-Mike
Certified Mad Doctor and HoP High Priest of Nutella
A buckuht n a hooze! -Valura
"beg beg grovel beg grovel"
"master"
--FSA
"There was an arse there, i couldn't help myself"
--Rougie
I was always scared with my mother's obsession with the good scissors. It made me wonder if there were evil scissors lurking in the house somewhere.
Do not meddle in the affairs of dragons for you are crunchy and good with ketchup.
**giggles**
Let's turn those old bridges we crossed into ashes.
We'll blaze a new trail,
and torch the rough patches.
-Me
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i think (and here's where the REAL psychobabble comes on) you should carefully look at what about him attracts you to him. is it him or is it a trait that is lacking in your life? i found myself in this relationship, i've realized, because i needed to feel young again with the abilty to not feel so responsible and serious. my job was bringing me down, my adult responsibilities were tiring me out because i didn't have the balance of having fun and being less serious. and that's why i sought out this young relationship. like i said, i truly do care about him, but there were definately traits he had because of his age that attracted me. and in the long term, those traits alone are not going to be enough to sustain our relationship.
-Mike
Certified Mad Doctor and HoP High Priest of Nutella
A buckuht n a hooze! -Valura
Written by: L i g h t n i n g
But the analysis is killing me.
Written by: ICoN
I dunno what to do in a situation like that. I dont wanna be rude and just blow em off....
The optimist claims that we are living in the best of all possible worlds.
The pessimist fears this is true.
Always make time to play in the snow.
Written by: DømWritten by: ICoN
I dunno what to do in a situation like that. I dont wanna be rude and just blow em off....
Gosh! What a hard life you lead! There's nowt much wrong with flirting (unless thier boyfriend is nearby and bigger than you), but you don't really have to do anything more just for the sake of manners!
Lightning - stop analysing, do more experiencing
Solitude sometimes speaks to you, and you should listen.
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Lightning - stop analysing, do more experiencing
-Mike
Certified Mad Doctor and HoP High Priest of Nutella
A buckuht n a hooze! -Valura
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Well, Konsti, it's not just a number. A lot about you changes between 20 and 26
"is optimism in austria just a lack of information?"
-Alfred Dorfer
-Mike
Certified Mad Doctor and HoP High Priest of Nutella
A buckuht n a hooze! -Valura
the calm and the chaos
"If you didn't like something the first time, the cud won't be any good either." --Elsie the Cow, Ruminations
Written by: Ewal
When it comes to relationships I find that the past matters not a toffee
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2. Lightning, you're dating an...UNDERGRAD?!?!?!? For shame. (KIDDING)
-Mike
Certified Mad Doctor and HoP High Priest of Nutella
A buckuht n a hooze! -Valura
Written by: pounce
most of what people have said here is accurate. and i think NYC hit it on the head with the fact it's not about the age difference per se, but where you are in your respective lives. a lot of maturing does occur from 20 to 26, it's an entirely different developmental stage (yes therapist pounce brought that up)
i have been dating someone significantly younger than me (i'm not gonna say how old but it's a huge gap). and although he can be extremely mature at times, the differences between where i am in my life and the experiences i've been through, and where he is in his life and his experiences, is very glaring. if he was the same age gap but on the older side, i don't think there'd be a problem. i truly care about him, but the emotional up and down and immature drama (which i admittedly brought upon myself) makes the relationship hardly worth it at times.
i think (and here's where the REAL psychobabble comes on) you should carefully look at what about him attracts you to him. is it him or is it a trait that is lacking in your life? i found myself in this relationship, i've realized, because i needed to feel young again with the abilty to not feel so responsible and serious. my job was bringing me down, my adult responsibilities were tiring me out because i didn't have the balance of having fun and being less serious. and that's why i sought out this young relationship. like i said, i truly do care about him, but there were definately traits he had because of his age that attracted me. and in the long term, those traits alone are not going to be enough to sustain our relationship.
dance your cares away
worries for another day
so let the music play
down in fragle rock
the calm and the chaos
Written by: DømWritten by: Ewal
When it comes to relationships I find that the past matters not a toffee
I completely disagree. In your life what has gone before affects you, even if you don't know it. We are what life makes us, we change and grow as we live. Personally I wouldn't like to have a relationship with somebody who hasn't had several different relationships prior to learn from.
Well, shall we go?
Yes, let's go.
[They do not move.]
I was always scared with my mother's obsession with the good scissors. It made me wonder if there were evil scissors lurking in the house somewhere.
Do not meddle in the affairs of dragons for you are crunchy and good with ketchup.
**giggles**
FIRE IS ALIVE!
IT LIVES AND BREATHS!
IT CONSUMES, AND DISTROYS!
BUT WE CONTROL IT,
AND DANCE WITH FIRE!!
-Mike
Certified Mad Doctor and HoP High Priest of Nutella
A buckuht n a hooze! -Valura
wie weit, wie weit noch?
fragst mich, wo wir gewesen sind...
du fehlst hier
"For once there was an unknown land, full of strange flowers and subtle perfumes,
a land of which it is joy of all joys to dream, a land where all things are perfect and poisonous."
"Put out the torches! Hide the moon! Hide the stars!"
-Mike
Certified Mad Doctor and HoP High Priest of Nutella
A buckuht n a hooze! -Valura
Written by: L i g h t n i n g
For right now, looks like I have a boyfriend.
Well, shall we go?
Yes, let's go.
[They do not move.]
"beg beg grovel beg grovel"
"master"
--FSA
"There was an arse there, i couldn't help myself"
--Rougie
-Mike
Certified Mad Doctor and HoP High Priest of Nutella
A buckuht n a hooze! -Valura
Written by: L i g h t n i n g
NYC, I know you New Yorkers have a rather foreshortened view of the rest of the world. Having said that, Ann Arbor is 4 hours EAST of Chicago. (East means closer to NYC...just in case you were wondering. )
Well, shall we go?
Yes, let's go.
[They do not move.]
-Mike
Certified Mad Doctor and HoP High Priest of Nutella
A buckuht n a hooze! -Valura
Well, shall we go?
Yes, let's go.
[They do not move.]
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