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Kyrian
Dreamer
Location: York, England
Member Since: 15th Mar 2002
Total posts: 4308
Posted:And remember..... I'm female....

How do you bring shy guys out of their shell?
I'm too nervous that i'm leading people on, or that i'm imposing, or taht peopel hate me or whatever...
but i've found out later sometimes that guys were just shy and really liked me and wanted me to stay around...
a guy i'm interested in now is sort of shy.. he seems to not mind me and all... but i'm sort of nervous around him.. for reasons which i will disclose on pm if you want to know... but anyway he seems to enjoy my company but i'm shy about hitting on him or anything and he is shy in general so....
help?


Keep your dream alive
Dreamin is still how the strong survive

Shalom VeAhavah

New Hampshire has a point....

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Cantus
Cantus

Tantamount to fatuity
Location: Down the road
Member Since: 30th Jul 2001
Total posts: 15965
Posted:Hollywood ruined Raise the Titanic for me.....

"I'll carry this....It's harder to spill a hat" - Chellybean
"...like a rabbit caught in a lighthouse?" - Chellybean

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bender
still can't believe it's not butter
Location: Melbourne, Australia
Member Since: 14th Nov 2001
Total posts: 6979
Posted:lol yeah too right aboot the Tritanic!
Luc Besson's La Femme Nikita was bastardised too - but at least the hollywood pillage versiob of it featured Nina Simone tracks!


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Kyrian
Dreamer
Location: York, England
Member Since: 15th Mar 2002
Total posts: 4308
Posted:Bender, what do i haev to do to get ahold of the original La Femme Nikita? I know it's out there... somwhere... if not in my country, somewhere...

Keep your dream alive
Dreamin is still how the strong survive

Shalom VeAhavah

New Hampshire has a point....

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Jade Lynx
member
Location: Laguna Beach, but i live in De...
Member Since: 19th May 2002
Total posts: 239
Posted:Kyrian, I've had good results with massage. If you give the fellow backrubs, it will:

a. get him used to you touching him
b. relax him
c. relax you
and
d. offer you a handy opportunity at making a gentle pass that he can gracefully ignore if he so chooses.

In fact, the guy i lived with the longest started out our relationship by giving me a 3-day footrub , and the guy who made the most discreet massage pass i've ever received is the guy i ended up marrying...


We got the MikeZ in the house, woot!Glue the ham, hat baby!

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Available
member
Location: ringwood,nj usa
Member Since: 18th Aug 2001
Total posts: 93
Posted:if you danse with fire ... that leads me to believe even if you have shy qualities you are not a shy person shy from having a lot o fun o expressing yoself. i only speak from experience being the reserved(um not really) sumwhat(actress) extrovert i am of course shy people will be attracted. you show a quality they want to enhance. so all i have to say cute i know you want to be in love but you need someone who is going to help you shine and not live in the shadows and maybe i'm just having a bad week month year what eva make sure this individual is going to help you shine like the un ashamed no reason to believe so being i'm sure you are what is there to be afraid of right now shy people scare me

Better to Burn out than Fade out, Baby!

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Kyrian
Dreamer
Location: York, England
Member Since: 15th Mar 2002
Total posts: 4308
Posted:wow.... colors i'm sorry but i honestly did not get more than one or two words of that...

ok, so, an update eh? I'm having a much easier time talking to him all of teh sudden, i still get the slightly nervous babble too much thing now and then but mostly it's fine. i feel more comfortable around him- he seems mildly less shy than before, - and - i mean, he's cool. he's awesome, and talking to him i started to feel like he was one of those people taht no matter what we haev a lot of common ground and coudl wind up really good friends.

but

i had to make a decsicion (sp)

i think i had already made it awhile ago, and i think i knew that. I havn't told the whole story, as i mentioned in my first post. i reeally like this guy. and if something develops i'm hardly oen to fight it... he's awesome. but there is another part to the story, like i said, and i don't think i should really go for him right now. too much risk. so, we'll see.

and thanks for the advice btw.... some of it was quite useful when i was first talking to him and still tripping over my own tongue.



Keep your dream alive
Dreamin is still how the strong survive

Shalom VeAhavah

New Hampshire has a point....

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bender
still can't believe it's not butter
Location: Melbourne, Australia
Member Since: 14th Nov 2001
Total posts: 6979
Posted:loook under 'foreign' for 'la femme nikita' it's directed by the fifth element director so ask for him by the brand you will realise just how many original elements we ripped off essentially identical to the original. 'cept for bridget fonda.
look foreign for condescension.
look condescendingly for road directions.

Kyrian you're already a winner if your his mate! it could be nice if treat the possibly of a relationship as the blossoming of something according to yaself that is already quite beautiful. carpe diem sweetie!


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Maximus
member
Location: Upland, CA., USA
Member Since: 13th Dec 2001
Total posts: 250
Posted:"Nina Simone"!?! *swoon*

Now I am impressed...(bows deeply).

Have you heard her version of Bertolt Brecht's "Pirate Jenny"? Brings a tear to this old socialist's eye everytime. I got all her records, on vinyl...

Maximus


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arashi
arashi

Pooh-Bah
Location: austin,tx
Member Since: 21st Mar 2002
Total posts: 2363
Posted:just an update on the bonk me in the head world...
this totally beautiful woman came up to me last weekend and totally started mackin on me. well, i went with it, but stayed kind of awkward when it got to the phone # time. WHAT AN IDIOT! she was basically telling me she thought i was hot, and wanted to hang out. i'm kicking myself over and over, i want to feel her lips on my eyelids! her eyes are haunting me, much less the totally sexy stuff she was telling me about herself! AAAAAAARGH! shyness sucks! never again! call me, oh fairy godess!!!


-Such a price the gods exact for song: to become what we sing
-Seek freedom and become captive of your desires. Seek discipline and find your liberty.
-When the center of the storm does not move, you are in its path.

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polarity
polarity

veteran
Location: on the wrong planet
Member Since: 16th May 2005
Total posts: 1228
Posted:Same way you get an oyster out of it's shell. Find the bit that keeps it closed, and cut it out.

In other words take the time to find out what makes the guy shy, and let him know it isn't an issue for you. Just don't be surprised if the oyster metaphor continues wink


You aren't thinking or really existing unless you're willing to risk even your own sanity in the judgment of your existence.

Green peppers, lime pickle and whole-grain mustard = best sandwich filling.

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