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13,215 posts
Location: without class distinction, Australia
Posted:
I can't be the only one here. Hands up who has absolutely terrible taste in boyfriends/girlfriends/the people they fall in love with. Please, I can't possibly be the only one.
My first love decided that my best friend was a better option.
But I got over that (except when it suits me to be a spiteful bitch...damn, I think that says something about me) and now tonight something else is bothering me. My most recent moron ex. The second guy i ever fell in love with. The little *&%£er screwed me around, didn't he? I didn't mind helping his way to Paris. Make a better life for himself (he's Romanian) than he otherwise would have had at home (I dont necessarily believe this but its what he wanted). I had no worries at all. But as the story unfolds, from what I can gather, he blew the money in the first week he was STILL IN ROMANIA and then had to steal the money and sell his phone to make it. This last part I was initially sceptical about, but more and more I am believing its likely.
I'm hoping to meet him in Paris in a few days to say hi. Be the nice person that I (like to think I) am. But his phone has been off. So Tonight I called one of his friends and he said Ionut (for this is the name of the moron) doesnt have a phone. [censored]. He has a phone. I GAVE HIM MY OLD ONE!!! Not wanting to leave him stranded in Paris with no phone because he sold his old one (I knew he had done that, the stealing realisation only came later) I gave him mine and the little [censored] has apparently gone and sold it.
I think the worst part is that I pretty much allowed it to happen. I like to think the best of people, and that shouldn't be a bad thing! Should it? But in trying to see the best in people I've been screwed around terribly and basically used.
Did I deserve this? I suppose I did for being so bloody trusting. But why should I suffer, as I said before, for doing something NICE!!!
So this is now a rant about my own stupidity. So lets change the question to "who is as stupid and blindly trusting as me?"
Tonight, I hate the world.
I can't be the only one here. Hands up who has absolutely terrible taste in boyfriends/girlfriends/the people they fall in love with. Please, I can't possibly be the only one.
My first love decided that my best friend was a better option.
But I got over that (except when it suits me to be a spiteful bitch...damn, I think that says something about me) and now tonight something else is bothering me. My most recent moron ex. The second guy i ever fell in love with. The little *&%£er screwed me around, didn't he? I didn't mind helping his way to Paris. Make a better life for himself (he's Romanian) than he otherwise would have had at home (I dont necessarily believe this but its what he wanted). I had no worries at all. But as the story unfolds, from what I can gather, he blew the money in the first week he was STILL IN ROMANIA and then had to steal the money and sell his phone to make it. This last part I was initially sceptical about, but more and more I am believing its likely.
I'm hoping to meet him in Paris in a few days to say hi. Be the nice person that I (like to think I) am. But his phone has been off. So Tonight I called one of his friends and he said Ionut (for this is the name of the moron) doesnt have a phone. [censored]. He has a phone. I GAVE HIM MY OLD ONE!!! Not wanting to leave him stranded in Paris with no phone because he sold his old one (I knew he had done that, the stealing realisation only came later) I gave him mine and the little [censored] has apparently gone and sold it.
I think the worst part is that I pretty much allowed it to happen. I like to think the best of people, and that shouldn't be a bad thing! Should it? But in trying to see the best in people I've been screwed around terribly and basically used.
Did I deserve this? I suppose I did for being so bloody trusting. But why should I suffer, as I said before, for doing something NICE!!!
So this is now a rant about my own stupidity. So lets change the question to "who is as stupid and blindly trusting as me?"
Tonight, I hate the world.
i would have changed ***** to phallus, and claire to petey Petey
Rougie: but that's what I'm doing here
Arnwyn: what letting me adjust myself in your room?..don't you dare quote that on HoP...
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Carpal \'Tunnel
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Location: Hastings, United Kingdom
Carpal \'Tunnel
4,172 posts
Location: Hastings, United Kingdom
Posted:
the new man to grace my lovelife at the mo is ten years older than me, and has a 3 year old son...
My friend nailed it in one statemant -
"Youse sure know how to pick them Aimz!"
Huggles for your upsets
EDITED_BY: *Aimée* (1130445024)
the new man to grace my lovelife at the mo is ten years older than me, and has a 3 year old son...
My friend nailed it in one statemant -
"Youse sure know how to pick them Aimz!"
Huggles for your upsets
EDITED_BY: *Aimée* (1130445024)
Dreamer
4,308 posts
Location: York, England
4,308 posts
Location: York, England
Posted:
:hugs:
Yes, I have bad taste. Not exclusively bad, but sometimes bad. Unfortunetly, my taste is bad enough that it can't relaly be discussed in public forums :/
One thing to say tho, they definety wern't the kinda bad where they cheat or anything, or even are trying to be evil... which is almost worse.
:hugs:
Yes, I have bad taste. Not exclusively bad, but sometimes bad. Unfortunetly, my taste is bad enough that it can't relaly be discussed in public forums :/
One thing to say tho, they definety wern't the kinda bad where they cheat or anything, or even are trying to be evil... which is almost worse.
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Location: 8 days at Cloudbreak, 6 in Perth, Australia
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1,433 posts
Location: 8 days at Cloudbreak, 6 in Perth, Australia
Posted:
No you're not alone at all Rouge! I have absolutely atrcoious taste in men to....
Lets see the first guy I ever dated was the manager of a strip club and dealt drugs on the side...need I say anymore.
The second guy I dated for three years (tried to get rid of him but he was really good at emotional blackmail) for two of those three years he didn't work just sat in my house eating my food (I supported him)...then my dad ended up paying for him to get his truck drivers licence and getting him a crappy job just so that I wasn't paying all the bills. When I finally broke up with him I was in $20,000 worth of debt due to supporting him on a crappy wage, flying him and myself to Sydney for my sisters wedding, doing repairs on his uncles house (paid through credit card) which was meant to be paid back to me but never was.....etc etc
The next one was an immature twat....
The one after that cheated on me not once but twice before I realised that he was screwed in the head and was only doing me more damage than good.
Now I am with a lovely guy who I have been friends with for quite a while, and though we seem to have our little differences we are going to be travelling together very soon...so maybe my luck has changed.
So I can fully sympathise with you!!!!
No you're not alone at all Rouge! I have absolutely atrcoious taste in men to....
Lets see the first guy I ever dated was the manager of a strip club and dealt drugs on the side...need I say anymore.
The second guy I dated for three years (tried to get rid of him but he was really good at emotional blackmail) for two of those three years he didn't work just sat in my house eating my food (I supported him)...then my dad ended up paying for him to get his truck drivers licence and getting him a crappy job just so that I wasn't paying all the bills. When I finally broke up with him I was in $20,000 worth of debt due to supporting him on a crappy wage, flying him and myself to Sydney for my sisters wedding, doing repairs on his uncles house (paid through credit card) which was meant to be paid back to me but never was.....etc etc
The next one was an immature twat....
The one after that cheated on me not once but twice before I realised that he was screwed in the head and was only doing me more damage than good.
Now I am with a lovely guy who I have been friends with for quite a while, and though we seem to have our little differences we are going to be travelling together very soon...so maybe my luck has changed.
So I can fully sympathise with you!!!!
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Posted:
i got left for my best mate too that sucks majorly especially after almost 2 years kiniving bitch grrr that was my 1st gf depressing thing is im only on my second hehe thats been about 15months now also even i know that guys are bastards but sumtimes women can be as bad (dont hate me)
i got left for my best mate too that sucks majorly especially after almost 2 years kiniving bitch grrr that was my 1st gf depressing thing is im only on my second hehe thats been about 15months now also even i know that guys are bastards but sumtimes women can be as bad (dont hate me)
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Carpal \'Tunnel
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Location: London, UK
Carpal \'Tunnel
6,942 posts
Location: London, UK
Posted:
guy are bastrits girls are witches
humanity is a joke and going to hell
but lets try to keep a positive face on it shall we?.....
relationships... no not gunna comment anymore
guy are bastrits girls are witches
humanity is a joke and going to hell
but lets try to keep a positive face on it shall we?.....
relationships... no not gunna comment anymore
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Out! Out! You demons of stupidity!
587 posts
Location: Somewhere, out there..., South Africa
Out! Out! You demons of stupidity!
587 posts
Location: Somewhere, out there..., South Africa
Posted:
I too have bad taste...
I finally realised it and thats why I have been single for two years
Thats life, I guess...
I too have bad taste...
I finally realised it and thats why I have been single for two years
Thats life, I guess...
It may be your sole purpose in life to serve as a warning to others
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Location: wombling free..., United Kingdom
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Location: wombling free..., United Kingdom
Posted:
i did.... think I'm getting MUCH better at it.
gone from 2 nutters, to a nice girl to someone amazing
i did.... think I'm getting MUCH better at it.
gone from 2 nutters, to a nice girl to someone amazing A couple of balls short of a full cascade... or maybe a few cards short of a deck... we'll see how this all fans out.
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comfortably numb
2,676 posts
Location: The countryside, Australia
comfortably numb
2,676 posts
Location: The countryside, Australia
Posted:
I can't say I've had any bad relationships.
I don't have bad taste.
It's just that I'm not tasteful enough for anybody.
To quote Team America - 'i'm so ronery'
I can't say I've had any bad relationships.
I don't have bad taste.
It's just that I'm not tasteful enough for anybody.
To quote Team America - 'i'm so ronery'
.All things are beautiful if we take the time to look.
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Location: Edinburgh burgh burrrrrr, United Kingdom
Clique Infiltrator, Cunning Linguist and Master Debator
4,219 posts
Location: Edinburgh burgh burrrrrr, United Kingdom
Posted:
you think you're safe huh...
I KNOW SOMETHING YOU DONT KNOW I KNOW SOMETHING YOU DONT KNOW
Hide glasses of milkshakes from her or you'll be sorry
She may tell you it was an accident.
Accidentally on purpose that is!
Written by: Mynci
i did.... think I'm getting MUCH better at it.
you think you're safe huh...
I KNOW SOMETHING YOU DONT KNOW I KNOW SOMETHING YOU DONT KNOW
Hide glasses of milkshakes from her or you'll be sorry
She may tell you it was an accident.
Accidentally on purpose that is!
Always use "so's your face" and "only on Tuesdays" in as many conversations possible
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Carpal \'Tunnel
5,814 posts
Location: Perth, Australia
Carpal \'Tunnel
5,814 posts
Location: Perth, Australia
Posted:
Rougie you out do me darl....
Im sure if you keep trying you can top your list of unsuitable poeple to have relationships with..
Rougie you out do me darl....
Im sure if you keep trying you can top your list of unsuitable poeple to have relationships with..
Is it the Truth?
Is it Fair to all concerned?
Will it build Goodwill and Better Friendships?
Will it be Beneficial to all concerned?
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Location: wales
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Location: wales
Posted:
my last boyf (4 1/2 yrs )was a solider we argued over what video to watch then he went to kenya for 4 mnths when he came back we STILL argued about the b@@@@y video.
my last boyf (4 1/2 yrs )was a solider we argued over what video to watch then he went to kenya for 4 mnths when he came back we STILL argued about the b@@@@y video.
hi
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Location: Edinburgh burgh burrrrrr, United Kingdom
Clique Infiltrator, Cunning Linguist and Master Debator
4,219 posts
Location: Edinburgh burgh burrrrrr, United Kingdom
Posted:
i always let guys walk over me and i get wrapped around their wee finger with promises of love and happiness.
I've learnt now that that's all bullsh*t
i always let guys walk over me and i get wrapped around their wee finger with promises of love and happiness.
I've learnt now that that's all bullsh*t
Always use "so's your face" and "only on Tuesdays" in as many conversations possible
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Snoochie-boochie-noochies!
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Location: United Kingdom
Snoochie-boochie-noochies!
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Location: United Kingdom
Posted:
last one left country with her new fella
one before her ripped me off £1200
last one left country with her new fella
one before her ripped me off £1200
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Location: Edinburgh burgh burrrrrr, United Kingdom
Clique Infiltrator, Cunning Linguist and Master Debator
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Location: Edinburgh burgh burrrrrr, United Kingdom
Posted:
If I was a man (no i'm not planning on getting an op - i'm just being hypothetical here) I would treat my lady like a princess, bone her whenever she wanted, treat her with respect, show her love and tenderness, sweep her off her feet.
but i'm not a man. but thats what i'd like to be done to me
If I was a man (no i'm not planning on getting an op - i'm just being hypothetical here) I would treat my lady like a princess, bone her whenever she wanted, treat her with respect, show her love and tenderness, sweep her off her feet.
but i'm not a man. but thats what i'd like to be done to me
Always use "so's your face" and "only on Tuesdays" in as many conversations possible
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Location: Missouri, USA
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Location: Missouri, USA
Posted:
my judgement was completly fooled.. my girlfriend and i got along great. had fun togther, played video games(i would useally lose.) But i have the dumb idea that we get married. as soon as i had a rign on my finger the girl changed. to a lazy dirty whore. now that we are split up she became the same thing that all of my ex-girlfriends become.......whores. i dont know why. but it make them alot easier to get over and never want to talk to again.
my judgement was completly fooled.. my girlfriend and i got along great. had fun togther, played video games(i would useally lose.) But i have the dumb idea that we get married. as soon as i had a rign on my finger the girl changed. to a lazy dirty whore. now that we are split up she became the same thing that all of my ex-girlfriends become.......whores. i dont know why. but it make them alot easier to get over and never want to talk to again.
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Pooh-Bah
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Location: York University, United Kingdom
Pooh-Bah
1,762 posts
Location: York University, United Kingdom
Posted:
You'd be amazed how often that *doesn't* work.
I tried doing several times. It got me the line: "you're so sweet, but..." and also "You're really nice and I wouldn't want to ruin our friendship..."
Conclusion: Girls rarely go for "Nice guys". The only exception to this is if said nice guy spins Fire. Try to be nice and you get labelled as "boring". Girls want a thrill of danger when they date a guy, not Prince Charming.
(Note: Not that that stops me from trying. It's how I found my current GF...
)
Written by: TinklePants
If I was a man (no i'm not planning on getting an op - i'm just being hypothetical here) I would treat my lady like a princess, bone her whenever she wanted, treat her with respect, show her love and tenderness, sweep her off her feet.
You'd be amazed how often that *doesn't* work.
I tried doing several times. It got me the line: "you're so sweet, but..." and also "You're really nice and I wouldn't want to ruin our friendship..."
Conclusion: Girls rarely go for "Nice guys". The only exception to this is if said nice guy spins Fire. Try to be nice and you get labelled as "boring". Girls want a thrill of danger when they date a guy, not Prince Charming.
(Note: Not that that stops me from trying. It's how I found my current GF...
) After much consideration, I find that the view is worth the asphyxiation.
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Dreamer
4,308 posts
Location: York, England
4,308 posts
Location: York, England
Posted:
Err? I like nice guys! I've even been in a long term relationship with one, and am er.. kind of seeing another now....
I think its just that most girls are idiots. And who wants to date *them*?
{NB: this is referring to the girls who date married serial killers and such}
Err? I like nice guys! I've even been in a long term relationship with one, and am er.. kind of seeing another now....
I think its just that most girls are idiots. And who wants to date *them*?
{NB: this is referring to the girls who date married serial killers and such}
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Pooh-Bah
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Location: York University, United Kingdom
Pooh-Bah
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Location: York University, United Kingdom
Posted:
I wasn't talking about you, obviously you're abnormal...
And obviously by "Abnormal" I mean you're not like most girls! See how that becomes a compliment?
Sometimes I even amaze myself with my own intelligence...
I wasn't talking about you, obviously you're abnormal...
And obviously by "Abnormal" I mean you're not like most girls! See how that becomes a compliment?
Sometimes I even amaze myself with my own intelligence...
After much consideration, I find that the view is worth the asphyxiation.
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Location: wombling free..., United Kingdom
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8,738 posts
Location: wombling free..., United Kingdom
Posted:
*scarily agrees with sethis for 2nd time this year*
Being nice doesn't always work...you get either the old favourite... your nice but / think of you like a brother
or
get treated the way you ladies seem to be treatd by guys. hit blamed and generally moaned at for things that aren't even real.
and Tink. Had 2 milkshakes yesteray even left a bottle in the fridge. I think you're telling porkys...however did hear a mention of crusha....my opinion Tink... probably an accident or you didn't duck quick enough I know!!!
*scarily agrees with sethis for 2nd time this year*
Being nice doesn't always work...you get either the old favourite... your nice but / think of you like a brother
or
get treated the way you ladies seem to be treatd by guys. hit blamed and generally moaned at for things that aren't even real.
and Tink. Had 2 milkshakes yesteray even left a bottle in the fridge. I think you're telling porkys...however did hear a mention of crusha....my opinion Tink... probably an accident or you didn't duck quick enough
I know!!! A couple of balls short of a full cascade... or maybe a few cards short of a deck... we'll see how this all fans out.
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13,215 posts
Location: without class distinction, Australia
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13,215 posts
Location: without class distinction, Australia
Posted:
update! he claims he still has the phone...just not a card for it? so want to explain why he sent me a message saying "hi this is my french number"? and he is denying he stole the money.
im sick of the mind games. i dont know what to believe. but im pretty sure hes just playing mind games. mind games mind games mind games. i dont bloody like mind games!!
sethis: i LOVE the prince charming part! and i dont know anynone who doesnt!
and mynci - girls also get the "like a sister" line. and yes, it sucks.
update! he claims he still has the phone...just not a card for it? so want to explain why he sent me a message saying "hi this is my french number"? and he is denying he stole the money.
im sick of the mind games. i dont know what to believe. but im pretty sure hes just playing mind games. mind games mind games mind games. i dont bloody like mind games!!
sethis: i LOVE the prince charming part! and i dont know anynone who doesnt!
and mynci - girls also get the "like a sister" line. and yes, it sucks.
i would have changed ***** to phallus, and claire to petey Petey
Rougie: but that's what I'm doing here
Arnwyn: what letting me adjust myself in your room?..don't you dare quote that on HoP...
Miss Whippy
1,262 posts
Location: Cornwall & Oxford
1,262 posts
Location: Cornwall & Oxford
Posted:
I think my taste is not too bad, i havent had any mean boyfriends, with one exception, i cant name any names coz pretty much all my recent relationships have been with hoppers
my advice, go for hoppers, they're great!!!
Rouge, if this guy is messing you about so much, stop talking to him, cut him out of your life, he isnt worth your time.
I have to admit that the whole prince charming, really sickly sweet part doesnt do it for me, but i still like a guy to be considerate. Tho saying that, being taken out for a romantic meal, sweeping off feet bit, does sound awfully appealing about now
I think my taste is not too bad, i havent had any mean boyfriends, with one exception, i cant name any names coz pretty much all my recent relationships have been with hoppers
my advice, go for hoppers, they're great!!! Rouge, if this guy is messing you about so much, stop talking to him, cut him out of your life, he isnt worth your time.
I have to admit that the whole prince charming, really sickly sweet part doesnt do it for me, but i still like a guy to be considerate. Tho saying that, being taken out for a romantic meal, sweeping off feet bit, does sound awfully appealing about now
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Dreamer
4,308 posts
Location: York, England
4,308 posts
Location: York, England
Posted:
Oh, yeah, I never used to like it...
but now i realized that in small doses its devine....
of course i also do things like ask "why do you wnat to hug me" "why do you like x body part" "what are you so happy to see me" etc etc etc//....
so i may fail at being romantic in the large scale.
but er i am in
Oh, yeah, I never used to like it...
but now i realized that in small doses its devine....
of course i also do things like ask "why do you wnat to hug me" "why do you like x body part" "what are you so happy to see me" etc etc etc//....
so i may fail at being romantic in the large scale.
but er i am in
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Location: 8 days at Cloudbreak, 6 in Perth, Australia
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Location: 8 days at Cloudbreak, 6 in Perth, Australia
Posted:
I used to go for the bad boy thing....I am over it.
I am now with a man who actually treats me like a lady and not just a pieve of meat....
And you know what...I am loving it!
If you think all girls go for the bad boy types then maybe you are looking at the wrong girls.
I used to go for the bad boy thing....I am over it.
I am now with a man who actually treats me like a lady and not just a pieve of meat....
And you know what...I am loving it!
If you think all girls go for the bad boy types then maybe you are looking at the wrong girls.
Dreamer
4,308 posts
Location: York, England
4,308 posts
Location: York, England
Posted:
amen.
amen.
Keep your dream alive
Dreamin is still how the strong survive
Shalom VeAhavah
New Hampshire has a point....
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Redneck Woman
566 posts
Location: Texas, Yeeeeehaaaaaw, USA
Redneck Woman
566 posts
Location: Texas, Yeeeeehaaaaaw, USA
Posted:
Lol, I have the same problem. I just gave up on men. me and my baby will just all right with out one
Lol, I have the same problem. I just gave up on men. me and my baby will just all right with out one
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3. Burp rags are not big enough.
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