Regards
Shu
(Ice-E FyreStorm - Group Manager & Performer)
You know those people your parentals warned you about?... I'M ONE OF THEM!
Yes, i do bite!!
Getting to the other side
After much consideration, I find that the view is worth the asphyxiation.
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I may disagree with what you have to say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it.
"I want to know if you can see beauty even when it's not pretty, every day,and if you can source your own life from its presence.." - Oriah Mountain Dreamer
Idolized by Aurinoko
Take me disappearing through the smoke rings of my mind....
Bob Dylan
Pele
Higher, higher burning fire...making music like a choir
"Oooh look! A pub!" -exclaimed after recovering from a stupid fall
"And for the decadence of art, nothing beats a roaring fire." -TMK
wherever you go, there you are
wherever you go, there you are
Written by: rowanlee
The myth we have created around it is one of dual nature/soul division, that we need something outside of ourselves to be completed. That there is an empty space within to be filled. beleiving and feeling this we run around like maniacs trying to fill it, consuming everything, including people. I think we are looking for connection, seek it in a partner, create an attachment, and call it love.
"You can't outrun Death forever.
But you can make the Bastard work for it."
--MAJOR KORGO KORGAR,
"Last of The Lancers"
AFC 32
Educate your self in the Hazards of Fire Breathing STAY SAFE!
Pele
Higher, higher burning fire...making music like a choir
"Oooh look! A pub!" -exclaimed after recovering from a stupid fall
"And for the decadence of art, nothing beats a roaring fire." -TMK
Written by: Pele
Hope is not driving yourself nuts with longing, that is something much more than hope.
Having hope does not mean you are unhappy as a single either.
I know many, self included, who hope for someone someday to be with, but are at peace and content alone.
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I think what is being illustrated by you, rowanlee and spritie is important but I feel extreme (yes you need to be comfy with you in order to be comfy with others) and does not really cover the topic of how hope fits into the search for a relationship.
M'best
"You can't outrun Death forever.
But you can make the Bastard work for it."
--MAJOR KORGO KORGAR,
"Last of The Lancers"
AFC 32
Educate your self in the Hazards of Fire Breathing STAY SAFE!
After much consideration, I find that the view is worth the asphyxiation.
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I may disagree with what you have to say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it.
Written by: Firepoise
Hope is certainly something we create in a bid to make life easier... but it's a quick fix and usually ends in disappointment.
Centring yourself and looking to what you really need often provides a truer answer.
However, we're all human, and most of us turn to hope as a comfort blanket at some stage - perhaps the key is not to let these dreams get the better of us.
Written by: DenGad
…Flaws can be changed if that person wants to but so can your perception of them if _you_ want to…
Written by: Sethis
…I appreciate that the language isn't very clear.
You cannot control your destiny because you are not in control of your life. Your parents control you, school and work controls you, where you live controls you. The only thing you control, and the last great freedom of mankind is the space in your own head. Only you can decide what your opinions are. While you may be informed by other peoples views, you ultimately make up your own mind.
Written by: spritie
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……..So, to sum things up, only you know what makes you happy. Instead of hoping that something will happen, you can do your best to see that it does and know that if it didn't happen it wasn't because you didn't try your best or give it your all. It just wasn't meant to be and there is nothing wrong with that.
Written by: blu_valley
….Because of coarse, nothing is actually real is it? Your job, family, home... you could leave it all behind and be on the other side of the world tomorrow. How real are those things then? Can a memory be trusted? Depends on weather you choose it to be or not. Your life now is real to you because you choose it to be. If you get tired of it, you can revalidate another little sub-reality and they can trade places. After all, dreams and ideas are just realities that have not been made real, but can be….
…This of coarse may lead you to living your life as a total optimist, and failing really to take some things as seriously as you deserve. Missing out on some valuable life lessons. Once again, its all about the choices you make in the now that decide weather this is good or bad. …
…the fact that something great may be around the next corner or the next, and if it isn't, how do you handle the disappointment? …
Written by: Pele
Hope
1. To wish for something with expectation of its fulfilment.
2. Archaic. To have confidence; trust.
………..{all the rest too}
Written by: rowanlee
…Another thought about hope. Yes, it is scary to consider a life without it. If you put it aside, you are forced to actually deal with simply what is there, now. Imagine that, if we never distracted ourselves with the future or the past? What insights would we find, what power is there? What could we accomplish, now ? Who is with you right now that needs your attention?…
Written by: onewheeldave
I'm glad someone's pointed out that torturing oneself over the absence of 'the one' is a bit counter-productive.
Written by: Sethis
"Despite so many cultural and societal messages to the contrary, You are whole. Everything you need is there. "
*Applause*
Regards
Shu
(Ice-E FyreStorm - Group Manager & Performer)
You know those people your parentals warned you about?... I'M ONE OF THEM!
Yes, i do bite!!
"I want to know if you can see beauty even when it's not pretty, every day,and if you can source your own life from its presence.." - Oriah Mountain Dreamer
Regards
Shu
(Ice-E FyreStorm - Group Manager & Performer)
You know those people your parentals warned you about?... I'M ONE OF THEM!
Yes, i do bite!!
Getting to the other side
Written by: unknown
Life is what happens while we're making other plans.
Regards
Shu
(Ice-E FyreStorm - Group Manager & Performer)
You know those people your parentals warned you about?... I'M ONE OF THEM!
Yes, i do bite!!
It took a while, but once their numbers dropped from 50 down to 8, the other dwarves started to suspect Hungry.
Reality is mass beleif...
Feed me and I will grow, give me drink and I will die...
I'll lap at your heels, if you give me the chance. Though I won't fetch or stay, I surely will dance...
Enjoy, be happy, and don't forget to breathe...
wherever you go, there you are
After much consideration, I find that the view is worth the asphyxiation.
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I may disagree with what you have to say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it.
After much consideration, I find that the view is worth the asphyxiation.
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I may disagree with what you have to say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it.
Written by: Icer
I’m a pes-optimist, hope for the best, but plan for the worst, take what comes.
Written by: Icer
my reality is my own and i wouldn’t want to force it on someone else’s. i think everyone has contradictions within themselves too, i think it is a part of what makes us individuals, we each have our own set of contradictions.
Written by: Flame Swirl
One thing that I wish to add though, and I’m not sure if it was implied anywhere, is that hope does not have to imply expectation... you can hope for something but accept that it may, and most likely, will not come to be. Hope is a recognition of a possible path that to you is desirable.
Written by: Flame Swirl
Hope need not bring disappointment. If you know that it may not come to be, rather than expect your hopes to come true, than it only brings happiness when/if it does come to be.
Written by: rownalee
I like your positive outlook, if one can be present and positive in each moment, life is most full.
Written by: rowanlee
You dance and dream with soul mates, not capture and keep them!
Written by: Sethis
"Settling for second best" doesn't actually make sense. It's like someone in 1600 AD saying: …………….
Written by: Sethis
Instead, measure how many things they do that send shivers down your spine, how many times you look into their eyes and lose yourself in them. *That* is the measure of Love.
Regards
Shu
(Ice-E FyreStorm - Group Manager & Performer)
You know those people your parentals warned you about?... I'M ONE OF THEM!
Yes, i do bite!!
Getting to the other side
Written by: Unknown
Pain reminds us that we are alive
Regards
Shu
(Ice-E FyreStorm - Group Manager & Performer)
You know those people your parentals warned you about?... I'M ONE OF THEM!
Yes, i do bite!!
After much consideration, I find that the view is worth the asphyxiation.
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I may disagree with what you have to say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it.
Regards
Shu
(Ice-E FyreStorm - Group Manager & Performer)
You know those people your parentals warned you about?... I'M ONE OF THEM!
Yes, i do bite!!
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