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quote:oh? how do you figure? so if, say someone is always nice to me because they want me to feel good that's better than me knowing they actually hate spending time around me? I mean, telling someone you like their haircut is one thing, but just because something makes someone feel better doesn't mean it should be said if it's a lie ! I mean, lets take anotehr example. should we tell someone their an awesome spinner if they really arn't that good just so they feel better about themselves? I'm sorry, i just have a lot of problems with what you said and how that could wind up causing quite a bit of damage...
Orignally posted by the mind gap:
if anything makes a person feel better about themselves or the world they live in then, even if it couldn't be further removed from the truth, it surely must be good.
quote:This is true in all the oddest situations. I've actually flat out come to the conclusion I shouldn't tell my male friends when their girl is cheating on them because they just get mad at me! One never found out the truth, and still won't speak to me, a couple others found out later and apologized and everything, but it's just not worth the stress since it doesn't chaneg anything anyway...! Anyhow, backing off that, there's a lot of truths taht don't accomplish anything by being told. I, oddly, as i stated before, woudl rather hear most of them pertaining to me, because it makes my mind rest easier. And the guilty conciousness thing... man, i know the kind of feeling. I always want to tell people things taht they really just don't need to know, becasue i feel it's dishonest not to. And i have to fight with myself sometimes to ride it out. And sometimes i tell adn it works out anyhow... but yeah. One point to watch out for in your example is taht if the guilty conciousness is destroying an otherwise good relationship, it might be worth teh discussion. it can happen. should prolly be avoided, but life does stuff liek taht sometimes.
Originally posted by Thistle:
Is every truth to be told? I think not. If someone tells a truth to make themself feel better and it hurts people then IMO that's a selfish act and it would be better tell no-one. For example a person telling their partner they had a one night stand 3 years ago because they feel it is eating away at them. Truths like this are told for the sake of the teller's guilty consience not for the benefit of the recipient.
quote:I'm going to disagree. That kind of dishonesty is just asking for problems later, wether the child finds out the truth or wether it just puts too much stress on the family relationships. I wouldn't tell a young child about rape or anything, i would just say that their father is (dead or alive depending on the truth) and can't live with them, i don't have an exact wording or anything, i'm just saying taht kind of stuff can backfire (i've seen it happen). Plus, it's a real shock if you think of ur father as this dead hero and find out he was a criminal at any point? Just saying.
Originally posted by Thistle:
Are all lies bad? No. For instance is it wrong to tell a child who is the result of their Mother's rape their Father was a good man who died before they were born? I think not.
quote:but i think this stuff is cool
Oringinally posted by drome:
Make up stories of elves and fairies, and magical talking trees! Such stories re-awaken the long forgotten magick we all hold within us.
PUSH THE ENVELOPE.
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quote:Ok, Cassandra. I think you brought up the topic, so you're responsible for dealing with this one.
Originally posted by Kinudin:
Santa's not real?
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quote:well if i over hear or if someone tells me a secret about my good friend you better beleive he will no within 30 minutes.. im like one of those winged monkies from wizard of oz. .. i will keep a secret regarding anyone elses relationship because i dont feel its my place. when it comes to my friends im loyal to them and telling me some dirt on them you might as well just tell them.. cause i will go streight to them with it... and depending on the dirt i may start a fight right there, and then go tell them.
I'm in agreement with most you say girly- but one thing! If I had a friend who was being cheated on, and I didn't tell them, and they found out that I knew all along, and, and, and- *slaps herself* they'd kill me!
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quote:lol superman that's hilarious! have you heard the one about Jesus and the Brontosaurus?!
Originally posted by Superman:
Well like easter for instance....Christians tell their children that they celebrate the death of their savior by Explaining that a giant Bunny rabbit comes in the night and leaves little chocolate eggs....Hell as long as we are making things up, lets go ape shit.
How about telling them that goldfish leave lincoln-logs in their sock drawyers.
Child..."mummy, theirs a lincoln-log in me sock drawyer!?!?"
parent..."Thats the story of Jesus little one"
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quote:I agree with you but I have an unfortunate story... I heard of this kid who pulled his teeth out so he would get money from the tooth fairy!
Orriginally posted by Thistle: The tooth fairy is there to help children through the pain and shock of their teeth falling out and that's not a bad thing.
*:...one day all the fairy fridges will be aligned and my pixie world will be complete...:*
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