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babajaga
babajaga

old hand
Location: Berlin, Germany
Member Since: 25th Aug 2004
Total posts: 863
Posted:After twelve hours hard struggling with death my mother died three hours ago. We, her whole familiy were there with her. I never saw something like that saw somebody so holding on life and fight but its over now. I know it is good she is not suffering anymore but I'm scared of the grief which is waiting for me.

All my thoughts are with her and there is so much love for her and I'm happy I could tell her that before.


What is psychology?- Looking for a black cat in a dark room. What is psychoanalysis? Psychoanalysis is looking for a black cat in a dark room -- in which there is no cat -- but finding one anyway.

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Fire Bunny
Fire Bunny

veteran
Location: Now in the land of Oz
Member Since: 27th Nov 2003
Total posts: 1260
Posted:im so sorry to here of your loss. be strong and take care of yourself and your family

hug hug hug hug hug


What if we think the jokes on them,
But really - the jokes on us....

and also... i wuv Rougie *snuz*

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Adya Miriyana
Adya Miriyana

*slou?
Location: Adelaide
Member Since: 4th Feb 2005
Total posts: 6554
Posted:hug hug hug hug hug

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KatP
KatP

Muddy fingernails
Location: Way oop norf
Member Since: 15th Jan 2005
Total posts: 505
Posted:hug hug hug hug

Your mother was a hamster and your father smelt of elderberries!

KITTENS!!!!

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SpitFire
Mand's Girl....and The Not So Shy One
Location: Calgary, Alberta Canada
Member Since: 2nd Dec 2002
Total posts: 2723
Posted:hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug

So sorry to hear this...very warm thoughts and hugs to you.


Solitude sometimes speaks to you, and you should listen.

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vanize

Carpal \'Tunnel
Location: Austin, Texas
Member Since: 21st Aug 2001
Total posts: 3899
Posted:oops! missed this thread since I wasn't online this weekend. I just started something similar in your intro and told people to send hugs there redface



please do call if you need anything at all - anytime of day or night!



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-v-

Wiederstand ist Zwecklos!

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UCOF
UCOF

Carpal \'Tunnel

Member Since: 17th Apr 2002
Total posts: 15414
Posted:Oh honey,
Im so terribly sorry.

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_Clare_
_Clare_

Still wiggling
Location: Belfast
Member Since: 22nd Oct 2002
Total posts: 5967
Posted:Take care darlin, look after yourself and use the strength of those around you.

Many hugs
Clare
hug


Getting to the other side smile

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Gidg
Gidg

Super Gidg!!!!
Location: Portland Oregon USA
Member Since: 11th Apr 2003
Total posts: 8506
Posted:hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug

Growing old is mandatory; growing up is NOT.
Proud member of the HoP DPS.
Sanity is a highly overrated state of mind.
I'm normal ... it's everyone else that's crazy.

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newgabe
newgabe

what goes around comes around. unless you're into stalls.
Location: Bali
Member Since: 3rd Mar 2005
Total posts: 4030
Posted:Hey, I am really touched that you are sharing how you are with us all. heart
And to think this site is 'supposed' to be about whirling bits of stuff around on strings!

I totally agree with what Skulduggery has said to you about letting yourself be with whatever comes up... . it is so totally OK to be tired/sad/crazy/angry when someone you love so much is gone. Crying is better than being 'strong' or 'coping' in the long run. And it's true what people say about the horrible recent memories gradually get replaced again with the beautiful ones. And don't be surprised if you think you see her on the street and stuff. Some people have like what Lightning said, visions that seem to be communications.. and lots of people think they're going a bit dotty cos they 'see' the one they miss in the supermarket or wherever.
And talk to her and write her letters and make her a cup of tea or any thing you want to keep showing her your love. you still love her so much, so let that flow too!!

Much grouphug


.....Can't juggle balls but I sure as hell can juggle details....

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Gnor
Gnor

Carpal \'Tunnel
Location: Perth
Member Since: 31st Mar 2003
Total posts: 5814
Posted:Hows this week??....the time between passing and funeral is such an odd time, then just after too.

Someone has said that your memory of how they were at passing is replaced by the way you seen them most and for me that worked. Plus I spent alot of time making an album of pictures of Dad for that reasomn. To revisit my memories and replace the image that wasnt my dad to me.
The album was good at the wake to let people see Dads life.
Take care honey hug hug


Is it the Truth?
Is it Fair to all concerned?
Will it build Goodwill and Better Friendships?
Will it be Beneficial to all concerned?

Im in a lonely battle with the world with a fish to match the chip on my shoulder. Gnu in Binnu in a cnu

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babajaga
babajaga

old hand
Location: Berlin, Germany
Member Since: 25th Aug 2004
Total posts: 863
Posted:we did something similar this weekend and sat together watching pictures of her... that was kind of strange and brought us to a level in which we dont have the picture of her dieing anymore... all in all I'm in a strange emotional level and changed a lot my views to people and I'm full of warmth and love to all around me maybe that is her influence...

thanks for caring and much love hug2


What is psychology?- Looking for a black cat in a dark room. What is psychoanalysis? Psychoanalysis is looking for a black cat in a dark room -- in which there is no cat -- but finding one anyway.

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SCRUBS
SCRUBS

erm....can you smell parafin or is it me?

Member Since: 28th Feb 2005
Total posts: 146
Posted:hug hug hug hug

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Flame
Flame

addict
Location: VIC, MELB
Member Since: 12th Jan 2004
Total posts: 435
Posted:hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug
our deepest sympathy, much love being beamed your way. flame and tristan


*In the car while Pink is playing on the radio*
Tristan aged 4 : "Mum is this Pink?"
Flame:"Yes mate this is Pink?"
Tristan:"Are you going to Pink?"
Flame:"Yes i am"
Tristan:"Cool well I'm going to BLUE" smile

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