Rouge Dragon
BRONZE Member since Jul 2003

Rouge Dragon

Insert Champagne Here
Location: without class distinction, Aus...

Total posts: 13215
Posted:This is the official post for the singles in opposition to the love post!

(im going to laugh so much is Vanize makes a singles topic at the same time! lol!)


i would have changed ***** to phallus, and claire to petey Petey

Rougie: but that's what I'm doing here
Arnwyn: what letting me adjust myself in your room?..don't you dare quote that on HoP...

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Point_Blank
GOLD Member since Feb 2005

Point_Blank

Sneaking
Location: Free falling through time, Uni...

Total posts: 1207
Posted:Because of nuns?

Eagles may soar, but weasels don't get sucked into jet engines.

Owned by clarence_quack

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Iishxc
SILVER Member since Sep 2008

Iishxc

newbie
Location: Texas., USA

Total posts: 35
Posted:Because of monks having nuns?....Just had to keep the becauses going

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pinkboot
SILVER Member since Oct 2004

pinkboot

Beautiful Intelligent Thoughtful Cute Happy!
Location: Northampton, England

Total posts: 269
Posted:No it's because the nuns want the monkeys but the monkeys want the monks and well getting into a love triangle aint fun! laugh3 ubbrollsmile

I was gonna conquer the world but got distracted by something shiny!

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=Flashpoint=
SILVER Member since Sep 2004

=Flashpoint=

Pasta of Muppets
Location: in the interwebs..., United Ki...

Total posts: 2722
Posted:Its rapidly turning into a love tetrahedron...

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hamamelis
BRONZE Member since Jan 2006

hamamelis

nut.
Location: Bouncing off the walls., Engla...

Total posts: 756
Posted:But monkeys are no good at geometry..

THE MEEK WILL INHERIT THE EARTH!


If that's okay with you?

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willworkforfoodjnr
SILVER Member since Aug 2007

willworkforfoodjnr

Hunting robot foxes
Location: Huddersfield, West Yorkshire, ...

Total posts: 1046
Posted:Its OK though, every so often you find one good at Shakespeare!

Working hard to be a wandering hippie layabout. Ten years down, five to go!

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=Flashpoint=
SILVER Member since Sep 2004

=Flashpoint=

Pasta of Muppets
Location: in the interwebs..., United Ki...

Total posts: 2722
Posted:One in infinity. Given infinite time. Theyre buggers for procrastination.

And monkeys are great at geometry. How do you think they get the bend in bananas?


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pinkboot
SILVER Member since Oct 2004

pinkboot

Beautiful Intelligent Thoughtful Cute Happy!
Location: Northampton, England

Total posts: 269
Posted:lmao good point =Flashpoint= hehe

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jarle
GOLD Member since Mar 2007

jarle

Lv15 Ranger
Location: Melbourne, Australia

Total posts: 1489
Posted:I once had a twin banana, that was a fun suprise. Two bananas in the one skin!

Kupo!

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=Flashpoint=
SILVER Member since Sep 2004

=Flashpoint=

Pasta of Muppets
Location: in the interwebs..., United Ki...

Total posts: 2722
Posted:That cannot be possible. One skin. One banana. Thats the LAW OF NATURE!! Next thing you know, someone's going to build a massive particle accelerator, and THEN where will we be eh? The end of the world I tell you!!!!!

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jarle
GOLD Member since Mar 2007

jarle

Lv15 Ranger
Location: Melbourne, Australia

Total posts: 1489
Posted:shocked Maybe it wasn't a banana?! Oh noes!

Kupo!

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BansheeCat
BRONZE Member since Jul 2005

veteran
Location: lost, Canada

Total posts: 1247
Posted:I am not single, so I shouldn't be here-- but i am sneaking in anyways, cause tonight i really wish I was single... !!!!!

I suspect that means either I will make myself single soon, or perhaps go back to being multiple... sigh.

It is hard to leave when there is so much love. But when the love is so f-ing complicated, I think it maybe for the best. I dont really do complicated any more.

sigh.

* wanders off to find chocolate, maybe a bannana too...*


"God *was* my co-pilot, but then we crashed, and I had to eat him..."

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pinkboot
SILVER Member since Oct 2004

pinkboot

Beautiful Intelligent Thoughtful Cute Happy!
Location: Northampton, England

Total posts: 269
Posted:grouphug for bansheecat me thinks grin

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BansheeCat
BRONZE Member since Jul 2005

veteran
Location: lost, Canada

Total posts: 1247
Posted:well, i did it. Broke up with him. Now i think i am going to throw up.

"God *was* my co-pilot, but then we crashed, and I had to eat him..."

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=Flashpoint=
SILVER Member since Sep 2004

=Flashpoint=

Pasta of Muppets
Location: in the interwebs..., United Ki...

Total posts: 2722
Posted:What was the complication, if you don't mind me asking? What was it that made you feel like you had to leave??

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pinkboot
SILVER Member since Oct 2004

pinkboot

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Location: Northampton, England

Total posts: 269
Posted:hugs to bansheecat

I was gonna conquer the world but got distracted by something shiny!

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BansheeCat
BRONZE Member since Jul 2005

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Location: lost, Canada

Total posts: 1247
Posted:wow did I ever kill this thread! lol sorry guys... on with it, be cheery!

Thanks for the hugs...

Complicated.

Well, I am not anymore. I live very simply, with a lot of joy and silliness, hard work, and integrity. I just function with open honest kind compassionate communication at the base of every interaction.... surprisingly , it works well in my life.

But, my boyfriend is still working through past baggage, trauma, patterns of behaviour developed before conscious of it. Sometimes it makes him secretive,edgy, untrusting, blocked emotionally. He does not have full conscious control of it yet. I did that work, we all do-- but now I just want to get on with enjoying simple love. He cant quite do that consistently, cause the fears and blocks and past stuff interfere.

Basic problem is when he is most himself, love flows freely, we are both happy. Yet when something triggers past issues with him, he shuts off, goes internal, changes his behaviour for no reason apparent to me, and the love gets all tangled. It feels , to me, like an on/off switch .

I just dont have patience for it, because he does not let me help-- when in that state I am just cut off. I am pretty clear what I want from a relationship, and it became apparent i was not likely to expereince it with him anytime soon.

I need to live in the present moment, and he is not always capable of joining me there. So I had to let go.

But it is fine now, no worries, just had to make the adjustment, and it felt awful to leave such a beautiful man. But we are all beautiful creatures, in one way or another, aren;t we. Lots to love in the world!


"God *was* my co-pilot, but then we crashed, and I had to eat him..."

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Noddy

Toe Poking Bad Boy
Location: Lake District UK

Total posts: 2865
Posted:i just broke up with me girlfriend, i tried and tried and she wasnt happy frown

Remember.........YOU LOSE!!!

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aston
SILVER Member since Dec 2007

aston

Unofficial Chairperson of Squirrel Defense League
Location: South Africa

Total posts: 4061
Posted:BansheeCat: I know exactly the place your ex is in, since I was there for a number of months. Still am to a certain extent. Luckily I found someone who can live with it, so stuff is pretty peachy at the moment. It is also happening less now. I wish both of you luck. :hugs:

'We're all mad here. I'm mad, you're mad." [said the Cat.]
"How do you know I'm mad?" said Alice.
"You must be," said the Cat, "Or you wouldn't have come here."
- Lewis Carroll, Alice's Adventures In Wonderland

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pinkboot
SILVER Member since Oct 2004

pinkboot

Beautiful Intelligent Thoughtful Cute Happy!
Location: Northampton, England

Total posts: 269
Posted:ARGGGGGHHHHHHHHHH MEN! (sorry guys but you may all be lovely but i just attract d**ks so am totally feeling the need to rant)

Ok been chatting to this guy for a while we met up got on just as well as we did for real and stuff as we did online and we decided to meet for a second date.

We had our second date and basically now wont actually chat txt or speak to me full stop what is the matter with the friggin world why can't if he didnt wanna see me again just say so wasnt like we were engaged to be married or anything just would be nice to say ok i dont feel for you like i thought i would or what ever crap that men sometimes spout!

Why do i either attract total d**ks or total users? where have all the nice guys gone and why are they always gay if i do meet them?

I am ttoally at the point that the nun option is looking rather tempting right now!


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hamamelis
BRONZE Member since Jan 2006

hamamelis

nut.
Location: Bouncing off the walls., Engla...

Total posts: 756
Posted:hug



Oh well, better to find out he's a jerk 'cos he won't speak to you than finding out 'cos he won't shut up and go away..

I'm sure there's some not-jerks-not-gay guys around somewhere...

Shame they have girlfriends already wink


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=Flashpoint=
SILVER Member since Sep 2004

=Flashpoint=

Pasta of Muppets
Location: in the interwebs..., United Ki...

Total posts: 2722
Posted:Hey! I'm not gay, but I cant judge whether or not I'm a jerk smile

I try not to be anyways smile

There's quite a few guys around who fit the bill, but we're all too shy and assume all the good girls are taken...

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pinkboot
SILVER Member since Oct 2004

pinkboot

Beautiful Intelligent Thoughtful Cute Happy!
Location: Northampton, England

Total posts: 269
Posted:awww bless ya =flashpoint= and where are you based again............. lol

I was gonna conquer the world but got distracted by something shiny!

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hamamelis
BRONZE Member since Jan 2006

hamamelis

nut.
Location: Bouncing off the walls., Engla...

Total posts: 756
Posted:
Oh year, I forgot a category- the 'live a long way away' people smile


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willworkforfoodjnr
SILVER Member since Aug 2007

willworkforfoodjnr

Hunting robot foxes
Location: Huddersfield, West Yorkshire, ...

Total posts: 1046
Posted:Well.... Having spent a week travelling around on my own, I've decided I don't like myself enough, so there will be no more girlies for Chris until I've learnt to be OK on my own.

At least it will make life more simple!

grin


Working hard to be a wandering hippie layabout. Ten years down, five to go!

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pinkboot
SILVER Member since Oct 2004

pinkboot

Beautiful Intelligent Thoughtful Cute Happy!
Location: Northampton, England

Total posts: 269
Posted:good plan as you will now be named "chris" lol

think it is the same problem for all of us!


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pinkboot
SILVER Member since Oct 2004

pinkboot

Beautiful Intelligent Thoughtful Cute Happy!
Location: Northampton, England

Total posts: 269
Posted:Originally Posted By: hamamelis
Oh year, I forgot a category- the 'live a long way away' people smile



the one before this was that kind and he felt he ould cheat for fun as i wasnt near!


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aston
SILVER Member since Dec 2007

aston

Unofficial Chairperson of Squirrel Defense League
Location: South Africa

Total posts: 4061
Posted:Originally Posted By: =Flashpoint=There's quite a few guys around who fit the bill, but we're all too shy and assume all the good girls are taken...

smile

What makes you think that good girls are what you want? :evil:


'We're all mad here. I'm mad, you're mad." [said the Cat.]
"How do you know I'm mad?" said Alice.
"You must be," said the Cat, "Or you wouldn't have come here."
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=Flashpoint=
SILVER Member since Sep 2004

=Flashpoint=

Pasta of Muppets
Location: in the interwebs..., United Ki...

Total posts: 2722
Posted:I do! I've had my share of both evil girls and "naughty" girls, and although I appreciate "naughty" in small doses, I still needs wuv and cuggles smile

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aston
SILVER Member since Dec 2007

aston

Unofficial Chairperson of Squirrel Defense League
Location: South Africa

Total posts: 4061
Posted:Fair enough. Cuddles are always a good thing.

'We're all mad here. I'm mad, you're mad." [said the Cat.]
"How do you know I'm mad?" said Alice.
"You must be," said the Cat, "Or you wouldn't have come here."
- Lewis Carroll, Alice's Adventures In Wonderland

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