Don't be afraid of the fire.
Respect the fire.
Fear is a different thing. Fear slows you down, muddles your thoughts, makes you freeze. Makes you do irrational things.
Fear of fire can hurt you.
Treat fire with a great deal of respect. Prepare carefully. Think about sensible precautions, and put those thoughts into action. Always be mindful of the flames, where they are, where they're going, how you're going to deal with any mishaps. Don't get overambitious with fire - that's what practice is for. But once you know you are ready, well-practiced and well-prepared, light up and demonstrate your respect.
You can love what you respect. You can't love what you fear.
Respect the fire, love the fire.
mikeyB