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Rouge Dragon
BRONZE Member since Jul 2003

Rouge Dragon

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Location: without class distinction

Total posts: 13215
Posted:This is the official post for the singles in opposition to the love post!

(im going to laugh so much is Vanize makes a singles topic at the same time! lol!)


i would have changed ***** to phallus, and claire to petey Petey

Rougie: but that's what I'm doing here
Arnwyn: what letting me adjust myself in your room?..don't you dare quote that on HoP...

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shoshanah
SILVER Member since Nov 2005

shoshanah

enthusiast
Location: london

Total posts: 232
Posted:aww babes hug a door always closes so a new one may open. our ex partners are our lessons in life and push us closer to finding the right person it may hurt but there is a reason for it we live and we learn and the day will come when you will look back and understand why life chose this path for you hug

life is what you make it and what you want it to be

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Rouge Dragon
BRONZE Member since Jul 2003

Rouge Dragon

Insert Champagne Here
Location: without class distinction

Total posts: 13215
Posted:oh hun, you poor thing. mega hug hug2 for you!!!!

i would have changed ***** to phallus, and claire to petey Petey

Rougie: but that's what I'm doing here
Arnwyn: what letting me adjust myself in your room?..don't you dare quote that on HoP...

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OrangeBobo
SILVER Member since Nov 2003

OrangeBobo

veteran
Location: Guelph, ON, Canada

Total posts: 1389
Posted:Single, and have been for months. Don't want to be single at this moment in time, but I've got stuff to figure out!! Just, nights like this make you wish you weren't alone!

~ Bobo


wie weit, wie weit noch?
fragst mich, wo wir gewesen sind...
du fehlst hier

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UCOF
SILVER Member since Apr 2002

UCOF

Carpal \'Tunnel


Total posts: 15414
Posted:Medusa:
You're fit.
You'll easily find someone who you will realise was much better for you anyway. smile

Have a hug though. hug2


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SNOOPoi


SNOOPoi

Carpal \'Tunnel
Location: At the bottom of the garden wi...

Total posts: 3380
Posted:i'm single single single... but happy happy happy biggrin

THWACK!!!!
Liz_Ard: Ouch!
SNOOPoi: Thats just not the sound of someone doing it right!

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Harry_Potter


Harry_Potter

ToadStool Circus Acts
Location: Derbyshire

Total posts: 181
Posted:Im Single and sad. Depressed. Turned to alcohol and crying. Why does my ex keep saying she loves me and yet i know she is lieing but my heart keeps on believing her. So that bit of hopes left. And then broken and over and over again it goes.

Yo-yoist, Staffer and 3 Ball and Club Juggling
'Its people like us, who make them feel talentless.'

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shoshanah
SILVER Member since Nov 2005

shoshanah

enthusiast
Location: london

Total posts: 232
Posted:it took me 8 months to get away from my ex he would lie cheat and was really abusive and every time i walked away he would turn up at my door on his knees begging me to forgive him. He would not leave me alone yet he still lied and went behined my back i tryed to get away and after 8 months i was black and blue and afraid to tell anybody how bad it had got. He made my life a living hell and my mined was not my own any more he would tell me how great the other girls were and how pathetic i was. I turned to him one day and told him that i would rather be hit in the face 100 times than take the mental abuse i learned a big lesson from him to stop believing in some 1 the moment they lie and get out asap if some body really loves you they will not lie to you so dont fool your self even tho you like to have hope that they will change the harsh fact is that they can only change on there own and if you keep forgiving them they will not learn by it and will only get worse. I know my case is extream but it still has the same lesson.

life is what you make it and what you want it to be

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Harry_Potter


Harry_Potter

ToadStool Circus Acts
Location: Derbyshire

Total posts: 181
Posted:Thanks shosh. Your case seems much more extreme and glad your over it. I'm learning, still a bit weary at the moment. Still not looking at girls the same, im quite reclusive still. But hopefully ill spark out by the British Juggling Convention. Thats something to look forward to.

Yo-yoist, Staffer and 3 Ball and Club Juggling
'Its people like us, who make them feel talentless.'

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Ange_GSC
SILVER Member since Aug 2005

Ange_GSC

HOP's glowstick ambassador!!
Location: Bay Area, California

Total posts: 128
Posted:Meh, Im single but hopefully not for long. I have a date this weekend with a girl I like so we'll see how that goes......

*crosses fingers*


missegyptology: "I just remember beingall off balance and unicycling really fast down to campus and the arabic was all blurred on the page"

^When Linz pulls an all nighter before Arabic class^

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BansheeCat
BRONZE Member since Jul 2005

veteran
Location: lost

Total posts: 1247
Posted:me, I just avaoid the whole singles issue by maintaining a growing, diverse and entertaining International Harem.

Works real well!

* except when people start crossing borders unexpectedly at the same time...


"God *was* my co-pilot, but then we crashed, and I had to eat him..."

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Noddy


Noddy

Toe Poking Bad Boy
Location: Lake District UK

Total posts: 2865
Posted:im single cos the girl i want, wants to go back out with her old bf

dammit!


Remember.........YOU LOSE!!!

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Fine_Rabid_Dog


Internet Hate Machine
Location: They seek him here, they seek ...

Total posts: 10530
Posted:Single as a single thing.

The existance of flamethrowers says that someone, somewhere, at sometime said "I need to set that thing on fire, but it's too far away."

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Rouge Dragon
BRONZE Member since Jul 2003

Rouge Dragon

Insert Champagne Here
Location: without class distinction

Total posts: 13215
Posted:Single is as single does.

i would have changed ***** to phallus, and claire to petey Petey

Rougie: but that's what I'm doing here
Arnwyn: what letting me adjust myself in your room?..don't you dare quote that on HoP...

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Neon_Shaolin
GOLD Member since Jul 2005

Neon_Shaolin

hehe, 'Member' huhuh
Location: Behind you. With Jam

Total posts: 6120
Posted:I need to alone with me. From what I've been told I'm a good person to be alone with....

"I used to want to change the world, now I just wanna leave the room with a little dignity..." - Lotus Weinstock

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Harry_Potter


Harry_Potter

ToadStool Circus Acts
Location: Derbyshire

Total posts: 181
Posted:Well me and my ex hadnt a massive row. I think we've sourted it all. Well im happier. And i think she is. So im slightly happy. Now just to get over her.

Yo-yoist, Staffer and 3 Ball and Club Juggling
'Its people like us, who make them feel talentless.'

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shoshanah
SILVER Member since Nov 2005

shoshanah

enthusiast
Location: london

Total posts: 232
Posted:thats good its horrible when things just get left and it makes it harder to move on

life is what you make it and what you want it to be

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simeon
SILVER Member since Jan 2006

simeon

enthusiast
Location: semaphore, south australia

Total posts: 233
Posted:
i was happy(ish) being single up until a month or so ago, when in walks someone that totally knocked me over. then, knocked me over.

isnt it fun to have it all suck time and time again.



no mummy, please dont make me go to millyways again.

i hate the way it all ends!

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alicewonderland
BRONZE Member since Nov 2005

alicewonderland

Born on a green light daddy-o!!!
Location: Cincinnati, Ohio

Total posts: 126
Posted:okay so i'm not single but I came in here to let all you singles know...bask in it, love it, soak it up, roll around and embrace your singleness!!!!!!!! Sometimes I wish I was but am so afraid of dealing with the initial depression of loosing someone you really do love but just doesn't make you happy. I have serious relationship problems but don't feel like I have the money to get out of the situation without creating a worse one...on one hand I do love him, but he has been caught doing some not so trustworthy things and he tells me I should loose weight, and he never takes me anywhere and recently has been talking harshly to me, not like yelling and screaming but saying rude things and being just nasty ya' know. So when I first met him I weighed 120 now I weigh 135lb I know I have gained weight but now I'm so insecure, I used to be atleast like man I'm alright ya' know but not anymore I'm not comfy in my own skin. I don't know why I have ranted on for soo long but maybe it will make all the singles happier to be single, I know I would love to go back to that time... i am now done infiltrating the singles forum **tiptoes out the back door**

When you're already walking on thin ice...why not dance?

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Igirisujin
SILVER Member since Jul 2005

Igirisujin

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Location: Preston

Total posts: 2666
Posted:lol I didnt need that quote then your post is right above me ubbrollsmile



We can only bask in our singleness if our togetherness with a partner is censored. Which would lead to a brake up, then more singleness, I mean lonleyness. Im sure we've all had partners, we all know that being in a good relationship is better than being single.



Ive got a lad after me, we went to the cinema and afterwards we kissed in the train station, I only wanted to give him a little smooch so I did, but he ended up proper sucking my face off, I didnt stop him though I was enjoying it too much at the time. Still though I dont have any feelings for him and I didnt really havethe desire to push him up agaisnt the wall and reach down HIS pants. He wants me too much I dont think i'll end up feeling anyhting for him...I cant beleive im saying this lol, its not the first ime though it happens all the time I need to be swept off my feet to want to go out with anyone but its only happend once and its never been like that since.

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'Time goes by so slowly for those who wait...' - Whatever Happend To Baby Madonna?

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VampyricAcid
SILVER Member since Jun 2005

VampyricAcid

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Location: My House

Total posts: 1286
Posted:All i can say Joe is don't "settle" if you dont "like" him, then dont go there, its harsh on him, and its un-needed pressure on you.

Conversley, you arent gonna be swept off your feet everytime, sometiems a good guy will come along and everything will slot into place, good things happen, wait for them.


and to add to the whole thread....im single...:(


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pounce
SILVER Member since Jan 2003

pounce

All the neurotic makings of America's lesser known sweetheart
Location: body in Las Vegas, heart all a...

Total posts: 9831
Posted:<~~~~ single

at times it's good, at times it's not. but i had to share this odd thing i woke up to this morning....a friend called me and said he and another friend have some deviousness in mind....and then asks me if i'm opposed to being set up on a blind date eek

i don't know if that's a good sign or a bad sign when friends realize you need to be set up on a date....


I was always scared with my mother's obsession with the good scissors. It made me wonder if there were evil scissors lurking in the house somewhere.

Do not meddle in the affairs of dragons for you are crunchy and good with ketchup.

**giggles**

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onewheeldave
GOLD Member since Aug 2002

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Location: sheffield

Total posts: 3252
Posted: Written by: Brit_Joe


Im sure we've all had partners, we all know that being in a good relationship is better than being single.




Just as their are varying degrees of qualities of relationships with others, so there are varying degrees of quality of 'singleness'.

It's evident from your previous posts that you've almost certainly not experienced a high degree of appreciation of quality singleness.

Being in a good relationship is not necessarily better than being single.

Much of the misery I see in this thread is caused not by the fact that people are single, but because of their mis/preconceptions concerning the values of being in relationships/being single. I feel it's important not to add to the considerable bias by letting statements like the one quoted above, pass by without remark.


"You can't outrun Death forever.
But you can make the Bastard work for it."

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"Last of The Lancers"
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Educate your self in the Hazards of Fire Breathing STAY SAFE!

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Igirisujin
SILVER Member since Jul 2005

Igirisujin

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Location: Preston

Total posts: 2666
Posted:I know Vampyricacid I shouldnt, but thats the thing I cant say goodbye without giving him a chance first. [winge]I really hate the early stages of relationships and I hate being single even more.[/winge]

Chief adviser to the Pharaoh, in one very snazzy mutli-coloured coat

'Time goes by so slowly for those who wait...' - Whatever Happend To Baby Madonna?

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Tao Star


Tao Star

Pooh-Bah
Location: Bristol

Total posts: 1662
Posted: Written by: onewheeldave


 Written by: Brit_Joe


Im sure we've all had partners, we all know that being in a good relationship is better than being single.




Just as their are varying degrees of qualities of relationships with others, so there are varying degrees of quality of 'singleness'.

It's evident from your previous posts that you've almost certainly not experienced a high degree of appreciation of quality singleness.

Being in a good relationship is not necessarily better than being single.

Much of the misery I see in this thread is caused not by the fact that people are single, but because of their mis/preconceptions concerning the values of being in relationships/being single. I feel it's important not to add to the considerable bias by letting statements like the one quoted above, pass by without remark.



i haven't read the rest of the thread...so apologies if this is irrelevant....but...

i was in long term relationships solid between the ages of 14 - 21. (i'm 22) then i had about 4 months single, now i'm in a long term relp again. i have loved all my relationships, and gained so much from them, and when i first found myself single i was petrified. but once i learned to enjoy it, i realised that it was entirely equal - not better or worse - to being in a relp. i'm in one now because i met someone special, but i enjoyed being single. not for seeing lots of people or anything, but because i could be me, not someone in relation to someone else. and both were equally valuable for me.

my experience of being single (although short lived!) helped me be more independant in this relationship, which i don't think would have workes AT ALL without that. my time in relationships made me appreciate the freedom of having no one to report back to. the two states compiment eachother perfectly, as does eveything in life, as long as you are a well ajusted person, you can enjoy whatever life throws at you, and you should - life is fab!!!


I had a dream that my friend had a
strong-bad pop up book,
it was the book of my dreams.

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Skulduggery
GOLD Member since Aug 2004

Skulduggery

Pirate Pixie Crew Captain
Location: Wales

Total posts: 8428
Posted:Amen to that Martha! hug

Feed me Chocolate!!! Feed me NOW!

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GeoffonTour04
SILVER Member since Nov 2005

enthusiast
Location: Oxford

Total posts: 360
Posted:Dunno I prefer being single I know people who are in relationships for the sake of it & it just turns into hassle. I also know some people who started long term relationships then got scared/dissilusioned and though it wasn't messy as such there was a lot of pain involved for all sides.

Having been on the fence of a lot of relationship issues I can safely say that personally I'd rather just do my own thing, maybe a bird will turn up eventually (not that I'll notice I'm terrible for that) but until then *shrugs*


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UCOF
SILVER Member since Apr 2002

UCOF

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Total posts: 15414
Posted:Heres a thing..

What if the human race is not naturally meant to have relationships, but to simply reproduce as much as possible?
umm


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Bird
GOLD Member since Aug 2003

Bird

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Location: Cornwall

Total posts: 6086
Posted:I like that train of thought Jon! wink

(spot the single guy again! rolleyes )


My state of mind is not yours to define!

There is a very fine line between "hobby" and "mental illness."

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Tao Star

Pooh-Bah
Location: Bristol

Total posts: 1662
Posted:ugh! BAAAAD idea. babies are minging, i like the relp, but less of the reproduction thank you. tongue

I had a dream that my friend had a
strong-bad pop up book,
it was the book of my dreams.

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shoshanah
SILVER Member since Nov 2005

shoshanah

enthusiast
Location: london

Total posts: 232
Posted:Being single is a time yo fined who you are so that when you start a new relationship you can be wiser about the 1 that you choose to be with and do not become an empty shell that lives out your partners life and dreams becouse you have not found your own life and dreams. Being single is your time to look at the world around you and spend time with your self and fined a life that you love and the things that you like to do.

life is what you make it and what you want it to be

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