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Rouge Dragon
BRONZE Member since Jul 2003

Rouge Dragon

Insert Champagne Here
Location: without class distinction, Aus...

Total posts: 13215
Posted:This is the official post for the singles in opposition to the love post!

(im going to laugh so much is Vanize makes a singles topic at the same time! lol!)


i would have changed ***** to phallus, and claire to petey Petey

Rougie: but that's what I'm doing here
Arnwyn: what letting me adjust myself in your room?..don't you dare quote that on HoP...

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jarle
GOLD Member since Mar 2007

jarle

Lv15 Ranger
Location: Melbourne, Australia

Total posts: 1489
Posted:biggrin

I've figured out that I'm not happy whenever I'm pursuing a relationship, so I think I'll be single for quite some time too.


Kupo!

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Fire_Moose
SILVER Member since May 2007

Fire_Moose

Elusive and Bearded
Location: Scottsdale, AZ, USA

Total posts: 3597
Posted:It's just so nice not having to worry about any one but yerself. I get to practice as much as I want AND play Warcraft whenever. Single is the way to be smile

O.B.E.S.E.

Owned by Mynci!

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blackrose1


blackrose1

member
Location: auckland

Total posts: 198
Posted:Yes i come home from work flake on the couch no worring about dinner only for my babys thats my dog and cat oh and the fish its the life till i get board with it hope that takes awhile haha

please have patience when reading my posts as english is not my first language
Im blonde and irish all in one Explains all
Forgive me

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duma_phoenix1
SILVER Member since Apr 2008

Member
Location: , New Zealand

Total posts: 0
Posted:Bein single sux...
but if us musicians were all happily in love,
the world would be full of cheesey, pop radio awfulness

'always look on the bright side of life'


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duma_phoenix1
SILVER Member since Apr 2008

Member
Location: , New Zealand

Total posts: 0
Posted:besides, there's a whole lot of single, female, fire dancers and they are...HOTTER THAN THEIR POI

Thats 'Mr Brightside' to you

devil


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Rouge Dragon
BRONZE Member since Jul 2003

Rouge Dragon

Insert Champagne Here
Location: without class distinction, Aus...

Total posts: 13215
Posted:*wanders in for the first time in aaaaaaaages* (denial is a powerful thing and I'll return there in the morning)

I need hugs. Feeling so mortal right now.


i would have changed ***** to phallus, and claire to petey Petey

Rougie: but that's what I'm doing here
Arnwyn: what letting me adjust myself in your room?..don't you dare quote that on HoP...

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=Flashpoint=
SILVER Member since Sep 2004

=Flashpoint=

Pasta of Muppets
Location: in the interwebs..., United Ki...

Total posts: 2719
Posted:Hey rougie...

hug

Any better?


ohmygodlaserbeamspewpewpew!
ubbrollsmileubbrollsmileubbrollsmileubbrollsmile

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jarle
GOLD Member since Mar 2007

jarle

Lv15 Ranger
Location: Melbourne, Australia

Total posts: 1489
Posted:hug hug hug I wish I could give real ones, but I won't be there Sunday on account of work frown

Kupo!

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Brenn
PLATINUM Member since Jun 2004

Brenn

Will carpal your tunnel in a minute.
Location: Melbourne, Australia

Total posts: 3286
Posted:I will be though smile hug

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Owner of burningoftheclavey smile
Owned by Lost83spy

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Doc Lightning
GOLD Member since May 2001

Doc Lightning

HOP Mad Doctor
Location: San Francisco, CA, USA

Total posts: 13920
Posted:I, for one, would ask you on a date in the blink of an eye if I thought there was the slightest possibility you might say yes, Brenn.

It'll just have to be a "guy date." In other words, I'll buy you a beer, you buy me a beer, and we wash, rinse, repeat until 1) one of us falls down 2) we both decide that we're drunk and go collapse somewhere or 3) I get my wish (KIDDING!!!) hug wink


-Mike )'(
Certified Mad Doctor and HoP High Priest of Nutella

"A buckuht 'n a hooze!" -Valura

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polarity
SILVER Member since May 2005

polarity

veteran
Location: on the wrong planet, United Ki...

Total posts: 1228
Posted:Well I'm going to get a big cuddly cat. Already having a lifelong partner I'm thoroughly devoted to, who has a lifespan of ~15 years may put strains on any other potential relationships, but then it's not like that's ever going to happen, and anyway, ragdolls are just adorable:


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You aren't thinking or really existing unless you're willing to risk even your own sanity in the judgment of your existence.

Green peppers, lime pickle and whole-grain mustard = best sandwich filling.

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Birgit
BRONZE Member since Jan 2005

Birgit

had her carpal tunnel surgery already thanks v much
Location: Edinburgh, Scotland (UK)

Total posts: 4145
Posted:I'd foodfight you for a date with Brenn, Mike, but he's on the wrong side of the planet (and what about that guy in your other thread, huh?) tongue

"vices are like genitals - most are ugly to behold, and yet we find that our own are dear to us."
(G.W. Dahlquist)

Owner of Dragosani's left half

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-sandy-
BRONZE Member since Jul 2004

-sandy-

old hand
Location: Bristol, United Kingdom

Total posts: 716
Posted:well, im back on the market again, i change my mind about weather this is a good thing or not every couple of days, at least this time its in time for the summer.

"Don't do it naked!"

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Fire_Moose
SILVER Member since May 2007

Fire_Moose

Elusive and Bearded
Location: Scottsdale, AZ, USA

Total posts: 3597
Posted:best to get it outta the way before the big holidays smile

O.B.E.S.E.

Owned by Mynci!

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Birgit
BRONZE Member since Jan 2005

Birgit

had her carpal tunnel surgery already thanks v much
Location: Edinburgh, Scotland (UK)

Total posts: 4145
Posted:I don't mind being single in summer. It's nice. Winter is when you need cuddles a lot.

"vices are like genitals - most are ugly to behold, and yet we find that our own are dear to us."
(G.W. Dahlquist)

Owner of Dragosani's left half

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Beth


Beth

Miss Whippy
Location: Cornwall & Oxford

Total posts: 1262
Posted:I am so close to not being single it's not even funny. I hate this bit of a potential relationship - the uncertainty, living on the edge of your seat time - it sucks! I just want a definite 'yes, we are together, hurrah for us' or a 'no, i don't like you, please leave me alone'. I need certainty damn it!!

Until then, I shall remain lurking around this thread with cookies for all.

*scatters cookies around*


Aim high and you'll know your limits, aim low and you'll never know how high you could have climbed.

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jarle
GOLD Member since Mar 2007

jarle

Lv15 Ranger
Location: Melbourne, Australia

Total posts: 1489
Posted:I need hugs now, I'm sick. But I don't wanna get anyone else sick. Blaaaaaaaah!

Beth, your feelings mirror my own. I prefer the certaincy of singledom to putting a lot of my self-esteem into someone else's image of me.

And yay for ragdolls! A friend of mine has a pair, they are much more friendly and cuddly than my own cat.


Kupo!

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polarity
SILVER Member since May 2005

polarity

veteran
Location: on the wrong planet, United Ki...

Total posts: 1228
Posted:Doh! Now I've got crumbs in my cleavage.

You aren't thinking or really existing unless you're willing to risk even your own sanity in the judgment of your existence.

Green peppers, lime pickle and whole-grain mustard = best sandwich filling.

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willworkforfoodjnr
SILVER Member since Aug 2007

willworkforfoodjnr

Hunting robot foxes
Location: Huddersfield, West Yorkshire, ...

Total posts: 1046
Posted:Beth, Jarle - Learn to love the uncertainty! That point in a relationship can often be the most important, this is the moment where you truly start to learn about each other and figure out if you're compatible or not.

Beth, I assume that if you are "so close to not being single it's not even funny" that its got past the "I wonder if they like me or not" stage. If so then its all a question of what feels right at the time - for you and for them, theres no question of "rejection" on either side, things will happen if they are meant to, and won't happen if they're not, just sit back a bit and enjoy spending time around this person, the rest will happen by itself.

Getting stressed in such a situation is the easiest way to make things feel wrong - and if they feel wrong they probably are, be happy about the positives and let things flooooow, even if things don't work out, you'll be much happier in the end biggrin

Much love hug


Working hard to be a wandering hippie layabout. Ten years down, five to go!

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Beth


Beth

Miss Whippy
Location: Cornwall & Oxford

Total posts: 1262
Posted:It's kind of weird, it's pretty obvious we like each other but it hasnt been said, we're both too shy/reserved to be honest about it. We're going out this weekend so hopefully things will progress nicely smile

Don't like the uncertainty, it's too stressful! Me and the lady know each other pretty well and we're so compatible it's quite ridiculous, tis only a matter of time! smile

*gives out glasses of milk to go with the cookies*


Aim high and you'll know your limits, aim low and you'll never know how high you could have climbed.

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Lost83spy
BRONZE Member since Sep 2005

Lost83spy

Out! Out! You demons of stupidity!
Location: Somewhere, out there..., South...

Total posts: 587
Posted:Ooo! Ooo! Cookies and milk!

*takes cookie with big fat grin*


It may be your sole purpose in life to serve as a warning to others

Founder and Official leader of the Curby Clan

*Owner of Brenn*

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jarle
GOLD Member since Mar 2007

jarle

Lv15 Ranger
Location: Melbourne, Australia

Total posts: 1489
Posted:Oooh! Ichigo!

I find it annoying because I'm getting no indication one way or the other from this girl. That being said, I'm oblivious to all but the most obvious signals anyway, and even then I've screwed up more than once.


Kupo!

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Brenn
PLATINUM Member since Jun 2004

Brenn

Will carpal your tunnel in a minute.
Location: Melbourne, Australia

Total posts: 3286
Posted: Written by :jarle


Oooh! Ichigo!

I find it annoying because I'm getting no indication one way or the other from this girl. That being said, I'm oblivious to all but the most obvious signals anyway, and even then I've screwed up more than once.



There still seems the expectation for men to put their necks out on the line and 'ask the girl out' etc. Granted all the monthly stuff girls have to put up with physically and emotionally it's a pretty fair trade ubblol.

The 'no indication' problem is one that myself and many guys and girls have faced many a time: Only recently have I had an epiphany regarding this:

Go for it, anyway.

Thing is, by making no move, it's almost akin to making a move and getting a no in return and the friendship/relationship dwindling to awkwardness if no effort is made on both sides. If she really values you as a friend and a move is made which she declines but makes no attempt to keep the friendship, it may not have been the most ideal person in the long run. There is very little you have to lose smile

hug All the best, dude. If it fails we can commiserate tomorrow at spinning biggrin


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bluebottle
SILVER Member since Dec 2004

bluebottle

Member
Location: Melbourne, Australia

Total posts: 118
Posted:i wouldnt be single tonight if i wasnt suck ahicken. i need to harden the fek up.

Yebra (n.) - A cross between a zebra and anything that fancies zebras. -- Douglas Adams & John Lloyd

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clarence_quack
SILVER Member since Feb 2005

clarence_quack

QuackerJack
Location: over your left shoulder, Austr...

Total posts: 1927
Posted:Alex, did you write that when drunk by any chance?!

Nutella Brigade Unite!

"Look! I have a rainbow penis!" - Rouge

Owned By Steaks

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jarle
GOLD Member since Mar 2007

jarle

Lv15 Ranger
Location: Melbourne, Australia

Total posts: 1489
Posted:Last Thursday the girl in question and I went out for coffee during our uni break. We had fun, and she said that she'd like to do the same next week, so I'm feeling more hopeful that anxious now! smile

Kupo!

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Brenn
PLATINUM Member since Jun 2004

Brenn

Will carpal your tunnel in a minute.
Location: Melbourne, Australia

Total posts: 3286
Posted:Great to hear jarle!! You're an awesome and sincere person: You have it in you smile

hug


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the_mods_stole_my_name
SILVER Member since May 2006

the_mods_stole_my_name

travelling without moving
Location: Maghull, Liverpool, United Kin...

Total posts: 1286
Posted:*CURRENT MOOD* PISSED OFF!!!
Went to a friends leaving do last night, had a great night, had a fair bit to drink, and spent most of the night with a girl i've fancied for quite a while. We got on famously, rocked the dancefloor to the cheesy music, and as far as i could see, i thought my luck might be in.
Everybody leaves the party and heads to a friends house to carry on. Everybody tells me to make a move for the girl i've been with all night. Me, being a gentleman, said no, as i don't like the idea of taking advantage of anybody when they've had a few. I


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the_mods_stole_my_name
SILVER Member since May 2006

the_mods_stole_my_name

travelling without moving
Location: Maghull, Liverpool, United Kin...

Total posts: 1286
Posted:*CURRENT MOOD* PISSED OFF!!!

*warning...potential rant*

Went to a friends leaving do last night, had a great night, had a fair bit to drink, and spent most of the night with a girl i've fancied for quite a while. We got on famously, rocked the dancefloor to the cheesy music, and as far as i could see, i thought my luck might be in.
Everybody leaves the party and heads to a friends house to carry on. Everybody tells me to make a move for the girl i've been with all night. Me, being a gentleman, said no, as i don't like the idea of taking advantage of anybody when they've had a few drinks. I said i'd leave it till today and maybe ask her out for a quiet drink, just the two of us.
My good friend tells me that he agrees, and respects me for that. So picture my face when i discovered him with his tongue down said girls' throat, less than ten minutes later!!!
I am now gutted, my one chance has been taken away by my so-called friend! He 'walked her home' and was not seen for the rest of the night...don't you just love friends!!

*end of rant*


Heilige Scheie, Batman kommt!

Reality is just a state of mind which occurs through a lack of lsd

XxX owned by devilsarmy XxX

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Birgit
BRONZE Member since Jan 2005

Birgit

had her carpal tunnel surgery already thanks v much
Location: Edinburgh, Scotland (UK)

Total posts: 4145
Posted:frown what a scumbag! Both for taking advantage of her and going behind your back frown

"vices are like genitals - most are ugly to behold, and yet we find that our own are dear to us."
(G.W. Dahlquist)

Owner of Dragosani's left half

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