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fluffy napalm fairyCarpal \'Tunnel
3,638 posts
Location: Brum / Dorset / Fairy Land


Posted:
ubblove



Thank you Malcolm, and I am sorry to hear life is presenting you with so many challenges. Enormous love to you and Cherry and Jesse (who I only met as a bump). You have changed so many people's lives - you need to save some energy for your own too. Nobody doubts your input - if they do they just need to look around and see what you've built here. Thank you so much.



ubbrollsmile

Geologists do it in the dirt................ spank


blu_valleySILVER Member
fluffy mess
197 posts
Location: Brighton, United Kingdom


Posted:
Have a hug biggrin

"I want to know if you can see beauty even when it's not pretty, every day,and if you can source your own life from its presence.." - Oriah Mountain Dreamer


faith enfireBRONZE Member
wandering thru the woods of WI
3,556 posts
Location: Wisconsin, USA


Posted:
If this group wasn't here, I probably never would have kept spinning and met cool people here and in real life

Faith
Nay, whatever comes one hour was sunlit and the most high gods may not make boast of any better thing than to have watched that hour as it passed


pricklyleafSILVER Member
with added berries
1,365 posts
Location: Manchester, England (UK)


Posted:
Hi Mr Malcolm!



I don't think anyone was questioning your visability or contribution (unless I've really missed something). I've only ever heard good things said about you, and in a community of 70000+, thats one hell of an acheivement! I too had been thinking that you had started posting a lot more recently. However, I don't think that you should feel you have to in order for people to know you are dedicated to HoP, I feel the debate was/is centered around mods and not you.



I'm sorry to hear what you've been through, and have an even greater respect for you after hearing that. I'm glad you got the help you needed with your business, sometimes its the hardest thing to take a small step back from the baby you've grown, and let someone else help when you need it. Like others say, I'm very sorry and saddened that you felt the need to post this. But I hope that now a big positve will come out of it and it will show you how valued you are, and what a huge difference you have made to so many peoples lives, especially when they've been struggling. Mine included. Thats something that very few people manage to acheive in their lifetimes.



Keep looking to the positives, I really hope that your health improves and you get the help you need. I'm glad that you're starting to feel better.



hug2



P.S. You can also add me to your list of lawm-mowers, I'll be in NZ around February onwards '09 biggrin (You're going to need a bigger lawn at this rate...)

Live like there is no tomorrow,
dance like nobody is watching
and hula hoop like wiggling will save the world.

“What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.”

Ralph Waldo Emerson


BirgitBRONZE Member
had her carpal tunnel surgery already thanks v much
4,145 posts
Location: Edinburgh, Scotland (UK)


Posted:
Holly, we should coordinate the lawn-mowing. That means we both get all the honour, but half the work ubbidea

"vices are like genitals - most are ugly to behold, and yet we find that our own are dear to us."
(G.W. Dahlquist)

Owner of Dragosani's left half


KaelGotRiceGOLD Member
Basu gasu bakuhatsu - because sometimes buses explode
1,584 posts
Location: Angels Landing, USA


Posted:
Cheers Malcolm, your efforts are very much appreciated <3

To do: More Firedrums 08 video?

Wildfire/US East coast fire footage

LA/EDC glow/fire footage

Fresno fire


margitaSILVER Member
.:*distracted by shiny things*:.
3,777 posts
Location: brizvegas, Australia


Posted:
 Written by :Rouge Dragon


Although this now explains the lawn mowing wink



ubblol exactly what i was thinking!!! biggrin

malcolm you ROCK! clap without you there would be no hop...& it's been around for a long time now!! everyone needs a break from their job at some point & i reckon you have about the best reason out there!!! i personally didn't even notice that you weren't around as much (mainly cos i haven't been here as much!) but as some people have said - you are hop, you are the everpresent mysterious being who may not be highly visible...but you are there!! smile

hug

do not meddle in the affairs of dragons, for you are crunchy and good to eat!



if at first you do succeed, try not to look too astonished!



smile! :grin: it confuses people!


ValuraSILVER Member
Mumma Hen
6,391 posts
Location: Brisbane, Australia


Posted:
Malcolm,

I am really honoured that you would share such a personal story with us.

You have been the main driving force behind the success that is HOP, and a lot of your dedication (behind the public world of the blogs) goes unnoticed.

You even took the time out to send me flowers after our gorgeous son was born. That meant so much to us, and there will be something in the mail in about six months to show how much you mean to our family...

ubbrollsmile wink

You helped me find my soulmate... and not just me, but a whole slew of hoppers on here... now with all the babys in exsistance from the people who met on hop, you have helped to create a generation of hoppers ...(ewww does that sound dodgey? eek) and all because of the type of dedicated person you are.

Through all your hardships you have still been dedicated and given as much to hop as you physically and emotionally could.

Arsn and I have often spoken of how successfull hop is, but I can honestly say I didnt know the half of what what you have been through to help it become the business and community that it is.

Thank you for helping me to understand.

I hope that you could take a holiday, some time out for now, to just get back to where you feel stronger. You sound like you have done some amazing healing emotionally, but perhaps some time for yourself,and family, may assist in your pain?

Im not a doctor or profess to know what Im talking about, but in my bad health experiences I needed to take time out to just be and let my body slow down to heal.

Its proberbly very difficult for you to take time out to do that, but prephaps people could pull together for a good three weeks to do anything we can to assist...?

You are deeply respected here Malcolm, but I dont believe that is validated to you enough... sometimes its just nice to hear that you have done a great job. biggrin

Kia Kaha...
Be Strong. hug

TAJ "boat mummy." VALURA "yes sweetie you went on a boat, was daddy there with you?" TAJ "no, but monkey on boat" VALURA "well then sweetie, Daddy WAS there with you"


Nephtysresident fridge magnet
835 posts
Location: Utrecht, The Netherlands


Posted:
hug Malcolm hug

I've been away for a bit and missed whatever precipitated this, but I just wanted to say I NEVER doubted your commitment to HOP, and I will be eternally grateful to you for creating this place, for all the wonderful people I've met here, the many things I've learned.

I'm so sorry to hear about all that you have had to cope with and are still coping with, and I'm so impressed with your positivity and unbelievably hard work through it all.

Unfortunately I don't think I will make it over to NZ any time soon, but consider me astrally projected with my astral lawnmower mowing your astral plane.... can I have some astral ice cream now please?

hug Malcolm hug

everyone's unique except me


splinterificGOLD Member
enthusiast
248 posts
Location: Ireland


Posted:
 Written by :pricklyleaf


biggrin (You're going to need a bigger lawn at this rate...)



or miraclegrow biggrin

BurdaASILVER Member
Sacrebleu
377 posts
Location: At the quiet limit, United Kingdom


Posted:
Sorry to hear of your tribulations. I haven't even been here long but you're clearly a hero hug2 *squeezes Malcolm...real hard*

Poi(poi~y) n. : A Hawaiian food made from the tuber of the taro that is cooked, pounded to a paste, and fermented.
- part owner of Wooktastic™ ©


jo_rhymesSILVER Member
Momma Bear
4,525 posts
Location: Telford, Shrops, United Kingdom


Posted:
 Written by :Valura



You helped me find my soulmate... and not just me, but a whole slew of hoppers on here... now with all the babys in exsistance from the people who met on hop, you have helped to create a generation of hoppers ...(ewww does that sound dodgey? eek)






ubblol it's true!! Malcolm, perhaps you could consider creating a dating website!! ubbrollsmile

Hoppers are angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly.


fluffy napalm fairyCarpal \'Tunnel
3,638 posts
Location: Brum / Dorset / Fairy Land


Posted:
You mean this isn't a dating website? Oops.......... redface

Geologists do it in the dirt................ spank


newgabeSILVER Member
what goes around comes around. unless you're into stalls.
4,030 posts
Location: Bali, Australia


Posted:
ubblol ubblol ubblol

.....Can't juggle balls but I sure as hell can juggle details....


BirdGOLD Member
now available in "advanced"
6,086 posts
Location: Cornwall, United Kingdom


Posted:
Hey Malcolm,

Just stumbled across this thread and thought I'd throw a thought or 2 of my own into the mix.

Firstly, as stated by many others, you don't need to justify yourself to us, after all, most of the people here have never, and probably will never meet you, or the family you work endlessly to support.

I feel sure, having read your first post in this thread, that If it weren't for your focus on, and dedication to HoP, Cherry and Jesse, you may well not have had the mental strength to keep going.

Having met you a couple of years ago (damn, was it really that long already) it was clear to me that you need HoP as a part of your life, as much as it needs you to keep it going as a strong business.

All the work and effort that you (and the rest of the team for that matter) put in really is appreciated by the regular users, most of whom see this as a family, not just an online community.

Anyway, I've babbled on enough for a Sunday morning, so I'll leave you with a hug and a grouphug to share with Jesse and Cherry.

One day, I'll be back to give them in person, but for now, look after yourself.

smile

My state of mind is not yours to define!

There is a very fine line between "hobby" and "mental illness."


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