"A beautiful day. When it ends nothing remains the way it was..."
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like im in my college years and stuff and thats wut college is all about.. right?
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Virginity like bubble,one prick all gone.
Chief adviser to the Pharaoh, in one very snazzy mutli-coloured coat
'Time goes by so slowly for those who wait...' - Whatever Happend To Baby Madonna?
Hoppers are angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly.
Well, shall we go?
Yes, let's go.
[They do not move.]
Written by: SeventyMiles
does anyone know any motivational reasons why I should remain abstinent?
Written by: NYC
1) Form Value System
2) Find Someone Who Shares That System
In that order.
There is a slight possibility that I am not actually right all of the time.
Written by: Eera
Personally (and there are going to be people who disagree) I think being young is a time for experimentation (safely!) where you can get it out of your system, so that when you're ready for marriage you're not going to be wondering what else is out there because you already know, and realise it's nothing as good as being with the one person you really care about.
"You've gone from Loey the Wonder Lesbian to everyone wondering if you are a lesbian." - Shadowman
Yesterday is yesterday. If we try to recapture it, we will only lose tomorrow.
Written by: PsyRushWritten by: NYC
1) Form Value System
2) Find Someone Who Shares That System
In that order.
True, but it's not always that easy to just pick a value system and stick to it, when there's so much variety in our culture and all its subcultures.
Well, shall we go?
Yes, let's go.
[They do not move.]
Are you up for it?
;)
-Mike
Certified Mad Doctor and HoP High Priest of Nutella
A buckuht n a hooze! -Valura
Written by: SeventyMiles
i would like to start a relationship with her but I can't see myself being tortured for eternity by not having sex
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourself, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous and talented? Who are you NOT to be?
Written by: NYCWritten by: PsyRushWritten by: NYC
1) Form Value System
2) Find Someone Who Shares That System
In that order.
True, but it's not always that easy to just pick a value system and stick to it, when there's so much variety in our culture and all its subcultures.
Umm... what? Do your values usually change depending on what tune your ipod shuffles to?
It was a day for screaming at inanimate objects.
What this calls for is a special mix of psychology and extreme violence...
"Lots of beeping. And shaking and tinfoil." Chelly
"Are you sure it's a genuine test and not a robot heroin addict?" Cantus
---set free by the rather lovely FireTom---
--(right arm owned by Fyre)--
Written by: RoziWritten by: NYCWritten by: PsyRushWritten by: NYC
1) Form Value System
2) Find Someone Who Shares That System
In that order.
True, but it's not always that easy to just pick a value system and stick to it, when there's so much variety in our culture and all its subcultures.
Umm... what? Do your values usually change depending on what tune your ipod shuffles to?
Did your values and taste in music not change as your grew older and experienced new things?
Well, shall we go?
Yes, let's go.
[They do not move.]
Love is the law.
Written by: Colin J
always remember that no means yes
Feed me Chocolate!!! Feed me NOW!
Written by: SkulduggeryWritten by: Colin J
always remember that no means yes
You might have said this as a joke but I'm not laughing. Nor will a few thousand other women that have been raped.
"Lots of beeping. And shaking and tinfoil." Chelly
"Are you sure it's a genuine test and not a robot heroin addict?" Cantus
---set free by the rather lovely FireTom---
--(right arm owned by Fyre)--
Written by: NYC
My taste in music certainly has changed but I've never found it difficult to stick with a value system that I believed in and CERTAINLY never found the variety of subcultures tempting me out of my values.
"Oh, but the KKK have those sporty robes, maybe I'll join them!"
I think that opinions can change overnight but value systems should be relatively core to one's being.
Written by: NYC
"Oh, but the KKK have those sporty robes, maybe I'll join them!"
Ask a question and be a fool for a minute...don't ask and be a fool your whole life.
Written by: ben-ja-menWritten by: SeventyMiles
i would like to start a relationship with her but I can't see myself being tortured for eternity by not having sex
sounds like you already know the answer to your problem but you just dont like what it is.
I AM NOT A GAY MAN!
Written by: Colin J
always remember that no means yes
Written by: Patriarch917im not so sure that its a question of maturity so much as being well informed when making the most important decision of your life, you wouldnt buy the first house you liked the look of would you? i know i sure wouldnt its a big decision that impacts the rest of your life, its something i would be putting alot of research into. to me a life partner is aloooooooot more important than a house hence i think it deserves an appropriate ammount of research.
If you think college is about having sex without commitment (as many do) then we merely have different values. As was pointed out, this is controversial. Many would tell you that it is crazy to marry during college, and that you are not mature enough at that point.
Written by: Patriarch917it would be better if you realised you where incompatible after two years of marriage?
On the other hand, you might also feel bad about having sex with her for two years, then breaking up to be with someone else.
Written by: Patriarch917if it doesnt then it means your doing it wrong
True, sex tends to create an intimate bond between persons
Written by: Patriarch917totally agree with you there
All else being equal, the best environment in which to raise children is with parents who have an intimate and powerful bond with each other.
Written by: Patriarch917how exactly does it make for a better marriage? surely getting married because you know that person is the one who you are going to spend the rest of your life with is much better than getting married because your body is telling you its ready to have sex? i think you might be over simplifing the whole poverty/crime/well adjusted ppl thing just a tad.
Motivation to keep sex within marriage? Aside from eliminating pregnancy and STDs, it makes for a better marriage, which leads to a better family, which means you will raise better children, who will in turn create better families, and soon the world will be full of well adjusted, disease free people. Poverty and crime will go down, AIDS will be unable to spread, and your offspring will be more fit to survive. Your progeny will rule the earth, and you will be heralded as the founder of a great people.
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourself, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous and talented? Who are you NOT to be?
Written by: ado-p
My value systems have changed fairly dramaticly over the course of my life.
Its important and admirable to have good values. I think its also important to be able to re-evaluate oneself in the face of the changes that life brings.
Well, shall we go?
Yes, let's go.
[They do not move.]
"You've gone from Loey the Wonder Lesbian to everyone wondering if you are a lesbian." - Shadowman
Yesterday is yesterday. If we try to recapture it, we will only lose tomorrow.
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