grasshopper in training

Member Since: 4th Feb 2004
Total posts: 124
Posted:Okay, i know it is always tricky, and rarely happy... but i think i have to do it in about 2 hours when i finish work, and i just don't have a clue what to say.
Its not like he did anything really wrong... i just don't feel the rush that i need to in a relationship. I don't really form relationships and this one has reminded me why... all of the obligations with hardly any of the love that would make it shine. I think we both need to be released so we can move on to the next experience and lesson. But lots of mutual friends etc that i met him through, and i will still see him and... eugh
I hate the thought that i will be causing someone else, at the very least, discomfort hug confused frown
So i guess i am going to say almost exactly what i have just written, but if anyone has any stories or personal experience to make up for my lack of it i would really appreciate it.

Hugs to you all, looper

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Rouge Dragon
Rouge Dragon

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Location: without class distinction
Member Since: 21st Jul 2003
Total posts: 13215
Posted:be honest. but dont be cruel.
my only personal experience thing is to not do it as a spur of the moment thing (however by your post i doubt you'd be doing that!). i broke up with a guy out of sheer (rowing induced) stress, then regretted it later and shyness (mixed with pride and general stupidity) made me not follow it back up.

goodluck with it. hug


i would have changed ***** to phallus, and claire to petey Petey

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still can't believe it's not butter
Location: Melbourne, Australia
Member Since: 14th Nov 2001
Total posts: 6979
Posted:erm just don't do it over the phone or via skywriting.

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Location: York, UK
Member Since: 1st Mar 2003
Total posts: 455
Posted:you could make him feel better by saying he was really good in bed (whether its true or not doesn't matter)



playing the days away
Location: The Middle lands
Member Since: 19th Aug 2003
Total posts: 7263
Posted:Just be honest, whether he likes it or not starting with a lie never helps, of course you can omit some truths, that aint so bad.

Good luck looper

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Doc Lightning
Doc Lightning

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Location: San Francisco, CA, USA
Member Since: 28th May 2001
Total posts: 13920
Posted:There is no soft way to break the news. Sorry. hug

-Mike )'(
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