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Rouge Dragon
BRONZE Member since Jul 2003

Rouge Dragon

Insert Champagne Here
Location: without class distinction, Aus...

Total posts: 13215
Posted:This is the official post for the singles in opposition to the love post!

(im going to laugh so much is Vanize makes a singles topic at the same time! lol!)


i would have changed ***** to phallus, and claire to petey Petey

Rougie: but that's what I'm doing here
Arnwyn: what letting me adjust myself in your room?..don't you dare quote that on HoP...

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faith enfire
BRONZE Member since Jan 2006

faith enfire

wandering thru the woods of WI
Location: Wisconsin, USA

Total posts: 3556
Posted:as of last weds now on the singles list
ack no bounce
he called today, and other ex too argh argh argh


Faith
Nay, whatever comes one hour was sunlit and the most high gods may not make boast of any better thing than to have watched that hour as it passed

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Birgit
BRONZE Member since Jan 2005

Birgit

had her carpal tunnel surgery already thanks v much
Location: Edinburgh, Scotland (UK)

Total posts: 4145
Posted:welcome back I guess wink hug

"vices are like genitals - most are ugly to behold, and yet we find that our own are dear to us."
(G.W. Dahlquist)

Owner of Dragosani's left half

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faith enfire
BRONZE Member since Jan 2006

faith enfire

wandering thru the woods of WI
Location: Wisconsin, USA

Total posts: 3556
Posted:repeating my previous redundantness
ARGH


Faith
Nay, whatever comes one hour was sunlit and the most high gods may not make boast of any better thing than to have watched that hour as it passed

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Brenn
PLATINUM Member since Jun 2004

Brenn

Will carpal your tunnel in a minute.
Location: Melbourne, Australia

Total posts: 3286
Posted:*Stops in mid-pack*

*Starts unpacking again*

Looks like I'm stuck here for a little bit longer. ubblol


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Owner of burningoftheclavey smile
Owned by Lost83spy

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faith enfire
BRONZE Member since Jan 2006

faith enfire

wandering thru the woods of WI
Location: Wisconsin, USA

Total posts: 3556
Posted:poor thing

Faith
Nay, whatever comes one hour was sunlit and the most high gods may not make boast of any better thing than to have watched that hour as it passed

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Neon_Shaolin
GOLD Member since Jul 2005

Neon_Shaolin

hehe, 'Member' huhuh
Location: Behind you. With Jam

Total posts: 6120
Posted:Was spinning at this dance event as part of the 'Circus Troupe'. Fellow spinner, quite cute, especially when he changed into a stripey vest, I took the p*ss and said it made him look gay, to which he replied 'Well I am a little bit'. Spent the rest of the night exchanging flirtatious looks. The next day I texted him asking how curious he was, me being an 'interested party'. He said he was flattered but was seeing a girl...

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Oh well, back to the food fight! *pathetically throws a lump of chocolate custard in the general direction of no one in particular...*


"I used to want to change the world, now I just wanna leave the room with a little dignity..." - Lotus Weinstock

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Sambo_Flux
GOLD Member since Jun 2006

Sambo_Flux

Introverted
Location: Norf London, United Kingdom

Total posts: 833
Posted:*after biding time for 14 posts..... flips back secret panel, pushes red button contained within, activating orbital satellite, which fires a giant stream of skittles all over thread*



Myahahahahaha! Taste the Rainbow! Muhahahahaha



*temporarily regains sanity*



Ahem. Please continue. ubbloco


My Mind is a Ship
Emotions become the Waves
Soul is the Ocean

If a quizz is quizzical, what is a test?

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Neon_Shaolin
GOLD Member since Jul 2005

Neon_Shaolin

hehe, 'Member' huhuh
Location: Behind you. With Jam

Total posts: 6120
Posted:*Looks up to the sky, opens mouth, chokes, dies with peaceful resignation*

"I used to want to change the world, now I just wanna leave the room with a little dignity..." - Lotus Weinstock

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shoshanah
SILVER Member since Nov 2005

shoshanah

enthusiast
Location: london, United Kingdom

Total posts: 232
Posted:And Im back again.
Single for 2 months now and this is the 3rd time ive come back to this post.

Why do people change so much when they get their feet under the table?


life is what you make it and what you want it to be

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Brenn
PLATINUM Member since Jun 2004

Brenn

Will carpal your tunnel in a minute.
Location: Melbourne, Australia

Total posts: 3286
Posted:Seeing someone you're fond of wrapped up in the arms of someone else is not a good way to end an already good day frown

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Owned by Lost83spy

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the_mods_stole_my_name
SILVER Member since May 2006

the_mods_stole_my_name

travelling without moving
Location: Maghull, Liverpool, United Kin...

Total posts: 1286
Posted:right...so i made a twat of myself again at the weekend....i really should stop drinking with people i fancy. i told a really good friend that i like her, having promised myself that i wouldnt say anything months before for fear of ruining the friendship we have already. we are already like a couple, just without the kissing and sex. but now she hasn't spoken to me since friday night. i'm such a dickhead when i'm drunk. being single sucks ass!

Heilige Scheie, Batman kommt!

Reality is just a state of mind which occurs through a lack of lsd

XxX owned by devilsarmy XxX

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87wt2gxq7

veteran
Location: Birmingham

Total posts: 1502
Posted:lame!
sad to hear it, idancelikeatwitme.

But also, thanks for reminding me to avoid making the same mistake this weekend!


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Birgit
BRONZE Member since Jan 2005

Birgit

had her carpal tunnel surgery already thanks v much
Location: Edinburgh, Scotland (UK)

Total posts: 4145
Posted:Oi, Jon! Can't believe you wrote this after all my invaluable advice tongue

"vices are like genitals - most are ugly to behold, and yet we find that our own are dear to us."
(G.W. Dahlquist)

Owner of Dragosani's left half

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87wt2gxq7

veteran
Location: Birmingham

Total posts: 1502
Posted:i think, given that I haven't seen any clear, unambiguous signs of interest from the girl under discussion, that I'd best assume that she's not interested.

Losing friends by not keeping your trap shut is a lot more sucky than being single, I reckon.


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the_mods_stole_my_name
SILVER Member since May 2006

the_mods_stole_my_name

travelling without moving
Location: Maghull, Liverpool, United Kin...

Total posts: 1286
Posted:exactly...i knew she wasn't interested in me that way, which was why i decided to not say a word. but alcohol prevails again!

Heilige Scheie, Batman kommt!

Reality is just a state of mind which occurs through a lack of lsd

XxX owned by devilsarmy XxX

O.B.E.S.E.

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87wt2gxq7

veteran
Location: Birmingham

Total posts: 1502
Posted:Yes. A closed mouth gathers no feet.







EDIT: it doesn't gather any hot peoples' tongues either.



isn't that exactly the problem we face, boys and girls of this thread???







*halfheartedly lobs some Wagamama ginger cheesecake at y'all*

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the_mods_stole_my_name
SILVER Member since May 2006

the_mods_stole_my_name

travelling without moving
Location: Maghull, Liverpool, United Kin...

Total posts: 1286
Posted:is that meant to be some profound philosophy? cos i don't get it......sorry! lol

Heilige Scheie, Batman kommt!

Reality is just a state of mind which occurs through a lack of lsd

XxX owned by devilsarmy XxX

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87wt2gxq7


87wt2gxq7

veteran
Location: Birmingham

Total posts: 1502
Posted:you ever heard the expression "to put your foot in your mouth?"

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the_mods_stole_my_name
SILVER Member since May 2006

the_mods_stole_my_name

travelling without moving
Location: Maghull, Liverpool, United Kin...

Total posts: 1286
Posted:yuppage.....done it many times...


damn i hate singledom, but i hate being tied down too. i like having somebody there when i need them, but i like my own personal space......i think i'm destined to a life of confusion. and i wouldn't mind, but being bisexual, my choice is huuuuuuge and i still can't find somebody!


Heilige Scheie, Batman kommt!

Reality is just a state of mind which occurs through a lack of lsd

XxX owned by devilsarmy XxX

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pricklyleaf
SILVER Member since Mar 2005

pricklyleaf

with added berries
Location: Manchester, England (UK)

Total posts: 1365
Posted:*takes off her coat and bag and makes herself comfortable. Going to be here for a looooooong time*

Live like there is no tomorrow,
dance like nobody is watching
and hula hoop like wiggling will save the world.

What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.

Ralph Waldo Emerson

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87wt2gxq7


87wt2gxq7

veteran
Location: Birmingham

Total posts: 1502
Posted:well 'a closed mouth gathers no feet' should be fairly self-explanatory....?

meh, whatever.

my sympathies anyway.


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t04201901
BRONZE Member since Dec 2006

t04201901

Member
Location: Co Louth, Ireland

Total posts: 79
Posted:*sits down, starts to roll a spliff*

Hey every1?
gonna be here for a bit me thinks!

* offers spliff to the person sat to the left *


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Sambo_Flux
GOLD Member since Jun 2006

Sambo_Flux

Introverted
Location: Norf London, United Kingdom

Total posts: 833
Posted: Written by: ctrl-v

you ever heard the expression "to put your foot in your mouth?"

All too often, usually said by people talking about me. rolleyes

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My Mind is a Ship
Emotions become the Waves
Soul is the Ocean

If a quizz is quizzical, what is a test?

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Birgit
BRONZE Member since Jan 2005

Birgit

had her carpal tunnel surgery already thanks v much
Location: Edinburgh, Scotland (UK)

Total posts: 4145
Posted:I dunno... personally I think it's bad style if a friend ignores you just because you told them you fancy them. It doesn't hurt anyone to say something like "sorry, I don't fancy you back, and I'm feeling a little awkward now, but give me some time and we'll be back to normal if you like".

If people said what they thought more often (in a polite and friendly way...!) we'd all be used to it and there'd be less problems.


"vices are like genitals - most are ugly to behold, and yet we find that our own are dear to us."
(G.W. Dahlquist)

Owner of Dragosani's left half

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t04201901
BRONZE Member since Dec 2006

t04201901

Member
Location: Co Louth, Ireland

Total posts: 79
Posted: Written by: Birgit


I dunno... personally I think it's bad style if a friend ignores you just because you told them you fancy them. It doesn't hurt anyone to say something like "sorry, I don't fancy you back, and I'm feeling a little awkward now, but give me some time and we'll be back to normal if you like".

If people said what they thought more often (in a polite and friendly way...!) we'd all be used to it and there'd be less problems.




Dont you think it might be really hard for that person to say that, like i'm not condoneing it, but some people may feel like, oh i dont wanna just say to him that i dont fancy him, so if i ignore him it might go away?

crude explanation, but ya know wat i mean?


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87wt2gxq7

veteran
Location: Birmingham

Total posts: 1502
Posted:*sidles up to t04201901's left side*

yeah, totally. Having been on both sides of that particular interaction, it always makes things weird because you/they've said it and there's no going back to normal.

there's always suspicion on both sides that The Conversation will get repeated and more embarrasment will follow. The easy option is to break off contact, but that can often be more hurtful to both parties.

No. Statistically speaking there's a hell of a lot more feet out there than hot tongues, best not to risk it really.


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Birgit
BRONZE Member since Jan 2005

Birgit

had her carpal tunnel surgery already thanks v much
Location: Edinburgh, Scotland (UK)

Total posts: 4145
Posted:I know what you mean, it's common behaviour, but I think it's both stupid and wrong.

If you're friends with someone, do you really think they won't notice or be hurt when you ignore them?!?

In my experience being honest works much better than being evasive, it's easier to stay friends (or draw a line) when you don't have to worry about what the other person might have thought but not said or felt but not expressed or wanted to say but they were to shy or scared of hurting you.


btw... Wagamama cake? Hmmmmmmm bounce Will be through in Glasgow next week, and shall have to see if I can find the wagamama there and have more coconut chilli soup!! And maybe wasabi choccie cake smile


"vices are like genitals - most are ugly to behold, and yet we find that our own are dear to us."
(G.W. Dahlquist)

Owner of Dragosani's left half

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t04201901
BRONZE Member since Dec 2006

t04201901

Member
Location: Co Louth, Ireland

Total posts: 79
Posted:* passes spliff to the left *

Ur right, double the amount of feet than tongues in world! Thats y i always end up with one in ma gob!


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Birgit
BRONZE Member since Jan 2005

Birgit

had her carpal tunnel surgery already thanks v much
Location: Edinburgh, Scotland (UK)

Total posts: 4145
Posted:Why would you REPEAT the conversation? Am I just weird?

"vices are like genitals - most are ugly to behold, and yet we find that our own are dear to us."
(G.W. Dahlquist)

Owner of Dragosani's left half

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t04201901
BRONZE Member since Dec 2006

t04201901

Member
Location: Co Louth, Ireland

Total posts: 79
Posted:Yeah i agree birgit, just tryin to understand to situ!

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