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babajagaBRONZE Member
old hand
863 posts
Location: Berlin, Germany


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After twelve hours hard struggling with death my mother died three hours ago. We, her whole familiy were there with her. I never saw something like that saw somebody so holding on life and fight but its over now. I know it is good she is not suffering anymore but I'm scared of the grief which is waiting for me.

All my thoughts are with her and there is so much love for her and I'm happy I could tell her that before.

What is psychology?- Looking for a black cat in a dark room. What is psychoanalysis? Psychoanalysis is looking for a black cat in a dark room -- in which there is no cat -- but finding one anyway.


Adya MiriyanaGOLD Member
*slou?
6,554 posts
Location: Adelaide, Australia


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KatPSILVER Member
Muddy fingernails
505 posts
Location: Way oop norf, Scotland (UK)


Posted:
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Your mother was a hamster and your father smelt of elderberries!

KITTENS!!!!


SpitFireGOLD Member
Mand's Girl....and The Not So Shy One
2,723 posts
Location: Calgary, Alberta Canada


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So sorry to hear this...very warm thoughts and hugs to you.

Solitude sometimes speaks to you, and you should listen.


vanizeSILVER Member
Carpal \'Tunnel
3,899 posts
Location: Austin, Texas, USA


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oops! missed this thread since I wasn't online this weekend. I just started something similar in your intro and told people to send hugs there redface



please do call if you need anything at all - anytime of day or night!



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Wiederstand ist Zwecklos!


UCOFSILVER Member
15,417 posts
Location: South Wales


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Oh honey,
Im so terribly sorry.

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_Clare_BRONZE Member
Still wiggling
5,967 posts
Location: Belfast, Northern Ireland (UK)


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Take care darlin, look after yourself and use the strength of those around you.

Many hugs
Clare
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Getting to the other side smile


GidgBRONZE Member
Super Gidg!!!!
8,506 posts
Location: Portland Oregon USA


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Growing old is mandatory; growing up is NOT.
Proud member of the HoP DPS.
Sanity is a highly overrated state of mind.
I'm normal ... it's everyone else that's crazy.

Gidg


newgabeSILVER Member
what goes around comes around. unless you're into stalls.
4,030 posts
Location: Bali, Australia


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Hey, I am really touched that you are sharing how you are with us all. heart
And to think this site is 'supposed' to be about whirling bits of stuff around on strings!

I totally agree with what Skulduggery has said to you about letting yourself be with whatever comes up... . it is so totally OK to be tired/sad/crazy/angry when someone you love so much is gone. Crying is better than being 'strong' or 'coping' in the long run. And it's true what people say about the horrible recent memories gradually get replaced again with the beautiful ones. And don't be surprised if you think you see her on the street and stuff. Some people have like what Lightning said, visions that seem to be communications.. and lots of people think they're going a bit dotty cos they 'see' the one they miss in the supermarket or wherever.
And talk to her and write her letters and make her a cup of tea or any thing you want to keep showing her your love. you still love her so much, so let that flow too!!

Much grouphug

.....Can't juggle balls but I sure as hell can juggle details....


GnorBRONZE Member
Carpal \'Tunnel
5,814 posts
Location: Perth, Australia


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Hows this week??....the time between passing and funeral is such an odd time, then just after too.

Someone has said that your memory of how they were at passing is replaced by the way you seen them most and for me that worked. Plus I spent alot of time making an album of pictures of Dad for that reasomn. To revisit my memories and replace the image that wasnt my dad to me.
The album was good at the wake to let people see Dads life.
Take care honey hug hug

Is it the Truth?
Is it Fair to all concerned?
Will it build Goodwill and Better Friendships?
Will it be Beneficial to all concerned?

Im in a lonely battle with the world with a fish to match the chip on my shoulder. Gnu in Binnu in a cnu


babajagaBRONZE Member
old hand
863 posts
Location: Berlin, Germany


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we did something similar this weekend and sat together watching pictures of her... that was kind of strange and brought us to a level in which we dont have the picture of her dieing anymore... all in all I'm in a strange emotional level and changed a lot my views to people and I'm full of warmth and love to all around me maybe that is her influence...

thanks for caring and much love hug2

What is psychology?- Looking for a black cat in a dark room. What is psychoanalysis? Psychoanalysis is looking for a black cat in a dark room -- in which there is no cat -- but finding one anyway.


SCRUBSerm....can you smell parafin or is it me?
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FlameSILVER Member
addict
435 posts
Location: VIC, MELB, Australia


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our deepest sympathy, much love being beamed your way. flame and tristan

*In the car while Pink is playing on the radio*
Tristan aged 4 : "Mum is this Pink?"
Flame:"Yes mate this is Pink?"
Tristan:"Are you going to Pink?"
Flame:"Yes i am"
Tristan:"Cool well I'm going to BLUE" smile


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