Genie, I know how you feel! I have REALLY large 'sticky outy girly bits'

I feel they impede my poi greatly (trying to do chaser is just a pain!) I've decided to shorten my poi a bit to compensate- and it seems to work for me.
That would be my advice- if you are buying leashes that are a set standard length, they'll need to be adjusted for you anyway- so if you get them and make them your size, then play with them some- you'll work out if they need an adjustment, if you have trouble spinning around your girls
