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UCOF
SILVER Member since Apr 2002

UCOF

Carpal \'Tunnel


Total posts: 15414
Posted:Think your lover may be flirting with San Miguel from Spain?
Are they sending raunchy emails, other than to you?

Well worry no longer!

Now you can simply check to see exactly what they are doing on the comptuer!

http://cgi.ebay.com.au/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=7130579516&category=51332
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Its a keylogger, password stealer, browser recorder and so much more!

Spy on your loved ones!

Take away their privacy!

Do it today!

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Wonder Monkey
BRONZE Member since Jan 2005

Wonder Monkey

Certainly confused
Location: Chelmsford, Essex

Total posts: 121
Posted:And in good time for valentines day biggrin

My Mummy Says Im Special

bounce ubbloco bounce

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Tao Star


Tao Star

Pooh-Bah
Location: Bristol

Total posts: 1662
Posted:how did you find that? what on earth were you looking for?!

I had a dream that my friend had a
strong-bad pop up book,
it was the book of my dreams.

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flid
BRONZE Member since Aug 2002

flid

Carpal \'Tunnel
Location: Warwickshire

Total posts: 3136
Posted:Isn't it obvious? The page contains the word "porn" in it!

I don't know whether I'm proud or not, but my website (which includes semi naked pictures of ucof eek) ranked 16th in msn.co.uk last week for "porno pics" wink


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Pink...?
BRONZE Member since Apr 2002

Pink...?

Mistress of Pink...Multicoloured
Location: Over There

Total posts: 6140
Posted:eek flid!

That is awful.. how could anyone spy on there "loved ones" like that?


Never pick up a duck in a dungeon...

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_Stix_


_Stix_

Pooh-Bah
Location: la-la land

Total posts: 2419
Posted:sorry dude.. I can't agree with password hacking..

a friend of mine has just been dumped by her boyfreind becuase she snooped at his account.. it's really sad.. I told her if she was paraniod about the girl he emailed in Oz then she should have spoken to hiim about it.. frown snooping on your own kids tho.. keeps them safe doens't it?

Flid - that's scary.. half nakid pictures of UCOF *eekk* smile


I honour you as an aspect of myself..

You are never to old to storm a bouncey castle..

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Sir_Sheep


Sir_Sheep

old hand
Location: Chester, UK

Total posts: 725
Posted:It's the totally naked piccies of Mech which worry me

Spoiling Christmas for small children since 2003.

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PK_
BRONZE Member since Dec 2001

PK_

Lambretta Fanatic


Total posts: 4991
Posted:well some times it is better to know things when you know that you are being lied too! having spoken and asked about things on numerous occasions, then you read it for yourself!... i know all too well. it happened to me and i was suppossed to be getting married to that girl, not nice but i found out regardless... you dont need a program to find conversations on your own system not when you spend way too much time tinkering with it.

PK.

"To be an angel, one need not have wings.
In giving love there is an equal grace.
Nor need one seek the aura in the face,
As love unveils the beauty of all things."

*Francois Couperin.

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Skulduggery
GOLD Member since Aug 2004

Skulduggery

Pirate Pixie Crew Captain
Location: Wales

Total posts: 8428
Posted:If you trust someone so little that you will spy on them to make sure they are telling you the truth, I'd say the relationship is over already. Without trust a relationship won't work.

So, if you don't trust them, you don't need spyware.


Feed me Chocolate!!! Feed me NOW!

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ASTRO FAERIE
BRONZE Member since Mar 2017

ASTRO FAERIE

ummmmmmm.............
Location: Rotherham, UK

Total posts: 724
Posted:I agree with skull, the problem there is trust, and when its gone, its very hard to get back.

And without trust, one of the most important components of a relationship has gone.

My boyfriend has never spied on me and has no need to, and i feel the same smile.


Only when the last tree has died
and the last river has been poisoned
and the last fish has been caught
will we realise that we
cannot eat money.

Cree Indian, 1909

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PK_
BRONZE Member since Dec 2001

PK_

Lambretta Fanatic


Total posts: 4991
Posted:But ARE YOU SURE?<<< here comes the paranoia!


what if you knew and didnt say any thing, just carried on as you were in hope that things would be as they were once before.

sorry but in my opinion if some one is of a paranoid nature it would be a hard thing to deal with, and if they are that paranoid do they have any trust, if they have no trust will they ever be in a relationship?, will they ever be happy or just another suicide case!.


PK.

"To be an angel, one need not have wings.
In giving love there is an equal grace.
Nor need one seek the aura in the face,
As love unveils the beauty of all things."

*Francois Couperin.

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Skulduggery
GOLD Member since Aug 2004

Skulduggery

Pirate Pixie Crew Captain
Location: Wales

Total posts: 8428
Posted:If they are so paranoid that they will spy on their partner then I guess that the relationship is doomed. Relationships and love are about trust. If you have no trust you have no relationship.

A lot of battered women/men will tell you that their partner is paranoid. That the paranoia fueled the rage that caused them to beat them.

Spying on people doesn't cure paranoia. If anything it makes it worse. If they are willing to believe bad things of you then they will twist whatever they find when spying to fit what they believe is going on anyway.

Relationships DO NOT work without trust.


Feed me Chocolate!!! Feed me NOW!

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PK_
BRONZE Member since Dec 2001

PK_

Lambretta Fanatic


Total posts: 4991
Posted:To find out for definate one is then able to make the decision for the future..... one should take it as to be single again.. there really is no point to carry on.

I know and have experienced first hand and have suffered the mental unstability of being lied to, false promises etc.. some times love is blind and some one can go through hell just to make things better again... even though it will never work out in the end.

its a sucky situation and such an emotional thing to deal with when you are mentally unstable to deal with it in a sane way.
The problems stem deeper than paranoia i can tell you that much.

I wouldnt wish any one to have to suffer paranoia that bad that they have to spy on their partner, we are born with speach... so talk to your partner if you are having doubts!. It will only get worse the more that you think about it.


PK.

"To be an angel, one need not have wings.
In giving love there is an equal grace.
Nor need one seek the aura in the face,
As love unveils the beauty of all things."

*Francois Couperin.

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ASTRO FAERIE
BRONZE Member since Mar 2017

ASTRO FAERIE

ummmmmmm.............
Location: Rotherham, UK

Total posts: 724
Posted:Yup i fully agree, im quite lucky in that i trust my partner to such an extent i never need to worry about being cheated on, a little jealousy is natural, but to spy is not!.
this thread has just made me feel better......i realise that me and my partner have complete trust and it works both ways smile.


Only when the last tree has died
and the last river has been poisoned
and the last fish has been caught
will we realise that we
cannot eat money.

Cree Indian, 1909

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