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grasshopper in training
124 posts
Location: Australia
grasshopper in training
124 posts
Location: Australia
Posted:
Okay, i know it is always tricky, and rarely happy... but i think i have to do it in about 2 hours when i finish work, and i just don't have a clue what to say.
Its not like he did anything really wrong... i just don't feel the rush that i need to in a relationship. I don't really form relationships and this one has reminded me why... all of the obligations with hardly any of the love that would make it shine. I think we both need to be released so we can move on to the next experience and lesson. But lots of mutual friends etc that i met him through, and i will still see him and... eugh
I hate the thought that i will be causing someone else, at the very least, discomfort
So i guess i am going to say almost exactly what i have just written, but if anyone has any stories or personal experience to make up for my lack of it i would really appreciate it.
Hugs to you all, looper
Okay, i know it is always tricky, and rarely happy... but i think i have to do it in about 2 hours when i finish work, and i just don't have a clue what to say.
Its not like he did anything really wrong... i just don't feel the rush that i need to in a relationship. I don't really form relationships and this one has reminded me why... all of the obligations with hardly any of the love that would make it shine. I think we both need to be released so we can move on to the next experience and lesson. But lots of mutual friends etc that i met him through, and i will still see him and... eugh
I hate the thought that i will be causing someone else, at the very least, discomfort
So i guess i am going to say almost exactly what i have just written, but if anyone has any stories or personal experience to make up for my lack of it i would really appreciate it.
Hugs to you all, looper
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Insert Champagne Here
13,215 posts
Location: without class distinction, Australia
Insert Champagne Here
13,215 posts
Location: without class distinction, Australia
Posted:
be honest. but dont be cruel.
my only personal experience thing is to not do it as a spur of the moment thing (however by your post i doubt you'd be doing that!). i broke up with a guy out of sheer (rowing induced) stress, then regretted it later and shyness (mixed with pride and general stupidity) made me not follow it back up.
goodluck with it.
be honest. but dont be cruel.
my only personal experience thing is to not do it as a spur of the moment thing (however by your post i doubt you'd be doing that!). i broke up with a guy out of sheer (rowing induced) stress, then regretted it later and shyness (mixed with pride and general stupidity) made me not follow it back up.
goodluck with it.
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still can't believe it's not butter
6,978 posts
Location: Melbourne, Australia
still can't believe it's not butter
6,978 posts
Location: Melbourne, Australia
Posted:
erm just don't do it over the phone or via skywriting.
erm just don't do it over the phone or via skywriting.
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Ghostbuster
455 posts
Location: York, UK
Ghostbuster
455 posts
Location: York, UK
Posted:
you could make him feel better by saying he was really good in bed (whether its true or not doesn't matter)
you could make him feel better by saying he was really good in bed (whether its true or not doesn't matter)
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playing the days away
7,263 posts
Location: The Middle lands, United Kingdom
playing the days away
7,263 posts
Location: The Middle lands, United Kingdom
Posted:
Just be honest, whether he likes it or not starting with a lie never helps, of course you can omit some truths, that aint so bad.
Good luck looper
Just be honest, whether he likes it or not starting with a lie never helps, of course you can omit some truths, that aint so bad.
Good luck looper
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HOP Mad Doctor
13,925 posts
Location: San Francisco, CA, USA
HOP Mad Doctor
13,925 posts
Location: San Francisco, CA, USA
Posted:
There is no soft way to break the news. Sorry.
There is no soft way to break the news. Sorry.
-Mike
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