Rouge Dragon
Rouge Dragon

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Location: without class distinction
Member Since: 21st Jul 2003
Total posts: 13215
Posted:This is the official post for the singles in opposition to the love post!

(im going to laugh so much is Vanize makes a singles topic at the same time! lol!)


i would have changed ***** to phallus, and claire to petey Petey

Rougie: but that's what I'm doing here
Arnwyn: what letting me adjust myself in your room?..don't you dare quote that on HoP...

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NathanielEverist
NathanielEverist

enthusiast
Location: Melbourne
Member Since: 20th Aug 2007
Total posts: 315
Posted:Aw, thanks guys. I agree Blu_valley. Ironically, when I wanted somebody, nobody was there. Then as soon as I was like: "To hell with this, I'm happy alone" I got a number of girls wanting to be with me, one of which I'm still with today.

And yeah, I do feel that way sometimes, but really. I love her, and she loves me, and I couldn't risk not finding somebody as good as she is if I left her, and I couldn't hurt her feelings like that, she's a very dependent girl. That said though, I am happy in our relationship, don't think I'm not, just every now and then though I just get tired of being guilt tripped. Argh! There I go again! I love her, I'm happy, she's happy and it's all good.

Thanks all, wishing you all the best. Just remember, being single is lots of fun too.


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travelling without moving
Location: Maghull, Liverpool
Member Since: 9th May 2006
Total posts: 1286
Posted:well, i'm now making the most of my time being single, and i'm embarking on a 40 day and night abstinence starting from last night!
its something i've wanted to do for a while, as a friend of mine did it and told me what an amazing experience it was.
So i'll keep you guys updated on just how large my balls get over the next (nearly) six weeks! lol


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jarle
jarle

Lv15 Ranger
Location: Melbourne, Australia
Member Since: 13th Mar 2007
Total posts: 1489
Posted:Umm, no massive posts from me but...

Yay for being happy, regardess of your romantic life!


Kupo!

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Aurinko
Aurinko

hello!
Location: Amsterdam
Member Since: 1st Aug 2006
Total posts: 1034
Posted:Lat night I did some kind of relationship-bookkeeping (not on paper, it's not yet that bad). The result: even though I have hardly had any relationships or colouring (hurray for all those who saw the SATC-movie) lately, the amount of GOOD relationships and GOOD colouring (hey, the forum is PG-rated!) stayed about the same.
Not sure what to think of that.
On the one hand, I am happy that I seem to be able to make better choices now.
On the other hand, this is not really encouraging. I guess I might indeed be better of just getting myself some ladies' toys instead of guys. Oh my. *sigh*


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Aurinko
Aurinko

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Location: Amsterdam
Member Since: 1st Aug 2006
Total posts: 1034
Posted:o.k., I admit, there is a reason why I'm so pessimistic. The guy on whom I've had a huge crush for two years (we've had some kind of on-and-off-affair for the last two years) turned weird. Until now, he's always been moody and instable. But good, I can live with that. But now he started to take his moods out on my, trying to put me down and to insult me. That's no fun any more.


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o.k., that already feels a bit better now.
But he's still an a*****e

And I am going to see him again in 2 weeks and I hope this is not going to end in a weird way.


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Birgit
Birgit

had her carpal tunnel surgery already thanks v much
Location: Edinburgh
Member Since: 27th Jan 2005
Total posts: 4145
Posted:Aww boo frown (Is it who I think it is?) Taking issues out on others = lame. Tell him to grow up. hug

<-- has had a very nice not-so-single-weekend. Well. Single weekend. With another single. You know what I mean.


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misscorinthian
misscorinthian

old hand
Location: Bristol
Member Since: 27th Sep 2005
Total posts: 784
Posted:Stop rubbing it in!

No really, I am very happy for you hun hug


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Birgit
Birgit

had her carpal tunnel surgery already thanks v much
Location: Edinburgh
Member Since: 27th Jan 2005
Total posts: 4145
Posted:Well I thought you might want to know about it wink Not sure yet what'll happen next, I've been invited back but trains are hellishly expensive at the moment... hmmmmmmmmmmm. Not that I have a free weekend in the next month or so anyway, so no point worrying my pretty little brain about it.

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Aurinko
Aurinko

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Location: Amsterdam
Member Since: 1st Aug 2006
Total posts: 1034
Posted:I want to know about it. Better than my "nothing is ever going to happen"-life. It's the Swedish guy. censored . I'm pretty sure I told you about him. *grrrrr* And in two weeks I'm going to a summer school which he is also going to attend. For two months! I thought this would be the perfect opportunity for some two-singles-time (as you would probably call it. Congratulations, by the way!), but it turns out this is going to be some I-will-either-hide-or-hit-him-but-try-not-to-fall-for-his-charms-again-time.

Pffft.


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Aurinko
Aurinko

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Location: Amsterdam
Member Since: 1st Aug 2006
Total posts: 1034
Posted: Written by :Aurinko


It's the Swedish guy. censored.



Oh, look at that. They automatically censor some words now. I didn't write censored. It just replaced one of the things I wrote. Seriously. eek Technical-stuff can be so scary.


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the_mods_stole_my_name

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Location: Maghull, Liverpool
Member Since: 9th May 2006
Total posts: 1286
Posted:well, one week into the abstinence and my patience was tested at the weekend. I knew this would happen! now that i can't have any kind of sexual relationship for the next 40 days, it's being offered to me on a plate! ah well, that's the way the cookie crumbles!

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Birgit
Birgit

had her carpal tunnel surgery already thanks v much
Location: Edinburgh
Member Since: 27th Jan 2005
Total posts: 4145
Posted:Thought it might be him. Maybe things will be much better though if you're actually spending time together at that summer school, long distance stuff can be so difficult!
Mine is the typical case of when I was living in Scotland, I had a boyfriend in England. Now I'm in England and this guy I hardly knew before except for 2 nights out with friends comes down all the way from Scotland to visit me. So now I kind of wish I was still in Edinburgh so that it wouldn't be 16 hours and 100 pounds on the train (both return, so I'll live) to go and return the visit. ubblol


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Aurinko
Aurinko

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Location: Amsterdam
Member Since: 1st Aug 2006
Total posts: 1034
Posted: Written by :Dr_Birgit


Maybe things will be much better though if you're actually spending time together at that summer school, long distance stuff can be so difficult!




Don't know. The problems actually emerged last time I saw him in person. And by now I'm not too interested in getting together with him any more. That's the biggest thing I learned last year: when somebody treats you like s*** and takes advantage of you, don't hope that it will get better at some point, just leave!
By now I even found somebody else I am interested in biggrin
The problem is that this guy is Japanese (check your PMs for a link to pictures of him) = not too openly aggressive and outgoing in the personal area. I'll probably have to take the initiative, but I don't want to scare him (after all I was a tentacled monster in this stupid "what sex-type are you"-game on facebook)


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Aurinko
Aurinko

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Location: Amsterdam
Member Since: 1st Aug 2006
Total posts: 1034
Posted:and that Scotland and England thing is a natural law. Now you know.

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Birgit
Birgit

had her carpal tunnel surgery already thanks v much
Location: Edinburgh
Member Since: 27th Jan 2005
Total posts: 4145
Posted:Ah okay, I thought he'd turned weird from a distance. But having seen that Japanese guy, dump the Swede and pick the hot one biggrin
Apparently I scare people a lot. If they can't live with that then there's your ideal preselection criteria smile
Oh, and I kind of figured about the natural law. At least now I have a nice distraction for when I'm back in Scotland, and for the time being I'm busy anyway (just checked for weekends I could actually go up to see the guy and the next one I wouldn't have to cancel something else for is in 7 weeks. Meh. Natural law again do we think?)
On the funny side, I think my I-Don't-Know-If-I-Love-You-Anymore ex is getting a bit jealous ubblol


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Aurinko
Aurinko

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Location: Amsterdam
Member Since: 1st Aug 2006
Total posts: 1034
Posted: Written by biggrinr_Birgit



But having seen that Japanese guy, dump the Swede and pick the hot one biggrin





I'd love to, I just don't know how to start that. We've already been out a few times, but always together with others. We also talk regularly (we both work at the same institute at the moment) and we're kind of lurking around each other. I would so much like to just touch him, but I'm afraid he might scream then. O.k., maybe he won't, but one never knows, does one? (And: did you see the Halloween pictures? YUMMY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)



Your every-seven-weeks thing sounds confusing. Sorry. The upside is that at least you won't get onto each others nerves and the guy has a chance to prove how inventive he is and how much he cares about you. The downside is: it sounds complicated and confusing. Chose the perspective you prefer.


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Birgit
Birgit

had her carpal tunnel surgery already thanks v much
Location: Edinburgh
Member Since: 27th Jan 2005
Total posts: 4145
Posted:Oh, the 7 weeks is just for now. I'll be back in Scotland in September, before that the earliest time I can make to go up is probably in 7 weeks, unless I miss out on a concert I promised to go to. Sorry! Not sure if there's any potential there anyway, so shouldn't be worrying too much.

I'm sure you'll think of something for Japanese guy, fingers crossed smile Then we don't need to be taking over the singles thread anymore...


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Tabatha
newbie

Member Since: 17th Jun 2008
Total posts: 4
Posted:Im ... I know noone here =( o well thats why Im here =)

Love Tabby


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the_mods_stole_my_name

travelling without moving
Location: Maghull, Liverpool
Member Since: 9th May 2006
Total posts: 1286
Posted:AAAAAAW! pull up a beanbag tabby, fancy a brew?


*over 2 weeks in now, and strangely, it's actually getting easier. It actually feels good to have abstained from any sexual behaviour for a fortnight. It's helped me get closer to a girl who i've liked for a while, as i'm not always thinking of ways to get her into bed! we've just been spending alot of quality time together. I'm hoping i may be leaving thist thread soon!.....not that i want to get away from you guys or anything! lol


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DaZee
newbie
Location: NY
Member Since: 17th Jun 2008
Total posts: 13
Posted:*joins in on the single thread*

Yay for singles! I've officially decided I'm the worst gf ever, so I'm staying single for a while. That, and I don't know anyone out here in NY well enough to want to date and I am NOT long-distance dating my friends in Missouri.


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We will toast to all we know, so sing, yes, sing along
We will drink to those we miss and those we dont as well
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Tabatha
newbie

Member Since: 17th Jun 2008
Total posts: 4
Posted:AWWWWW thanks mods a beer would be good enough though im more of the hard stuff kinda person lol. The girl thing thats cool, I'm single but taken by heart lol i was hopin I'd get to see him but doubt it cuz his dads workin extra hard. Where you going

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aston
aston

Unofficial Chairperson of Squirrel Defense League
Location: South Africa
Member Since: 2nd Dec 2007
Total posts: 4061
Posted: Written by =DaZee

I've officially decided I'm the worst gf ever



I think you lie, yes?


'We're all mad here. I'm mad, you're mad." [said the Cat.]
"How do you know I'm mad?" said Alice.
"You must be," said the Cat, "Or you wouldn't have come here."
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DaZee
newbie
Location: NY
Member Since: 17th Jun 2008
Total posts: 13
Posted: Written by :aston



I think you lie, yes?



Exaggerate, maybe. I'm sure there is truth in that statement somewhere since I don't exactly have the best track record.


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We will drink to those we miss and those we dont as well
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the_mods_stole_my_name

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Location: Maghull, Liverpool
Member Since: 9th May 2006
Total posts: 1286
Posted:thats only coz you havent found the right person yet DaZee. one day you'll be the perfect girlfriend!

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misscorinthian
misscorinthian

old hand
Location: Bristol
Member Since: 27th Sep 2005
Total posts: 784
Posted: Written by :DaZee


I've officially decided I'm the worst gf ever



Why?

Actually, I used to be a pretty rubbish girlfriend. After that I was a rubbish wife (I left him). I can't really get the hang of this single thing either though... oops.


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DaZee
newbie
Location: NY
Member Since: 17th Jun 2008
Total posts: 13
Posted:The perfect girlfriend? I don't think so mods. I'm actually really bad at being a girl. I think I was destined to be a boy but everything got mixed up. Nah, actually if I was male I'd probably be the downfall of an entire species. Lol.

I'm really not THAT bad at being a girlfriend but I hate restaurants and I'm ridiculously OCD about the stupidest things like people biting their nails or picking at them. I'm a hand slapper.

Oh, and misscorinthian the single thing is kind of hard to get, in my opinion. I hug too many people.


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Birgit
Birgit

had her carpal tunnel surgery already thanks v much
Location: Edinburgh
Member Since: 27th Jan 2005
Total posts: 4145
Posted: Written by :misscorinthian


Actually, I used to be a pretty rubbish girlfriend. After that I was a rubbish wife (I left him). I can't really get the hang of this single thing either though... oops.



Yeah, and for no good reason at all, eh? Stop putting yourself down hug


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travelling without moving
Location: Maghull, Liverpool
Member Since: 9th May 2006
Total posts: 1286
Posted:well DaZee, you need to find a guy who's a hermit, and has no bad habits!

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DaZee
newbie
Location: NY
Member Since: 17th Jun 2008
Total posts: 13
Posted:I had a pet hermit crab, does that count?

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We will drink to those we miss and those we dont as well
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Aurinko
Aurinko

hello!
Location: Amsterdam
Member Since: 1st Aug 2006
Total posts: 1034
Posted: Written by :Dr_Birgit


But having seen that Japanese guy, dump the Swede and pick the hot one biggrin




O.k., so I definitely am totally man-free and singelish and everything again and forever.

I shortly swapped the Swedish for the Japanese guy (only for hugging and such), but now I'm away for the summer school, the Japanese guy is long-distance-communication-challenged and the Swedish guy acts weird. The Swede and me bumped into each other a few times within the last few days, but he always had problems talking to me. Probably because he seems to have hooked up with another girl, who is also here. censored Seriously. We had decided to at least stay friends, but that doesn't seem to work.

I hate men. angry (HoPpers are of course excluded from that statement)

I should just move into this thread. *Starts to drag her bags into this thread*
I'm thinking about camping in that corner there *points to the lower left corner*


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