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Posted:alright.... heres my problem... im in love with this girl... who ive known for 2 years. since the moment i saw her, i could swear everything blacked out, except for her... and christ, when i saw her smile, a smirk had to appear on my face. She is the most wonderful person ive known. I am walking her home on the last day of school, which is on friday, 3 days from today. I call her my everything, my (her name), and my goddess. She is really flattered by such names, i just dont know what i should do. She wants me to sing for her, I Miss you - Incubus. and i wrote her a poem. She has also been telling me she has a suprise which she has to give with no one around... I really care for her, shes been my friend for 2 years people... 2 years... and if the fact that i love her disrupts our friendship, ill be taking the biggest risk of my life, she is my everything, without her, i am simply nothing. She calls me her everything and her superman. She just means so much to me, i dont know if i can risk it all... and if i can only be her best friend (bestestest buddyyyyy in her words) i guess... well i guess its okay... she knows me inside out, she knows every flaw in me. When i walk her, what do i do? Do i try and hold her hand, do i give her a kiss for goodbye? Note: this would be my first kiss, so honestly i wouldnt know how to do it, but you have to start out somewhere biggrin. Please, though... i need your help... i dont know what to do, im completely blank of ideas... please help me..

"I don't know what you are talking about"

"Cardinal!!! Poke her... with the SOFT CUSIONS!!!!"

"Its not working my lord!"

"Have you got all of the stuffing on one end?!"

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TinklePants
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TinklePants

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Posted:ditto ubblol

Always use "so's your face" and "only on Tuesdays" in as many conversations possible

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alien_oddity


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Posted:whats the score ravereprisent???? are you two going out, seeing each other what ubblol come on tell us, no need to go into detail but it would be nice to know if you sucked it up and asked her out wink

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Posted:Cooo your impetuous aren't you smile

Some men see things and say why....

I Dream of things that never were and say Why Not....?

Oh No I'm going to get Shot Alive if he finds out - DA wink

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alien_oddity


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Posted:eek just curious wink

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steaks
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steaks

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Posted:Al, if you read back about half a page or so, you will see that he is taking her to the movies tomorrow to see Omen smile

Don't be too upfront in the movies with touching her, just leave one arm on the arm rest between you and let her reach out to touch/hold you. If you can get seats with a raisable arm rest between them as well, bonus, makes snuggling much easier wink Good luck and enjoy the movie/time with her hug


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Loki_the_trickster
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Posted:*Eagerly awaiting the next installment of "Representing Rave"*

So how'd the movie go hey?

I know I'm not to only one whos been wondering and sitting waiting while drinking to much coffee and smoking to many cigarettes.

So????????
Come on!!!!!!!!!!!
WE MUST KNOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Just_Another_Clown


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Posted:ditto

Im dying to know what happened aswell. biggrin


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A:"One, but another 99 others saying,'I could do that if I only practised more'" biggrin biggrin

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alien_oddity


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Posted:ditto thirded biggrin

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say_cheese
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Posted:ditto forthed confused biggrin

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FoxInDocs
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Posted::dito: fithed

"i am exotic, and must keep my arms down" - Rougie

"i don't understand what penises have to do with getting married" - Foxie

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Harry_Potter


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Posted:Grrrrrrr, that is all im saying. Grrrrrr. TELL HER!!!!!! Also that.

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'Its people like us, who make them feel talentless.'

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faith enfire
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faith enfire

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Posted:oh, no, he lived on the edge and fell off

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Nay, whatever comes one hour was sunlit and the most high gods may not make boast of any better thing than to have watched that hour as it passed

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Just_Another_Clown


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Posted:No. Don't say that! frown

Q:"How many Jugglers Does it take to change a light bulb?"
A:"One, but another 99 others saying,'I could do that if I only practised more'" biggrin biggrin

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Dangerousmind66


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Posted:He probably doesnt have time for us anymore...

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steaks
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Posted:Good on that man/boy if he no longer has time to waste in front of a monitor ubblol
I have been having to head my own advice recently as well, but tihs isn't the place to dicuss it wink

Hope all went well buddy hug


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FoxInDocs
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Posted:oh yeah... it's only friday now isn't... damnit i have to wait till tomorrow...

"i am exotic, and must keep my arms down" - Rougie

"i don't understand what penises have to do with getting married" - Foxie

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gita
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Posted:eek ack! i'm at the end! i've read the whole thing! but! but! but! WHAT HAPPENED!? *hyperventilates* tongue

my goddess i can't believe you're 12 rave! i'm more than twice your age & i hope that someday some guy will fall for me like you have for your angel! ubblove smile

*taps foot impatiently waiting to hear what the bloody hell happened*


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BansheeCat
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Posted:Arrgghhh! I can't take the tension anymore! Get back on line you crazy love child!

"God *was* my co-pilot, but then we crashed, and I had to eat him..."

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Posted: Written by: gita


my goddess i can't believe you're 12 rave! i'm more than twice your age & i hope that someday some guy will fall for me like you have for your angel! ubblove smile



hug oh are you going to be alright. Your knight in shining armour will come!! ubblove ubblol hug2


:admires giant wooden aeroplane: Its about time trees were good for something, instead of just standing their like jerks!!! ubblol ubbtickled

Homer rocks!!!! ubblol ubbrollsmile

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gita
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Posted:tongue spank

is rave back on yet? i wanna know what happened!!!! biggrin ubblove


do not meddle in the affairs of dragons, for you are crunchy and good to eat!

if at first you do succeed, try not to look too astonished!

smile! grin it confuses people!

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Posted:ubbtickled kiss hug2

:admires giant wooden aeroplane: Its about time trees were good for something, instead of just standing their like jerks!!! ubblol ubbtickled

Homer rocks!!!! ubblol ubbrollsmile

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Posted:omg... so happy.... so... so so happy... im sorry for the late response as i was grounded. But back to the fun part.. we went to the movies, It was rated R. Her mother had to watch it with us. Thankfully her mother was very sweet and understanding. She sat in the very last row and told us to go where we want. The movie was fascinating, not scary at all. When a pop up would strike she jumped for my hand... the feel of her skin... the sound of her gasping.. her eyes looking into mine.... it was so beautiful. the movie ended, her mother said "ill give you two an hour to yourselves, ill be in the car, when youre ready, head to the lot" me and her stared in excitement. So her mother trails off, we hold hands under the suns power and the clouds grace. We look at eachother. I talked about the movies, and slipped some detail that i enjoyed being with her, like "the movie was great... but it wouldnt have been anywhere as good if you were not here... youre my better half, with you i feel complete" pretty awesome speach eh? alright so we walk around the mall, just chatting. I see an area, so beautiful, so graceful. It was a little wooden area next to a fountain. I suggested we head towards it, we did. We decided to make wishes, my wish was that i would kiss her, next time i see her. I wasnt ready this time. She stared at me beautifully, shaded by the sun, tan from its glare. I hold her hands, so delicut, so soft. We stare into eachothers eyes. Her hazel eyes pounded in my heart, i thought "IS THIS IT?!? IS THIS THE KISS?!? IT HAS TO BE!" we continue our stare, slowly move closer, her phone gets a text right before anything happens. Her mother - "honey, come back to the car now" Just like that, she was taken from me, the perfect area, the perfect girl, the perfect sun. I was ready, that was the moment i longed for, her mother interrupted it. Still holding hands, she announces her mothers request. We head to her mother's car. With a big smile, she waves goodbye (her mother) and the girl stood there, we stared at eachother. Silence filled our lips... our lungs... our brains... nothing to say, but i felt so complete. She gave her biggest smile and walked off and waved. The happiest moment of my life. After thats over. i stand on the sidewalk, love struck. My heart doesnt understand what it had just gone through, my girl of my dreams... held my hand... she text me when she was in her car "i shouldve done something... but i didnt do it, it was right before the wish... my mom.... and... im just sorry" my eyes are immensly struck with love and regret. She wanted to kiss me.... i wanted to kiss her... i didnt do it. But i know she wants it, when i see her. When i see her smile, her beautiful, breathe taking smile... i will kiss her. I will touch her soft lips and i will tell her how i feel. I have never felt this good in my life. We scheduled a meet in the park under the sunset sky. There, i will kiss her...

"I don't know what you are talking about"

"Cardinal!!! Poke her... with the SOFT CUSIONS!!!!"

"Its not working my lord!"

"Have you got all of the stuffing on one end?!"

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faith enfire
BRONZE Member since Mar 2017

faith enfire

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Posted:omg how romanticubblove ubblove

and you are 12?
well, good luck with this kiss
bouncebouncebounce

we're going to have to ground you for making us wait for so long


Faith
Nay, whatever comes one hour was sunlit and the most high gods may not make boast of any better thing than to have watched that hour as it passed

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Posted:actually 13. And again, im sorry for how long it took me to respond, i talked back to my mom.... she insulted me pretty badly... and well.... the story caught on... im sorry for the delay. i really am.

"I don't know what you are talking about"

"Cardinal!!! Poke her... with the SOFT CUSIONS!!!!"

"Its not working my lord!"

"Have you got all of the stuffing on one end?!"

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faith enfire
BRONZE Member since Mar 2017

faith enfire

wandering thru the woods of WI
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Posted:well, either way, you are very mature for your age...look at us hanging on each word, Y'all are lucky
so when are you meeting her again...that way we don't have to harass you
(Here's a secret. Sometimes we all say things we don't mean, or don't even know that we said. Parents are not excluded from this. My mom and I used to be at each others throats all the time, but then I thought about how bad I would feel if my daughter would do that to me soapbox )

but I think we still need to ground you...if only to be able to pump you for more information...
Anyone second the idea?
bounce spank bounce beerchug bounce
Wait, give me back the beer. You're too young to drink in Wisconsin


Faith
Nay, whatever comes one hour was sunlit and the most high gods may not make boast of any better thing than to have watched that hour as it passed

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alien_oddity


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Posted: Written by: RaveRepresent


she jumped for my hand... the feel of her skin... the sound of her gasping.. her eyes looking into mine.... it was so beautiful.




ubblol sounds almost pornographic dude ubblol


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nonenonenone
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Posted:lol almost! but no, its all so poetic!!! ubblove

aww aww aww! lovely!! ubblove

good luck with it all!!!


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Fathom
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Posted:<sniffle> <sniffle> ubbcrying ubblove biggrin



just remember to play safe kids.... wink


Kangaroo Island eh? I hear that place is really hopping!

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Posted:Hah, when i was typing that, i had a feeling someone would say something like that RaveHead. Well, kinda glad you did, although it had no intent to be pornagraphic.... ubblol I couldnt dig deep enough in me to find words to describe my feelings so i described what happened, and you could imagine the man/woman you love doing that same thing... Shes my angel, and the only sunshine in my life. As for our next meet, it will be under the sunset skies of tropical park. And as for the date, i have to ask parents for a good time. My muscles and nerves are in complete awe... lol, im so amazed that she might feel the way that i do... maybe she is on another site, saying the same thing as I.... ubblove, but we can only dream for so long?

"I don't know what you are talking about"

"Cardinal!!! Poke her... with the SOFT CUSIONS!!!!"

"Its not working my lord!"

"Have you got all of the stuffing on one end?!"

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Posted:Faithinfire. Amen, i lost my actions. I shouldve kept my cool, my emotions were jumping like those little mexican jumping beans on pogo sticks with steroids... bounce biggrin I dont enjoy getting on people's nerves. Im a lover, not a fighter wink and my mom doesnt deserve what i said, as a matter of fact, i feel so crappy, mind you that she is divorced and is in debt... i shouldnt just run my mouth. Although i didnt deserve that treatment, we all lose our cool

"I don't know what you are talking about"

"Cardinal!!! Poke her... with the SOFT CUSIONS!!!!"

"Its not working my lord!"

"Have you got all of the stuffing on one end?!"

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