Rouge Dragon
Rouge Dragon

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Location: without class distinction
Member Since: 21st Jul 2003
Total posts: 13215
Posted:This is the official post for the singles in opposition to the love post!

(im going to laugh so much is Vanize makes a singles topic at the same time! lol!)


i would have changed ***** to phallus, and claire to petey Petey

Rougie: but that's what I'm doing here
Arnwyn: what letting me adjust myself in your room?..don't you dare quote that on HoP...

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Pasta of Muppets
Location: in the interwebs...
Member Since: 1st Sep 2004
Total posts: 2719
Posted:we should have a big bed in here, for comfy sitting and lounging, not for dirty things smile

I'm all depressed atm, its the whole coming home to an empty place etc etc


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willworkforfoodjnr
willworkforfoodjnr

Hunting robot foxes
Location: Huddersfield, West Yorkshire
Member Since: 8th Aug 2007
Total posts: 1046
Posted:Oh man, I suck so very very much.

Known a girl for a while whos really nice, funny, pretty, lovely basically. We started to get together on Weds last week, things were going well etc. Then last night I realised I just wasn't feeling it at all. Don't know if its not being over the last one or what, but something just felt really wrong. Turns out this girls liked me for ages and I've sorta crushed her... Now I feel like the biggest steaming piece of crud ever.

I don't even know why I turned her away, something felt really really bad but I can't place it. Perhaps I secretly just enjoy sabotaging myself?

(BTW, thanks guys, its nice having a place to vent all this stuff!)


Working hard to be a wandering hippie layabout. Ten years down, five to go!

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Pasta of Muppets
Location: in the interwebs...
Member Since: 1st Sep 2004
Total posts: 2719
Posted:Hey Jr, it's all good - I imagine we are all amazing at sabotaging relationships... I know I am smile

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pinkboot
pinkboot

Beautiful Intelligent Thoughtful Cute Happy!
Location: Northampton, England
Member Since: 21st Oct 2004
Total posts: 269
Posted:Originally Posted By: =Flashpoint=Hey Jr, it's all good - I imagine we are all amazing at sabotaging relationships... I know I am smile

here here totally agree cry


I was gonna conquer the world but got distracted by something shiny!

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Birgit
Birgit

had her carpal tunnel surgery already thanks v much
Location: Edinburgh
Member Since: 27th Jan 2005
Total posts: 4145
Posted:(editted for drunk-typing) blush

EDITED_BY: Birgit (1224419060)


"vices are like genitals - most are ugly to behold, and yet we find that our own are dear to us."
(G.W. Dahlquist)

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polarity
polarity

veteran
Location: on the wrong planet
Member Since: 16th May 2005
Total posts: 1228
Posted:Originally Posted By: BirgitMonks cannot have ice cream? What about nuns?

Monks most definately can't have nuns! (Neither can nuns have monks)


You aren't thinking or really existing unless you're willing to risk even your own sanity in the judgment of your existence.

Green peppers, lime pickle and whole-grain mustard = best sandwich filling.

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Rouge Dragon
Rouge Dragon

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Location: without class distinction
Member Since: 21st Jul 2003
Total posts: 13215
Posted:Well they can...as long as they don't get caught.

My highschool principle was a brother who had it off with a nun...


i would have changed ***** to phallus, and claire to petey Petey

Rougie: but that's what I'm doing here
Arnwyn: what letting me adjust myself in your room?..don't you dare quote that on HoP...

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Birgit
Birgit

had her carpal tunnel surgery already thanks v much
Location: Edinburgh
Member Since: 27th Jan 2005
Total posts: 4145
Posted:Can nuns have monkeys though?

"vices are like genitals - most are ugly to behold, and yet we find that our own are dear to us."
(G.W. Dahlquist)

Owner of Dragosani's left half

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Rouge Dragon
Rouge Dragon

Insert Champagne Here
Location: without class distinction
Member Since: 21st Jul 2003
Total posts: 13215
Posted:Sometimes I wonder why I'm single...Then I remember..."oh yeah! that's why!" laugh3

i would have changed ***** to phallus, and claire to petey Petey

Rougie: but that's what I'm doing here
Arnwyn: what letting me adjust myself in your room?..don't you dare quote that on HoP...

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jarle
jarle

Lv15 Ranger
Location: Melbourne, Australia
Member Since: 13th Mar 2007
Total posts: 1489
Posted:Because of monkeys?

Kupo!

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Sneaking
Location: Free falling through time
Member Since: 9th Feb 2005
Total posts: 1207
Posted:Because of nuns?

Eagles may soar, but weasels don't get sucked into jet engines.

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Iishxc
Iishxc

newbie
Location: Texas.
Member Since: 23rd Sep 2008
Total posts: 35
Posted:Because of monks having nuns?....Just had to keep the becauses going

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pinkboot
pinkboot

Beautiful Intelligent Thoughtful Cute Happy!
Location: Northampton, England
Member Since: 21st Oct 2004
Total posts: 269
Posted:No it's because the nuns want the monkeys but the monkeys want the monks and well getting into a love triangle aint fun! laugh3 ubbrollsmile

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Pasta of Muppets
Location: in the interwebs...
Member Since: 1st Sep 2004
Total posts: 2719
Posted:Its rapidly turning into a love tetrahedron...

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hamamelis
hamamelis

nut.
Location: Bouncing off the walls.
Member Since: 5th Jan 2006
Total posts: 756
Posted:But monkeys are no good at geometry..

THE MEEK WILL INHERIT THE EARTH!


If that's okay with you?

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willworkforfoodjnr
willworkforfoodjnr

Hunting robot foxes
Location: Huddersfield, West Yorkshire
Member Since: 8th Aug 2007
Total posts: 1046
Posted:Its OK though, every so often you find one good at Shakespeare!

Working hard to be a wandering hippie layabout. Ten years down, five to go!

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Pasta of Muppets
Location: in the interwebs...
Member Since: 1st Sep 2004
Total posts: 2719
Posted:One in infinity. Given infinite time. Theyre buggers for procrastination.

And monkeys are great at geometry. How do you think they get the bend in bananas?


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pinkboot
pinkboot

Beautiful Intelligent Thoughtful Cute Happy!
Location: Northampton, England
Member Since: 21st Oct 2004
Total posts: 269
Posted:lmao good point =Flashpoint= hehe

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jarle
jarle

Lv15 Ranger
Location: Melbourne, Australia
Member Since: 13th Mar 2007
Total posts: 1489
Posted:I once had a twin banana, that was a fun suprise. Two bananas in the one skin!

Kupo!

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Pasta of Muppets
Location: in the interwebs...
Member Since: 1st Sep 2004
Total posts: 2719
Posted:That cannot be possible. One skin. One banana. Thats the LAW OF NATURE!! Next thing you know, someone's going to build a massive particle accelerator, and THEN where will we be eh? The end of the world I tell you!!!!!

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jarle
jarle

Lv15 Ranger
Location: Melbourne, Australia
Member Since: 13th Mar 2007
Total posts: 1489
Posted:shocked Maybe it wasn't a banana?! Oh noes!

Kupo!

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BansheeCat
veteran
Location: lost
Member Since: 29th Jul 2005
Total posts: 1247
Posted:I am not single, so I shouldn't be here-- but i am sneaking in anyways, cause tonight i really wish I was single... !!!!!

I suspect that means either I will make myself single soon, or perhaps go back to being multiple... sigh.

It is hard to leave when there is so much love. But when the love is so f-ing complicated, I think it maybe for the best. I dont really do complicated any more.

sigh.

* wanders off to find chocolate, maybe a bannana too...*


"God *was* my co-pilot, but then we crashed, and I had to eat him..."

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pinkboot
pinkboot

Beautiful Intelligent Thoughtful Cute Happy!
Location: Northampton, England
Member Since: 21st Oct 2004
Total posts: 269
Posted:grouphug for bansheecat me thinks grin

I was gonna conquer the world but got distracted by something shiny!

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BansheeCat
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Location: lost
Member Since: 29th Jul 2005
Total posts: 1247
Posted:well, i did it. Broke up with him. Now i think i am going to throw up.

"God *was* my co-pilot, but then we crashed, and I had to eat him..."

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Pasta of Muppets
Location: in the interwebs...
Member Since: 1st Sep 2004
Total posts: 2719
Posted:What was the complication, if you don't mind me asking? What was it that made you feel like you had to leave??

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pinkboot
pinkboot

Beautiful Intelligent Thoughtful Cute Happy!
Location: Northampton, England
Member Since: 21st Oct 2004
Total posts: 269
Posted:hugs to bansheecat

I was gonna conquer the world but got distracted by something shiny!

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BansheeCat
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Location: lost
Member Since: 29th Jul 2005
Total posts: 1247
Posted:wow did I ever kill this thread! lol sorry guys... on with it, be cheery!

Thanks for the hugs...

Complicated.

Well, I am not anymore. I live very simply, with a lot of joy and silliness, hard work, and integrity. I just function with open honest kind compassionate communication at the base of every interaction.... surprisingly , it works well in my life.

But, my boyfriend is still working through past baggage, trauma, patterns of behaviour developed before conscious of it. Sometimes it makes him secretive,edgy, untrusting, blocked emotionally. He does not have full conscious control of it yet. I did that work, we all do-- but now I just want to get on with enjoying simple love. He cant quite do that consistently, cause the fears and blocks and past stuff interfere.

Basic problem is when he is most himself, love flows freely, we are both happy. Yet when something triggers past issues with him, he shuts off, goes internal, changes his behaviour for no reason apparent to me, and the love gets all tangled. It feels , to me, like an on/off switch .

I just dont have patience for it, because he does not let me help-- when in that state I am just cut off. I am pretty clear what I want from a relationship, and it became apparent i was not likely to expereince it with him anytime soon.

I need to live in the present moment, and he is not always capable of joining me there. So I had to let go.

But it is fine now, no worries, just had to make the adjustment, and it felt awful to leave such a beautiful man. But we are all beautiful creatures, in one way or another, aren;t we. Lots to love in the world!


"God *was* my co-pilot, but then we crashed, and I had to eat him..."

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Noddy
Noddy

Toe Poking Bad Boy
Location: Lake District UK
Member Since: 25th Jul 2004
Total posts: 2865
Posted:i just broke up with me girlfriend, i tried and tried and she wasnt happy frown

Remember.........YOU LOSE!!!

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aston
aston

Unofficial Chairperson of Squirrel Defense League
Location: South Africa
Member Since: 2nd Dec 2007
Total posts: 4061
Posted:BansheeCat: I know exactly the place your ex is in, since I was there for a number of months. Still am to a certain extent. Luckily I found someone who can live with it, so stuff is pretty peachy at the moment. It is also happening less now. I wish both of you luck. :hugs:

'We're all mad here. I'm mad, you're mad." [said the Cat.]
"How do you know I'm mad?" said Alice.
"You must be," said the Cat, "Or you wouldn't have come here."
- Lewis Carroll, Alice's Adventures In Wonderland

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pinkboot
pinkboot

Beautiful Intelligent Thoughtful Cute Happy!
Location: Northampton, England
Member Since: 21st Oct 2004
Total posts: 269
Posted:ARGGGGGHHHHHHHHHH MEN! (sorry guys but you may all be lovely but i just attract d**ks so am totally feeling the need to rant)

Ok been chatting to this guy for a while we met up got on just as well as we did for real and stuff as we did online and we decided to meet for a second date.

We had our second date and basically now wont actually chat txt or speak to me full stop what is the matter with the friggin world why can't if he didnt wanna see me again just say so wasnt like we were engaged to be married or anything just would be nice to say ok i dont feel for you like i thought i would or what ever crap that men sometimes spout!

Why do i either attract total d**ks or total users? where have all the nice guys gone and why are they always gay if i do meet them?

I am ttoally at the point that the nun option is looking rather tempting right now!


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