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Raymember
3 posts
Location: Fairbanks Ak


Posted:
I have been around for 50 years and have had many different women but there is only very few of the women that have really understood the satisfaction of sex. and each of the evern now after 10 to 12 years later are still coming to me to satisfy them and ask why their husbands cant do what i do for them. I have started a man to man class to teach men how to give the women of their life the best of sex. The men i have teach the thing have given me more then I have ever thought the ability to show them how to satisfie the women the love. What I am asking is why dont other men know what it takes and why dont they past it on like i do?

Nyxenthusiast
385 posts
Location: NorCal


Posted:
originally posted by FieryFlow:
quote:
Performing oral sex on someone else has usually been considered as a submissive act.
I'm surprised no one said anything on this one cause it's real interesting to me.... I know it's considered submissive but DAMN! it can sure make you feel powerful! Think about it...

Now where did I put my handcuffs.....?

"Dancing can reveal all the mystery that music conceals"

~Charles Baudelaire


Nyxenthusiast
385 posts
Location: NorCal


Posted:
quote:
I my experience with men I have to say the main problems has been selfishness... No nessecarily on purpose but in truth selfishness...
In my experience most men just dont realize that a womans mind goes anywhere at any time... So to give her the best night of her life u have to tap into the brain and have a feel round so to speak... In my experience I have found that mental sex leads to good real sex...
standing up and applauding
this is sooo true! it's all mental and as far the comment that the man shouldn't have to figure out what's going on in the woman's head, she should just tell him- that works mainly for instruction (keep doing that, don't go there, etc) the rest of it is pretty ambiguous and a lot of times i think it comes down to simply being in tune with each other, something i believe you really can't make happen no matter how communicative you are. It's a look, a touch, the unspoken things that make your brain sizzle and the rest of your body follow suit. Once you recognize you have that kind of chemistry it's a question of using it, even exploiting it, with everything you've got! That's when you have that "feel round" in the woman's head and that's the time when a man's selfishness can turn the whole experience to shit and ruin the chemistry, or lack of selfishness, his generosity, can create some really earth-shaking sexual experiences!
okay, i've said more than i meant to....
*grinning sheepishly and slinking away with fond memories*

"Dancing can reveal all the mystery that music conceals"

~Charles Baudelaire


CassandraFroggie ... Ribbit !!!
4,224 posts
Location: Back in Paris... for now !


Posted:
So I was having this interesting discussion about sex toys last week end with Kali and Dom.
For some odd reason, I feel that they (and I'm thinking dildos in particular) are less common in Europe than they are in the USA for example. But dom was explaining that it is more a matter of taboo in Europe, while USA women are more open about it...

what do you reckon ?

"I want brown bread... no, that is diesel oil..."
"So I was raised in Europe, where History comes from ..."
"NON !!! La Plume de mon oncle n est pas Bingibangibungi !!!"


KyrianDreamer
4,308 posts
Location: York, England


Posted:
not knowing how things are in europe i can't really comment....

depends on social groups i would think but then i don;t know.

*whimpers* pele?

Keep your dream alive
Dreamin is still how the strong survive

Shalom VeAhavah

New Hampshire has a point....


PeleBRONZE Member
the henna lady
6,193 posts
Location: WNY, USA


Posted:
Sorry Kyrian, I forgot about this thread!

So....you made it this far....

Day 6: Yet again you strip one another slowly and
passionately. The first hour is exploring one another
with delicate fingertips, allowing them to graze
gently over one anothers bodies, head to toe,
acquainting yourself with every neuance, flaw and
perfection there is. The second hour is full body
massages, break out the baby oil and dig deeply into
one anothers flesh. Third hour is free play using your
mouth and hands. Yep..you heard it...finally something
to "sink your teeth into", no penetration still, no
dry humping, and no getting off, but pretty much
anything else is fair game.

Day 7: At long last!!!! And while I had thought of
making you sweat it out and beg for it ...I thought I'd
be a nice little mistress and give it to you (any way
you want! ). This is actually the most intense night.
You work through all 6 of the previous steps making
certain to do each one at least 20 to 30 minutes.
First half hour is fantacy sharing, Second half hour
is kissing, Third is above the clothes petting, Fourth
is under the clothes, Fifth is naked kissing but no
"touching", sixth is caress, massage and play, by this
time you are 6 days and 3 hours into being worked
up....
So now you step into the sex stage but the point here
is that you will want to just f*^k hard because you
are so pent up but you can't, you have to control it
and slowly make love for at least an hour. After
that...all pounding, pressing, hammering, screaming,
yelling, nail digging and biting is welcome.

[ 27 June 2002, 14:40: Message edited by: Pele ]

Pele
Higher, higher burning fire...making music like a choir
"Oooh look! A pub!" -exclaimed after recovering from a stupid fall
"And for the decadence of art, nothing beats a roaring fire." -TMK


KyrianDreamer
4,308 posts
Location: York, England


Posted:
thank you pele

*files*

now i just have to find some guy to try this with... hrmmm

oh well, soon enough

Keep your dream alive
Dreamin is still how the strong survive

Shalom VeAhavah

New Hampshire has a point....


PeleBRONZE Member
the henna lady
6,193 posts
Location: WNY, USA


Posted:
I think that toys and stuff are really in two categories here in the US....

They are taboo so there are all the porn shops with the windows blacked out that people sneek into the back doors of just to check out the double header....and because we are at large a sexually repressed nation they are popular.

The other category is sub-cultural. It seems that many "sub-cultures" exsist to break and or shock the norm, the toy taboo being a norm and being amazing for shock factor, the toy usage has become something of it's own sub-culture with toy coneseurs and all.

I don't know. Toys can be fun, sure...but there is nothing like the real thing baby!

Pele
Higher, higher burning fire...making music like a choir
"Oooh look! A pub!" -exclaimed after recovering from a stupid fall
"And for the decadence of art, nothing beats a roaring fire." -TMK


SmokyDavySILVER Member
Do my poi look too small in this?
394 posts
Location: Toronto, Ontario, Canada


Posted:
I always find it so strange that our society has made the most natural and necessary functions into taboos.

I also find it funny how obsessed with cleanliness and disinfecting people are here.

For f*cks sake don't drink that water, its been sitting there for over an hour!!

I once new a girl who refused to kiss her boyfriend after he went down on her.. In Toronto of course.

MikeGinnyGOLD Member
HOP Mad Doctor
13,923 posts
Location: San Francisco, CA, USA


Posted:
Pele, I don't know if I could do it.

I might be able to make it as far as day 6, but I think that come day 7, the slightest touch anywhere near that area would pretty much cause an explosion.

Or is the point that it doesn't matter because that is going to happen to me several times that night?

-Mike

Certified Mad Doctor and HoP High Priest of Nutella



A buckuht n a hooze! -Valura


flidBRONZE Member
Carpal \'Tunnel
3,136 posts
Location: Warwickshire, United Kingdom


Posted:
in responce to NYC's thread about bumping old threads, i looked at his post history and found this little gem eek

don't ever let it be said that things going down hill is a recent thing biggrin

NYCNYC
9,232 posts
Location: NYC, NY, USA


Posted:
Oh Jebuz Flid. You sure can pick em'.

spank

Well, shall we go?
Yes, let's go.
[They do not move.]


flidBRONZE Member
Carpal \'Tunnel
3,136 posts
Location: Warwickshire, United Kingdom


Posted:
yea, it all makes perfect sense now too, like I understand why Pele's avatar has a cracking whip eek biggrin

flash fireBRONZE Member
Sporadically Prodigal
2,758 posts
Location: Sydney, NSW, Australia


Posted:
some things are better of dead.

ubbangel

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flidBRONZE Member
Carpal \'Tunnel
3,136 posts
Location: Warwickshire, United Kingdom


Posted:
yea, better lock it before pounce gets here! ubblol

KyrianDreamer
4,308 posts
Location: York, England


Posted:
yeah, wow. I'd forgotten about this gem. Heh. I should go through and read it again, see if there's anything useful in it... tongue

i remember Pele's whole seven days thing tho...still havn't gotten a chance to try it. *sighs*

damn roomates and roomates of bf. *devilish grin*

Keep your dream alive
Dreamin is still how the strong survive

Shalom VeAhavah

New Hampshire has a point....


pounceSILVER Member
All the neurotic makings of America's lesser known sweetheart
9,831 posts
Location: body in Las Vegas, heart all around the world, USA


Posted:
Quote:

yea, better lock it before pounce gets here! ubblol




gah! wha? doh! huh? bah!

this does look like a rather interesting thread ubbangel

*makes mental note to self: read thread when off work"

I was always scared with my mother's obsession with the good scissors. It made me wonder if there were evil scissors lurking in the house somewhere.

Do not meddle in the affairs of dragons for you are crunchy and good with ketchup.

**giggles**


FireSpiritSILVER Member
Classic 90's Fire Dancer... Poi, Staff, Doubles, and Breathing
743 posts
Location: South Lake Tahoe, USA


Posted:
Ah Yes, Ray from AK!!

Let me tell ya, The only thing people can do to stay sain in Alaska is to Have SEX.
Its Cold and Dark ... Two Great reasons to hop in the Sack!! ubblol

I lived in Girdwood AK for 3 years, and let me tell ya lots of guys who need lessons.... (so I hear) ubbtickled

The odds are good ladys, but the goods are Odd!! ubblol

Sex is Bliss!



FIRE IS ALIVE!
IT LIVES AND BREATHS!
IT CONSUMES, AND DISTROYS!
BUT WE CONTROL IT,
AND DANCE WITH FIRE!!


DomBRONZE Member
Carpal \'Tunnel
3,009 posts
Location: Bristol, UK


Posted:
I've locked this thread as I think it's a thread that's fun to have in the archive, but as this is a PG site about poi we don't think it's appropriate as an active topic.

If you'd like to discuss this thread with each other then please feel free to do so via email wink

Thanks, Dom

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