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#399359 - 21/09/04 11:55 PM For the first time in my life I'm scared
The Real Fryed Fish God's illgitament son Registered: 02/06/04 Loc: state of confusion	So on 9-22-04 my wife goes in for surgery, and as the subject says, I'm scared. She's going in to have some bumps removed from her scalp. The doc said its nothing serious, but still this is my wife, and as strong as I have to be for her (she's twice as worried) inside I'm scared as hell...<sigh> I know the chance for her is over 95%, doc said so........after he said that people have died from scalp lasserations........I just needed to get that out, and prayers, thoughts during meditation, whatever would be appreciated.........I hate to think what I would have to do with out her!! _________________________ You can't avoid pain by fencing yourself from it. Some times you need the help of others more than anything else But you have to let them close enough to help...... People want to be needed, I found that out too
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#399360 - 22/09/04 12:35 AM Re: For the first time in my life I'm scared [Re: The Real Fryed Fish]
Skulduggery Pirate Pixie Crew Captain Registered: 12/08/04 Loc: Wales	I don't pray... its not my way but I do believe in positive thinking. So I'm sending positive vibes. _________________________ Feed me Chocolate!!! Feed me NOW!
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#399361 - 22/09/04 02:30 AM Re: For the first time in my life I'm scared [Re: Skulduggery]
_Clare_ Still wiggling Registered: 22/10/02 Loc: Belfast	All the best... it's good that you're there for each other _________________________ Getting to the other side
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#399362 - 22/09/04 04:32 AM Re: For the first time in my life I'm scared [Re: _Clare_]
PyroWill HoP's Barman. Trapped aged 6 months Registered: 04/08/04 Loc: Staines	hi, my mum had lumps removed from her scalp a few months ago and it was all fine, except she thought that gave her an excuse to be bitchy to me so thats the most you have to worry about, dont worry i am sure it will be fine, good luck and all the best for your wife tomorrow
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#399363 - 22/09/04 04:32 AM Re: For the first time in my life I'm scared [Re: _Clare_]
grasshoppah HoP is teh suxor. Registered: 04/11/03 Loc: Tampa, Florida	im here for you, fish brains. _________________________ Once in a while you get shown the light in the strangest of places if you look at it right.
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#399364 - 22/09/04 04:37 AM Re: For the first time in my life I'm scared [Re: grasshoppah]
The Real Fryed Fish God's illgitament son Registered: 02/06/04 Loc: state of confusion	thanks guys, i apreciate it, and so does my wife....thanx hoppah _________________________ You can't avoid pain by fencing yourself from it. Some times you need the help of others more than anything else But you have to let them close enough to help...... People want to be needed, I found that out too
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#399365 - 22/09/04 08:20 AM Re: For the first time in my life I'm scared [Re: The Real Fryed Fish]
Lillie Frog not a stranger Registered: 31/05/04 Loc: wales	Hello I know I havn't been here much so you don't really know me but I thought I'd put this post anyway. I understand that you must be really worried, operations are always worrying. I have had to worry while my kid has had them so I can guess how you must be feeling. Also i wanted to say that I have had a few ops, some for lumps which needed removing and a recent one where I had 10 teeth out under a general. They only got 9 and a half but that's the NHS for you! Anyhow the point is that if I was ok in a shoddy British hospital then your wife will surely be fine in a nice American one, I have seen them on TV and they look much better than ours. Also It is great that you are there for her, even though you are scared. My bloke stroked my head for ages when I was waking up from the last one, it really meant a lot to me that he was there cos he hates hospitals. I hope (and I am sure) that everything will work out well for you and her. _________________________ Eat when you're hungry Sleep where it's dry No one is ever what they seem Gabriel King - The Wild Road
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#399366 - 22/09/04 09:04 AM Re: For the first time in my life I'm scared [Re: Lillie Frog]
The Real Fryed Fish God's illgitament son Registered: 02/06/04 Loc: state of confusion	thanx frog _________________________ You can't avoid pain by fencing yourself from it. Some times you need the help of others more than anything else But you have to let them close enough to help...... People want to be needed, I found that out too
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#399367 - 22/09/04 09:20 AM Re: For the first time in my life I'm scared [Re: The Real Fryed Fish]
Gidg Super Gidg!!!! Registered: 11/04/03 Loc: Portland Oregon USA	My prayers are with you and your wife. _________________________ Growing old is mandatory; growing up is NOT. Proud member of the HoP DPS. Sanity is a highly overrated state of mind. I'm normal ... it's everyone else that's crazy. Gidg
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