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Dark Chaos
Location: the abyss
Member Since: 17th Jun 2002
Total posts: 15
Posted:Why is it that you often can't tell people things? They don't want to hear them, or it's not right to say them.

I just wonder sometimes. Cause there are often things i want to say and cannot.

it makes me sad at times.

the night is darkest before the dawn


Intrepid Penguin

Member Since: 12th May 2002
Total posts: 5635

sounds like you are going through something difficult where you need to talk to someone you care about but cant?

i've had that, and its not fun. so *BIGHUGECUDDLZ* i hope things get better! xoxoxxo

Currently on the right side up of the world.

Location: Melbourne
Member Since: 2nd Jun 2002
Total posts: 30
Posted:It sucks big fat ones. Just psyche yourself up and do it. You'll feel heaps better afterwards.

the mind gap.
the mind gap.

old hand
Location: Brigadoon
Member Since: 31st May 2002
Total posts: 829
Posted:i reckon if something should be said, say it.
if what you've said is ignored, that's not your fault. you tried.
if the person you are talking to takes offence, well, if no offence was intended or offered then that person only has him/herself to blame.

and don't feel sad. if these people refuse to listen to someone who's trying to help then they have no right to cause that someone to feel bad for them when shit goes pear shaped.

everything works out right in the long run. just do what you think is right.

wherever you go, there you are.


The Ministry of Manipulation
Location: Bristol
Member Since: 8th Nov 2001
Total posts: 2523
Posted:dark mind-

Is what stopping you within you?
within your dark mind?

or is it outside of you?



Froggie ... Ribbit !!!
Location: Back in Paris... for now !
Member Since: 8th Jun 2001
Total posts: 4224
Posted:First of all sendig you smiles, hugs and silliness to make things a bit lighter

As for teh rest, I totally agree with the Mind Gap...

get things off your chest if you think it can solve a problem / clear a situation etc ...
often we think that we are protecting otehrs by not saying something, and more often it is the opposite ...

hope you'll feel good and bouncy soon

shine on

"I want brown bread... no, that is diesel oil..."
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