Keep your dream alive
Dreamin is still how the strong survive
Shalom VeAhavah
New Hampshire has a point....
Who looks outside dreams; who looks inside wakes C G Jung
It was a day for screaming at inanimate objects.
What this calls for is a special mix of psychology and extreme violence...
molten cheers,
~ FireMike
FireMikeZ@yahoo.com (personal messages welcome, no promo spam, please!)
Laguna, California, US
Dance like it hurts; Love like you need money; Work like someone is watching.
Never criticize someone until you've walked a mile in their shoes. That way, when you DO criticize them, you are a mile away, and you have their shoes.
And wherever you've gone and wherever we might go. It don't seem fair. Today just disappeared.
It was a day for screaming at inanimate objects.
What this calls for is a special mix of psychology and extreme violence...
molten cheers,
~ FireMike
FireMikeZ@yahoo.com (personal messages welcome, no promo spam, please!)
Laguna, California, US
Keep your dream alive
Dreamin is still how the strong survive
Shalom VeAhavah
New Hampshire has a point....
Courage is the man who can stop after only one peanut
"Dancing can reveal all the mystery that music conceals"
~Charles Baudelaire
Keep your dream alive
Dreamin is still how the strong survive
Shalom VeAhavah
New Hampshire has a point....
everyone's unique except me
quote:Oh, well you want me, then!
Originally posted by Kyrian:
Well, this is running around in my head. So I'm going to be silly- and post:
What your dream requirements are for a husband:
I say dream, cause i figure you should be willing to compromise a little in the real world
mine:
1. Can cook (doesn't need to be fancy, but fancy preferred- japanese skills a plus).
2. Can sew. At least well enough for patches. Ability to make clothes and flags a plus.
3. Doesn't want cats.
4. Wants at least one dog.
5. Is open to discussion about children.
6. Will either enjoy or appreciate from a that's nice point of view horses.
7. Can understand 70% of my "english"
8. Wants to travel
9. Likes nature
10. Likes thinking, and does it occasionally.
11. Is a kind, warm, loving, and concerned person.
-Mike
Certified Mad Doctor and HoP High Priest of Nutella
A buckuht n a hooze! -Valura
But there's no sense crying over every mistake. You just keep on trying till you run out of cake.
quote:what if it lived outside, in a barn? 'cause i love border collies.
I'm allergic to cats, but love dogs (except I need a poodle since that's the only breed I'm not allergic to).
quote:but on the other hand, i can be left at home whilst you go in to the clinic at 4am. See, my mother was in vet school when i was young. So not onnly did we have to drop everything and leave all sorts of places, but i had to go with her. translation: i'm used to it. I don't care. if your a good doctor, i will love you for it.
1) You need to understand the hazards of marrying a doctor. Yes, I'll make decent money. I'll be a professor, though, so I won't be filthy rich, either. I hope that you will have your own career and be as passionate about it as I am about mine. That said, there are demands. My pager will go off at bad times. In the middle of our anniversary dinner. In the middle of sex. At 4AM. In the middle of our kid's little-league game. In the middle of an important discussion/argument. It means someone is possibly sick and/or dying and needs my attention RIGHT NOW. It means I have to drop everything, make a phone call, and possibly go to the hospital. It's just one of the sacrifices we make.
quote:I'm in love with the first line. I absolutly belive in it. Of course, you have one of teh more time consuming professions. And if i wind up working with horses professionally, so will i. But if you can deal with that, and deal with the fact that if i am good enough i will be leaving the country for months at a time, then all is good. but that's my major disclaimer.
2) In other words, you need to be an independent person who doesn't need me, but rather, wants to be with me. I don't believe in "owning" or "leasing" my significant other, I believe that the two halves of the couple should not pull each-other together, but rather push themselves towards the other. And respect each-other for who we are, rather than trying to change it.
quote:I have no problem with folding the laundry. or ironing. but don't expect nice shirts to be folded. they live on hangers. and ironing is done at times other than 7am. howver- we are buying a dishwasher. I will rinse dishes and put them in a dishwasher. i will run said dishwasher. but i will not wash dished by hand. ever.
3) I hate doing dishes and folding laundry. I'll cook, shop, vacuum, wash windows, and even scrub toilets and showers, but you have to fold the laundry and do the dishes. We can take turns on mowing the lawn, but you do any gardening, I have a brown thumb (i.e. I kill any plant material I touch). Oh, and you take care of clothing the kids.
quote:i hate flowering plants. so are we even? i wnat some ferns.
4) Potted plants in the house is fine. Stinky flowers is not OK.
quote:quite frankly, i love the religion and go to friends seder's and anything else i can to get latke's and potato kugel and horeradish. but they are fun too. go for it. as long as we can explain other religions to them in nice ways.
5) I want to expose the kids to Judaism. It's a beautiful religion. I want them at least to have a bar or bat mitzvah. They can completely renounce it all after that (as I did), but just as I want to pass on my genes, I want to pass on my culture. I'd be so sad if my kids never tasted a latke or danced the hora.
quote:ok.
6) No, I will not be our kids' doctor.
quote:are you kidding? i grew up there too. ocean it is man, and trees, and no gddamn clouds!
7) I need to live somewhat near an ocean. Living in Michigan is driving me batty.
quote:organization is easy for me. but you need to motivate me to put things away, cause neat is much harder. i can find anything except where i hid the money and the computer disks, i know when everything is and when everything needs to be turned in. but i never seem to put my clothes and books away.
8) I need someone organized. I'm a disaster. I'm clean, very neat, and I accomplish what I need to, but I function in disaster and finish in style. You'll need to be organized or we'll self-destruct.
quote:I have a few building/fixing skills, can do simple electrical and sound work, and have a high degree of aptitude in tech theatre work, at least half of which is somewhat useful. but that doesn't mean i can fix the faucet.
9) You have to have some mechanical aptitude. I'm totally not handy. Among the many reasons I'm going into medicine is so that I'll have at least one useful skill.
quote:ok. better than 5, which is teh average age for men.... or does he mean 19 going on 5.........*wonders*
10) I'm somewhere around 19 years old. Doesn't matter what my drivers license says. Accept the fact that I'm stuck at that age.
quote:right on.
posted by CU: As an example of the kind of stuff I end up doing - in a few weeks, I'm going to take my sleeping bag and sleep on a vegetation covered roundabout in the centre of town for a night, just because I think it's possible. If someone can't understand that I'm not going to stop doing stuff like this, I'm probably not going to want to spend the rest of my life with them.
Keep your dream alive
Dreamin is still how the strong survive
Shalom VeAhavah
New Hampshire has a point....
Keep your dream alive
Dreamin is still how the strong survive
Shalom VeAhavah
New Hampshire has a point....
Currently on the right side up of the world.
-Mike
Certified Mad Doctor and HoP High Priest of Nutella
A buckuht n a hooze! -Valura
It was a day for screaming at inanimate objects.
What this calls for is a special mix of psychology and extreme violence...
quote:2) We must be able to communicate and understand each other entirely - and prepared to work hard if sometime's it's tricky seeing it through each others eyes.
Both of us have to be completely unashamedly absolutely eternally and unconditionally in love
Geologists do it in the dirt................
Live well, love much, laugh often...
Official O.B.E.S.E. cheerleader
everyone's unique except me
Meh
Pele
Higher, higher burning fire...making music like a choir
"Oooh look! A pub!" -exclaimed after recovering from a stupid fall
"And for the decadence of art, nothing beats a roaring fire." -TMK
Dance like it hurts; Love like you need money; Work like someone is watching.
Never criticize someone until you've walked a mile in their shoes. That way, when you DO criticize them, you are a mile away, and you have their shoes.
Meh
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