most high gods may not make boast of any better thing than to have watched that hour as it passed

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OrangeBobo
SILVER Member since Nov 2003

OrangeBobo

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Location: Guelph, ON, Canada

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Posted:almost 2 years single now...

Just decided I'm gonna go STAAAAAAAG to prom.

And you know what? I'm gonna rock it! (and then get really hammered during the after-parties)


wie weit, wie weit noch?
fragst mich, wo wir gewesen sind...
du fehlst hier

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Brenn
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Brenn

Will carpal your tunnel in a minute.
Location: Melbourne, Australia

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Posted: Written by: OrangeBobo


almost 2 years single now...

Just decided I'm gonna go STAAAAAAAG to prom.

And you know what? I'm gonna rock it! (and then get really hammered during the after-parties)



Going single to a prom/formal is often the better way to do things.
I invited someone ad-hoc to my year 12 formal (Australian equivalent of a prom) and it was a nightmare. She latched onto somebody else for 3/4 of the night. Her loss ubblol

Have a great night!


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=Flashpoint=
SILVER Member since Sep 2004

=Flashpoint=

Pasta of Muppets
Location: in the interwebs...

Total posts: 2719
Posted:Looks like i'm here to stay!

Oh well, pass the drugs...


ohmygodlaserbeamspewpewpew!
ubbrollsmileubbrollsmileubbrollsmileubbrollsmile

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faith enfire
BRONZE Member since Jan 2006

faith enfire

wandering thru the woods of WI
Location: Wisconsin

Total posts: 3556
Posted:hey no drugs, either that or find me a guy, so i can get out of here

Faith
Nay, whatever comes one hour was sunlit and the most high gods may not make boast of any better thing than to have watched that hour as it passed

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Birgit
BRONZE Member since Jan 2005

Birgit

had her carpal tunnel surgery already thanks v much
Location: Edinburgh

Total posts: 4145
Posted:bounce



bounce2



biggrin



bounce



(just thought I'd bring some happy bounciness into here)


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Brenn
PLATINUM Member since Jun 2004

Brenn

Will carpal your tunnel in a minute.
Location: Melbourne, Australia

Total posts: 3286
Posted:I've got a leg!


That's not unusual Vivian.


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faith enfire
BRONZE Member since Jan 2006

faith enfire

wandering thru the woods of WI
Location: Wisconsin

Total posts: 3556
Posted:bounce

Faith
Nay, whatever comes one hour was sunlit and the most high gods may not make boast of any better thing than to have watched that hour as it passed

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_Stix_

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Posted:hey - I'm heading into my third month of singleness..

please tell me that the sence of lonelyness goes away. I think I kinda hate myself at the moment - can't do or say anything right.. maybe I'm just being too self critical.. but then again I deserve a good kick up the ass after allowing myself to be taken advantage of for nearly 3 years..

sigh..
onwards and upwards right? confused


I honour you as an aspect of myself..

You are never to old to storm a bouncey castle..

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Brenn
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Brenn

Will carpal your tunnel in a minute.
Location: Melbourne, Australia

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Posted: Written by: Stix*


hey - I'm heading into my third month of singleness..

please tell me that the sence of lonelyness goes away. I think I kinda hate myself at the moment - can't do or say anything right.. maybe I'm just being too self critical.. but then again I deserve a good kick up the ass after allowing myself to be taken advantage of for nearly 3 years..

sigh..
onwards and upwards right? confused



It's been nearly a year for me and the year's had its ups and downs. After a while you learn what it's like to live as a whole, and not as a half. Once that sinks in, you'll be right smile

hug There's plenty of us who are single, despair not smile


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Sym
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Sym

Geek-enviro-hippy priest
Location: Diss, Norfolk

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Posted:Stix* hug It does get better, for sure. smile

There's too many home fires burning and not enough trees

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_Stix_

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Posted:Brenn, Sym - I hope so.. my sister has just had a baby - I should be the happiest Auntie.. but seeing the three of them together as a family only serves to remind me that I'm one of the only single people that I hang out with regularly.. argh.. need to get out more I guess.

I honour you as an aspect of myself..

You are never to old to storm a bouncey castle..

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Brenn
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Brenn

Will carpal your tunnel in a minute.
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Posted: Written by: Stix*


Brenn, Sym - I hope so.. my sister has just had a baby - I should be the happiest Auntie.. but seeing the three of them together as a family only serves to remind me that I'm one of the only single people that I hang out with regularly.. argh.. need to get out more I guess.



I feel the same way - Most of my relatives are with someone, and my brother and his girlfriend officially moved in together just last month. I'm the only single person in my immediate family, and in the last ten to eleven months i've been stuffed around by potentials.

There are plenty of us out there, more than you realise smile It does get better, but it takes the right frame of mind. True, being surrounded by couples doesn't help, but only if they don't go the right way about it (i.e. always talking about their significant other & how wonderful they are etc etc). Find yourself in the company of other single and self assured people and you will feel better smile

If I could, we would so storm a bouncy castle together! ubblol Who else is with me?!


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Birgit
BRONZE Member since Jan 2005

Birgit

had her carpal tunnel surgery already thanks v much
Location: Edinburgh

Total posts: 4145
Posted:Just had a lovely conversation on the way home from the pub with a single friend of mine about how it's all about being comfortable with who you are. If you're not, no partner in the world can give you what you think is missing in yourself, or your life.

So my answer to Stix would be, it gets better as soon as you accept yourself as a wonderful person who's not a loser or hopeless just because they're single. Look at all the couples and all the stuff they moan about and ask yourself if the average coupled-up person is really so much happier than you wink

http://www.metro.co.uk/nemi
br>read the one starting with the 2 guys talking, "there was this girl behind me...", typical grass-is-greener syndrome smile


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