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Rouge Dragon
BRONZE Member since Jul 2003

Rouge Dragon

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Location: without class distinction

Total posts: 13215
Posted:This is the official post for the singles in opposition to the love post!

(im going to laugh so much is Vanize makes a singles topic at the same time! lol!)


i would have changed ***** to phallus, and claire to petey Petey

Rougie: but that's what I'm doing here
Arnwyn: what letting me adjust myself in your room?..don't you dare quote that on HoP...

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Birgit
BRONZE Member since Jan 2005

Birgit

had her carpal tunnel surgery already thanks v much
Location: Edinburgh

Total posts: 4145
Posted: Written by: BansheeCat


Yet I do need his behaviour to change before it wierds out my new man!



Yep, you do.

Everyone's vulnerable, and you are, too, and he's not acting like he realises that, so I wouldn't think about his vulnerability too much if he prefers "pissing on territory" games to making your life smooth and pleasant hug

Can you not just tell CB that you enjoyed being with him, but given that you've both decided to move on, and you have, what he's doing isn't good for either of you? Or have you already tried the "open and honest" approach?

My most recent ex is the absolute opposite... saw him last night with my friend who's visiting from Germany and he went "ooh hi (soandso)" to my friend and ran to hug him and didn't even say "hi" to me ubblol Boys, eh?!?

On a different note, my favourite Poison song was "Ride the Wind", and the Jefferson Airplane absolutely rock(ed). I'm still happy about the last episode of Friends, not because of the stupid and predictable plot, but because they played that amazing Airplane acoustic tune at the end!! bounce


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BansheeCat
BRONZE Member since Jul 2005

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Location: lost

Total posts: 1247
Posted:I, am soooo into open communication!

One of the reasons that CB is not right for me, is that he is most definately NOT into that kind of discussion! But I will try, regardless...
Thanks!
hug


"God *was* my co-pilot, but then we crashed, and I had to eat him..."

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Yakumo
SILVER Member since May 2006

Yakumo

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Location: Oxfordshire

Total posts: 1237
Posted:Any kind of post relationship relationship is really hard, and tends to take a lot of effort, even if you can't see it.

This CB guy could well be a mass of turmoil inside, that peaks when he sees you, or he could just be an ass trying to wreck things, only he really knows, and only you can choose how you care to deal with it.

If you're not really clear on where you want to be, then call him out on it like the others have said, make it clear you want him to call you if he's serious. He could be not calling for a million screwed up reasons that have nothing to do with not wanting to..


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Brenn
PLATINUM Member since Jun 2004

Brenn

Will carpal your tunnel in a minute.
Location: Melbourne, Australia

Total posts: 3286
Posted: Written by: fyrespirit


My feeling here is that he does not want to think that you could move on from him and his ego is feeling a bit bruised. I'd tell him to leave me the censoredalone and continue with the new guy...it's just not a good thing to try to go back...believe me, I know...have tried and regretted it deeply.

Just *my* opinion.



I second the going back...it's terrible. Old problems resurface and EVERYONE always uses what happened in the past if there's another blow-out.

Move on, it's for the best hug


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Hugging_Lion


Meep
Location: I'm lost

Total posts: 166
Posted:I've got the girls party who turned me down to go to in 2 weeks. Haven't seen her since I got rejected, but I really want to keep the friendship so I'm going to go. It's going to be hard though. Any advice on how to handle seeing her? I know the only way things are going to get back to normal is by getting past the awkwardness, I just fear of letting my emotions getting the better than me. Thankfully I'll have an exam on the monday so I'll have a quick exit story. *sigh

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Birgit
BRONZE Member since Jan 2005

Birgit

had her carpal tunnel surgery already thanks v much
Location: Edinburgh

Total posts: 4145
Posted:I think it helps seeing it from this point of view:

Everyone has lots and lots of people they potentially fancy, and even more that they like or even love (platonically) but wouldn't want to get involved with. So rejection is absolutely normal between friends, and there's simply just no reason to feel awkward for it.

If she's got any sense she'll feel honoured that you tried (she still invited you, so that must mean she's not annoyed or freaked out or whatever), so, I know it feels weird, but she's probably been rejected by at least one person, too, and knows how it feels smile

One of my best friends in school had a serious crush on me and I didn't know how to handle it, but I'm really happy that he just didn't mention it again, but continued being my best friend! It's 8 years since I've left school now and we're still in touch, so rejection's really no reason to not be friends hug


"vices are like genitals - most are ugly to behold, and yet we find that our own are dear to us."
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Aurinko
BRONZE Member since Aug 2006

Aurinko

hello!
Location: Amsterdam

Total posts: 1034
Posted:I'm in desperate need of some night-time action and no yummy guys are in sight ... which is really frustrating ... so I'd prefer to continue talking about music:



 Written by: Birgit



does anyone else remember Poison? Not the Alice Cooper song, but the band? Best big hair bend ever wink





*yay* for Poison!

Got into my hard rock, heacy metal and i don't know what phase after NKOTB as well.

Even though my absolute hero was Axl Rose ubblove ubblol cold shivers run down my spone when I see pictures of him now biggrin

But Slash was also cute



 Written by: Birgit



On a different note, my favourite Poison song was "Ride the Wind"





oh oooh, weird memories coming up





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Bek66


Bek66

Future Mrs Pogo
Location: The wrong place

Total posts: 4728
Posted:I liked Axl but always thought that Slash was proof that afterbirth could live!!! Now he's doing car commercials!!! shrug

"Absence is to love what wind is to fire...it extinguishes the small, enkindles the great."
--Comte Debussy-Rebutin

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Pogo69
SILVER Member since Apr 2006

Pogo69

there's no charge for awesomeness... or attractiveness
Location: limbo

Total posts: 3764
Posted:oh gawd... were back on glam metal again?

gnr, ok (not glam metal, so slightly different genre IMNSHO)... but poison? you may as well poor acid on my ears and set them on fire...


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BansheeCat
BRONZE Member since Jul 2005

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Posted:Nkotb? Axl? Poison?! Yikes.

* now I understand why all these people are in the singles thread.. * wink wink tongue


"God *was* my co-pilot, but then we crashed, and I had to eat him..."

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Birgit
BRONZE Member since Jan 2005

Birgit

had her carpal tunnel surgery already thanks v much
Location: Edinburgh

Total posts: 4145
Posted:Yeah... we all know YOU go for boys that listen to country, Andrea ubblol tongue

"vices are like genitals - most are ugly to behold, and yet we find that our own are dear to us."
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Aurinko
BRONZE Member since Aug 2006

Aurinko

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Location: Amsterdam

Total posts: 1034
Posted:thanks Birgit biggrin

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Lost83spy
BRONZE Member since Sep 2005

Lost83spy

Out! Out! You demons of stupidity!
Location: Somewhere, out there...

Total posts: 587
Posted:Guys, I need a hug

It may be your sole purpose in life to serve as a warning to others

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Brenn
PLATINUM Member since Jun 2004

Brenn

Will carpal your tunnel in a minute.
Location: Melbourne, Australia

Total posts: 3286
Posted: Written by: Lost83spy


Guys, I need a hug



*flying ninja kitten hug* chin up hon. we're all in this together smile

xx


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poig

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Location: Farnborough, Hampshire

Total posts: 1590
Posted: Written by: Lost83spy


Guys, I need a hug

hug


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BansheeCat
BRONZE Member since Jul 2005

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Posted:redface still, it must be said, I might go for a guy that likes that crap, but I dont actually listen to it myself! tongue



hug to Lost83spy

grouphug for all us "musically" challenged... lol


"God *was* my co-pilot, but then we crashed, and I had to eat him..."

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Aurinko
BRONZE Member since Aug 2006

Aurinko

hello!
Location: Amsterdam

Total posts: 1034
Posted: Written by: BansheeCat


grouphug for all us "musically" challenged... lol



hmmm ... I'm musically challenged ... actually I'm also time-challenged (a friend of mine told me it's o.k. to say that instead of "I'm always too late")


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ickleMatt

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Total posts: 242
Posted:I posted this elsewhere but realised it was best suited for here:

I'm so sick I'm sitting on my bed with three blankets and I'm still shivering. I should be in number 5 chatting up the cute girl that has just moved in there frown

Then there it is - a knock on the door - and there she is! She had come to see if I want to come round. Still can't go but boy do I feel better biggrin


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Sezzie
SILVER Member since Sep 2006

Sezzie

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Location: Bristol

Total posts: 54
Posted:Sorry to hear you're sick Matt frown but glad a cute girlie has cheered you up!! smile Hope you feel better soon!

Oooh guess what? I'm gonna be moving to London soon. Got a job today!!! Hurray!! Then I can meet lots of cute London boys!!
clap bounce bounce2 ubbrollsmile


Life moves pretty fast and if you don't stop and look around once in a while you just might miss it!

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Pogo69
SILVER Member since Apr 2006

Pogo69

there's no charge for awesomeness... or attractiveness
Location: limbo

Total posts: 3764
Posted:oh thank goodness, andrea... another voice of reason... although, the girls have a point with the country thing... tongue

are we still hugging...? cos I like hugs


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Bek66


Bek66

Future Mrs Pogo
Location: The wrong place

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Posted:How 'bout hugs and kisses? Got lots of those!!!

I think we have finally come to our senses over the scary hair bands!!! It did wonders for the hairspray industry, tho!!!


"Absence is to love what wind is to fire...it extinguishes the small, enkindles the great."
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Pogo69
SILVER Member since Apr 2006

Pogo69

there's no charge for awesomeness... or attractiveness
Location: limbo

Total posts: 3764
Posted:hairspray is alive and kicking with the emos... would take half a can to get that "something about mary" look

all donations of hugs and kisses greatly appreciated...


--pogo (pat) [forever and always]

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Hugging_Lion


Meep
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Total posts: 166
Posted: Written by: Birgit


I think it helps seeing it from this point of view:

Everyone has lots and lots of people they potentially fancy, and even more that they like or even love (platonically) but wouldn't want to get involved with. So rejection is absolutely normal between friends, and there's simply just no reason to feel awkward for it.

If she's got any sense she'll feel honoured that you tried (she still invited you, so that must mean she's not annoyed or freaked out or whatever), so, I know it feels weird, but she's probably been rejected by at least one person, too, and knows how it feels smile

One of my best friends in school had a serious crush on me and I didn't know how to handle it, but I'm really happy that he just didn't mention it again, but continued being my best friend! It's 8 years since I've left school now and we're still in touch, so rejection's really no reason to not be friends hug



Wow.. that was actually a really cool thing to have said.. thanks hug

secondly.. SLASH IS DOING CAR COMMERCIALS!!! what is wrong with the world???

I study music.. so the way I see it, I can have whatever taste I like and it's good cause I'm supposed to be an authority on the matter :P That said, I don't really listen to much Glam metal anymore. But Gun's an Roses still rock for nastaligic purposes. biggrin


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Birgit
BRONZE Member since Jan 2005

Birgit

had her carpal tunnel surgery already thanks v much
Location: Edinburgh

Total posts: 4145
Posted:Oooooh, I said something sensible?!? YAY! bounce

round of hugs

Anyone over 18 who doesn't care much about pc-ness pm me to be a beta-tester of me and my friend's fake love advice column smile (goes by the title of Dame Depravity [me] and the Lascivious Leprechaun [him]. Don't apply to beta-test if you're easily offended)

The next project will be a report about a date, both from the boy's and the girl's view, which hopefully will be slightly different and educating for the other sex, probably on what not to do during dates. If anyone's had a really bad date and wants it included in the article tell me biggrin


"vices are like genitals - most are ugly to behold, and yet we find that our own are dear to us."
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Pogo69
SILVER Member since Apr 2006

Pogo69

there's no charge for awesomeness... or attractiveness
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Posted:ooooh! that sounds like fun, birgit... biggrin

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Birgit
BRONZE Member since Jan 2005

Birgit

had her carpal tunnel surgery already thanks v much
Location: Edinburgh

Total posts: 4145
Posted:It is.... email on its way biggrin

"vices are like genitals - most are ugly to behold, and yet we find that our own are dear to us."
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Aurinko
BRONZE Member since Aug 2006

Aurinko

hello!
Location: Amsterdam

Total posts: 1034
Posted:*sings* oh baby let me be your guinea pig, put a chain around my neck and lead me anywhere, oh let me be your guinea pig *starts to dance in an Elvis-like way*

so: yeah, sure Birgit, you can do all kinds of weird beta-tests with me. I'll go out and create some problems tonight and send you an e-mail on Monday.


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Birgit
BRONZE Member since Jan 2005

Birgit

had her carpal tunnel surgery already thanks v much
Location: Edinburgh

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Posted:oh, I was just gonna send you the ones we'd made up so far! But if the editors like it and we get to do some more you can join us biggrin

I'll send you the ones we have to avoid repetition and show how far below the beltline it really is biggrin


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Aurinko
BRONZE Member since Aug 2006

Aurinko

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Location: Amsterdam

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Posted:just read it, guess I could come up with some problems like that, too. More on Monday (gotta go and check out some rooms now, gotta move again frown)

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Birgit
BRONZE Member since Jan 2005

Birgit

had her carpal tunnel surgery already thanks v much
Location: Edinburgh

Total posts: 4145
Posted:Hmmmmmm. I'm having a weird semi-depressive day. Boo. And my flat is too cold.

"vices are like genitals - most are ugly to behold, and yet we find that our own are dear to us."
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