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lastnight (saturday1st).........i broke down.......i mean, i cryed!!!!

i dunno why i'm posting this.......but i pysicly broke down in tears,

alot of things got on top of me lastnight, and as i called a friend to say i was not in a good situation and asked if i could come round because i had nowhere to go i just started crying uncontrolably....... i'm still pretty weepy now but my friend took me in....gave me coffee and listened to me, which if she reads this i'm very gratefull for.

awwwwwwww hell, i'm crying agian


im gonna sign off now and get in my bed n cry

dude....I had a nervous breakdown last year and I know how crap you can feel.
Hope you feel better soon dude and glad to hear you have good people around you to help

it was 5.30 am and this friend was the only person i could turn to..... even though i knew she had been awake a stupid amount of time.

i didn't know who else to turn to

this wsn't a nervous breakdown i don't think.........everything just got the better of me.


alot of my friends have been having a hard time lately and i've been talking to most, trying to cheer them up, listen to their problems and help where possible.....is it possible all the negitivity i absorbed just needed to be reliesed???

Could be it, we all need to cry sometimes, even tough men like me . It was quite embarrassing last time I broke down... it was on my Girlfriend, very shortly after we'd started dating. I was so scared that's she'd think "Weirdo" and run off.

I'm really glad that you had someone to cry on though... there's nothing worse than being alone *and* crying your eyes out.



Try not to absorb *everyone's* problems, I'm terrible for doing that, sometimes I get a lot more upset about other people than I do about me, even if worse things are hapening to me! What can I say, I absorb negative emotions...

Well firstly, you're not weak for crying. As REM once said, Everybody Hurts, and big hugs. I'm on pills to hopefully stop me from crying, it sucks alot!! I will gladly be your personal crying buddy, I advise those tissues with the balm on them, otherwise you get a red crusty nose, and then not only are you crying, but you're in pain too!! ouch!! love jo x

Sometimes crying happens. And you are very lucky to have had someone there for you. I've almost never had anyone happen to be about when I cry- and the few times its happened they've generally not been supportive either.....

Try not to absorb other people's emotions too much and hangin there....

Lemonkey:

So you never did anything for your family or friends? How the hell does that work?

And don't go pretending you don't have emotions just in case it makes other people uncomforatble. If you need to, shout, scream, throw things (preferably cusions rather than vases), let everything out and then feel purged after.

I find it helps to write stuff down; if someone has affected me I write them a letter telling them exactly why, and how I feel. Never, ever, post it though.

pm on its way

awwwww thank you all....., i don't feel as bad now having talked to some close friends and people on here, all who have been suppotive and understanding. still.........there are just some people you don't discuss things like this to, mainly out of male pride, but also, that they just may not fully understand how powerfull emotions can be sometimes.

Hope you feel better ravehead

Ive been there so I know how you feel. I'm always here to listen if you ever want to talk.

cheers fella, i just really need to calm down on the drink, don't think being drunk at the time helped 1 bit.


sorry if this seems like i'm fishing for sympathy but i just really needed to talk about this.

better out than in.

i now totally believe that your mind is what you make it. Stop drinking, taking drugs, smoking weed, all that stuff can bring you down like a tonne of bricks. Honestly, start thinking more positive, don't moan about stuff.

it's like with bereavement. At the end of the day, that person's dead and your tears amount to nothing. You've just got to get over it and get on with it. And with something like depression, it's up to you to plough on through whatever brick wall is in your way, because usually it's all in your head, when you take a step back.

Matey,
I reckon that about 80% of the people on this site will post a thread where they are deeply upset/ need sympathy/ need a rant.
I have done it on more than 3 occasions.
For each probably....
Its great having somewhere where all your friends, and people who dont even know you, can all help you and make you feel fantastic. Thats one of the reasons that HOP kicks bum.

hey dude know how u feel having one my self

oh yeah.. I forgot:

my girl left me how mad is that

How long ago?
What real impact or difference has it made on your life?

Here's a hug for you happypapa

i'm going to re-edit the title of this thread but in the meantime all of you




thank you all for the good advice


yay for HoP

I'm just going to post in a non whiney way that I've run out of happy pills, and i'm all sad

Damn brain chemistry...

This sucks... And for Ravehead and for happypapa and for jon, but there's more in a nother thread.

Oh, and women suck...

I'm feeling low too today

Its wierd because normally I'm all happy & stuff. But today, I'm so sad.

(for lost83spy)

I've just had that problem yesterday, and starting about 15 minutes ago again today... I feel down about everything... and there's lots of good things going on in my life right now too!

I'm really alone here tho, and i think thats part of it.

But I can't stop being upset/sad about just nearly everything......

awwwwwwww big collective squishy



i'm actually really happy today, if a little hyper through all the peanuts i've been eating.......i also had a few cups of coffee which i never normally drink (i'm sensitive to caffine) so i'm bouncing off the walls


to all u lovely people

A big back to you Kyrian

Thanks

Feeling better today. Its wierd though, everyone I spoke to yesterday was feeling the same way. It must be the weather or something

TOO MUCH WORK TO DO *sniff... (uni work)

for everyone

mynci say - share the love. And I got loads for everyone.