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In general, altho heterosexual, I don't really care who I kiss. I mean, kissing a girl isn't any different than kissing a guy except they NEVER have stubble. And if they're a good kisser than hey, everyone wins.
But lately I've been plagued by this random desire to kiss a girl I know. I'm pretty sure she's straight. (Even if she wasn't I totally don't see why she'd be attracted to me). And thus, like, for example, walking up to her and saying "would you like to kiss me", even if I was drunk, seems a bad idea.
But I really wanna! Bah. Advice? And, Hetero guys and gals, anything like this ever happen to you?
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Macaque of all trades
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Written by: screech
and exactly how many baskets have you filled up now mynci too many thats for sure
TART!
how many baskets too many
and I agree with kyrian, take advantage of circumstances where you can and if not. meh there's always other fish
A couple of balls short of a full cascade... or maybe a few cards short of a deck... we'll see how this all fans out.
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and if not. meh there's always other fish
sorry made me laugh hastings the other week
fish or poultry? whats your perogative
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self*there's always plenty more fish in the sea. and keeping your options open is always more fun than letting yourself get tied down in a relationsh*t
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HOP Mad Doctor
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Location: San Francisco, CA, USA
Written by: Brit_Joe
Str8 people turn me off, I know theres no hope, i never understood the fasination gay men have with st8's.
OMG. If a guy is straight, it TOTALLY adds to his hotness points.
I know, I'm hopeless.
-Mike
Certified Mad Doctor and HoP High Priest of Nutella
A buckuht n a hooze! -Valura
Macaque of all trades
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you're not hopeless doc
you're just like me...lusts after the forbidden fruits. and when they're not forbidden....
hopes for the unobtainable (or challenging) make things sooo much more interesting. A couple of balls short of a full cascade... or maybe a few cards short of a deck... we'll see how this all fans out.
4,308 posts
Location: York, England
There's all different kinds of forbidden mr mynci *looks devious*
... The random post from the girl is really interesting.
Meghann, do I know you? I'm just curious, as, well, I know a lot of girls wouldn't kiss other girls, but, wondering if I was supposed to get something more from that?
Guys are so much easier to pick up, when you're female. Girls confuse me!
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New Hampshire has a point....
4,308 posts
Location: York, England
Oh, yeah, and doc? You're hopeless.
*ducks*
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Carpal \'Tunnel
4,172 posts
Location: Hastings, United Kingdom
Written by: Mynci
don't put all your eggs in one basket
Vile!!
4,308 posts
Location: York, England
Did I miss another innuendo?
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9,232 posts
Location: NYC, NY, USA
Written by: Doc Lightning
OMG. If a guy is straight, it TOTALLY adds to his hotness points.
I know, I'm hopeless.
Nope. I think one of the hottest things is when someone likes ME. Which is also very convenient.
I never actually understood being attracted to someone who wasn't interested in me. Those are the last people I'd want to kiss.
Well, shall we go?
Yes, let's go.
[They do not move.]
HOP Mad Doctor
13,925 posts
Location: San Francisco, CA, USA
Written by: Durbs
Dang, and I thought all the kissing was going to be down south
DURBS! GET OVER HERE AND CLEAN UP ALL THE TEA YOU MADE ME SPRAY ALL OVER MY KEYBOARD AND MONITOR!
-Mike
Certified Mad Doctor and HoP High Priest of Nutella
A buckuht n a hooze! -Valura
Macaque of all trades
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Location: wombling free..., United Kingdom
so much has happened since my last post I duuno where to begin...
doc - ha ha
kyrian - are there now?
aimée - why?
But i understand where NYC is coming from. sometimes it can be a real turn on when you think someone likes you. (the only pun in there is not a pun at all...ok)
A couple of balls short of a full cascade... or maybe a few cards short of a deck... we'll see how this all fans out.
4,308 posts
Location: York, England
Yes. Oh, you wanted a better answer than that, didn't you?
Altho I question, is it forbidden precisly thats what makes it seem cool, or is any form of unobtainable good? (I.E., people living overseas
) Keep your dream alive
Dreamin is still how the strong survive
Shalom VeAhavah
New Hampshire has a point....
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Written by: Mynci
doc - ha ha
Written by: Mynci
kyrian - are there now?
you're fishing again dude
Written by: Mynci
aimée - why?
you damn well know why
Written by: Mynci
But i understand where NYC is coming from. sometimes it can be a real turn on when you think someone likes you. (the only pun in there is not a pun at all...ok)
againWritten by: Kyrian
Altho I question, is it forbidden precisly thats what makes it seem cool, or is any form of unobtainable good? (I.E., people living overseas )
overseas isn't unobtainable hon just takes a little more work
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Macaque of all trades
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Written by: screech
you're fishing again dude
thats just my staff bag....
A couple of balls short of a full cascade... or maybe a few cards short of a deck... we'll see how this all fans out.
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Location: away with the faeries
is that what you call it
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4,308 posts
Location: York, England
When they have a bf/gf they arn't unobtainable either, it just takes more work also.....
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Keep your dream alive
Dreamin is still how the strong survive
Shalom VeAhavah
New Hampshire has a point....
Pooh-Bah
1,762 posts
Location: York University, United Kingdom
Have to disagree there, when they're taken they are COMPLETELY off limits to me. I have this whole honor thing going on... and it won't let me steal other people's girls.
And I'm really starting to appreciate this lately, because some sh!t is trying to steal my GF and it's not sithing funny at all. He keeps sending her emails telling her that he loves her and so on.
Damn. Off topic again.
After much consideration, I find that the view is worth the asphyxiation.
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Location: NYC, NY, USA
Written by: Kyrian
Deleted by request...
*Awkward silence*
Um.
Yeah, I'm gonna have to come out AGAINST getting someone drunk or drugging someone so that they'll cheat on their loved one with you.
Depending on how drunk you get them, that's actually rape. I've seen it happen to folks at Uni all too often.
Either way... it's kinda fked up.
EDITED_BY: NYC (1128007009)
Well, shall we go?
Yes, let's go.
[They do not move.]
Pirate Ninja
3,882 posts
Location: Galway/Ireland
I've gone out to the pub so many times and waited for someone to come over, get me drunk for free, give me loads to smoke and then take advantage of me. Never happened. Whats up with that?
Thing is, i'd never be bothered trying it on anyone else, i much prefer girly's when they are sober, coherent and appreciative
Love is the law.
4,308 posts
Location: York, England
I changed it as I think you're right thats really really gonna be taken the wrong way.... I wasn't advocating trying to steal someone by getting them drunk, and I certainly wasn't advocating doing stuff with people who can't do reasonable things like speak.
Plenty of people will do it when they're completly sober, and the thing about the ones who do it when they arn't, is many times they would have or wanted to anyway and it just happened that they wern't sober at the time....
I wouldn't actively try to steal anyone's anything, thats among other things idiotic because what would I do with them anyway? They're clearly not honest....
But if someone I meet randomly wants to kiss me and they have an S.O. (who disagrees that he/she should be kissing people), there's far greater problems afoot in the relationship and I'm not one to nesc say no-
-that said i'd never make it an ongoing thing, far far too much drama for me, as in first year i found out a guy i was dating had a gf.. so i'm like, yeah, see ya, i don't feel like getting involved in this one, but she found me at two seperate parties to yell at me and accuse me of things anyway? Surely he wasn't worth that much effort on either of our parts, as she was just leaving again dhortly for dublin anyway? I certainly wasn't impressed....
Keep your dream alive
Dreamin is still how the strong survive
Shalom VeAhavah
New Hampshire has a point....
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Location: York, England
now how do i edit nyc's post.....
Keep your dream alive
Dreamin is still how the strong survive
Shalom VeAhavah
New Hampshire has a point....
Macaque of all trades
8,738 posts
Location: wombling free..., United Kingdom
Think kyrian has a fair point. I wouldn't do it (I don't think) but I know it doesn't take a lot of alcohol and a bit of temptation for someone with a bf/gf to decide they're not as faithful to their partner. It doesn't always take a person to ply them, they do it on they're own.
Alcohol reduces inhibitions, sometimes the person does want it.
(I'm not vindicating it and not talking about the level of intoxication nyc is talking about) All I'm really saying is if it's meant to last, they won't cheat no matter how drunk... I know coz I've gotten hammered, had it offered and said no, and I'm not THAT strong against sex.
A couple of balls short of a full cascade... or maybe a few cards short of a deck... we'll see how this all fans out.
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When they have a bf/gf they arn't unobtainable either, it just takes more work also.....
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i agree totally
been badly behaved with people who have bf/gf on a few occasions although never had to get them drunk things just kinda happened.
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Location: good ol@ devon. cullompton to be precise
nope u dont no me n i dunno y i posted really, u werent ment to get anything from it but the obvious, im a girl that dont kiss girls! im sorry i was very sleepy when i posted
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Location: York, England
Np, just was curious
seemed like you might be getting at something.sleepiness happens to me far too often.....
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Written by: Kyrian
sleepiness happens to me far too often.....
me too i keep passing out on mynci's sofa
is kissing married people women wrong
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Pooh-Bah
1,762 posts
Location: York University, United Kingdom
Just a quick question for those who are supporting the "Doing something with someone already in a relationship" thing.
Would you like it if it happened to you?
No?
So why is it ok to do it to someone else? Even if someone is having a rocky time in their relationship, maybe they'll work it through and have a great time together. However this isn't possible when people are constantly jumping on their partner. That kind of thing screws up even GOOD relationships. What's wrong with either waiting until they've broken up, or (if they're the ones who try and start something with you) tell them "Break up with your partner first". Then:
1. You're morally in the right.
2. No-one can gossip about you, or b!tch for that matter either.
3. You're not deliberately hurting someone else.
After much consideration, I find that the view is worth the asphyxiation.
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Location: York, England
Written by: Sethis
Just a quick question for those who are supporting the "Doing something with someone already in a relationship" thing.
Would you like it if it happened to you?
S'fine by me.... only time it bothers me is if its in some way preventing me from doing stuff- like, in front of me is bad. But if i'm on the other side of the room, let alone out of town....
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So why is it ok to do it to someone else? Even if someone is having a rocky time in their relationship, maybe they'll work it through and have a great time together. However this isn't possible when people are constantly jumping on their partner. That kind of thing screws up even GOOD relationships. What's wrong with either waiting until they've broken up, or (if they're the ones who try and start something with you) tell them "Break up with your partner first".
Constantly jumping on someone's partner is a slightly different thing than having a one night stand or kissing them socially or some such, imo. And generally its quite rude to do flirt with a persons partner in front of them directly ^_^
If I was going to do anything longer-term and I knew there partner had problems with it I would tell them to break up first, as I have a dislike of drama and girls screaming at me. But for a one-off kinda thing... *shrugs*
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Then:
1. You're morally in the right.
2. No-one can gossip about you, or b!tch for that matter either.
3. You're not deliberately hurting someone else.
1. Depends on your morals.
2. People bitch and gossip about you anyway, especially if you're a girl!
3. I don't agree that I am deliberatly hurting someone else, but that depends on a lot of definitions, like "deliberately"
Keep your dream alive
Dreamin is still how the strong survive
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New Hampshire has a point....
the 1337 poier
346 posts
Location: england
heres a plan which will only ruin the rest of your life and loose all your friends...sounded much better in my head
well see you go up to her and kiss her then if she kisses you back or stops and suggests you get a room, takes you too a room or takes her bra off then your sorted or if she doesnt then leg it and move to timbucktwo...i was gonna say canada but i realized you could already live there...
ive got a fuzzbox and im not afraid to use it
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Location: York, England
what if i lived in timbuktoo?
no, i don't live in canada, neither does she. but i'm thinking she don't live too near canada either,.... most people don't really... just me and some l33t canadians... hah.. i need more sleep....
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