Keep your dream alive
Dreamin is still how the strong survive
Shalom VeAhavah
New Hampshire has a point....
If money is the root of all evil, then why do people sell Bibles?
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Creater of Jenisms(TM)
Virginity like bubble,one prick all gone.
Fear leads to anger; anger leads to hate; hate leads to suffering...
Actually back on HoP guys ...
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Owns Fyre and Mods_Stole_My_Name
before i met those lot i thought they'd be a bunch of dreadlocked hippies that smoked, set things on fire ,and drank a lot of tea but then when i met them....oh wait (PyroWill)
"vices are like genitals - most are ugly to behold, and yet we find that our own are dear to us."
(G.W. Dahlquist)
Owner of Dragosani's left half
Well, shall we go?
Yes, let's go.
[They do not move.]
"God *was* my co-pilot, but then we crashed, and I had to eat him..."
Written by: andrealee
Kyrian, basically, you if you are hiding something because you know it is wrong, a bit dangerous, stupid or unethical, and thus dont want to have to try to defend an undefendable position when people find out what you are up to-( eg explain that it is really all okay, and a smart choice, when really, you have your own doubts about your behaviour,) well, it is obvious, stop it. Dont stop hiding it, stop doing it.
If whatever you are doing is a true thing that is in line with who you are, who you want to be, respecting your values and beliefs, and then no matter how strange or dangerous it comes across to others you should not be hiding it.
Show your true self.
That way others of like mind can support you , and others can challenge you, and both are useful expereinces in developing character.
If you are doing something crazy, for no good reason at all,against your own better judgement, as sometimes we all do, I would still have it out in the open, and respond to people concerns with simply that statement- "yeah, I know it is crazy, but I am doing it anyways and will accept the consequences. Thank you for your concern..."
Hiding things usually just hurts people, seriously.
I beleive you already answered your own question... Good luck with your dilemma,
smiles,
Andrea
* shuts off the computer now to go out and follow her own advice.. ;-))*
"Ours is not to question The Head; it is enough to revel in the ubiquitous inanity of The Head, the unwanted proximity of The Head, the unrelenting HellPresence of The Head, indeed the very UNYIELDING IRRELEVANCE of The Head!" --Revelation X