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Sakura_Moon


Sakura_Moon

Hop's Kitten Jester.
Location: Wonderland igloo, Vic, Austral...

Total posts: 1803
Posted:Biggest rant EVER.

F**Kers at my old school who were in kahootz wiht my ex have found me at my new school and spread their shitty little rumours.
I am now hated by all the friends i thought i had...
Have decided i will quit school and do it in a few years time at TAFE.
AND ontop of that, i found out a friend i thought i had on HoP...HAS BEEN BACKSTABBING ME.

Why are people such morons?
Why do we say evil things about someone when its competely unnessisary? and when we've already had our power trip and its not about maing yourself feel beter anymore?

Hav had enough.
Any more of this and i'll become a recluse.

So, had my rant, does anynone have any answers to the questions above?


.:Pink Exocutioner:.

I am Jack's Raging Bile Duct...

Loving you from the deepest part of my loins.


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Medusa
BRONZE Member since Nov 2003

Medusa

veteran
Location: 8 days at Cloudbreak, 6 in Per...

Total posts: 1433
Posted:Sakura,

I would like to send you many many many hug hug hug...I know what it is like to go through that type of [censored] at school.

I don't have any answers to your questions...unfortunately people can be the cruelest things on the earth....they don't seem to care who they hurt and in my eyes that kind of thing is just plain stupid.

People who do act that way will get their own one day....which I know is cold comfort to you at the moment.

I wish I could be there for you but know you have support from many people on here.

I found when it got much to hard for me to deal with in New South Wales the only way I could deal is to start fresh in a new place.

Maybe that could be something worth thinking about....somewhere further away...


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Sakura_Moon


Sakura_Moon

Hop's Kitten Jester.
Location: Wonderland igloo, Vic, Austral...

Total posts: 1803
Posted:I would really like that

.:Pink Exocutioner:.

I am Jack's Raging Bile Duct...

Loving you from the deepest part of my loins.


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Psycho_lemming
SILVER Member since Jul 2004

Psycho_lemming

Running hippy spinning lemming
Location: Scotland

Total posts: 15
Posted:awww.... hug and many many more,
stay strong.....

i cant give you any answers but there are alot of people who can give you support....

* sends over the moon to keep watch of the little moon child

as ever if you need me i'm here x x x


Fear leads to anger; anger leads to hate; hate leads to suffering...

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Puk
SILVER Member since Aug 2002

Puk

Sweet talented nutter
Location: Brisbane Oz, Australia

Total posts: 2615
Posted:The games teenaged girls play . Stay true hug

that shrewd and knavish sprite

Called Robin Good Fellow ; are you not he that is frighten of the maidens of the villagery - fairy

I am the merry wander of the night -puk

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Skulduggery
GOLD Member since Aug 2004

Skulduggery

Pirate Pixie Crew Captain
Location: Wales

Total posts: 8428
Posted:Hun, Don't let those nasty freaks win! Don't quit school and don't run away. Why should you have to? You are just someone trying to get on with their life. You've done nothing wrong, SO hold your head up high and show them all that you can rise above all the crap they throw at you.

Ask yourself one question...... 'Do I like who I am?' If the answer is yes thats all that matters. The only person you spend your whole life with is YOU. If you find when you ask that question the answers is 'mmmmm well mostly, apart from...' then change the '...' and become someone you do like.

Don't let fools and bullies run you out of your school, town or chosen life style. If people don't like you for who you are....well sod them. Its them thats missing out, not you.


Feed me Chocolate!!! Feed me NOW!

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Gnor
BRONZE Member since Mar 2003

Gnor

Carpal \'Tunnel
Location: Perth, Australia

Total posts: 5814
Posted:ditto
Why should they run your life?

Look at your goals and make your decisions on those not on what some losers do.
Take care of yourself hug hug


Is it the Truth?
Is it Fair to all concerned?
Will it build Goodwill and Better Friendships?
Will it be Beneficial to all concerned?

Im in a lonely battle with the world with a fish to match the chip on my shoulder. Gnu in Binnu in a cnu

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pineapple pete
SILVER Member since Sep 2004

pineapple pete

water based
Location: melbourne, Australia

Total posts: 5125
Posted:incoming PM
hug


"you know there are no trophys for doing silly things in real life yeah pete?" said ant "you wont get a 'listened to ride of the valkyries all the way to vietnam' trophy"

*proud owner of the very cute fire_spinning_angel, birgit and neon shaolin*

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Konsti


Konsti

lovable smart-ass
Location: vineyards, Vienna, Austria

Total posts: 785
Posted:hug

well what works best in these kind of situations, is calmly, slowly, telling those ppl that the way they make decisions is imature and wrong and explain why in great detail. do this in a large crowd, and try not to raise your voice. they might realise what they did wrong. or the ppl around them will realise what kinda bastards they are. ppl will think that you are above it, confident, strong and will consider the peeps spreading rumors not trustworthy ppl.

that always worked for me, when i had rumors spread about me.

oh yeah i also believe in revenge, but thats a personal issue....

good luck
and dont let those bastards grind you down
smile


"is optimism in austria just a lack of information?"
-Alfred Dorfer

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alvheid


alvheid

fairy of light
Location: Bergen, Norway

Total posts: 163
Posted:Sakura, a big hug to you!

Written by: Sakura_moon

Why are people such morons?
Why do we say evil things about someone when its competely unnessisary? and when we've already had our power trip and its not about maing yourself feel beter anymore?



I think they envy you, people only want to break what is not already broken. they see your great qualities and wants to control that, because they know deep inside that they are the losers, not you. hmm, this is hard to explain, english is not my first language but I hope my point gets to you.. remember that we care, sakura hug


Luke sum ipse patrem te.

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Birgit
BRONZE Member since Jan 2005

Birgit

had her carpal tunnel surgery already thanks v much
Location: Edinburgh, Scotland (UK)

Total posts: 4145
Posted:Sakura hug,

Skully and Gnorc are absolutely right.

Just because people are stupid doesn't give them the right to run your life! Finishing school later is always hard cause you've been out of the whole studying-rhythm for years, and you may have to do it while you work and can't really commit to it. You'll be really angry at yourself if you leave school now just because of some silly bints who prefer gossip to friendship. See if you can find other friends at school who go for who you are, not what people say. There always are some, though it may be the nerds... *remembers school days with spotty boys with glasses and fleece shirts*

Good luck and show them you are more powerful than they are low hug2


"vices are like genitals - most are ugly to behold, and yet we find that our own are dear to us."
(G.W. Dahlquist)

Owner of Dragosani's left half

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Fine_Rabid_Dog


Internet Hate Machine
Location: They seek him here, they seek ...

Total posts: 10530
Posted:Kick em in the shins biggrin (dont, it makes things worse... but imagine uve done it... it releaves some stress)

Big hug hug2s and cuddles to u sakura.

Try to tell the guys @ ur school that the rumors are JUST rumors.


The existance of flamethrowers says that someone, somewhere, at sometime said "I need to set that thing on fire, but it's too far away."

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Pigeon_Wigeon
BRONZE Member since Dec 2004

Pigeon_Wigeon

Say what?
Location: Surrey/Portsmouth, United King...

Total posts: 4760
Posted:I love you Sakura! Best buddy o pal o mine! Hee hee kick em all to the kerb move to england and find a HoPer to live with FOREVER!!!! ubbrollsmile

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linden rathen
GOLD Member since Mar 2005

linden rathen

Carpal \'Tunnel
Location: London, UK

Total posts: 6942
Posted:agrees with alvheid find yourself some new friends then in a group hunt down each person who spread rumours about you and just ingnore them - make sure they know they cant touch you
your much better than them :d
failing that move to england :P


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Havokist
BRONZE Member since Dec 2004

Havokist


Location: Manchester, United Kingdom

Total posts: 2530
Posted:hug

i'm with skully and gnorc on this one.

don't let them know it's got to you. people like that never change. if you showed up at school looking un-affected by it all, chances are that they'll eventually get bored and stop. my school's full of stuck up wanna-be's, and it took the best part of a year to find the few decent people, but they do exist, and you will find them if you look hard enough.

and the sooner you finish school, the sooner you can come to live in england and come to the wonderous spin meets and meet all the cool HoPpers over here smile

so stick at it, karma will get to them wink


We are the music makers, We are the dreamers of dreams,
Wandering by lone sea-breakers, And sitting by desolate streams;
World-losers and world-forsakers, On whom the pale moon gleams;
We are the movers and shakers of the world for ever, it seems.

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Sakura_Moon


Sakura_Moon

Hop's Kitten Jester.
Location: Wonderland igloo, Vic, Austral...

Total posts: 1803
Posted:YaY!
thankyou, i now feel copnfisnt to go to school, laugh in their face then ignore the for the rest oftheir pathetic, useless lives!!!!


.:Pink Exocutioner:.

I am Jack's Raging Bile Duct...

Loving you from the deepest part of my loins.


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Valura
SILVER Member since Apr 2002

Valura

Mumma Hen
Location: Brisbane, Australia

Total posts: 6391
Posted:I had horrible years at school.. . I was beaten up, ridiculed, they made up hurtful songs about me.. used to spit at me in class.. the whole shebang.. I was thirteen when I attempted suicide a few times because of what happened to me

When I asked the ten girls why they were so mean to me they would laugh and say it was becuase I was fat and too brainy and tryed to hard to be liked..I stayed well away from them but they would still follow me and try to trip me up etc etc..

I left school, and went on a huge drug booze bender becasue I believed in what they said for so long. I hid from my feelings and I tryed to not be everything they said I was... I got too skinny... I stopped going to school and dulled my brains with all types of drugs.
After a while I started to realize that they were so mean to me because they desperatly didnt want to be in the situation that I was in.
They didnt want to be the one that was put down or hurt...

I know now that they wouldnt have been strong enough to get over it.
That says a lot for you. You are strong enough to get through this sakura... They are nothing in the scope of things, and years from now when you have a home and a family and are completely and utterly happy you will realize that what they think means NOTHING.

Ya know what? It makes you stronger. It makes you such an amazing person on the inside because no matter what other poeple say you will learn to believe in yourself through anything.

Keep your head up high, dont even justify what they say with an answer. Totally ignore them... and when it hurts (becasue I know it will)
all you have to do is PM me... Ill be there for you to off load... hug


TAJ "boat mummy." VALURA "yes sweetie you went on a boat, was daddy there with you?" TAJ "no, but monkey on boat" VALURA "well then sweetie, Daddy WAS there with you"

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JauntyJames
SILVER Member since Dec 2004

JauntyJames

Carpal \'Tunnel
Location: Hampshire College, MA, USA

Total posts: 3533
Posted:.:whimper:. awww! you really really need a hug. i'm sad that i can only give you electronic ones



hug hug hug hug

hug2 ubbcrying


-James

"How do you know if you're happy or sad without a mask? Or angry? Or ready for dessert?"

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Fine_Rabid_Dog


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Location: They seek him here, they seek ...

Total posts: 10530
Posted:Written by: Havokist


my school's full of stuck up wanna-be's, and it took the best part of a year to find the few decent people, but they do exist, and you will find them if you look hard enough.



yeah, same here. Every1 @ my school gets an opinion of a person when they meet them, and then spreads it round... Why cant teenagers think 4 thmeselves?

Written by: Havokist

and the sooner you finish school, the sooner you can come to live in england and come to the wonderous spin meets and meet all the cool HoPpers over here smile



This is very good idea biggrin

twud be lovley indeed to meet u in perosn hug


The existance of flamethrowers says that someone, somewhere, at sometime said "I need to set that thing on fire, but it's too far away."

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Sakura_Moon


Sakura_Moon

Hop's Kitten Jester.
Location: Wonderland igloo, Vic, Austral...

Total posts: 1803
Posted:Feeling so loved right now.
Talked to my friend, who....DOESNT BELIEVE THEM!!!!
Yay! Thanks....many hug's


.:Pink Exocutioner:.

I am Jack's Raging Bile Duct...

Loving you from the deepest part of my loins.


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Havokist
BRONZE Member since Dec 2004

Havokist


Location: Manchester, United Kingdom

Total posts: 2530
Posted:not all people are tw*ts hug

and if all else fails, you can borrow my paintball gun biggrin


We are the music makers, We are the dreamers of dreams,
Wandering by lone sea-breakers, And sitting by desolate streams;
World-losers and world-forsakers, On whom the pale moon gleams;
We are the movers and shakers of the world for ever, it seems.

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Flame
SILVER Member since Jan 2004

Flame

addict
Location: VIC, MELB, Australia

Total posts: 435
Posted:Am so sorry to hear that frown, i can now say i have met the infamous sakura moon and i know for a fact you are one of the nicest and most lovliest people i have met. Matey, as everyone has said dont let them run your life - it was only a few years ago i was at high school and it can be tough, just use all the support you've got and remember we love you here!! and agrees with pineapple pete a pm coming your way hug hug hug hug

*In the car while Pink is playing on the radio*
Tristan aged 4 : "Mum is this Pink?"
Flame:"Yes mate this is Pink?"
Tristan:"Are you going to Pink?"
Flame:"Yes i am"
Tristan:"Cool well I'm going to BLUE" smile

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Sakura_Moon


Sakura_Moon

Hop's Kitten Jester.
Location: Wonderland igloo, Vic, Austral...

Total posts: 1803
Posted:Lol, thanks heaps biggrin Infamous? dont know about that yet!!!!
hug to all, you've helped so much!


.:Pink Exocutioner:.

I am Jack's Raging Bile Duct...

Loving you from the deepest part of my loins.


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bender
GOLD Member since Nov 2001

still can't believe it's not butter
Location: Melbourne, Australia

Total posts: 6979
Posted:the best things and the worst things that ever happen to you make you who you are.
There'll be a day you will be a strong woman looking back at life, at how you came to be.


Laugh Often, Smile Much, Post lolcats Always

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.:star:.
SILVER Member since Jan 2005

.:star:.

Pooh-Bah
Location: Bristol, United Kingdom

Total posts: 1785
Posted:People who believe the rumours aren't worth knowing.

True friends will always stick by you

Always be true to yourself and don't let people change you!


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pricklyleaf
SILVER Member since Mar 2005

pricklyleaf

with added berries
Location: Manchester, England (UK)

Total posts: 1365
Posted:hug hug hug Don't worry, keep at school, don't ruin your life.

The thing I've found out since i've left school?...
all the people who are the 'in crowd' end up with crap lives, and the 'outcasts' end up with the most loyal and true friends. You can only gain strength through these experiences. I know its so hard (a LOT of people have been there including me) but you'll get through it- there is a light at the end of the tunnel hug hug hug


Live like there is no tomorrow,
dance like nobody is watching
and hula hoop like wiggling will save the world.

What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.

Ralph Waldo Emerson

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