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Posted:
This is NOT a thread of me getting ticked because men’s eyes having the tendency of moving to ones breast during a conversation, the more endowed a woman is the more likely it is going to happen. Some things you can’t control and that is one of them. This I observed during a conversation with Moondoggy this week.
But I am not complaining about that … what I’m complaining about is that men don’t have something that is so readily available for us WOMEN to ogle at! We can’t ogle at a chest that is covered with a shirt, when the shirt isn’t skin tight, men don’t have the tendency of wearing their trousers skin tight, and the only time we can ogle a nice looking butt is if he’s standing up. Then we have to be behind him to get a decent view, which completely leaves out any conversation with a quick look, like men have done for ages.
So in my opinion it is totally unfair that a man doesn’t have something that can be easily ogled at by us women. My opinion with change slight during the summer, when it warms up enough for the guys to remove their shirts.
And I wouldn't be at all suprised if this thread gets yanked. I just needed to get this off my chest ... so mods yank it if you think it needs to be done.
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This is NOT a thread of me getting ticked because men’s eyes having the tendency of moving to ones breast during a conversation, the more endowed a woman is the more likely it is going to happen. Some things you can’t control and that is one of them. This I observed during a conversation with Moondoggy this week.
But I am not complaining about that … what I’m complaining about is that men don’t have something that is so readily available for us WOMEN to ogle at! We can’t ogle at a chest that is covered with a shirt, when the shirt isn’t skin tight, men don’t have the tendency of wearing their trousers skin tight, and the only time we can ogle a nice looking butt is if he’s standing up. Then we have to be behind him to get a decent view, which completely leaves out any conversation with a quick look, like men have done for ages.
So in my opinion it is totally unfair that a man doesn’t have something that can be easily ogled at by us women. My opinion with change slight during the summer, when it warms up enough for the guys to remove their shirts.
And I wouldn't be at all suprised if this thread gets yanked. I just needed to get this off my chest ... so mods yank it if you think it needs to be done.
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Posted:
If you want no-one to look, wear clothes that don't show it off a lot. That's what us guys do, that's why you women get grumpy at not being able to look at us...
The problem is, us guys are all concerned about what other people think of the size of our package, that we don't want to show it off in case just one person thinks 'That's kinda small, Ha Ha'. Women don't have this problem, because men don't often laugh at a girl for having small breasts. They look at the small breasts, and think what they can still do with them, rather than thinking 'If they were bigger, I could do this', or 'They're not big enough to satisfy'.
IMO, The girls who wear those small skimpy tops want people to look, other wise they wouldn't do their best to show of their cleavage. The girls who wear those Skimpy tops, and then complain about men looking at their breasts, is either lesbian, a feminist that really likes to have a go at men, or just really likes having a go at men.
If there's any type of person I've missed out, please let me know...
and of course we're gonna notice breasts. they stick out in front of you. They're the closest thing for us to look at, and the first thing to come into focus when you're walking towards us. And a lot of us slouch anyway, so our gaze is already immediately directed south... We don't like having to try really hard to focus that extra however many inches it is to be able to see your face clearly... Plus testicles, a penis and testosterone often cloud our vision... 
If you want no-one to look, wear clothes that don't show it off a lot. That's what us guys do, that's why you women get grumpy at not being able to look at us...
The problem is, us guys are all concerned about what other people think of the size of our package, that we don't want to show it off in case just one person thinks 'That's kinda small, Ha Ha'. Women don't have this problem, because men don't often laugh at a girl for having small breasts. They look at the small breasts, and think what they can still do with them, rather than thinking 'If they were bigger, I could do this', or 'They're not big enough to satisfy'.
IMO, The girls who wear those small skimpy tops want people to look, other wise they wouldn't do their best to show of their cleavage. The girls who wear those Skimpy tops, and then complain about men looking at their breasts, is either lesbian, a feminist that really likes to have a go at men, or just really likes having a go at men.
If there's any type of person I've missed out, please let me know... and of course we're gonna notice breasts. they stick out in front of you. They're the closest thing for us to look at, and the first thing to come into focus when you're walking towards us. And a lot of us slouch anyway, so our gaze is already immediately directed south... We don't like having to try really hard to focus that extra however many inches it is to be able to see your face clearly...
Plus testicles, a penis and testosterone often cloud our vision... Empty your mind. Be formless, Shapeless, like Water.
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Posted:
well that was very erm how you say well i have no word for it but i dont have that problem with men, i have a problem with them not noticing me
well that was very erm how you say well i have no word for it but i dont have that problem with men, i have a problem with them not noticing me
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it's never the size - it's how you use it
and as long as you don't hide 'em - sure I'll notice 
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*polishes his glasses sparkly*
it's never the size - it's how you use it
and as long as you don't hide 'em - sure I'll notice
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*polishes his glasses sparkly*
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well i kind of hide it because i feel very uncomfortable with when im trying to have a conversation knowing that his attention is on other things
well i kind of hide it because i feel very uncomfortable with when im trying to have a conversation knowing that his attention is on other things
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seems I got destracted already...
you said: "i have a problem with them not noticing me" and I thought you'd have a problem with one not noticing "them"...
sorry sweetheart... but never mind - some guys can still look beyond the physique...
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*polishes his glasses and adjusts focus*
seems I got destracted already... you said: "i have a problem with them not noticing me" and I thought you'd have a problem with one not noticing "them"...
sorry sweetheart... but never mind - some guys can still look beyond the physique...
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*polishes his glasses and adjusts focus*
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mm that just proved my point
mm that just proved my point
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so, from what i've gathered on this thread, girls would like something to purve at on guys, in retaliation for them purving on the girls?
should i start posting with my tshirt off?
so, from what i've gathered on this thread, girls would like something to purve at on guys, in retaliation for them purving on the girls?
should i start posting with my tshirt off?
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yes please
yes please
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The back of me minus shirt is at the top now...
If you're delayed in reading this, its here
The back of me minus shirt is at the top now...
If you're delayed in reading this, its here
"beg beg grovel beg grovel"
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oooo very nice except the scratch, from a girl? lol
oooo very nice except the scratch, from a girl? lol
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nope. a stockwhip. It hurt. Lots.
nope. a stockwhip. It hurt. Lots.
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Oh, honey. I disagree completely.
Ok, girl talk time. (Boys, shut your eyes)
Let's see, there's his face (eyes'll get me a long way), there's his arms biceps if he's wearing short sleeves, there's that bit in the back just above the butt where the flanks go into the butt if he's standing, there's his arse, which, as you said, you have to go around to see, but nonetheless it's there...
And really, a man's chest, even when covered with a shirt, can be a beautiful thing.
You just need to be more creative, dear.
(OK, boys, you can open your eyes now.)
(BOYS?!?!?!? YOU CAN OPEN YOUR EYES NOW!!!)
(BOYS??? Crap, would someone go tap them on the shoulder?)
Written by: Gidg
But I am not complaining about that … what I’m complaining about is that men don’t have something that is so readily available for us WOMEN to ogle at! We can’t ogle at a chest that is covered with a shirt, when the shirt isn’t skin tight, men don’t have the tendency of wearing their trousers skin tight, and the only time we can ogle a nice looking butt is if he’s standing up. Then we have to be behind him to get a decent view, which completely leaves out any conversation with a quick look, like men have done for ages.
Oh, honey. I disagree completely.
Ok, girl talk time. (Boys, shut your eyes)Let's see, there's his face (eyes'll get me a long way), there's his arms biceps if he's wearing short sleeves, there's that bit in the back just above the butt where the flanks go into the butt if he's standing, there's his arse, which, as you said, you have to go around to see, but nonetheless it's there...
And really, a man's chest, even when covered with a shirt, can be a beautiful thing.
You just need to be more creative, dear.
(OK, boys, you can open your eyes now.)
(BOYS?!?!?!? YOU CAN OPEN YOUR EYES NOW!!!)
(BOYS??? Crap, would someone go tap them on the shoulder?)
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https://mig.everythingforums.com/small%20pics/DSC00192.jpg
BTDT
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should i start posting with my tshirt off?
https://mig.everythingforums.com/small%20pics/DSC00192.jpg
BTDT
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I never closed mine
I never closed mine
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Posted:
btdt?
btdt?
"beg beg grovel beg grovel"
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ok anyway lightning hun who is tree?
ok anyway lightning hun who is tree?
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this is getting cryptic
besides - my avatar not (PG-)sexy enough? 
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ok anyway lightning hun who is tree?
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BTDT
this is getting cryptic
besides - my avatar not (PG-)sexy enough?
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no lightning is a match maker (apparently) and i got told that i would go well with a guy called 'tree'
no lightning is a match maker (apparently) and i got told that i would go well with a guy called 'tree'
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easy way to fix that.. girls, wear loose / non revealing tops, and guys, do the same.. that way no ogling goes on :P lol
easy way to fix that.. girls, wear loose / non revealing tops, and guys, do the same.. that way no ogling goes on :P lol
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so i should change out of my very booby singlet top then?
so i should change out of my very booby singlet top then?
i would have changed ***** to phallus, and claire to petey Petey
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Naaa, if men and women didn't ogle at each other then most relationships would never of happened and some of us might not be here....
Fair enough, it probably does get intrusive, but its an instictive nature to all of us. if something looks nice, we look!!
As for keeping it fair, i will gladly take my shirt off for anyone that asks it of me!!
Naaa, if men and women didn't ogle at each other then most relationships would never of happened and some of us might not be here....
Fair enough, it probably does get intrusive, but its an instictive nature to all of us. if something looks nice, we look!!
As for keeping it fair, i will gladly take my shirt off for anyone that asks it of me!!
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From www.adbusters.org spoof adverts, made me chuckle
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To be fair it is all a bit of fun, and there are very few people that spoil ogling for the rest of us and take it to an offensive level . . .
I have had days were I have ogled alot and also days when I show off and try to ogled (why else spin fire with your top off) I mean how many blokes on here have photos of them half naked in their galleries - it makes you feel good . . .
Keep on the ogling
To be fair it is all a bit of fun, and there are very few people that spoil ogling for the rest of us and take it to an offensive level . . .
I have had days were I have ogled alot and also days when I show off and try to ogled (why else spin fire with your top off) I mean how many blokes on here have photos of them half naked in their galleries - it makes you feel good . . .
Keep on the ogling
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i'm still lost as to what bdtd means...
i'm still lost as to what bdtd means...
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meh
meh
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Especially because Matty is a very, VERY oglable (is that a word?) bloke...
Written by: Matty B
I have had days were I have ogled alot and also days when I show off and try to ogled (why else spin fire with your top off) I mean how many blokes on here have photos of them half naked in their galleries - it makes you feel good . . .
Keep on the ogling
Especially because Matty is a very, VERY oglable (is that a word?) bloke...
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Been There Done That
Written by: MiG
i'm still lost as to what bdtd means...
Been There Done That
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thanks doc 
so much to the "esgap"-thread
Allright I will not strop ogling and I will continue to spin with my shirt off... fair is fair
Today I met a girl who wore a shirt with many different varieties of cats on it and the question: How would you like your pussy?
I like it when girls do that
a) we have an excuse for ogling, errm reading
b) we get a message along with something beautiful (smart advertising)
so if you girls would wear more Mahatma Ghandi, Buddha, Message Shirts - man you would be able to change the world!!! as we (male) know it!
thanks doc so much to the "esgap"-thread Allright I will not strop ogling and I will continue to spin with my shirt off... fair is fair
Today I met a girl who wore a shirt with many different varieties of cats on it and the question: How would you like your pussy?
I like it when girls do that a) we have an excuse for ogling, errm reading
b) we get a message along with something beautiful (smart advertising)
so if you girls would wear more Mahatma Ghandi, Buddha, Message Shirts - man you would be able to change the world!!! as we (male) know it!
the best smiles are the ones you lead to
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ok that is creepy t-shirt, im glad my cloths are just plain black t-shirts, i dont like drawing attention to myself (except when im wearing stripes!!!)
ok that is creepy t-shirt, im glad my cloths are just plain black t-shirts
, i dont like drawing attention to myself (except when im wearing stripes!!!) Actually back on HoP guys ...
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bikini-stripes (only?) well that seems catchy...
bikini-stripes (only?) well that seems catchy... the best smiles are the ones you lead to
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